MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN 40-60ish
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Welcome Wave (((HUG)))) Not the place you WANT to be, but we are all making the best of it. You are always at home here.
Janis--getting the pocket all cleaned out for everyone.
We will be drinking in your honor and toasting your good health!!! Cheers and B9!!!!
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Welcome, WaveWhisperer ~ Sorry you have to be here, but glad you have found us. This is a wonderful, supportive group of ladies. We have lots of fun, we do need to let loose at times, but we become very serious when a sister is in need of comfort or has a question. Don't be afraid to ask whatever is on your mind. Nothing is off limits.
I'll be moving from pocket to pocket tomorrow, but I'll be sure to bring those tasty Honey BBQ Cheetos! Keeping good thoughts for good results for those in need.
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Janis-I'll be thinking of you!
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wavewhisper
Welcome ,ask any questions you have.The ladies here have helped me alot.
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janis I will be thinking of you.I'll bring some chocolate.

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Morning all,
I had an ooph/hyster back in Dec '09 and I stayed on tamox until Dec '10 (waited until iArimidex went generic) and I did ok. My se's after the ooph are the standard hot flashes and such. I've been lucky that I have been able to handle much of what bc has sent my way. I have about one more year on arimidex but so far so good.
Trish
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Hope everything goes smooth as silk Janis!
Whew - I'm a bit claustrophobic for that crowded pocket so I'll set up a circle of chairs just outside if anyone needs to take a breather! S'mores anyone??
Just over one week on tamoxifen and no problems so far. Was REALLY sleepy late yesterday afternoon/evening but then couldn't sleep last night - kept waking up. Grr.
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madpeacock, I'll be starting tamoxifen this weekend. A little nervous about it, but with everything else I've been through this year, I'm not sure why. I guess the length. Onc said 5 years. The one year of Herceptin still seems so far away to finish (May).
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Good thing I like to be in crowds. Thinking of you Janis and hoping for B9 results.
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Wavewhipser welcome to the group. It is a great place to be for support. Ask any questions as someone has probably been there done that and can help. Also vent whenever you feel the need as we all have at one point or another. Otherwise hang out and have fun with us.
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Janis I know you can't eat before surgery, but I wanted to include you in the cheetos club. Course I also made sure you have something pleasant to wake up to!
I tried getting him to keep his scrubs on but, ahh hell, no I didn't. . .
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Janis sent you a FB comment and you know I will be there in that pocket for you. I'm thinking B9! Welcome to the newbies but sorry you have to be here because of BC. This is a great place to be and the support is unmatched anywhere. I don't know what I would do with out all these great sisters. I've been working like a mad women so just trying to keep up here. Best wishes to everyone! Kitty
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Praying for you Janis!
Welcome wavewhisperer....though I'm sorry you have to be here.
Thank you prayrv for the encouragement. I must admit I'm a bit worried about instant menopause plus arimidex. My sister had to have her ovaries out because of cysts but she was able to have HRT for a while and didn't have to take arimidex to make things worse.
Crowded pockets today...I'll bring along the leftover Halloween candy so that I don't eat it all by myself!
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Claire, you crack me up!!!
Love the gin in my apron pocket pic, and of course a little beefcake for breakfast!

That washboard reminds me I need to do laundry tonight!
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Claire I knew there was a re3ason I put you in charge! Clearly you have earned the title of PPP. The pay is lousy, but the bennies are fabulous!
Welcome to all newbies. I see I have a sister in Idaho! Welcome, glad your results were b9. Hope you get nothing but good news in the future!
Welcome Wave! Sorry you have to be here, but there are such great ladies here. Most of us are real familiar with the waiting. I hope the time goes quickly for you and you get great results.
Thank you all for the wonderful warm prayers and wishes. So appreciated...and the party of course! I have to leave for the hospital in 10 minutes. Enjoy the party everyone!!!!
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Claire - I wouldn't mind waking up and seeing that. You can keep the Cheetos. You are now the official PPP of this thread.
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Glad to see everyone gave a warm welcome to you already, Wavewhisperer. We have a few in the "ish" age range, but I just assume that they have read thru' a few pages and know what they are getting themselves into. Haha! Whichever is next for you--chemo or rads--you have some sisters who can relate and help on this thread. We are waiting right along with you for your Onco score.
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The rest of you woke up on the funny side of the bed today. Don't get too rambunctious in janis' pocket, you don't want her to have some crazy zig-zag on her neck. Pass the Cheetos!
p.s. marthah, we need to do something about your mental imagery, you poor thing!
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Just for you E!!
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and just so we don't leave a mess. . .
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They are so finger-licking good, I may not even need the towelette.
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Party on ladies! I'm wearing my fur jammies so I keep warm so anyone that needs to snuggle squeeze in! I'll bring the milk.
Kitty -
Hi ! wavewhisper! this is for you.
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Saw my MO on Tuesday to talk over my 3 months on Anastrozole and the SE's so far. Most trouble has been the joint pain in my hip. He suggested taking fish oil and seeing my chiro again. So today I went into the chiro and also had acupuncture. Now I'm not one for needles, Lord knows I had enough of them, but he talked me into it and boy was I surprised (in a good way)! Didn't hurt at all and the relief I have now is amazing. I don't know how long it will last today, but I'm already going back tomorrow for another treatment. Even if it's just half the day, to be without any pain even for a short while is so wonderful! And no drugs is the best part. Guess I'm sold on it. Any thoughts on the fish oil? Kitty
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Hi everyone - I am 48 yrs old and was diagnosed in earlier this yr with stage IV metastatic bc . The first blow was that the 2 lumps and 1 node discovered where in fact cancerous. I was still ok at that point, believe it or not. Then I had a CT scan following my surgery in June which detected liver mets. That wasn't supposed to happen! Of course I jumped on google to find out more about everything and was sure that I was facing "the end"
Thank goodness with the support of my family, friends, my medical team and support groups such as this (and an encouraging scan recently) - I have a much better outlook and know that I may have many years left which I can enjoy life.
Thinking of all of you who are awaiting test results - ugh - waiting sucks. I pray that you all get encouraging news.
((Hugs)) to all - P.S. I really like Cheetos! and Chocolate! and Beefcake!
Barb
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barb , you will fit in well here then and now claire's the offcial ppp, lots of parties and beefcake!
hello wave whisperer, sorry you both had to join this club -
Can someone pls clarify for me what "PPP" is? - thanks.
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Hi!barsco63!
to the board.
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Barb welcome glad you found us. Sounds like things are positive in your direction.
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Welcome barsco! Though I'm sorry you have to join us.
PPP is Pocket Party Planner! Whenever someone is having a procedure done or going to a doctor appointment that we're dreading, everyone jumps in our pockets and "goes with us". It's our way of showing support. Claire always comes up with great ideas for our pocket parties so she was just named our official Pocket Party Planner!
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Thanks Christmas-Barb. I thought is was something to do with parties but just couldn't come up with the third "p". I love the idea! Count me in.
Thanks to all for the welcome. I am looking forward to lots of laughs, love, sharing and caring!
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