MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN 40-60ish
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Good luck tomorrow madpeacock!
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Madpeacock jumping in your pocket.
Been having bad neck pain that has progressively gotten worse over the last three weeks. Went to see the PCP today and he is putting me on a medal pac. Seems to think it is inflammation/arthritic from when I broke my neck in 1995. Hopefully this will take care of it. He said if it is not better in a week to 10 days to let him know so he can talk to my MO about possibly doing an MRI. But seems pretty confidant that this will take care of it.
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Madpeacock, I'm in there too.
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Mad peacock, i will be in your pocket tomorrow. Eli, I am with you on the healthier eating. I took all the cookies that were left in the house into the office today. Even threw away some leftover brownies. Just can't trust myself. Some coffee and cucumber sandwiches sound good for the party.
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Eli, I happen to love cucumber sandwiches ... need to plan a tea party so I can make some! I still have the cookbook given to me as a wedding shower gift 36 yrs ago and it's the one I turn to to convert measurements, to see what the internal temp of cooked meats should be, how long to roast various cuts per pound, etc. And of course for actual recipes! You're right about the lack of mentioning brand names - never thought of it in that way before. Glad you got one

Reesie, that's too funny! Good thing the nephew can't talk yet and tell everyone how his great aunt gave him a gun!!
Madpeacock, hope the visit went well for you.
I still have another page to read, so may post again. Feels like the old days now, only two pages for me to read instead of 10!!!
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Jumping in Mad peacock! I will not pass on the sweets, I repeat I will not be passing on the sweets.
Eli I loved my moms cookbook from back in the day. I loved looking over the recipes as the pics made my mouth water. She gave it to me years back and I still use it today. All the food is made from scratch. She got it as a wedding present. Its falling apart but I still use it cause the recipes are still yummy!
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Love the top of page picture
(It's puppies on a couch right now in case it changes soon!!)Paula, lots of pages falling out of this cookbook too, and no real pictures, only sketches and representations. Best cream puff recipe though, and actually easy. This topic is dangerous for me!
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I figured some would have their mom's cookbooks. Mine is called The American Woman's Cook Book. It was published for a least a decade (30's & 40's) without too many revisions. The one I got was possibly in better shape than the one my mom had. Found a picture that looks like mine.
What old one did your moms use most?
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mine is upstairs because of renovations going on downstairs ... will check it out and report back!
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but ... my mom hardly ever used a cookbook! I'm one of 6 so she cooked for 8 on a regular basis, occasionally more. She had thousands of good qualities but being a good cook wasn't necessarily one of them
I was never hungry, but it was basic inexpensive "feed a crowd on a shoestring budget" stuff. Even so, mealtimes were when the 8 of us would gather round the table - every single day - which led me to do the same with our kids. Dinner was based around games or practices. 29 days out of 30, the four of us ate dinner together. -
Ny mom used the Good Housekeeping cookbook. I got one for Christmas one year (had my hubby give it to me but I bought it lol).
Ugh, I need to get this right - he's not my grand anything - he's my nephew and my kids' COUSIN (I keep making that mistake). That's what happens when my brother has has a 20 year old daughter, a 16 month old son and a 6 month old grandson. -
When I married 24 years ago my new MIL gave me "The Joy of Cooking." I had mixed feelings at the time
but it still sits on my cookbook shelf, worn and splattered with lots of bent pages and bookmarks. -
I'll be married 27 years in March. For a wedding shower, one of my cousins gave me Better Homes and Gardens cook book, which someone had given to her when she was married 16 years before me. And we also bought ourselves The Joy of Cooking shortly after when we joined a book club and got something like 12 books for $5 and had to commit to buying a few more. We also did the same thing with a music club. Anyone else do that? Now I like my Barefoot Contessa cook books, and have probably a dozen total cook books. My mother never owned a cook book. I think we did grow up the same Marlegal, she cooked plain, but it was good, just not fancy. My son cooks a lot and I know he has been given a few cook books, but he mostly uses the internet for recipes. How times change.
I am up early for the pocket party, I'm bringing the coffee.
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Sherry, so very scary!!! What is a medal pac? Is it helping??? It's scary when pain doesn't get relief from medication because then you wonder how really bad it could get!
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Barbe1958 a medral pac is a steroid. Similar to prednisone but is not suppose to have as many SE's. You start out day one with 6 pills and graduate down to 1 pill on the last day. You are on it for 6 days total.
As for the cookbooks. I have one that was given to me at one of my wedding showers (been married 24 1/2 years). It was put out by the local Methodist Church women and it is the best cookbook I have ever had and I own plenty. Over the Holidays I realized the back cover is coming off and I am about to loose some pages from it and was trying to figure out how to salvage it. I may just call the local church and see if they still have any for sale. It is one of those that has been such a success that they have reprinted several times.
