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Janis, how you come out of your exam today clean as a whistle!! And no pesky little polyps either!! I know you will be hungry when you are done. The question is breakfast or lunch?
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I saw my BSO yesterday she checked my scarline and oficially discharged me.
Hope i never have to see any surgeon again. -
Esther, I had a modified mast on one side and a simple mast on the other. Why did they have to cut your pecs? I feel for you, sweetie. It's so hard when our bodies fail us!! Good thing you don't HAVE to lift yourself off the bathroom counter each day.....
Congrats mum! One down....
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Claire....right on top of things as always! I don't eat eggs...but blueberry pancakes with bacon and tons of real butter..oh yeah!
Had a bad night last night. The Gatorade Cocktail came right back out, only not the right way! I can now define "projectile vomiting". I was so so sick...ugh. Thinking I am cleaned out top to bottom now!
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walley - My MO appt is at 8:30 in the morning - what time is yours? There is also someone else having the same appt day. Sounds like there will be multiple pocket parties that day. Yes, Merry Christmas to us!!
Claire - The food looks yummy! I can see the burger on the lunch menu for me today.
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orangey, That side may never be the same as the other, but I think you may be able to get some PT for the remaining muscle still attached. I think it will take a long time but the muscle eventually will learn to compensate and you will become more balanced again. (Know a guy who had chainsaw slice his deltoid. Some years later, there was no longer a big difference in muscle size or shape.)
No one's surprised I hang around with chainsaw weilding people, right?
Valjean, I love your first person confessional. There is no shame. You were ahead of your time, on the cutting edge of recycling. What a forward thinking young lady you were!
Note: Remember dumpster diving is a "gateway activity" that may lead to hoarding. Beware.
mum, Yay! Guess you could say your BS cut you loose. (groan...)
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JustmeJanis, I hope you get through your 'scope today with clean results. I had colon cancer a decade ago and, after that, had to have a colonoscopy EVERY YEAR for the first five years. I got so I would gag just thinking about that awful salty "Gatorade cocktail." I could not get it down. Finally, the doctor agreed to let me "clean myself out" with pills that I had to take every 30 minutes. They were large, so I had to cut them in half. Results: I had to take something like 54 pills in an hour. But, believe me, it was better than drinking that awful liquid.
Good luck, and let us know how things turned out.
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I know there are a few of you out there that actually have a good looking doctor on your B/C team, and I never got that lucky. I have had Dr. Soccer Dad, Dr. Serious, Dr. Squirrely, and Dr. Snowy White. All very nice. My PCP is Dr. Jock, and my dermatologist was Dr. Frat Boy. Very personable.
Dr. Frat Boy has very limited office hours now as he is doing additional study, so I got referred to his buddy, Dr. Hotness. Finally! A match made in doctor-patient heaven. He seems confident and experienced, but even if he is just average at doctoring, it's not like he is my heart surgeon. As long as he is reasonably competent we can grow old together. Me a little sooner than him.
Dr. Hottie looks like a young Martin Donovan.
He's the kind of doctor you would let give you a costly skin rejuvenation treatment just for the sole purpose to look young enough to cougar him and not look too ridiculous.
janis, There's no way your appt. today could have been as delightful as mine was, but I hope yours went o.k. and you had a lunch date lined up too.
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eli,
you crack me up! thanks for the giggle!
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Elimar, if you don't write you should.
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I made it through the colonoscopy just fine, not even a polyp! We don't have overhead lighting in our bedroom, and just have a dull small lamp. Dressing in the dark didn't work so well. I just started to set foot in the hospital doors when I noticed I had two different shoes on! Two very different tennis shoes, not even close! Yikes! Good thing my DH remembered I always keep a spare pair of old tennie shoes in the car trunk. We had planned to go to the store afterward and breakfast....wanted to match!
Anyway everything was good, thanks all for being there as always!

