MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN 40-60ish

15325335355375381064

Comments

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Member Posts: 3,412
    edited October 2011

    ok count me in janis, will bring the chocolate-belgian!  fri and tuesday about some clotted cream toffee

  • justmejanis
    justmejanis Member Posts: 1,847
    edited October 2011

    juliet62...oh my yes!  That sounds like heaven.  Better stuff my face while I can still eat, LOL!  Might have to have a little pre surgery party over the weekend.  YUM.

    martha....I don't think the doctor really wants to even consider the correlation unlesss this turns out to be cancer.  He is thinking not, basically said he feels there is about a 20% chance it is cancer. The way I see it, that means there is an 80% chance that it is not.  I like those odds! Thanks for the well wishes.  I am not worried...yet!  :)

  • SAB
    SAB Member Posts: 1,498
    edited October 2011

    Janis-Sorry for ongoing problems...I hope it at least feels better to know you have a plan of action now.  I hope it will be easy as it can be. 

  • marthah
    marthah Member Posts: 322
    edited October 2011

    Janis, I highly doubt there is a correlation...that's why I was asking.

    Here's to the 80%!!! Yeehaww!!!

  • marthah
    marthah Member Posts: 322
    edited October 2011

    Hubby's out of town, again, but I have an Elders meeting tonight. I'm the chair, so I guess I have to be there. Boo. Yell No rest for the wicked, even when it comes to church meetings (or especially, even!).

    Don't have too much fun without me tonight! 

  • reesie
    reesie Member Posts: 2,078
    edited October 2011

    Welcome Marthah! Janis I'll be home bored so I"l jump in your pockets for surgery next week if you come with fo mine tomorrow. Finally getting that bmx and ooph tomorrow.



    Just hope I don't go backwards with my leg and arm pt (I'm sure I won't do the exercises like I'm supposed to).

  • reesie
    reesie Member Posts: 2,078
    edited October 2011

    I think Monique was robbed.

  • lwarstler
    lwarstler Member Posts: 341
    edited October 2011

    Hi everyone, been off the boards for 4 days and there's no way I can catch up. Did a bunch of running around (riding really) Friday and Saturday for my step-daughter and daughter and then had to recooperate for 2 days. Tomorrow's round 2 of chemo and I am dredding it. Have also had a sore spot on my back (left side-same as chemo) that has a slight discoloration to it, so I am going to ask my onc about it tomorrow. I don't know if it is a skin issue due to chemo or if it is something else. Hopefullly it is nothing but anything near the site of the cancer is scaring me. Not looking forward to the SE's either. Anyone else have sore spotsjust under their skin when they had chemo?

  • Ceeztheday
    Ceeztheday Member Posts: 403
    edited October 2011

    elimar-Thanks for the welcome! I have only 3 boosts to go! Except for a burned armpit and some peeling underneath my breast, my skin is quite good. Thanks for asking. I plan to leave Saturday to go to San Diego and go on a blues cruise for a week. We went last year and it was so much fun. It is a Holland America ship that is chartered for all blues music. Last year there was 107 shows in one week! Should be a good way to relax and recover, don't you think?

  • KittyGirl2011
    KittyGirl2011 Member Posts: 537
    edited October 2011

    Hey Janis, you can count me in for next Tuesday. I still have a positive vibe for you with this.  Party hardy this weekend and I'm sure everyone here will help Wink!!  Here's a preview I'm sure.

    He can serve drinks and cater to our needs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    HAPPY MONDAY NIGHT!

  • justmejanis
    justmejanis Member Posts: 1,847
    edited October 2011

    Reesie....Will be in your pocket tomorrow.  I hope it all goes well for you and that you have an easy recovery.  You have been through so much already.  That is a lot of surgery tomorrow.  Big hugs, cheers, and much luck.  You'll have a crowd in that pocket I am sure. 

    lwarstler.....I am so sorry about the chemo tomorrow and how much you dread it.  I'll be thinking of you and hoping it goes smoothly and the SE's are kept to a minimum.  Thinking the sore is nothing but of course we always worry with these new things.  Hoping your doctor can ease your mind about that.

    ceezethe day....I am so happy for you with just 3 boosts to go.  You must be elated to see the finish line.  What a fantastic thing you are able to go on this cruise.  Have a wonderful time, and put cancer on a different vacation....separate from yours!  You deserve this healing time.

