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  • belleeast
    belleeast Member Posts: 653
    edited December 2011

    rj, haven't had that problem, definately call your dr might be reaction to chemo or some people get shingles with chemo. don't know what else to tell you except if you have any steroids drs like to give them for allergic reactions, of course you might be up all nite if you take one now. is it baking soda you add to bath water for rashes?

  • khegidio
    khegidio Member Posts: 100
    edited December 2011

    Hi everyone.  Treatment # 5 on wednesday and I just shared something that made me feel so good.  I have always had someone go yo Chemo with me... not so much because I feel like I need the support but mainly because my husband has not wanted me to go to one alone.  I stepped back and let him do his thing.  I have to let him feel like he is helping in his way.  And I do enjoy the company.

    But - a few weeks ago my dad offered to go with me.  I said sure... maybe some good father/daughter time.  I halfway thought he was just saying that though and that closer to the date that something would come up.  After all he is still working out of chicago.  Every week he flies to Chicago from Atlanta on Monday and then flies back home on Friday.  So I saw him yesterday and was expecting the "change in plans" but instead I found out that he is still planning on coming. In fact, he still has to work in chicago so he is flying up Monday and coming back Tuesday night, going to chemo with me on Wednesday, then flying back to chicago on Thursday.  I almost cried when he told me that supporting me for those 5 hours meant enough to him to go through that amount of trouble.  I am tearing up thinking about it now.  I really have a great close family.  Sounds silly.... but just made me feel really good and loved. 

    Kate

  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited December 2011

    CJRT - Sigh.  You sure do get them all right.  What kind of PA is surprised when a cancer patient does not have hair?  Duh.  I just want to remind you that you young ladies tend to look pretty good even without hair, so don't let the occasional idiot bother you too much.

    Kate - Touching story about your dad making that extra effort.

    RJ - I had port out 3-1/2 weeks PFC.  I had talked with MO, needed his approval and orders to get it removed.  He said "Well, we usually like to leave it in for a year because that is when there is the most likelihood of recurrence."  Hmmn.  Didn't know that, about the 1 year recurrence factoid.  Anyhow, I let him know that I didn't think I could take more chemo even if there was a recurrence.  My heart, liver, and kidney function seem to have taken a pretty big hit from chemo.  So I got my orders for port removal.  I don't know if this is the standard for port insertion, but my port was on the opposite side as the breast with cancer.  If the port is not on the same side as the cancer, I would not think it would interfere with rads.  Anyway, glad to get it out, and get it out in the same year as my deductible has already been fulfilled because that port stuff is expensive.

    Karen - I'm done with the roughest treatment, except for the Arimidex which I have already started.  I had micrometastasis and isolated tumor cells in one node on biopsy, so I was in a gray area for radiation, whether it is recommended or not.  After weighing the relative risks and benefits of radiation in my case, I have chosen not to do radiation.  A lot of the side effects of Armidex, I already have like vaginal dryness, some hot flashes, joint aches, fluid retention, muscle fatigue.  So far I have not been able to tell the difference from taking the Arimidex.  Oh, they say it causes insomnia too, but I would be surprised if I got that one.  I never get that one.

    Cooka - Getting any hair growth yet, the scalp kind?  I was getting kind of excited last week and thought I was getting new growth.  Unfortunately it doesn't look much longer this week and really not many more hairs thickening in.  Ok, maybe some, but I was hoping to grow like a Chia pet.  I am not getting anything like that.  I would like to take a multivitamin to help my nutrition and help my hair, but have read things about the folic acid in multivitamins not being that good for you, so just trying to eat healthier.  More veggies.  Maybe consider Biotin.

    RJ - I was wondering where you were.  I thought the kids had run you ragged with the noise and the mess, on top of all the working you do.  I don't know what to think about the rash.  It reminds me of Jersey's story.  I hope it turns out to be more irritating than dangerous.

    LeeAnn:  I saw you had some serious GI side effects.  We miss you and hope you get well soon.

    Sara - Congratulations on your son's graduation.  Hope you are feeling well enough to to enjoy it. The port removal was in outpatient department at hospital, very quick, just Lidocaine for anesthesia.

    Linda - I hope you are feeling great and enjoying your time off in between.

    Belle - Hang in there pal.  I hope you are past the worst by this week.

