MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN 40-60ish

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  • SAB
    SAB Member Posts: 1,498
    edited October 2011

    You're so funny Elimar.

  • cmbear
    cmbear Member Posts: 1,086
    edited October 2011

    Freya won!!! Yeahhhhh!!!! However, I am a little frightened of that boyfriend Pierre, he looks like one tough dude. Wouldn't want to meet him in some darkened alley!!

    Janis --I will be there with bells on bringing the brunch mimosas. you did say 10:30 right?

    To all the newbies-- i acutually had to take my MIL along  too because my DH was in almost as much shock as I was. He asked all the questions, she wrote everything down, and I just sat there with a dazed look on my face. The first few weeks I wrote EVERYTHING down in a notebook so I could remember to ask the MO when I saw her again. Do get a copy of all your path reports, blood work,ct scan results, etc. so you can refer back to them. Any questions, don't hesitate to ask, we'll try our best to help--but do look for more in depth answers on specific threads.

    Wonder if I can sneak one of Janis' mimosas early so I can fall asleep sooner. . . .its more fun than the ambien. . .  

  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Member Posts: 2,047
    edited October 2011

    lol thats great Elimar!

  • marthah
    marthah Member Posts: 322
    edited October 2011

    Hey, ladies, I'm jumping into the fray. I smelled the Cheetos, and I brought my own drinks (I prefer microbrew IPA's with my Cheetos!)

    Newbie to this group, but not this site. 

    And I had my 50th birthday mid-chemo, so I certainly fit the 40-60 profile! Smile

  • LovesChristmas-Barb
    LovesChristmas-Barb Member Posts: 706
    edited October 2011
    Welcome marthah!! There's always plenty of cheetos around here...Smile
  • marthah
    marthah Member Posts: 322
    edited October 2011

    Thanks, Barb58!

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011
    Welcome, marthah!  We can see you had some chemo.  What surgery have you had and are you still having any treatment?
  • KittyGirl2011
    KittyGirl2011 Member Posts: 537
    edited October 2011

    Congrats to Freya!  I knew she had it in her to be a princess.  When will Disney call???  Eli- I'm still tearing from laughing so much over the concession speeches.  Just too funny!!!

    Welcome marthah!  Weekend are always fun around here and lots of good support and advice anytime.

    Tomorrow is my first check up since end of rads.  Not sure what to expect but I got lots of questions so I'll be bringing my notebook.  See you in the AM Janis!  Hugs all around, Kitty

  • Valjean
    Valjean Member Posts: 1,898
    edited October 2011

    E ~ Thanks for the laughs. They were needed..... The concession speeches were hilarious. Oh my, you mean they were serious?!?! Oops! Loved 'em!!

    Claire ~ I was thinking the same thing you said about the mimosas. I wonder if anyone will miss two of them.

    Janis, I will also be with you. Keeping good thoughts goin' for ya!!

    When my surgeon came in the room to say to me, "I have bad news." he brought with him three gals & they all stood by the door. (Katie, bar the door!! ) One was his main surgical nurse, one was Who?? & one was the gal that made the appointments for surgery/etc from up front. Scared the living sh*t right out of me!! I knew right then before he said a word that it was bad news.... maybe he thought I would pass out or try to escape-the latter being not a bad idea at the time.

  • cmbear
    cmbear Member Posts: 1,086
    edited October 2011

    Welcome Marthah!! I'm with you on that micro-brew! After all I do have two hands!! Where in Iowa are you from--I lived there a lifetime ago--literally--1960's! And Happy Belated 50!! We have that in common too!!

    Janis, Its getting crowded in here!  I figured I would bring some fruit,

     

     

  • cmbear
    cmbear Member Posts: 1,086
    edited October 2011

    OOps hope I brought enough!!

  • walker2222
    walker2222 Member Posts: 558
    edited October 2011

    Welcome newbies, this a great please to be.  Wish I had found this place aftet dx and treatments.  They did help me through rads and my last surgery.  Everyone is very helpful.

    Barb, I got the 65,000 wrong it was 6,500 mamo's paid for and 96 dx. 

    The race went well and I finished 5m under last year even using my walking cane.  Granted I had just finished cemo last year.  I am finally recovered today.

