Five - Lifetime Movie - October 10th
I'm not usually a Lifetime watcher but I just saw a story about this movie on Good Morning America. I hope it's "true to life" and not simply a Hollywood version.
Here's a link with more info if you're interested:
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I don't mean to be a kill-joy, but I can't wait to see what a bunch of BS this is. Seeing who directed it, I do not have high hopes. I will likely not even watch it but will be prepared to be highly offended if I do. The only true to life version of this would be a real story, following real women. Thanks for sharing and I hope I'm not being too negative here. Well, I know I'm being too negative, but I hope you don't take this negativity as negativity towards you. I'm very glad you posted this!
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My partner is psyched to watch this but I dunno...nervous about how it's handled byHollywood. Pinktober has already been sort of stressful for me, making it hard to focus on real life, etc.
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Kathleen - It's all good. I don't feel your negativity is being directed towards me.
I also share the concern about how "real" it will be. I'm still probably going to watch it just to see how well they do. I'm usually pretty good at giving things the benefit of the doubt.
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kathleen- my DH saw the commercial and said "what do they know? You should star in that."
I'm sure I will watch it; thanks for the heads up Plantlover.
I suspect I will often find the intense focus on bc in October overwhelming in years to come.
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Thanks for posting...wouldn't have known about it.
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Thanks for posting. I might give it a try. BC is such a personal event I'm not sure if Hollywood can do it justice but who knows.
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Hmmm,
I have such mixed feelings about watching this. On one hand I AM hoping it's portrayed in a realistic way, but on the other hand, will that make it just too hard to watch, especially since I'm in pre-freak out Oncologist visit mode? I may DVR it or catch a later viewing time. I watched the promo and it looked very emotional.........................
Sharon
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I'm interested to watch it mostly because I love several of the actresses and I'd probably watch them in anything (Rosario Dawson, Jeanne Tripplehorn, Patricia Clarkson). One of the producers said the project was her tribute to her friend Laura Ziskin (studio exec, producer, founder of "Stand Up to Cancer"), who died of BC at age 61 this past summer -- so maybe some reality will enter in -- though it is Hollywood and Lifetime, so their idea of reality may be a bit skewed...
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I had DVR'd it and just watched it and overall I liked it. It did get me crying in a couple of spots. I could relate to all the women in some ways so, I liked how they showed different stories. The end left you thinking Cheyene died and I wish they would have addressed that more so, everyone could see reality though. I loved Mia!!
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I just watched the movie, also had DVR'd it. Overall I enjoyed it but my biggest complaint. They made it look like if you made it 5 years you should celebrate because you were now a survivor. Everything I know about us ER+ gals is that we may recur at 10 years or even more.
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Very true JudyO, I didn't think of that but they did do that.
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I haven't watched it yet, but there is another thread with positive opinions on it. However, the harsh critic (me) needs to see it and judge for myself. So I will watch it when I get the chance.
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I watched it by myself last night, with aid of some wine and raw cookie dough, and I will admit to some crying. It's that time of the month and my nerves have been a little raw this month already. Hell, this whole year. Anyway, I did find it all a bit Hollywood, with all the beautiful actresses and happy endings. They did not show a death except to subtly suggest it near the end, and they did make it seem like after 5 years, you would never have anything to worry about ever again. I'd never heard of that Kiss the Wall thing, either. I just though everyone looked so pretty and put-together - nobody was fretting over missed work because they suddenly had a million DR appointments, nobody was worried about money or dealing with insurance companies, nobody was rushed during Dr visits or confused about treatment options, nobody had a difficult recovery from surgery (or surgeries) or worried about the side effects of hormone treatment, or burned and blistered from radiation. I mean, they barely showed any effects of chemotherapy. It was quite sanitized.
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Natters - you summed up my thoughts on the movie too. I wish it had been a bit more realistic.
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Well the bitter critic (me) watched it and basically cried through the whole thing...The first one was soo sad, the way they left that poor small child out of it but the lack of emotion reminded me of some of my family members reaction to my cancer and that made me sad. Then the second one with the scars, and the loving husband that made me sad, then the third one with the women with the horrible husband who left, who had stage IV and then some-how went into a cure like remission, found love and ended up traveling, etc...having a wonderful gift....a second chance at life. That made me sad because in reality, the chances of that happening would be very slim. She would have a horrible husband, he would leave and she would be battling cancer alone and possibly live a long time, but not in the way she was living...with hair....and incredible health and vitality. The movie was all about hope really and that is good. Most of them survived (accept for the young beautiful one? Was it insinuated that she did not make it as she wasn't there...so they left this ugliness out of it...because though it is sad when anyone dies from this disease, it is particularly sad when a very young person has it and perishes from it). I would say for a made for TV movie, it was pretty good and touched on a lot of emotions...but it left a lot of the real ugliness of it all out...but still for a TV movie it was done well and it was beautiful to watch. I will give it a 5 out of 10..
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