  • rjbaby69
    rjbaby69 Member Posts: 349
    edited December 2011

    Hi ladies!  Hope everyone is doing well tonight.  I am about the same.  Lots of drama trying to get my oldest girl's stuff out of the rent house with the boyfriend, but with the help of my friends on the police department, everything is safely tucked away in the corners of my house until I have some time to help deal with it all.  More drama than I even care to go into.  So tired!  Ugh!

    Kate:  That is so neat about your Dad.  I know that makes you feel so good and I'm glad you have a good supportive family.  My friends and family have been a God-send.

    Kimberly:  Oh, you know me.  Just been busy as a little bee trying to slip in some last minute small stocking stuffers for the kids.  I am proud to say that I am pretty much done with my shopping.  I have 2 gift cards to get and some lottery tickets for the girls stockings, then I'm calling it a Christmas!  My port is on the opposite side of the cancer too.  I'm pretty sure they will take my port out sometime after treatment.  And I'm in the same boat as many others, my plan year starts over on January 1, 2012, which means I will have to meet that 1500.00 out of pocket expense before my insurance will pick up 100%.  It just feels like it never ends.

    Belleast:  Did a little checking around this web site for itchy rash and found sometime that has helped.  One of the posts I read said that the rash could be a fungal infection.  Well, the only thing I have for fungal infections is my vaginal yeast infection cream.  So I took a chance and slathered it on my legs.  Didn't want to risk too much at first.  Well, I am happy to report the rash is pretty much gone on my legs!  Very surprised but very relieved in more ways than one!  So maybe the chemo has caused an abundance of yeast to be on my skin.  I dunno but I know it is helping!

    Hope everyone has a wonderful day tomorrow with absolutely NO SE's!

    Love and hugs to all!

  • belleeast
    belleeast Member Posts: 653
    edited December 2011

    hi everyone,

    kimberly, glad you got some relief from your rash.

    yesrerday, started feeling better went to lunch with my sister. one of my granddaughters had xmas program last nite. met my son and family went to see the Santa Train, was a long line and a little breezy. got inside, my dil took picture of me and kids with santa, then when we started to leave, Santa grabbed me, saying oh no,not yet, sat me on his lap/leg! asked if i was having health issues. i was so surprised i was like yes, doing chemo. he asked if he could pray for me, i said yes. my dil took a picture of me on santa's lap, i wasn't smiling and i look terrible with my scarf covering my forehead,my face looks fat. arrrrhhh

    this morning woke up with fever blister/cold sore ,sore throat,sinus draining, bone pain. CRAP

  • belleeast
    belleeast Member Posts: 653
    edited December 2011

    kate, it means the world when you have family who are there for you. your daddy loves you,girl!!

  • PinkShirtNow
    PinkShirtNow Member Posts: 134
    edited December 2011

    Hi everyone!  I had my first AC infusion yesterday and I was very nervous about it.  So far, I am doing okay.  I just feel a bit dizzy and drugged up.  I also feel like my whole body is heavy - sort of like someone turned up the gravity.  They gave me Emend in my infusion and I have to take steroids for 3 days afterwards which always makes me wired and cranky.  I actually slept fairly well last night which really surprised me.  I guess my emotional exhaustion was greater than the steroids.  I go to get my fist neulasta shot this afternoon and I took a Claritin this morning so I hope that helps.  Thank you to all of you who have supported me and given me advice thoughout this whole journey.  My real life friends just tell me how strong I am and how I can handle anything and I need this place to express my fears.  When my nurse practioner asked me how I was doing I told her that I wasn't brave but I was doing it anyway.  I figured I might as well be honest with her.

    So, big hugs to everyone wherever you are in your cancer journey.  Thank you for being part of mine.

  • belleeast
    belleeast Member Posts: 653
    edited December 2011

    pinkshirt, glad it went well,for me the first a/c se were the worst. i think it's the shock to the body then it adjusts the next time. same thing with the neulesta. the steroids for a/c are for nausea not reaction. they made my nausea worse so i called dr and didn't have to take them except for premeds in bag.

  • PinkShirtNow
    PinkShirtNow Member Posts: 134
    edited December 2011

    Belleeast - Thank you for your encouragement.  I'm sorry that you woke up this morning feeling crappy and I hope you feel better soon.  I was touched by your story about the Santa who wanted to pray for you.  What a sweet man.  We'll take all the prayers we can get!

     Hang in there....

    Linda

  • Kelliregi
    Kelliregi Member Posts: 138
    edited December 2011

    Cancer sucks, but, I'm soooo grateful for all the support I get from you ladies!!!