    Saw MO Friday and we went over the results of my bone scan and CT scan.  Bone scan shows that I have arthritis in my knees and feet, ok now I know all my pains and discomfort is not in my head.  CT scan shows scaring in the right anterior right middle lobe, hmmm, that is where they did my rads.  MO says that would not happen and thinks it is due to infection.  Wants to do another scan to see if it is still there.  Hmm, I think not seeing how expensive it was, just see if something is still there.  I will need to do another bone densisty scan since it has been a year for that to check and see if the Femara is affecting my bones.

    I have changed my name and pic as you see.  Like the race number, DH says I am just 2222 good.

    Jess

  • Kay_G
    Kay_G Member Posts: 3,345
    edited October 2011

    Welcome Marthah, my October rad buddy!  Good to see you here.

    Janis, I'm settled in the pocket for as long as it takes, sending good thoughts and vibes for good results.  I have a very good feeling about it. 

    I'll check back in later today.  Have a great day everyone.

  • SAB
    SAB Member Posts: 1,498
    edited October 2011

    Gee whiz,I would have been happy to have a fake smile at my dx, or even a team of linebackers barring the door.  I got a cold phone call from the radiologist who did the biopsy.  "It's cancer."  I was standing in a bank line, stepped out to take the call and then had to go back in because I was making a deposit for my husband's business.

  • Kay_G
    Kay_G Member Posts: 3,345
    edited October 2011

    SAB, mine was exactly the same way.  But I was already prepared for it because at the ultrasound they were positive it was cancer and even told me to make an appointment with a BS now, not to wait until biopsy.  That comment made me weak in the knees.  They also bipsied two lymph nodes and I found out they had cancer too.  Even know ahead of time, it was like a blow to the stomach.  I guess in the office, face to face, it would have been different, but I was a little glad that it was over the phone and I could go be by myself and take some deep breaths.

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011

    w-2222,  I see you accessorized with a feather boa for your walk, dahling.  Gonna take a while for the new name to sink in.  If you do get another CT, please let us know if the right lobe resovles or if it is still showing something.  I have a hunch rads can do something like that.  Although I am hoping you do not have an infection, I do hope it is something that can be taken care of.  Compromised lobe or not, you did good walking a new "pink" personal best even with a cane.

    SAB,  That is COLD!  Is it too much trouble to sit in a consultation room with a woman for five minutes, explain the biopsy results and what happens next? 

    My nurse went over the size, grade and hormone status.  The basic info. was like mumbo-jumbo back then, but I got the gist that it was "favorable" for treatment.  They gave me a big, scary 3-ring binder called "The Notebook" which had definitions and further info.  I think it was written by Stephen King. 

  • justmejanis
    justmejanis Member Posts: 1,847
    edited October 2011

    Elimar....LOL your commentaries by the "runner ups" (hey, losers is so demeaning) was hysterical.  I love a good morning laugh!

    marthah..a big warm welcome to you.  Bring a lounge chair, you'll want to stick around so might as well be comfortable.

    Thanks everyone for the yummy food, Mimosas, and Jo for the coffee.  Sounds like a great way to hang out in the pocket.  I leave in just over an hour.  Bring your appetities!

    Sherry...hope you are feeling much better and can enjoy the snacks!

    I hope everyone is doing better today than yesterday!!  Hugs my friends.

  • Paula66
    Paula66 Member Posts: 1,728
    edited October 2011

    I've got the carmel apples for the ride girls!!!!  Can we say YUMMMY!!!

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011

    Good Luck today, janis!  I think you have the whole (sticky) thread in the pocket today.

    cmb, See if you can come up with some scones one morning this week.  Love those with my tea!

  • juliet62
    juliet62 Member Posts: 3,412
    edited October 2011

    with clotted cream and strawberry jam

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited October 2011
  • Ceeztheday
    Ceeztheday Member Posts: 403
    edited October 2011

    Janis-I am thinking of you.

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011
    Welcome, Ceeztheday!  Have you finished with the rads yet?  How did your skin do?
  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited October 2011

    Happy Monday everyone!

    So glad my girl Freya won!  The speeches by the "runners-up" were hilarious!  The founder of our thread has a warped, wicked FUNNY mind!

