Alcohol and breast cancer question!!!
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Beesie............... reading your posts, all these years...... have really taught me a lot!
You're the real deal sister! Thank you!
Hi Annie..... (( hug))
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Hi Estepp!!! (hugs!!)
To Brilliance: lord save us all from well meaning PA or nurses....they are NOT doctors.
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Okay, I talked to my onc. about this last Thursday. She said she had just come back from a world-wide breast cancer conference the week before and the latest findings shared at that conference were that "one glass of wine a day REDUCES risk of recurrence". But I don't have the evidential support to back it up. And not two glasses or three...However, she also said if you don't drink anyway, don't start. And I'm assuming this means that you also can't save up your daily glasses and drink them all at once on a weekend night
but that was exactly what she told me.
Nevertheless, I'm not going to drink---maybe a glass at a wedding. But I lost the weight around my middle that I didn't like anyway when I stopped right after dx, and I like not having it there. I think it was cutting out all alcohol that helped me lose it.
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I think it's psychological for me. For the last four years I enjoyed a nightly glass (12 oz!!!) of white wine. Before that was mainly a social drinker. Since being diagnosed I've had none. Nor have I touched my breasts since being diagnosed. I honestly don't believe the wine caused my BC. I don't plan to give it up entirely. Moderation.
I plan to drink a glass...12 ozs...Christmas Eve. And maybe let the BF touch the girls. It's time to tackle the psychology of this crap.
CHEERS ladies!!
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I also was one who had one (sometimes two) glasses of red wine every evening, and I swear it was the secret to maintaining my weight and with the red wine supposedly being heart-healthy, I figured it was pretty much like taking a vitamin! I asked my nurse navigator about alcohol when I had my very first chemo, and she told me that alcohol in moderation is OK, but she predicted that I would lose my taste for it. She was absolutely right. I have tried three different times, with three different kinds, and it all tastes bitter and metallic - even the syrupy reisling that my in-laws like. I had my last treatment 2 weeks ago, and I am hoping that my palate recovers in time to toast the New Year!
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So many responses and all of them are great! I just had my second radiation in one day #27 and #28 of #33!! I will be done the 30th... two in a day really is no fun....
Since I started rads, my mouth tastes like metal/poison, I guess that is a side effect of the rads. The tech told me it usually happened with head/neck patients, but lucky me... metal mouth!!
I haven't had a glass of wine in the last 5 weeks. I am waiting for this taste thing to go away. I spoke with my RO about it and he told me to go have some wine!!! He said he had the most health concious, vegan, non-hormone eating, only organic, marathon running, healthy weight, non-drinking women who get it and then get it again.
He jokingly said there are 2 things that are the main culprit for breast cancer "breasts".... lol
Happy New Year!!!!
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I encourage all of you to take a look at the Komen site's risk evaluator. Fascinating stuff. http://ww5.komen.org/BreastCancer/BreastCancerRiskFactorsTable.html
There are no easy answers here. You'll find, for instance, that physical activity apparently does squat for recurrence in premenopausal women. I get awfully tired of the one-size-fits-all oncologist speak. It really is so much more nuanced.
What I learned was, those things in my control, like diet, alcohol, and exercise are but a scant help against my major risk factors: already having had BC once, being young at diagnosis, dense breasts, etc.
I worry about alcohol consumption. But I'm not willing to cut it out completely. I feel pretty sure I've got much bigger issues than the occasional glass of wine.
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At the very beginning of this horrible journey...after my biopsy, my husband asked the radiologist if I needed any pain medication that night... His response, "probably not, give her a big glass of wine and get her to bed early" lol
Now, if they come out with a study saying that coffee causes BC, I'd have a big problem w that! -
I was told during chemo I could have one 4 oz glass wine a day.. Now that chemo is done and I am on a clinical trial program for metformin/placebo. it clearly stated in my instructions to limit my alcohol intake to three a day... So I enjoy a glass of wine about 4-5 days a week. Cheeres ladies
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Three alcoholic drinks a day? Really? Or 3 oz? That still seems like a lot, coming from a medical/clinical viewpoint, doesn't it? Are they asking you what/if you are drinking alcohol? That's seven drinks a week, about double what is recommended for a non BC woman....
