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  • Deep81
    Deep81 Member Posts: 51
    edited September 2011

    Hi there,

    I was recently diagnosed with Metastic Breast Cancer in the lung. I'm 30 years old, have had 6 rounds of chemo, radiation, bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction with tissue expanders. Was expected to be all clear but 6 months after completion of FEC-T i am back at CVH! Will be starting chemo again next week indefinately! I was wondering if there is a support group in Mississauga? I am working full time and am trying to maintain some level of normality but would like to meet up with others who may be in a similiar situation.

  • Luah
    Luah Member Posts: 1,541
    edited September 2011

    Hi Deep81: So sorry to hear about your recurrence; hopefully you have a good treatment plan in place that will kick that BC's butt once and for all!

    Re support groups, I am going to go out on a limb and suggest you private message (PM) sugar77. Just click on her name in the post above yours and see the link on the right to PM her. She may know of a local BC support group, maybe one that supports stage IV specifically, or where you might ask.     

  • Luah
    Luah Member Posts: 1,541
    edited September 2011
    Sorry, lost my post - chemo brain probably Embarassed, will try and reply a little later.
  • rachel5738
    rachel5738 Member Posts: 920
    edited September 2011

    Hi Deep---I'm sorry to hear that your cancer has reared its ugly head again. For support groups, I joined one at Wellspring in Oakville. It was a good group and I still keep in touch with some people almost 1 year from when we started. Wellspring has lots of programs too. I commend you for working during all of this...I couldn't work...just couldn't get my head around it. I returned to work about 1 month ago and it is nice to have that sense of "normalcy". Take care, Rachel xo

  • Deep81
    Deep81 Member Posts: 51
    edited September 2011

    Hi Rachel, Cancer seems to like me for some odd reason! But I have faith that God and positivity will help me get through this. I am thinking of joining the Wellspring in Brampton as I am at Mavis and 401 but will see what they have in place first. Yes I was very fortunate to have maintained a sense of normality during the last round. My employer is absolutely amazing- I work in Community Home Care so I am surrounded by nurses who always provide me with advice, and attend my appointments with me so that they understand and can question the doctor about anything that seems odd. Plus I carried on at the gym, I had to because I put on 35lbs on in weight! I was a piggy from the chemo! My oncologist was about to give me the "all clear" last week until I told him by the way i have a cough and a tight chest. 5 days later my results were in and he dropped the bomb shell. Now I have my private doctor researching treatment options in the US as I cant "live with cancer" for the rest of my life-it doesnt make sense. If I was 75 I can understand but I am only 30! So I have faith and I have to keep laughing and being positive!  Chemo starts on Monday and I am not looking forward to it at all :(

  • Sugar77
    Sugar77 Member Posts: 2,138
    edited October 2011

    Hello, how's everyone in Mississauga doing these days?  This thread isn't too active....hopefully that's because everyone's doing well.  Keep in touch!

  • sheuber
    sheuber Member Posts: 36
    edited November 2011

    Hi Deep - I was just catching up with this thread and read your post. It brought a tear to my eye - I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this again... it's totally not fair! How is the chemo going this time round? Are you still able to keep up going to the gym?

    I recently moved to 407 and Mavis area and was thinking about checking out the wellsprings in Brampton (mostly for post treatment support). If you'd like to check it out sometime with me let me know. BTW - I was 31 when I was diagnosed (now 33) so we're not too far off in age :)

  • pratibha
    pratibha Member Posts: 5
    edited December 2011

    Hi ladies,

    I admire your courage and determination to fight off this terrible disease, I was diagnosed and had surgery 3 weeks ago-a lumpectomy and SNB but margins are small. My surgeon at Trillium does not seem confident and empathetic at all. I want to see another surgeon if I need one more surgery. I have my onco and radiation appointment next week at credit valley. Do you ladies recommend anyone in particular. I have heard good things about Dr Neil Woolfson....And yes I will be so happy to be part of a support group in Mississauga.

  • rachel5738
    rachel5738 Member Posts: 920
    edited December 2011

    Hi Pratibha..I had my surgery and chemo at Trillium. Both my docs were good. My onco was very matter of fact which worked for me..but may not be best for everyone. My rads were done at CVH. When you say the surgeon was not confident? Not confident that he got everything? Second opinion won't hurt. Through my whole journey....you really have to be happy with your medical team.

