Pets are good therapy
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Nancy - best of luck finding your cat. I can't imagine. I lost mine once for over 3 days and the maintenance guy said 'if you want to find him you have to think like a cat'.. and he found immediately hiding in bushes by the door.
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@Nancy91355 So very sorry to hear your cat has gone missing. Have faith -- many, many cats who have lived with you for a period of time come back when the going gets rough out there. Many just Know how to return. There is a very good chance he will be back.
On the other hand, if for some reason he does not return, know with your heart that he knows how to take care of himself out there. If it is cold, he Will find shelter. Strays are extremely resourceful - he is not helpless. Of course it is hard on you because he was your companion, part of the family. We folks who have pets understand this. I will be sending good thoughts your way.
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Nancy ...Take heart--some strays have a network of folks they like to visit, so hopefully he is lapping milk in some warm kitchen.
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Oh Nancy so sorry ! Hopefully He will return. I just lost my beloved pet of 17 years, who also went thru everything with me. Sadly he is gone, he died. I know the pain, it is sooo very empty in my house now......I take comfort by going to rescue shelter to play with their dogs. It does help. I,m also praying for your cats return and for you Nancy, as I know the pain you are going thru......Hugs Kiley
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Awwwww
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Nancy, my aunt's cat came back after going missing on the first day he was ever there. I know how much pain you must be in, our furbabbies that go through treatment with us are just so very dear. Have you checked at the animal shelter, maybe someone turned him in. Karen
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Dear Nancy, I have never been able to relate to people who don't like pets, something is missing from their character. I hope you are able to find him and bring him home. Karen
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Nancy .. I'm saying a special prayer that your kitty comes home soon. My cat got out one night and disappeared in the small wooded area behind my sister's house. I called the Humane Society, made posters with his picture and put them all over the neighborhood. I was frantic all day and all night - I drove around looking for him - kept going to the back and front door calling him. My sister came home at about 2 a.m. from work and heard a a"mew" spotted him and chased him into the woods where she finally caught him. I felt this weight drop in my chest (I was asleep) and my sister saying here's your damn cat! I read that cats do not go far from home. He's probably around the apartment somewhere close. Oliver was gone that night, all the next day and night until my sister found him at 2 in the morning. Stay the course - he'll come home.
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Such beautiful pics posted here. I have 2 kitties, Caz and Hobbs. Can't figure out how to post a pic. They are affectionate, and aloof. Independent and underfoot. They are cats. I love them.
When I came home after surgery Hobbs became very territorial of me. He sat next to me and would block people, or even Caz from getting too close. As I got better, Hobbers has given me more freedom.
It's great therapy. I still have to care for them: feeding, petting, playing. It keeps me moving and is the sweetest rehab. -
Oh Nancy, I sure do hope your cat comes back home....he is yours, you know even though he stays outside. Maybe since it is cold now, he wandered into a garage and someone. closed the door so he is stuck there for a few days....that happened to the cat I feed up the street. Hopefully he will turn up soon....maybe tomorrow morning. Be sure to follow up with the manager on him.
Liz, If you look back several pages I have put directions on how to post pics....I am just too tired to do it right now, but the lst thing you have to do is put the pictures you want to post in Photobucket....it's a free program. Do that and I will come back tomorrow and post the rest......or maybe someone else will.
I will say prayers for the missing kitty tonight.
PS Apple, Pal looks dismayed at having his pic taken in that outfit.....like aw comeon, how can you do this to me? Although I had one dog who liked to wear clothes.
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Thinking about you and your dear kitty......Praying he will come home......HUGS, kiley
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Nancy, strays are clever. All my pets were strays. When Eddie, my dog, went missing from home after something or other frightened him, he thought he was a goner when he still wasn't found after several days. Then one night, when we were almost asleep in bed, my DH heard whining. Her went out for a look and, sure enough, there was Eddie, skinnier than usual and trembling, but he had found his way home.
Then there's Billy, my cat. We had to leave him in the care of a cat-loving cousin when he was just over a year old, as we had to stay a while with my DH's parents, and his father hated cats. Anyway, shortly after leaving him with the cousin, Billy ran away. We and my cousin's DH looked for him everyday everywhere and even put up posters. It was a difficult task, as the cousin lived in a very urban area which was packed with apartment blocks, a neighbourhood unfamilar to Billy. And my cousin's unit was on the 4th floor of a block which looked very similar to the others near it.
Anyway, Billy suddenly turned up in her apartment a week later, looking rattled but otherwise fine. He had only lost a little weight. We suspect he had been nearby all along, perhaps even on the same floor, and some kind soul had been feeding him.
If your furbaby is still roaming out there somewhere, he'll probably find his way back to you soon. Cats are smart and resourceful. Strays are even smarter.
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Nancy, I am soooo glad you have your kitty back !!! But so sorry you had to deal with Horrible woman. I just don't have the heart to deal with nasty people, you did GOOD ! I'm praying that Nasty woman leaves you alone ! Oh, so good to know you have your kitty back ! Hugs Kiley
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Oh, Nancy I am so happy he is back. That woman sounds like a real Bitch with a capital B...like she needed $100....she probably doesn't care about animals at all and is just one of those who does things so she will appear to be a kind and loving person. The news of him being back with you just made my day.
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geez Nancy--so glad you got him back, but sounds like extortion to me. What kind of person would ask for money for an animal that wasn't even theirs!!! Does she drive around Walmart and open peoples cars to get their dogs too?
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Oh Nancy, I am so happy you got him back from the nut job. Try to keep a close eye on him so the b!tch won't grab him again!
