October's Daily Encounters with "pink stuff"

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  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011
  • orangemat
    orangemat Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2011

    Fabulous blog post!

  • Sassa
    Sassa Member Posts: 1,588
    edited October 2011

    BDG,

    I recognize the eggs: Eggland's, which is the brand I usually buy.  I'm not buying them this month as I refuse to look at pink ribbons every time I open my refrigerator.

    When I saw the first Eggland container on display, I made a point of telling the store manager, who happened to be standing at the egg refrigerator case, why I wasn't buying them or any product in the store that had pink.

    I also suggested that they move the pink display of "BC Awareness " junk to an area away from the front door where it didn't slam you in the face as you came in.

    While there was nothing a store can do about some of the normal labels going pink, I did notice the pink entry display has been moved to be a lot less conspicuous.

  • pickle
    pickle Member Posts: 1,409
    edited October 2011

    This article in the Huffington post was written is support of Pink Warriors. I don't make the connection of this article to breast cancer month at all. Is iit just me or do others find this completely insensitive. Read some of the comments to the article....I am so disgusted



    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/lee-woodruff/the-many-splendors-of-boo_b_1000833.html

  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited October 2011

    Pickle....I couldn't even finish reading it all....seriously???? How does that article help raise awareness? And could it be anymore degrading....especially to the "pink warriors" whom most likely have lost their breasts to BC..... Thanks for sharing....the huffington post should be ashamed!!!

  • orangemat
    orangemat Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2011

    The article is supposed to be light-hearted. I get that. But sometimes you're (you, me, anyone) just not in a joking mood. In a different time, and maybe in a world where breast cancer didn't exist, specifically in our faces like this, it could be seen as amusing. Eh, just walk on by...

  • pickle
    pickle Member Posts: 1,409
    edited October 2011

    I agree it was meant to be lighthearted. The fact that it's dedicated to "pink warriors" that are scarred from lumpectomies, mastectomies etc is completely off base. A story usually has a connection to the topic .in this case I don't see any connection showing how this is supposed to be supportive. After reading some readres comments..clearly they didn't get that either.

  • buzzcutbeauty
    buzzcutbeauty Member Posts: 5
    edited October 2011

    Wonder what we get to see out there on the 13th for metastatic breast cancer day?!  The ribbon for that is black, pink, and/or black and pink.  Me, personally, I never did care for pink, love the color black, and don't want to be color-coded any more than I want to be told what my statistics are.

  • grayeyes
    grayeyes Member Posts: 664
    edited October 2011

    mdg,

    Those are fun photos!  I, too, am sick of all the pink.  When I'm sitting in a waiting room with other oncology patients, I feel as if we're all in the same boat.  But, my type of cancer is receiving much more attention.  And is all the attention finding a cure?  No, it's just bringing more attention to it so that we can't even go shopping to get away from breast cancer.  Ironically, when I'm at home or somewhere else away from pink ribbons, I often am so caught up in living that I forget I'm fighting cancer, even though I still have to cover my head with a cap. 

  • LivCar
    LivCar Member Posts: 157
    edited October 2011

    ok - that halloween costume made me gag with laughter.  It's freakin ridiculous.  Anyone see the movie Five?  I'm so hesitant to buy into anything they're selling this month.  It'll likely just get me depressed!!

  • Booboo2
    Booboo2 Member Posts: 59
    edited October 2011

    Why aren't other forms of cancer getting this much attention?  My mom died many years ago from colorectal cancer, but I don't see any events called "Run for Rectums" or anything like that. I guess it all depends on what part of the body people want to talk about, but where there is still a taboo, that is precisely where the most action is needed.

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    I had a visit to Walmart today to pick up a few items and had some pink encounters.  Enjoy!

     You can now Crap for the Cure:

     

    Yes, please drink our water in BPA bottles...that cause Breast Cancer and we will donate to the cause:

     More yogurt.....yes, please eat our hormone filled yogurt that causes breast cancer and we will donate towards a cure:

  • michelleo13
    michelleo13 Member Posts: 342
    edited October 2011

    Pickle141, I'm speechless! Unbelievable.

    I went to the store today to buy mushrooms and guess what...they were packaged in a pink tray instead of the usual blue one.  AAAGGHH!  It's everywhere!

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    Does someone really want a Pink Swiffer Wet Jet???? Just curious....

  • Sheypres
    Sheypres Member Posts: 35
    edited October 2011

    I too am a pinktober hater!  Maybe because it it so new to me as I just started chemo last month.  My favorites are the pink cleats on the pro footbal players.  I might feel beeter about it when I'm all done with treatment but for now I don't need a reminder about BC>

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2012

    Michelle

    that's the BEST YET - mushrooms in a PINK tray.  DId you laugh out loud when you saw them?????I would have - unless I screamed NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO instead Wink

  • michelleo13
    michelleo13 Member Posts: 342
    edited October 2011

    SunflowersMA, it was pretty hard not to laugh. I know mushrooms are supposed to be good for us, but that's going a bit too far!

  • ShannonR
    ShannonR Member Posts: 307
    edited October 2011

    MDG - the best is the slogan on the Swifter "cleaning for a reason"  Yeah, that is really going to motivate people to clean their house.

  • JanS
    JanS Member Posts: 20
    edited October 2011

    I have never liked the color pink, and now I pretty much hate it.  A well-meaning co-worker gave me a pink ribbon pin.  I told her I wasn't a pink person, but I accepted it because I knew her heart was in the right place.  But when I recently cleaned my office, I "lost" the pin - it "fell" into the trash.

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    I am glad I don't have to go to any other stores tomorrow....that was enough pink for the week!