    I had to step away from the computer or risk getting nothing done for Christmas. I'm just a little addicted =). We've managed to get the house decorated and most of the shopping done. I have my big, bad chemo tomorrow, and then only one more (not including the full year of Herceptin). My husband is driving up to Ft. Benning to pick up our middle son on Thursday, and My oldest son, wife, and grandbabies fly in on the 20th. 

    I'm not looking forward to tomorrow's chemo. My toes are so sore for the Taxotere. I don't know what I'll wear on my feet if it gets worse. I've been wearing my Fatboy boots and Crocs, but even those don't feel good anymore.

    Cooka - LOVE the Christmas carol!!! I've been singing it all week. Only my right stye eye twitches. I hope your twitchy eye is doing better.

    Lee Ann - I'm so sorry you are having such a rough time.

    Kimberly - I'm sorry to hear about your friend with skin cancer.

    Mags - It totally sucks that you are still fighting with  your insurance. It's so unfair!! Also, I hope all goes well with your niece's biopsy.

    Sarasowise - Congrats on your son's graduation. I hope your SE's are few and you get to enjoy this special time.

    Kate - I love hering that your family is so supportive. It's great that your dad is flying back to be with you for chemo.

    I know I'm leaving some posts out, but my brain isn't firing on all 8 these days. I've told my LE therapist to have a nice weekend.....twice.....the past 2 Monday's.  I was always a little flakey, but this is just redonkulous!

  • mags20487
    mags20487 Member Posts: 1,591
    edited December 2011

    sorry Belle for your continued pain...your endurance is amazing!

    Pink shirt--doc told me that if you were gonna get sick you would be sick from first one so hopefully she was right!!  Getting #3 AC on thursday and #7 overall so only 1 more after this week and chemo is done!

    Kelly-- the love your Daddy has for you is shining!  Absolutely brought tears to my eyes. 

    Maggie

  • cooka
    cooka Member Posts: 278
    edited December 2011

    hey Kelli, good to see you in fine spirits and preppping for the fams arrival. How is that LE stuff going anyway? I just got dx'ed with it myself yesterday and head to therapy thurs. Are you finding it doable?

  • Kelliregi
    Kelliregi Member Posts: 138
    edited December 2011

    Hi Cooka - I'm sorry to hear you have LE, but glad to hear you are getting therapy. For me, the LE gets a little worse with each TE fill. I can't wait to get the TE's out and see if the LE goes away, like my therapist thinks it will. I love my LE therapist and therapy is fantastic. My swelling is relatively minor, although it feels huge to me. No wrapping or prescription sleeve, but I do wear a biking compression sleeve. My cording is almost gone and my range of motion has greatly improved. My therapy is basically stretching and massage twice a week. It feels REALLY good!

    Where is your LE? Is it in your arm, or truncal,  or both? I have a little of both. Do you have cording too? Good luck with your therapy Thursday. Please let me know how it goes.

  • cooka
    cooka Member Posts: 278
    edited December 2011

    Thanks kelli, I think it is mosly my left arm, its hard to tell if the dog ears are swelling or not- I don't have cording I felt my tricep stinging a bit and thats what tipped me off.   I hope yours resolves with the TEs out. I'll let ya know how it goes thurs:)

  • Jerseylicious
    Jerseylicious Member Posts: 44
    edited December 2011

    RJ....just saw your post about your rash and was wondering how you were? I posted a couple of weeks ago that a similar thing happened to me...started with low fever then swollen earlobes and within hours, hives all over my body. I took benedryl at home, which did nothing, ended up so sick I passed out and spent a week in the hospital. They diagnosed me with Stevens-Johnsons syndrome, which is basically a really toxic drug reaction in your body. Most of the docs seemed to feel it was the chemo since that was the only drug I was taking, except for the oncologist of course...he was just mad that the other docs blamed the chemo, lol. I ended up on mega antibiotics and steroids in hosp for a week, but I think the steroids are what actually kicked it. Anyway, I hope yours didn't get all out of control llike mine did, lemme know how ur doing..

  • shelley2011
    shelley2011 Member Posts: 199
    edited December 2011

    Belle, sorry you are stiff suffering....glad you got to visit with Santa tho!  Hang in there...as for me, 6.5 weeks pfc, my two middle finger nails are close to falling off.  Can see new growth at base, so hoping they just sort of stick there until new ones are long enough. It is amusing when I mention it to someone and they ask to see....I just point both middle fingers straight up in the air.  Double fun!