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My mother had a Betty Crocker cookbook from the early 50's and I received a Better Homes and Gardens cookbook for a shower gift back in 1978. I have at least 50 cookbooks that I have bought and that my husband has given me because he knows I love them. He goes to a used bookstore downtown and buys old ones for me. I've also bought many church cookbooks at our library's used book sales. I'm looking forward to when I'm finished homeschooling and have more time to cook.
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My most used cookbook is an old paperback Joy of Cooking. I have a newer, hard back, but the recipes in that one have been updated with a lot of brandname foods and depends a lot more on a microwave. I've also got a bunch of cookbooks put out by local churches and groups as found raisers. My Mom's tuna casserole recipe is in one of them!
Sherryc--if the church doesn't have any copies left, check at the local library for someone who re-covers books. There are lots of folks out there that will do that, but you don't hear about them much. Most of their work is done for libraries.
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reesie, I bought the Good Housekeeping Cookbook for myself over 25 years. Well used now.
p.s. 3jays, I forgot to say that I liked your sweater. I'm all about donning the gay aparrel. HoHoHo. Your tree and that one "J" look good also.
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Sherry one word, two syllables...ducttape!!
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My favorite cookbook was given to me by my MIL years ago. It is a collection of recipes from Legions across Canada. Very simple, easy to make recipes and most call for ingredients that one would have on hand. The best part is the inscription, "To my favourite daughter in law," which is an ongoing joke. It was given to me when I was her ONLY dil. (she now has 3) but I do still tease the others about it.
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my favourite book is by delia smith,she's great at explaining things and has wonderful recipes
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Had a wonderful suprise visit today. DH aunt came to town to visit. She is 81 years old and has had stage IV BC for 4 years. She is so spunky that it inspires me. She gets her chemo and keeps on going. She laughs and says the old stuff ate her WB cells and now the new stuff is eating her RBC so she got a blood transfusion but sruggs and says what are you going to do and just laughs. She has always had a very infections laugh. Her husband died right before she was diag. She would never admit it but I think she knew she had a lump and ignored it because her job was to take care of uncle john and that is what she did and would not change a thing. They loved each other dearly. She was laughing today and talking about her MX, she only had the rt one done at first and said she wished she had done both as it came back in the other breast. But she said I was 77 and no one was going to see my boobs so I did not do reconstruction. She said now if uncle john had been alive I would have had them reconstructed cause he was a boob man.
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Sherry, your Aunt sounds like my 98 yr old aunt - I can picture her saying the same things!!
My cookbook is The New McCalls Cookbook, copyright 1973 (first copyright 1963). I panicked at first - it's a hardbound and the outside spine came off long ago so the title wasn't there, and apparently at some point it had a paper jacket, but that's long gone and no printing on front cover! But the title was on the 2nd page

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woohoo called the local church and they still sell my cookbook. They said it has always been such a hit over the years they just continue to reprint them and sell them ($12). This one should last me until I'm 75
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Sherry your aunt does have spunk thats for sure! I hope your feeling better as well!
My cookbook from my mom is a Good Housekeeping and my grannies is just a cookbook that the pages were blank for her to write in. I love that book. She also stuck clippings in of recipes from various places. I never have used my grannies cookbook, one day I will. The cover on my moms is held together by black tape but has come apart at the spine. Oh the yummy things that have come from that book!
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i think mine was the Betty Crocker cookbook, it got lost 3 moves ago.. now, we don't cook, we "warm" its from the Isabella school of cooking...
thanks, elimar, i actually srill like the shirt, and it WAS exciting to havejay #2 Jared, for xmas, he was in the "broward hilton" last yr,, this yr, a 1/2 way house, and doing good!!!
3jays
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My go-to cookbook (well, my DH's really) is a red and white one. Soft cover, not that pinky/red one from the 60's....darned if I can remember the name, but also darned that I'm not going to get off my duff and go look!! It's the kind of cookbook that if we're watching a cooking show on TV and see something new, we can look it up and it'll be there!!!
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Sherry - What spunk your aunt has - she is definitely an inspiration to all of us.
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Today is the day that I am most thankful for this year. I have made it 1 year cancer free! I want to thank you gals for being there with me and for me. I was scared outa my mind but knowing that there where all of you out there that I could look to that got me thru it, plus tons and tons of prayers! It made this so much easier to get thru! This past year has been a living nightmare that all I wanted to do was wake up from it and it would be gone, but it wasnt. Thanks to you all for helping get me thru it!!!!!!
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Paula66 - congratulations on your first yr cancer free! May there be many many many more to come.
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