  • orangemat
    orangemat Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2011

    I went to Michael's today, and when the cashier started to say "Would you like to donate to...." I got all stiff inside, expecting her to ask me to donate to BC research. I actually started formulating my response in my head, before she finished speaking, wondering if I should be nasty or not. Turns out she was asking for a donation to the Girls and Boys Club, and would I buy a package of pencils for a dollar. Whew! Come to think of it, I really didn't notice anything pink screaming out at me in the store.... needless to say, I bought the package of pencils. :)

  • cycle-path
    cycle-path Member Posts: 1,502
    edited October 2011

    Run for Rectums! Let's do it!

    GAWD I love this thread. 

  • CLC
    CLC Member Posts: 1,531
    edited October 2011

    This pink crap was especially hard just before my surgery.  My children (dd age 7 and ds age 10) and I were out getting stuff for their halloween costumes (trying to get everything out of the way before surgery), and we got bombarded with pink ribbons.  My daughter asked about the ribbons.  My son read the label and turned to me to explain.  My poor worried stressed out children couldn't get their Halloween stuff without having to have a big discussion about it.  We were just trying to do something exciting and fun together before I had to be incapacitated (and they feared much worse).

    We did the best we could.  (The three of us got disgusted with it together).  My  son was particularly upset with the food in pink plastic...as we have been trying to remove all plastic from our lives for a year on the basis that it has so many carcinogenic chemicals.  I hate to have to pass on such disgust with the world, but it was our only defense. 

    It pisses me off.

  • LizinKS
    LizinKS Member Posts: 65
    edited October 2011

    Dear mdg, The Pepto pink gets less irritating over the years, but you're right about finding it irritating in the first couple of years - perhaps even longer for some. (Stage 4 patients find the emphasis on awareness very hard, They want a cure!) If I see a woman over 40 whom I may or may not know pondering over the various pink displays, I just jump right in, tell them my IDC was discovered early and that I am sure getting annual mammograms has made it possible for me to be a breast cancer survivor. I remind them to be sure to get their annual mammograms. Haven't had a bad response yet. A woman whom I talked to yesterday in the grocery store had been putting off her mammogram, even ignoring her physician's suggestions to have one done.. I hope she will schedule one soon!

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited October 2011

    People saying that pink is annoying but at least money goes for a good cause should NOT assume that to be the case. There are pink fraud scams out there.

    And, again, the lies ("mammograms save lives") and selfishness and self-centerdness really annoy me. WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER CANCERS???

    Thank God I don't have pink in my life or my line of sight.

    Again: WHAT ABOUT THE OTHER CANCERS???

    At least some of us with BC get an early warning sign by feeling a lump and nothing else (I said some - not all). What about lung and pancreatic cancer patients? Brain cancer symptoms - if only those were as harmless as a lump.

    Pink sexualizes and infantilizes women and puts the real feminist movement back by decades. I don't need to be "aware" that it is all about "saving the Ta-tas" or about improving the bottom line of Komen or making Bank of America, Yoplait and KFC look less damaging to human health. Innocent

  • Booboo2
    Booboo2 Member Posts: 59
    edited October 2011

    It is not a lie that mammograms save lives.  My breast cancer was caught in the early stages because I was having regular mammograms. I realize that mammograms are not always successful at catching cancer early, especially in younger women with dense breasts, so it can be truthfully said that mammograms do not save ALL lives. But having regular mammos does reduce your chances of dying from breast cancer.

    I think we tend to judge by our own experience.  If you had a bad experience with mammograms, you probably don't think much of them, but my experience with them was very good and I will continue to defend them.

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    My mammogram did not catch my lump...there needs to be even better screening for women. 

  • PLJ
    PLJ Member Posts: 373
    edited February 2012
  • sweetcorn
    sweetcorn Member Posts: 188
    edited October 2011

    Booboo2--I had a small area picked up on a mammogram, and had a diagnostic and biopsy.  IDC was the diagnosis, so yes, mine was caught early this way.  I met a woman on Saturday (she was a Komen speaker's bureau speaker), who did not have mammograms, because she said she didn't have a family history.  Hers was more advanced when it was found.

    We do need a cure, and better screening, as not all cancers and breasts are the same!  

    My DH was treated for colon cancer last year, and I do see the need for more emphasis on other cancer screenings.  His was more advanced, and caught because of a ruptured appendix.  

    Jane

  • GodsPioneerWoman
    GodsPioneerWoman Member Posts: 17
    edited October 2011

      I absolutely love this thread and oh my goodness I needed it!  Thank you, Thank You, Thank You ladies.  Pinktober has NOT been a good month for me to reflect upon as my cancer was discovered in the month of October and I have had BC surgeries in October as well. I'm all for pink products when a considerable amount of the proceeds actually goes toward breast cancer research or helps to raise awareness or fund mammograms, etc. But I think the whole Pinktober products have gotten ridiculously out of hand and have become all about profitering!

        Now for my recent story about why I don't like the emphasis on Pinktober. One of my closest friends recently posted on Facebook that she was going to die her hair pink for breast cancer awareness, because "she's always wanted to do that". People encouraged her to do so and so she did.  She did not however say that she was going to do it to honor her Mother (who is a breast cancer survivor) or because she has a close friend (*me) who is currently battling Stage IV Breast Cancer.  She posted pics of her with her pink hair and I had to read comments from others such as: "Oh you are so brave. I would never have had the courage to do that." Brave?! Really?! That's being brave?? I thought being brave was being hooked up to a chemo IV 3 out of 4 weeks a month. Or being a single parent while battling chronic cancer. Or actually losing your hair due to chemo. I guess I don't know what 'brave' means after all.    THANKS FOR LETTING ME RANT.

        

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