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Yes Nancy that mean lady sounds un-hinged ! She might even be an animal stalker ! I am so mad she put you thru all that ! Take care, Kiley
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Nancy - I'm so glad your kitty is home and I hope you never have to run into this lady again.
When I run into mean nasty people I like to say a little prayer for their peace. I want to beleive in people. I assume they must have something horrible going on in their lives to be so irritable and feel sad for how hard it must be to be miserable all the time.
That said, geesh, what a Beatch!!! I hope she doesn't have animals or children.
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Dear Nancy, what great news that your baby is back. Hate to tell you wha I think of that horrible woman you had to deal with. Some people are just evil. you did a great job!!!!!!!!!! Karen
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this is my baby murphy-he has kept me sane through all of this
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that's a beautiful baby!!!!!!!!!
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Luv2trav ... he's a St. Bernard - yes? He's a beauty.
Nancy ... I can't tell you how relieved I am that your kitty came home (via that horrible woman). I'm almost as relieved as you are to see him. I remember how my stomach felt like someone punched me when I thought I had lost my cat. BTW, my Oliver was a stray and he's stayed in the house for11 years. I told him if he comes in, he stays in! He would like to go out, but he's not going outside. That was the deal!
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Murphy is indeed, a very beautiful animal luv2travel ! I think Nancy you will sleep better tonite ! You both need a drama break ! Hugs, Kiley
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oh, murphy is gorgeous!!!Nancy: as soon as you can, get him micro chipped!!!then, if he;s missing, you can go to that BSSSS house, and have her arrested... you have EVERY right to have your own cat! the nerve.. i went thru that YEARS ago. a yorkie we were washing, ran away from my kids.. we looked for hours, days.. then, the kids told me their friends saw him at our neighborrs house.. i went over, and she refused, like thaat lady did yu.. it was bf micro chips.. I called the police, had some vet bills to prove it was my dog.. i got him back, and the town attorney prosecuted her for dog knapping!!!so, a micro chip will porove hes yours.. id teach him a kitty litter in the house, or a leahs for now...what an awful woman!!!all i can say is Karma.. karma... karma...
which reminds me of a joke WARNING its not nice... why do some husbands die?? "because they want to"... sorry ( not really).3jays
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Kiley, that sounds like such a wonderful day and a great rescue group. I am sure you will find just the right friend there. One of my dogs is a rescue as well as one of the cats. I think you are so wise to know what size and strength of dog you can handle. I trained all of our Golden Retrievers in years past but I am sure glad my husband is traing our standard poodle. Stewie our poodle is 7 months old now and can eat directly off the kitchen table, he is tall. He is rowdy and is quite a handful and it can take all my strength to push him back from something I have put on my side table that I want to eat! I had forgotten how strong a young dog can be!
My rescue is part poodle, schnauzer, bischon, chihauha, and beagle. He weighs about 15 pounds and is a lot of fun. A previous rescue was part poodle and part schnauzer and larger but still I could handle him last year. There are quite a few schnoodles in rescue, I think some people aren't ready for the terrier traits but I find them delightful. I know you will find the right dog for you.
HUgs Ginger
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Luv2trav ... I was just looking at Murphy again - he is so cute I could just kiss his muzzle a hundred times!
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Hi ladies,
My name is Merilee and I have been a member of BCO for a few years now. I am currently working on setting up and animal rescue called Downsy Dude Rescue Ranch. My goal is to use the ranch to provide enrichment activities to special needs kids as well as eventually be able to provide a recovery retreat for BC survivors. Lofty I know, but aside from that...
I am looking for ladies willing to write a story about how their pet has been good therapy and helped them get through the ordeal of BC. I would like to post these on my blog ( which is just now under construction). If I can put together enough stories I will try to publish a book and use the sales towards funding the project. I am a published author, a mental health therapist, mother of a Downs syndrome son, and a 3 time cancer survivor. Anyone wanting and willing to write a story for a good cause? If so please PM them to me. Bless you all for being animal lovers, especially those of you who have rescued discarded creatures who would not have had a chance without you.
Merilee Dodson
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Ginger, The rescue lady is coming to my house again with 2 dogs. This will be her second visit to my house. One dog is a 3 year old very well mannered and very attached to her handler. She weighs about 60 lbs. A mix mastif, pit, boxer, but does not have the size or agressiveness of those breeds. Very submisive for those breeds. She is 3 years old and her name is Buttons. The other is Shelby, 3 months old and just a bundle of joy, very well behaved, shar pei, not sure how to spell that. When I went to rescue site, that pup would not leave my side, very protective, already ! Not sure I can handle a pup but......So, well see, I just know my house feels so empty with out my dear, sweet Chubs. I live alone so.......I think it is best I rescue a dog ASAP......I've had some set backs with my health thru the years, so I want to make sure it is a good fit with my boyfriend in case .....So far, he likes both dogs very much too, and he will be over to play with the pups and help me decide......After play day we will go to shelter to play with pups, and see. I like it that rescue lady takes such good care of her dogs and does not push. She is very attached to all her dogs. Very dedicated to her calling. Merilee, I will try to send you my story, at some point, at this time I am so grieving the loss of Chubs, I'm afraid I would not do the story justice.....He was my port in the storm for 17 years......I am beyond words at this moment.....sorry to be so long winded here. Hugs to All, Kiley
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Awe Kiley, so sorry to hear about your loss. Hugs to you my dear.
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Kiley, how could a dog named Buttons be aggressive? Oh I know it is possible but it does sound improbable, dosen't it?
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