  • VeronicaX
    VeronicaX Member Posts: 35
    edited December 2011

    I live in Mississauga but i had my mastectomy at Sunnybrook. I have not met my oncologost yet but i am hoping to start chemo in January. Anyone else who starts chemo in January?

  • Myleftboob
    Myleftboob Member Posts: 1,469
    edited January 2012

    Hi Veronicax

    I'm nearby in Brampton but was happy to see a local thread.  I had my MX at Oakville-Trafalgar (Dr. Rosario) on December 14. I meet with oncology at Credit Valley January 18.  Everyone has such different experiences though don't you think.  When I look through the threads most know everything about their BC.  All I really know is its DCIS with alot of microcalcifications.  The surgeon called me to tell me there was no node involvement and that the margins were really good and that the oncologist would go over the rest.  He didn't even see me post op, although I had home nursing visits and he did address any concerns with me over the phone.  I'm healing fine and havent been on any pain meds other than Advil since Dec 30. 

    How is your recovery so far?

  • Westielover
    Westielover Member Posts: 9
    edited April 2012

    Lesley here - just had sentinel node biopsy and lumpectomy on March 19th.  I live in the Meadowvale area.  I see the rad onc at CVH next week and then Dr Myers the younger the following week.  I love the spirit of you all.  I think I got very lucky with my diagnosis.  IDC turned out to be half the size expected at <1 cm - node negative, hormone receptor + and HER2 -.  Nodes are also negative so am projecting that I will only require radiation. 

  • rachel5738
    rachel5738 Member Posts: 920
    edited April 2012

    Hi Lesley...I am in Streetsville. Had my radiation at CVH and my chemo at Trillium. I got through radiation pretty easily..even though my skin is pasty white! Lots of cream....that Glaxal Base they sell at Costco. Radiation is more time consuming than anything! This site is great to answer questions...as soon as you have your treatment plan in place...things will make more sense. If you have any questions...let me know!

  • Westielover
    Westielover Member Posts: 9
    edited April 2012

    Thanks for the tip - i answered this morning but forgot to hit "submit" I have red hair and am also a pasty white so any tips for getting through radiation are much appreciated. I see Dr Rauth tomorrow and Dr Myers the younger on the 23rd.

  • Sugar77
    Sugar77 Member Posts: 2,138
    edited April 2012

    Hi Rachel...hope you're doing well.

    Hi Lesley, Rachel's given you good advice about the Glaxal Base. I used that, too, and also bought it at Costco (much cheaper for a big tub of it). I also live in Meadowvale and was treated at CVH for surgery, chemo (with Dr. Jeffrey Myers) and rads (with Dr. Jasper Yuen).  

  • Westielover
    Westielover Member Posts: 9
    edited April 2012

    Thanks Sugar.  On the advice of both you and Rachel, I purchased the Glaxal base on my way home at Costco.  The new Radiologist, Dr Rauth, is absolutely charming and appears to be very knowledgeable.  My big blessing has been the Grade 1 status of my tumour.  It appears that I only need 21 days of Rads.  I was expecting more.  I also found out today that there was no vascular invasion (I was so concerned about the lymph node status I forgot to ask that one on the last visit).  I am looking forward to meeting Dr Jeffrey Myers.  I gather that he is very thourough and also an excellent Physician as well as being very patient.  I have a ton of fluid in the wound (confirmed by Dr Rauth) and one of the threads on here recommended warm compresses.  They are working well.  I find this site very encouraging - Thank you 

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited April 2012

    I am from Oakville formerly from Mississauga. I have been treated for BC at the Carlo Fidani clinic since August. Dr. Jeffrey Myers is also my Oncologist. My RO is Dr. Soliman...he's a gem. Altho Dr. Myers is knowledgeable, I found it hard to get any info from him. I did DD AC and 12 Taxols...16 rads and feel fine altho I do have some lasting SE's. I just had my BS drain a seroma and in 24 hours it was back...I also am getting therapy for lymphedema...I had hoped draining the lump would help but here we go again.......also the Glaxal is great. BTW my surgeon was Dr Woolfson.