    I can't keep track of everyone anymore-I think it's a chemo-brain thing more than anything!  Hope all have a good week.  those of you still getting ready start, or are in the middle of, or toward the tail end of treatment-remember-IT'S ALL DO-ABLE!  We are living proof! 

    Pass the cheetos & I'll take a vodka/soda with a splash of cranberry in 1.75 hours (when it hits noon here on the west coast).

  • Eph3_12
    Eph3_12 Member Posts: 4,781
    edited October 2011

    Oh & I must say, love the look of those carmel apples!

  • walker2222
    walker2222 Member Posts: 558
    edited October 2011

    SAB that same thing happened to me. The radiologist called me and apologized. He couldn't reach my Dr so called me because he knew how important it was. He is the one who recomended my BS to me and I thank him for it. I did think it was a possibility for the length of time it took for my mammo and numerous pic they took (on a Friday) and having to wait over the weekend to get the needle biopsy done DH holding my hand. Said the results would take two to three day, he called the next day. Call BS to set up appointment, had my first MRI by Friday. Saw BS the following Wed. I felt like I didn't have time to breath. The best thing for any newbie (new sister) is take someone with you to all appts and/or record it. There are so many things that can be missed.

  • marthah
    marthah Member Posts: 322
    edited October 2011

    Thanks to everyone for the warm welcome!

    elimar, you asked about my BCA history in a nutshell: 

    Dx'd 4/1 (yeah...April Fool's Day was my lucky day!); lumpectomy 4/25; chemo (TC regime, x6) 05 through 09 (last infusion 09/09); currently undergoing rads. I started the Oct 2011 Rads group...we have a good group of folks over there, with some overlap from the Sept 2011 group.  The rest of the details are in my signature line.

    An interesting thing about alcohol -- did anyone else get a lecture from their MO about the relatedness of alcohol consumption and BC incidence?  I did, and I have decreased my intake by quite a bit, but that's mostly b/c chemo spoiled my taste for it. I'm a wine and microbrew person, with an occasional mojito, mimosa, or margarita thrown in there. 

    And is anyone else getting sick of pink??? Every time I see pink October crap, or a pink ribbon, I have really mixed feelings. Sometimes I feel like it minimizes the issues around BC, and sometimes I want to break out into tears. 

    I have to agree tho -- Freya is cute! (I think that's the same look I get on my face about Pinktober...)

  • walker2222
    walker2222 Member Posts: 558
    edited October 2011

    marthah - I was that way with pink last year (probably because I just finished chemo), this year I kinda went with the flow (did wear a boa at the race).  I do think it has gotten out of hand in some aspects and the slogans on the t shirts are really getting to me.  I do wear my "I fought like a girl and won" with pride (was a gift) but the "Squeeze a boob, save a life" or "Save the TaTa's" (saw a lot of that at the Race for the Cure this weekend) are starting to crossing the line.

  • justmejanis
    justmejanis Member Posts: 1,847
    edited October 2011

    Eph....you are my kind of gal.  I don't drink much at all, can't afford it!  Your drinks ideas always look and sound fantastic!

    So, had a very long meeting with the surgeon, Dr. Ballentyne.  I really liked him and he was so easygoing and friendly.  He explained that these nodules on my right lobe cannot be properly biopisied until removed.  He thinks there is only about a 20% chance they are cancerous, but we have to know.  So, next Tuesday I am having outpatient surgery at the hospital.  A Right Thyroid Lobectomy.  He is taking out the entire right node and will leave the left, which only has miniscule nodules on it. 

    I have to go to the hospital friday to pre-register and get blood work done.  I don't know what time the surgery is scheduled, but his nurse said likely early morning.  It will be done under general anesthesia so that is good.  The insision will be about 4" long.  I really don't care to be awake for this one!

    Thanks all of you for the full pockets today.  Will really, really need you all in there for me next Tuesday.  This one makes me a bit nervous.  :)

  • marthah
    marthah Member Posts: 322
    edited October 2011

    Janis,

    Have they given you any indication that, if malignant, it's related to your BC? I wouldn't think it would be, and if it is thyroid CA, not to worry...that is very, very treatable/survivable. 

    Hang in there, sweetie...it'll be fine. 

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