  • belleeast
    belleeast Member Posts: 653
    edited December 2011

    shelley, thanks for the laugh!!!! how is the radiation going ? any skin problems ?

    feeling better today, think i've turned the corner!

     had a shrink appt today, i go every 3 months. thank god cause she can say the stupidest things sometimes esp since my diagnosis. just goes to show once again unless you've been thru it, people have no idea.

    jersey, dang girl YOU have had it rough!

  • khegidio
    khegidio Member Posts: 100
    edited December 2011

    Hi ladies.... Scary update. So I went in to chemotherapy today.... Chemo 5 of 6. My dad met me there and was on time etc. So before I have a treatment I always get my blood work checked and I always see the dr. So when i saw the dr I told her about a Se that I have been having - an se that many of us have been having - shortness of breath. She said she wanted to take a look at my bloodwork to see if my hemoglobin was low. Low hemoglobin would mean that I was anemic (another se of chemotherapy) which I have been before. My bloodwork came back fine so for safety precautions she sent me to the hospital for a lung ct to check for clots and for a secondary ekg (since one of my chemotherapy drugs is cardio toxic). Turns out I have two pulmonary embolisms..... A blood clot in each lung. Talk about freaking out. I was so upset and so panicky. My poor dAd came with me for chemotherapy and look what he got.



    So they were going to admit me but my clots are so small that they don't feel like they need to have direct dissolving (where they stick the clot directly and dissolve it from the inside). I was put on a blood thinner shot and coumarin. I have to wat h my shortness of bath very closely. If it does not subside in 1-2 days then I need to let them know And they will admit me to get rid of the clots. I also have to schedule ultrasounds of my arms, legs, and port to see if they can see the origin of the clot.



    I was so scared today and just felt so helpless as I learned thAt I have had two situations in the last 2 months that could have killed me had it not been the precaution of my drs. My lump and then my shortness o breath. Had my drs not been precautionary I would could be well on my way to dying or already dead. I am just emotional and exhausted today. I stopped on my way home to get my coumadin and shots from the pharmacy and got a bottle of wine. I am going to get a wine buzz and go to bed. I am physically and emotionally exhausted.



    I wanted to tell you ladies since so any of us have been suffering from a shortness of breath. Mention my story to your doctors and don't let them second guess your SEs. This chemotherapy stuff is no joke.

  • belleeast
    belleeast Member Posts: 653
    edited December 2011

    khegidio, (((((HUGS)))) thank you for the warning, i have forgotten to tell my mo about my shortness of breath, going up stairs, heart pounds, the last 2 times i saw her. i have appt tomorrow, she is going on leave for 3 months (pregnant) so after tomorrow i will see another dr. i've been getting a weird pain in my left rib cage toward the back.

    hope you feel better soon, don't take any chances if you don't tell your dr.

  • Kelliregi
    Kelliregi Member Posts: 138
    edited December 2011

    Khegidio - HOLY CRAP!!! I'm so glad you talked to your doctor and he caught your blood clots. That is beyond scary. Hopefully the coumadin will work quickly and the wine takes the edge off. After hearing this, I'll never regret telling my Onc about EVERYTHING! 

    Sending gentle hugs and heaps of healing vibes! I be thinking of you and hope those clots dissolve quickly and safely.

  • khegidio
    khegidio Member Posts: 100
    edited December 2011

    Thanks belleast. Feeling fine (despite getting stuck 6 times and giving a total of 21 vials of blood today - no joke). just tired and glad I am still here. Having some wine and reflecting. I came home tonight and hugged my husband and 17 month old like crazy. Love them and wish, hope, and pray this is year is just a phase and not the start of my decline. I want to see my baby grow up. Scary times.

  • khegidio
    khegidio Member Posts: 100
    edited December 2011

    Thank you Kelli. I appreci ate the well wishes. I am good...will be good. And believe it or not am getting my chemotherapy tomorrow. Will remain on track and still be done on 1/4/12. Music to my ears.

  • CJRT
    CJRT Member Posts: 524
    edited December 2011

    Wow, Kate. I am so sorry to hear about your frightening day! I am so glad you had your dad there for support, though, and that your doctor was so on top of things.  So many times they just blow off the chemo patients. Sending many positive thoughts your way!