  • Sugar77
    Sugar77 Member Posts: 2,138
    edited April 2012

    Hi schatz, welcome to our little Mississauga group. Hope you're doing well. Have you been to Wellspring?  The cancer exercise program is really good there and I recall the therapist running it has expertise in working with lymphedema.

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited April 2012

    Thanks Sugar...I am fine so far, just these irritating SEs! I know things take time but so much happens at once. As far as Wellspring, I did call them to get some names of reg'd therapists but other than that, I have no way of getting there. Until now I was not ready to start exercising anyway but now I am. I will start regular walking and I do Lympedema exercises as well. Hope you are doing well also!

  • Westielover
    Westielover Member Posts: 9
    edited April 2012
    HI Schatz - I large seroma, as I had a benign tumour removed as well as the malignant one.  The RO confirmed there was a lot of fliud at my first appointment with her.  I found a warm compress great for the discomfort and then went on to the internet and found a site that showed how to improve lymphatic drainage.  Started to do some of the massage using the glaxal base that I had been advised to buy by Rachel and Sugar to encourage lymphatic flow.  I don't know if it was coincidence, but 3 days later I was a lot more comfortable and within a week the fluid was gone.
  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited April 2012

    Hiya Westielover

    May I ask where your seroma was? Mine is in the incision from the SNB. It is not uncomfortable at all. The only time I feel anything is when the therapist tries to drain it. That isn't gonna happen I am afraid. Would rather she just leave it alone. I will probably have my family doctor drain it in a few months if it hasn't decreased. I have a feeling it is going to be an ongoing thing.

  • Westielover
    Westielover Member Posts: 9
    edited May 2012
    Sorry not to get back sooner.  Mine too is in the incision.  In fact, I have two "holes" that both filled with fluid.  One where they removed the malignant tumour and one with a benign tumour.  According to the RO I had a ton of fluid sloshing around!  I found the tension on the skin a little uncomfortable but the warm compresses seemed to help that.  I would not call it painful.  Just on my 4th radiation tx this AM  Very happy to have Dr Rauth as my RO.  She appears to be quite progressive.  Decided to irradiate in the prone position as the lesion was on my left side and she was concerned about the amount of radiation to my heart as the tumour was close to the muscle wall.  Looking at all of the data it seems to be quite an advantage.  
  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited May 2012

    How is the radiation going? Any SE's so far? As far as my seroma goes. MO (Dr. J. Myers) didn't know what it was and thought it was NOT fluid. He got me an appt with my BS (Dr. Woolfson) who seemed a tad puzzled as well. He was going to biopsy it but decided to try and drain it first. He got 2 full syringes of yellow fluid and said was just sera. Harmless...when he was done, it was completely gone. By the next morning it was all back again so I will just leave it for now...not at all uncomfortable and knowing what it is helps. BTW you mentioned using Glaxal when doing MLD...my therapist told me never to use any cream because the massage needs friction...but that is just one opinion...who knows? I am ignoring my LE and it seems better. The sleeve was HORRIBLE!

  • Westielover
    Westielover Member Posts: 9
    edited May 2012

    I do hope you feel better soon!  Such a pain.  The rads are going well although I was surprised to feel nausea and acid indigestion towards the end of the week. The radiation techs seem very efficient and the whole process works well.   Keep trying to convince myself the nausea is all in my head as they are not irradiating areas would give me this SE.  Did anyone else have this problem? Your therapist is probably right re the cream.  I have very dry skin and found it easier.  I guess I was just lucky that mine cleared up.  Dr Myers is my MO too.  He seems very pleasant and on the ball.

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited May 2012

    westielover...Did Dr. Myers give you all your lab reports and tests? He never let me see anything...always came into the examining room empty handed. When I asked any questions, he usually made a lame joke. I know he is knowledgeable but I still have questions. I don't see him again until October. I asked if I needed a bone density test (Arimidex) and said "not yet"...just make sure you do your mammograms. I guess any questions I have, I will ask my GP...sure hope he has all the reports.

    I had no nausea from rads...no SEs except a little fatigue...passed quickly.

  • Sugar77
    Sugar77 Member Posts: 2,138
    edited May 2012

    schatzi - hi, I've never seen any test results either. I really like Dr. Myers and find he spends a lot of time answering my questions.  I've never asked him about doing a bone density but my GP requested I get one done as a baseline so I'm going later this month. Maybe it's your GP who would order this test. I just turned 48 so I think that's why she wanted me to get it done.