    Kitty...thanks hon, I knew you would be there and get the party started.  Already looks promising! :)

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011

    reesie,  It's finally here, tomorrow is...

                                               

    May all go smoothly just as planned, with surgeon skill and steady hand.  Sleep well tonight!

    Ceeztheday,  Woo-Hoo!  That Blues Cruise sound great!  I'm going to check that out.  Take your rads moisturizer with you and use plenty will you heal.

  • stjude10
    stjude10 Member Posts: 390
    edited October 2011

    Reesie and Janis, I'll be in both of your pockets on the days you need me. I think I'll snag some of those carmel apples to bring with!

    My BS told me as soon as he looked at the tissue from the biopsy. Of course he said it had to be sent to path and he's not always right. But I needed to bring my DH w/me to follow up appt. and be prepared for the worst. I told him he sucked 'cause that follow up appt. was on my birthday. He did spend 45 min. w/us that evening explaining everything and answering questions. I don't think he's quite sure how to take me. I kinda dig that. Always keep 'em on their toes!

  • KittyGirl2011
    KittyGirl2011 Member Posts: 537
    edited October 2011
    ressie-May your day tomorrow go smooth as silk!  You have been throught alot and deserve an easy go of it.  Keep in mind that we are all there for you and the team spirit will pull you through.  Kitty
  • Ceeztheday
    Ceeztheday Member Posts: 403
    edited October 2011

    ressie-I will be thinking of you tomorrow and sending good vibes your way. I hope that your surgery is totally successful and that your recovery is super quick!

  • Hauntie
    Hauntie Member Posts: 483
    edited October 2011

    Geez - this thread moves fast. I go away for a weekend and I'm pages and pages behind. I'm trying to catch up, but it could take a while. I guess I missed out on the cupcakes and the vote for Miss Pink, October 2011.

    Welcome to all the newcomers. I'm sorry you had to join our group, but as you can see, we welcome you with open arms. This is a great place for info and even more important - support.

    Reesie - something happened to my flash player, so I just caught a glimpse of the MBC video. You look great. love the hair. How are you feeling?

    I've caught my first cold of the school year. I lasted until noon at work, then came home and went to bed. I have lots of new little kids on my caseload this year, with new big germies. I'm going to have to build up some immunity to them quickly or it's going to be a very long school year. I'm about ready to head back to bed. Have a good evening everyone.

  • Hauntie
    Hauntie Member Posts: 483
    edited October 2011

    Marie - Just saw that your BMX and ooph is tomorrow. You know, I'm in your pocket. I'll wear a mask and bring the hand sanitizer. Good luck. I know you've been waiting for this for a long time.

    Lynda

  • OG56
    OG56 Member Posts: 897
    edited October 2011

    Hello to all the new girls on this thread I have been reading for over an hour now!

    Reesie, hope everything goes well tomorrow and don't forget to remind them that you are a celebrity now! Loved the news story.

    E, I love the puppy in pink! I don't know even BC can't stop me from loving the color pink LOL

    Since moving back to Omaha I have to find a new onc and that sucks, I will still travel back to NY to see my BS at Sloan for my yearly MRI's.

    Just took a new seasonal job working for Omaha Steaks, gosh I wish it didn't take so long to reinstate my nurses license I have a job with a hospice organization as soon as I get through. I passed my math test with a 92% and I celebrated with a glass of wine! I am so bad with numbers :)

    Okay, back a few pages somebody posted a picture of Johnny Depp and it made me think of a thread I just read about a new sexual aide called "Scream Cream" for all of us who are in menopause. Can't you just laugh thinking about asking your Dr. for this new med?

