October's Daily Encounters with "pink stuff"

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  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    Otter...I hear ya!  It makes breast cancer look like it's a happy hour and fun or something......

    Blech!!!

  • thepinkbirdie
    thepinkbirdie Member Posts: 212
    edited October 2011

    otter, i'm sorry!  i didn't mean to make you sick!

    i can't figure out how hell breast cancer became a party theme.

  • florencedollar
    florencedollar Member Posts: 2
    edited October 2011

    Hello ladies!  We were discussing this thread on another cancer forum, and I see that CARPET PADDING has not been added to your list yet.   No kidding!  I install carpet for a living, and the mill simply replaced the padding that used to be red, with this pink padding.   I thought it was a joke when I loaded it on my truck, and upon unrolling it, I saw this... all over the padding.   Wow!  It is pretty though, but the customers don't even know they are getting it.

  • otter
    otter Member Posts: 6,099
    edited October 2011

    Carpet padding???  Who knew? 

    Thanks.... I think.  :)

    otter

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    Florence....OMG! I just put an offer in on a new house....thank God it has wood floors so I don't need to buy carpet.....I would have to tell them to take that padding out of my house!!!!

  • orangemat
    orangemat Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2011

    If only the woman in that poster was sporting a flat chest....

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited October 2011

    Thank you all, for the laughs - and tears!

    Florencedollar - thank you for sharing. I think I would have ruined that padding by throwing up all over it, so it's lucky I don't work in the field. :) I am also wondering if Susan Komen for the Cure is going to sue those people for "stealing" its patented "For the cure" words. I'd love to be in the court gallery shouting, "there IS not cure!"

    That Lady Smith and Wesson is priceless. Published it myself last year. There is a picture of a pink Uzi somewhere as well.

    Marie - that poster is one I didn't laugh at, but it's not your fault. It is good to know what is out there so we can know what to complain against.  I'd like those fools to know that breast cancer gave me nice breasts but it's not about the breasts. It's about the bones, liver, lung and brain.

    The symbol of breast cancer should simply be the human anatomy ravaged by cancer. And the same should be the case for ALL cancers.

    I like these threads and conversations we have. They are cathartic and a nice way to express things we can share with so few people. The biggest benefit I have derived from this cancer support forum is to be able to exchange ideas about how you perceive your illness and how you have to cling to your identity while society wants to rip it away from you and recast you as a poor little pink victim instead of just you, but with bc.

    Pink October is an attempt to steal our identities by branding us as breast cancer "she-roes" so that a few people will make money and many more people will feel better about themselves because they are tithing to the cause (even if they ignore the plight of their terminally ill neighbor with lung cancer). The research goes on all year.

    Thanks to the pink movement, I have been embarrassed to tell people that I have had breast cancer. I don't want to be connected to this ridiculous propaganda. I still want to be me.

    Anyway, this turned into a rant and I just wanted to say thanks for the laughs. Keep the pictures and stories coming!

  • NannaBaby
    NannaBaby Member Posts: 510
    edited October 2011

    I'm glad I live in the country and rarely go to town! Lol

    The pink stuff they sell can drive me crazy!!!  It's great to see the number of companies donating to the cause, but I get p'd off when I know they market pink to make more profit!!

    I wanna print a tshirt with mastectomy scars on the front!

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    maybe the woman in the poster could have no nipples, a chemo port or scar from one and no hair.....more of a true picture of BC than that poster.

  • orangemat
    orangemat Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2011

    NannaBaby, they've already done it: mastectomy t-shirt

    And there's also this one: breast cancer t-shirt

  • cycle-path
    cycle-path Member Posts: 1,502
    edited October 2011

    I was LOL over the carpet padding!

    Ok, let's talk about this: the Save the TaTas movement. I resent it. The implication is that once our breasts are gone, we're no longer worthwhile. That if we lose our breasts we're nothing. That the TaTas are the only thing worth saving.

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    Once they are gone it doesn't mean anything...it can come back and people don't understand the reality of that.  There is NO cure.  Most people probably don't know that.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2012

    Florence ;)

    CARPET PADDING - LOL.  I'm gullible, but I would NOT have believed that one unless you posted a picture.  I guess now, I really WILL believe anythiing.  So grateful to have you all here to laugh with, otherwise I'd be crying along....

    IS IT NOVEMBER YET????????  STOP ASKING ME TO CLICK, please, just STOP!

  • Eema
    Eema Member Posts: 493
    edited October 2011

    Oh, I am SO glad to see this thread, now that we are almost a third of the way through Pinktoberfest!  I don't like it one bit.  Here's my blog piece about it, for what it's worth:

    http://cancerchmancerpoopoopoo.wordpress.com/

    The  pink bagels get me the most.  That, and when I find things at Big Lots that are pink...by the time it gets to Big Lots, how much of the purchase price actually goes to support BC research?  And who tracks it?  I don't mind the awareness issue, yes, it should happen all the time, not just in October, but what really gets me is how commercial it is!  How is that pink extension cord going to help me? 