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited May 2012

    sugar..

    I had a baseline BD about 12 years ago...I kind of assumed Myers would want one but he seemed uninterested. He didn't tell me to do anything except my regular mammos. I found that kind of strange. I suppose he just handed me off to my GP. Once when I had my records (waiting to see another Dr.) I glanced thru them and saw some stuff that wasn't true, regarding meds. I am so confused but the only thing I can do is see my GP and check the reports that he got. All a little too confusing for me. I never found Dr. Myers to be willing to answer my questions at all. I got the impression he didn't like to questioned at all. My DH was there for most appts and he got the same feeling.

  • Nicole4
    Nicole4 Member Posts: 104
    edited February 2015

    I am from Mississauga, I have transferred my care to Sunnybrook and I am so happy I did.  I was originally planned to have rads at Credit Valley, RO said he would skip the chest wall b/c I had mastectomy, after seeing RO at Sunnybrook, they said no way they would skip the chest wall.   hmmmm  I could not understand a word my RO said from Credit Valley due to a language barrier, but he posted a note to my doctor that I wanted my chest wall radiated against his suggestion.  This was not the case ever, it took me a long time to come around to having radiation, never mind request more of it.

    I have 8 more rads to go, I feel teary on a daily basis, I don't feel like I am sailing through this like others had told me I would.  I am very emotional.  I know that the drive to Bayview isn't helping my mood, but I truly believe in the doctors there.  My skin is starting to burn but by morning it usually seems a little better.  I put glaxol cream and aloe 4 to 5 times daily.

    On another note, I have been taking tamoxifen since February, I have experienced major hot flashes that come roaring on and last about 4 mins.  I also have extreme pain in my fingers and hands, typical joint and muscle pain as well.  I am now taking calcium with magnesium to help this and I have recently started taking tamoxifen at bedtime to see if that will subside the hot flashes through the day.  so far so good, I think they have been less....I will keep you posted.

    This morning on my way to rads at 930, my car over heated on the 401, I had to jump out, grab a taxi to the hospital and back to get a tow truck.  what a day, looks like I will sleep tonight.

    I have a question for all the ladies, once I have completed this final treatment, the plan is to have TE in October, is there something that I should be doing to request a scan etc.  Blood work is all fine, I figured that I would leave it at that but unsure.  despite the pain, inconvience, disfigurement, I feel I have done everything to beat this 

    looking forward to my last radiation treatment, I am going to enjoy the mississauga summer!

    best to all 

  • schatzi14
    schatzi14 Member Posts: 1,647
    edited May 2012

    Hi Nicole...sorry to hear you are having a hard time with rads. Did you have chemo too? I did it all at Credit Valley and I must admit some of the Drs were less than informative. I absolutely adore my RO there. I am all done treatments except for follow ups. I am seeing my GP next week for blood tests for MY satisfaction and a bone density test as well. I asked the MO if I needed one and he said "no not yet".....well I WANT a baseline cause I am on Arimidex for 5 years. Hope to see you here again.

  • Westielover
    Westielover Member Posts: 9
    edited May 2012

    Hi Schatzi - I actually got my report from the RO who I saw before Dr Myers. I had done a whole bunch of research before I saw Dr M and have a medical background.  I warned him up front that I had a whole bunch of questions for him but he did look a little shell shocked when they actually came.   You are right though, I asked the surgeon for my report and did not get it but I know my GP has a copy.  Turned out that, because of the original location of my tumour (fairly close to the chest wall) I am being irradiated in the prone position and the depth of the radiation is a little more extreme.  The nausea is apparently all due to reflux as there has been a little radiation involvement of my eosophagus.  I have tried a few things and Pepto Bismol is working.  I am afraid I may have to give up my Tim's as that seems to be the trigger!!!  One of the problems with asking the GP is that I have a brand new, straight out of school GP.  She looked at my diagnosis and told me that I might not need radiation!!!  She got confused between invasive and DCIS! If your GP is good, I would tell them that you are confused about bone scan planning and any other follow up. My old GP sent me for a bone scan every 2nd year as part of my physical even before my diagnosis. The one thing that Dr M did tell me is that we no longer get the reminder letters from the Ontario Breast Screening to go for mammogram as we have now been diagnosed.  

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