    Hugs and love to all,

    Linda

  • LovesChristmas-Barb
    LovesChristmas-Barb Member Posts: 706
    edited October 2011
    Praying for your surgery tomorrow reesie! I hope it all goes well and that you recover quickly...
  • Kay_G
    Kay_G Member Posts: 3,345
    edited October 2011

    Reesie, prayers and good thoughts for your surgeries tomorrow.  Will be in your pocket through the whole thing.  Ditching the cheetos and bringing tgif burgers with jack daniels sauce for you.  Wishing you smooth sailing through the surgery and easy recovery.

    Janis, the same for you next Tuesday.  I would like those percentages if I were you too.  How are you otherwise?  Is the worst rad burn ever healing yet?

    marthah, my MO questioned me about drinking too.  I hardly drank at all.  Maybe a drink or two on the weekends, sometimes not even that.  It was like the MO didn't believe me.  I told her I hardly drank, she said, "Define hardly."  Sheesh!  I'm Irish and have red cheeks with my fair complexion.  My DH said he thinks it was the red cheeks that made the MO think I drank more than I was admitting to.  It ticked me off a bit.

    E, I enjoyed the concession speeches too, but I think the fix was in!  I demand a recount. LOL

    Have a good night everyone.

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Member Posts: 3,412
    edited October 2011

    reesie-hugs and prayers for today for you and your team, will be in the pocket  too

  • walker2222
    walker2222 Member Posts: 558
    edited October 2011

    Reesie prayers to you for today and every day.

  • Kay_G
    Kay_G Member Posts: 3,345
    edited October 2011

    Thinking of you and sending warm thoughts for healing, Reesie.  (((hugs)))

  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited October 2011

    Gee out sick and you get really behind.  Feeling much better and at work.

    Wellcome to all the newbies but can't remember names.  This is a great place to be for questions or just to hand and chat.

    Reese and janis will be in your pockets for surgery, I pray all goes well for both of you.

    And every Dr I had asked the alcohol question too.  But I don't drink much either and I guessed they believed me.  Kay I don't have red cheeks.

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Member Posts: 1,728
    edited October 2011

    ((((Reesie))))) You have been in my thoughts today!

    ((((Janis)))) You have been right there with Reesie in my thoughts today.

  • justmejanis
    justmejanis Member Posts: 1,847
    edited October 2011

    Reesie thinking of you today and wishing you strength and healing.  I so hope you can recover easily and feel better very soon.  You have been on my mind all morning.  Healing hugs.....gentle ones.

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited October 2011

    When I was about 5, I was with my dad out on the golf course on a cold blustery day.  I was standing on a knoll, holding a big umbrella & a gust of wind lifted me up and carried me gently down the slope.  the picture up top brought the memory up for me.  I think windy, blustery, gusty days are my favorites & it probably stems from this memory as well as the safety I felt being with my dad.  He has Alzheimer's now & I like sharing stories with him--he doesn't remember himself, but he smiles and seems happy to hear me tell him my favorite memories.  Makes me sad & happy all at the same time (sorry for the hijack-it's just the picture got me!)   

  • Valjean
    Valjean Member Posts: 1,898
    edited October 2011

    Just flying through with GOOD news!

    Mamm NEGATIVE - repeat one year!

    Now I can breathe again!!!!!!

    ((( reesie )))

    ((( Janis )))

    ♥   ♥

  • justmejanis
    justmejanis Member Posts: 1,847
    edited October 2011

    Valjean...outstanding news!  So happy to hear that.  Yes, breathe, big happy breaths!  Congratulations!

  • pupmom
    pupmom Member Posts: 5,068
    edited October 2011

    Hi everybody, here is what my pathology report says. I have Infiltrating Lobular Carcinoma, Well-Differentiated. Because of its samll size and the fact that it was caught so early, my doc is hopeful that the prognosis is good. I won't know for sure until the lymph nodes are looked at. They look good on the mams, but surgery will tell the tale. I just had an MRI of both breasts because my cancer tends to be found in multiple locations. Will post when I have more info about that result. Will probably have surgery next week or the following week. May depend on whether I have a mastectomy or lumpectomy. I was told a plastic surgeon can attend the surgery and get started on reconstruction if I need a mastectomy. Wow, what a roller coaster ride! I feel dizzy and nauseous both.

Categories