  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited December 2011

    Kate - Well now you panicked all of us, but that's good, makes us more careful.  I think about the port that was always clogged with fibrin and wouldn't draw, my shortness of breath.  But... I also wonder about the drug they gave you go help with the out of control menstural bleeding.  Is pulmonary embolism a possible side effect of that drug?  God knows I am on 3 new drugs since chemo stopped.  My pill box runneth over so to speak.  Every drug is a tool and a potential danger, double-edged sword.  I am so happy you have a great doctor who is paying attention to your side effects and caught this.

  • Kimberly1961
    Kimberly1961 Member Posts: 407
    edited December 2011

    CJRT - About the comments you get about your hair or lack of it, I noticed tonight again, being out and about bald, that a maybe Indian man, certainly some middle eastern heritage, gave me lowered eyes, averted eyes, and could barely look at me.  Like I was unclean.  I felt the reaction to bald head on a woman was very strong, very much a cultural thing, and not being Hindu or Islamic, I looked it up.  I saw something where widows are shaved bald and forced to beg after the death of their husband (Hindu).  The Islamic are always covered up, pardon me, so who would know they are bald? There is a movie out there called "Water" which is I guess about the life of a Hindu widow.  I so wish Blockbuster had not gone out of business because I want to see that now.  Of course christians and buddhists have a big history of their religious leaders or followers shaving their head to indicate dedication and celibacy, so it's a horse apiece.  I think the Dali Lama is balder than an eight-ball.  Funny how some religions say you should never cut a hair and some of the highest in others shave it all off.  When I shaved bald in support of my sister 6 years ago, I was never sensitive to it.  I never put anything on my head and walked through a busy multicultural workplace daily with no problem.  I am just more sensitive to it now, when that hair loss was against my will.

  • PinkShirtNow
    PinkShirtNow Member Posts: 134
    edited December 2011

    Kate - I am so sorry about the scare you had today.  I'm glad that your doctors are on top of things and that you are getting the treatment you need.  Good reminder to all of us not to ignore any symptoms.  We can all learn from you.

    Hang in there and we all send healing thoughts your way.

  • mags20487
    mags20487 Member Posts: 1,591
    edited December 2011

    Oh Kate...so so sorry...glad that your Doc was proactive in looking into what was going on.  Hug that family as much as you can.  I am sure your Dad was just happy to be there supporting you.  So many things I just brush off as part of this process but will now tell my Doc everything.

    Hugs and love to all my sisters--still dealing with insurance crap...now hospital says that what I am receiving is not Chemo (AC) and just infusion therapy and will not accept me as a patient since they do not do infusion therapy only chemotherapy and so today--I am up in the middle of the night with insomnia--i will get #7 at the docs office and pay for it myself then go afters these idiots when I am done.  I think it all stems from the hold up with insurance not paying claims which they are now so hospital thinks it is too risky to let me in but insurance only covers at hospital.  Exhausting.  Hopefully my letter to insuance regulator of Fl will help

    Maggie

  • Kelliregi
    Kelliregi Member Posts: 138
    edited December 2011

    Kate - We finish on the same day!! I'm glad you get to stay on schedule with your chemo. That has to be a good sign! Best of luck with your chemo tomorrow.

    Maggie - What a pain with your insurance!! I really hope the insurance regulator will be able to help you get it straightened out. Fighting with insurance is the last thing you should have to do while fighting cancer. Good luck with everything. 

  • shelley2011
    shelley2011 Member Posts: 199
    edited December 2011

    Kate, all I can say is that our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Apparently there is an angel on your shoulder and a good doc at your side!

  • CJRT
    CJRT Member Posts: 524
    edited December 2011

    Mags- I'm trying to remember who I contacted 3 years ago when I had an issue with getting a refund after having my first child, as the hosptial and insurance company In Florida kept blaming eachother.  I can't get to my files because of the limited lifting from my recent surgery, but I know I think I got the contact department at the state from my insurance company.  I then had a case administrator assigned to my case by the state, who actually did make phone calls and handle things on my behalf pretty quickly.  I seem to recall being able to speak with someone at the state directly the first day I called.  I am not sure if this is the same department you are already in contact with, but it really helped things move forward quickly for me. Hope you have good luck.

    Kimberly- Since both women who commented to me had been middle-aged and Caucasian, I hadn't given any futher thought to the cultural perspective, but you make some very interesting insights. Because I am so fixated on looking like a "cancer patient," I have completely ignored that people may have other reactions to the thought of me wearing a wig or not having hair that do not focus on illness, particularly on days I am looking otherwise healthy.

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