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Great news!
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Yay Janis!
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good for you, janis! whew! now that's over. YAY!!
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WOO HOO! Janis - glad you made it through okay.
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Yay Janis!! I imagine you're happy that's over!
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Had the appointment with the cardiologist this morning. She seems very knowledgable. Said they see this a lot with herceptin or AC, but it is usually with people with high blood pressure or other cardiac problems before chemo, neither of which are me. Said they like seeing someone with high blood pressure because it's something they can go after. Also said 80% of the time heart goes back to per chemo condition. I am going to skip the next herceptin and try taking a low dose beta blocker o help take pressure off the heart, then get another echo 5 weeks from now and take herceptin again if my heart is okay. I feel comfortable and confident with it, but right now am dog tired, not sure if that is from the beta blocker or not. Hitting yhe sack.
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Yea Janis I hope your feeling better and you got yourself a victory dinner for it.
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I'm way behind on posts. Just skimmed through. I can't really remember who's doing what or got what news, but I wish everyone well. Will be at all the pocket parties. I'll bring frosted italian cookies. I just made 12 dozen cookied. I frosted a few. The rest are for an engagement party Saturday and well wrapped and frozen for Christmas gift giving.
Kay, I did read the posts about your heart. It l looks like you have a good cardiologist. I'm praying for good echo results for you next time. Hang in there, surgery sister.
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Kay...I am glad to hear you are in good hands with the cardiologist. It has to be so frustrating but hopefully you will get your energy back soon. Hugs sweet lady!!
Paula I got a victory breakfast out! Sure tasted great!

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Janis: Awesome about your scope, big sigh of relief.
Eli: you crack me up. Hope your appt was delightful

Kay: I'm glad they are optimistic and that they have stayed on top of this for you. Hope your BP gets under control for you with little hitch. BC is enough without the added cardio concerns.
WaveWhisperer: On one hand it is nice not to be alone in my chemopause sufferage but on the other, I wish no one else had this. I am supposed to get the script for Ambien tomorrow and will use it if I need it for sure.
Thank you ladies for the great advice, with a box fan blowing on the bed and a clip on fan I remembered I had from the hospital clipped above my little bald head on the headboard, shorts and a tank, and a towel under me, I finally slept last night. It was great. Of course, my poor husband had to sleep in sweatpants and a long sleeve shirt, but he says he doesn't mind if it helps. He's a good guy. I was shocked at the difference the towel made. I began to feel hot when I slipped off a smaller one I started with onto the cotton pillowcase, put the towel back and felt cooler. Who would have thought of such a fix. Anyway...thank you.
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Yeah Janis!!!! Good for you!! The best news out of this whole thing is you don't have to go back for 5 years--?? Just long enough to get the thought of that Gatorade cocktail out of your mind!
Kay sounds like you have a plan to go forward. I hope that as time goes by, your heart only gets stronger!!
BTW any one going into to see any docs tomorrow? Did I miss someone?? And Hauntie--those cookies sound absolutely yummy!! they would go real well with my late night cocktail.
Just what I need to put me to sleep. . .
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Very good news, Janis!
Kay ~ Glad you feel comfortable with your Cardiologist. Best wishes.
mumayan ~ As for your BS discharging you, I say, "Another one bites the dust!" Last month I canceled a RO appt that would have been for tomorrow. It would be a three year check & I didn't feel I needed it. What's he gonna do? The same thing my MO already does, and did, last month. They said it was fine as long as I was being followed up with with my MO.
E ~~ About dumpster diving leading to hoarding, of course, all that stuff has been long gone, BUT, I have turned into a hoarder, I think. (is that a run-on sentence?!?) Anyway, in January I am majorly cleaning my trash!! I have large storage cupboards in my basement that came from a school & they are full of .......... ??????? .......... and there are totes of stuff (of what, I do not know!) that need to be gone through as well.
Maybe somebody will go through MY trash after I discard a bunch of it !

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great news janis, glad you found a good md kay, see the mo today then off to see twilight tonight with the girls from work
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jo1955
My appointment with the MO is at 9:30.Maybe do a little xmas shopping after.:)
Janis
Good news
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Lee Ann I am SO happy that the towel worked for you!!! That makes me feel great for suggesting it, so thanks for letting me know it worked. Bathsheets from Walmart work wonders. Now you know why I said to spread it across the pillow and down your whole body impression.
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Yes, your advice was a major blessing Barb...thank you!
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I have an appointment with my ob/gyn this morning to discuss hyst/ooph. I've been in a lot of pain the last few days because the tamoxifen gave me the side effect of overstimulating my ovaries. I haven't been able to exercise or do much else but sit around. Not looking forward at all to being examined...
I'm trying not to think about all of the estrogen that is probably flying around my body because of this..

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***Barb****
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Wallie - Will meet you for brunch and then we can do some last minute Christmas shopping. LOL!
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