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Momof 3
Yes they did ask if and what I drink. I told them a glass of wine 3-4 times a week.. oo the paperwork I got for the trial study it clearly said.. limit your alcohol intake to three or less beverages a day..
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I've just finished reading all of your comments and find them so interesting. I used to drink wine but for some reason once I finished my treatments (I never drank any alcohol during chemo, surgery, rads) I couldn't think about drinking wine. Every once in awhile I might have a social glass but I know it causes me hot flashes so I stay away but I've developed a taste for vodka. Everyone here talks about wine but I'm wondering if any of you drink hard liquor? I only have maybe 2 or 3 drinks a week and just recently started that. I'm on AI for 5 years now. My onc says everything in moderation but the vodka is tasting better and better. I find it relaxes me and I'm wondering if anyone else likes alcohol other than wine. Is it worse than wine for us? I'm not going to give up drinking. I even had a relative (most of my relatives over drink) tell me the reason I got BC is possibly because I don't drink enough. I'm the only one in the extended family to have BC and I've always just been a social drinker, not like them. We share genes but maybe because I took HRT for many years & that's the difference.
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Wow! So, theoretically they're okay with a BC patient having up to 21 alcoholic drinks per week... That sounds suspicious to be. I wonder if part of the study is to compare non-drinkers to drinkers? Hmmmm
I have always enjoyed wine or a mixed drink (martini,,etc). Butvsince being diagnosed, I've only had (wanted) 2 glasses of wine-,Thanksgiving and Christmas. Right after I was diagnosed all those news shows featured the link between alcohol and BC..... And I think I feel guilty about it. I have absolutely no other risk factors, other than being a woman, so I think that news kinda spoiled the pleasure I got out of a glass of wine.
Maybe when I'm further out (I start chemo tomorrow) I'll feel differently., -
fitz33, I do drink an occasional hard drink I personally don't really like wine or beer. During chemo the center I went to said to limit it to 1 drink a day. I chose none didn't want to stress my liver. I am being treated by a major cancer center so I trust they know what they were saying. As I said I only drink occassionally, but was told by my Onc. a couple a day would be ok now that I'm out of active treatment.
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fitz33: I don't think they differentiate between wine and hard alcohol when it comes to limits, other than volume. I, myself, love an occasional vodka and tonic. Perhaps the emphasis on wine has to do with the other benefits that have been mentioned (heart benefits), but I don't think there is much of a difference in terms of alcohol consumption.
I think in general, women are limited to 7 or fewer drinks a week (1 a day), so I figure with a history of BC, I limit it further...usually don't drink anything during the week and either wine or a cocktail (or 2) on weekend nights.
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I recently broached this sbuject with my Onc. He said one glass of wine with dinner (a couple nights a week). For hard alcohol, he would only recommend one a week.
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I did everything right-always exercised, fit and healthy, drank very occasionally, and still got 2 different primaries. It must be all the chocolate. I still drink occasionally, and don't worry about it.
And, I've got to tell you, I actually like tamoxifen. Only side effect has been dry eyes. I already had uterine ca, so that was off the table. It makes my bones stronger and a bonus-it increases vaginal estrogen, so no more dryness or pain.
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Ah ha! It's the chocolate! I knew it! Thanks for the laugh and the positive comments about Tamoxifin. You hear so many negative things said about it here, it's daunting. My aunt took it for many years and (I was very young) I asked my Mom if she complained about it, and she said she didn't remember her complaining about anything, she was just happy to be getting a promising drug.
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asmd... I thought the tamoxifen weakend the bones and decreased estrogen? I guess I need to do more homework.
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bdavis, it seems they're always learning something new about Tamoxifen, but in very general terms -- Tamox tends to build bone in postmenopausal women and tends to weaken it in pre-menopausal women. (Not sure what it does to men, who are also prescribed it for male BC.)
It doesn't decrease estrogen per se, but instead what it does is bind to the estrogen receptors in the breast and other tissues. That's the basic therapeutic effect vis-a-vis cancer, but there are a zillion other effects as well.
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I'm glad I'm not alone in the alcohol and chocolate consumption. Heart problems were what I figured I would have problems with as I age and BC just came out of nowhere. I now have to just enjoy things in moderation but that's so hard to do when it comes to chocolate. sigh.....
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