  • Booboo2
    Booboo2 Member Posts: 59
    edited October 2011

    Cycle-path, I'm sorry it took me so long to get back to you.  I was celebrating the Canadian Thanksgiving!

    You wondered how much money goes from each sale to breast cancer research.  That would vary depending on the promotion, but a grocery store in my area is selling chocolates for breast cancer and donating half the proceeds to the breast cancer foundation. That's pretty good, but even a smaller amount would add up if a lot of people buy the product. I don't see that as exploitation; I see it as a win-win situation where everybody is getting something.  In some cases breast cancer research may not be getting as much as it should be, but nobody is actually losing.  I agree with you that 5 cents on each 10 dollars wouldn't be sufficient.

    And yes, the gun picture that you showed is exploitative.  A product that is supporting research on a disease like breast cancer should be appropriate, or at least relatively harmless. 

  • Booboo2
    Booboo2 Member Posts: 59
    edited October 2011

    I haven't seen anything in my area that's as extreme as some of the pictures shown in this thread.  Maybe the Canadian pink campaign is less aggressive than the American one. That poster is revolting, that I agree with!  They're making breast cancer look like a really cute and fashionable disease, and it just gives no sense of the reality.

    And I agree with the poster who hates Save the Ta Ta campaigns.  It's lives that need to be saved, not Ta Ta's.  This is demeaning to women.

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    OMG...love the Big Lots comment!  I went to Trader Joe's today and that is a pink free zone...I did not see one thing pink.  It was peaceful......

  • Alyson
    Alyson Member Posts: 4,308
    edited October 2011

    We have a pink bus here but it does stay pink all year. I don't like the exploitation of BC by some firms. Like Canada I don't think its as aggressive campaigning here but things like pink paint brushes and tools make me laugh. I would prefer to donate to the Breast Cancer Research Fund directly, then I know where my money is going.

    I did the other day rebuff someone who asked if I was going to donate by saying that I thought I had given enough. She replied that you could never give enough to such a good cause and I replied that you could, 'like a breast, your general health and having lymphoedema'. Poor thing didn't know where to look and then said 'but you can't have had cancer as you look so good!!!!'

  • etherize
    etherize Member Posts: 423
    edited October 2011

    cycle-path, I agree with you about the "Save the Ta-Tas" -- as if boobs are the most important thing about bc.  I want to yell at these people, "IT'S CANCER, FOLKS!"  It's NOT cute!  I also dislike the "Feel your boobies" slogan.  Sheesh!  I think these slogans are demeaning ... and frankly, before bc, I'd just ignore them because of it.

    I also agree that it's exploitative and cynical -- "pinkwashing" for sure.  I was in Wal-Mart the other day buying batteries and they were PINK!  I thought that was pretty dumb ... until I saw the hilarious photos on this thread!  Thanks for the laugh!

    BTW, I may have to change my profile photo ... just happened to be one I had on my computer -- it's a photo I took a few years ago of my cat and roses from my garden.  Didn't even "get" that the roses were pink until a few weeks ago. 

  • 1Athena1
    1Athena1 Member Posts: 6,696
    edited October 2011

    Trader Joe's freedom from pink is another reason to love that place.

  • Chickadee
    Chickadee Member Posts: 4,467
    edited October 2011

    That poster is the most disgusting exploitation of Breast Cancer I have ever seen. Those people behind that deserve to be publicly humiliated. Uggggghhhhhh.

  • amontro
    amontro Member Posts: 504
    edited October 2011

    Michelle, your post just hit me.  I just had to jump in because I was floored at the thought of starting a bc scrapbook of our memories:  mastectomy, radiation, chemo, pills, nausea.  Should the scrapbook include before and after pictures?  How about our heads in the toilet with a green face? How about radiation burns and gagging from not being able to swallow? I have to stop; I'm making myself sick just thinking about it.

  • michelleo13
    michelleo13 Member Posts: 342
    edited October 2011

    Amontro, I am an AVID scrapbooker and have scrapbooked every vacation, holiday and every highlight of my kids' lives, but I just can't begin to imagine what a "BC journey" scrapbook would look like. I was so tempted to send an email to my Creative Memories consultant saying "Seriously...you've got to be kidding!" Maybe I will...if no-one tells them they'll never know how ridiculous it really is!



    More items spotted in the supermarket this afternoon: Country Harvest Harvest-of-Hope bread, Rubbermaid pink "Take-alongs" containers.

  • Annabella58
    Annabella58 Member Posts: 2,466
    edited October 2011

    holy cow.  I am pretty speechless at the displays....

    (Yoghurt if organic is fine..ask your onc.  I wouldn't live on it tho)

    I have sort of mellowed on this stuff.  I know my kid and my friends buy it all and it's something they can do to help, they feel.  Yes, not much money gets there, but if it makes one woman go and get the darn mammogram, it's worth it to me.

    Is it tasteful?  Nope.  Is October a bit much?  Yep.  But I choose to try to think of it as kindly meant and helping someone's loved one feel like they can do SOMETHING.

    I draw the line at the mastectomy T shirt....WTF?  Why?  That's just weird to do.

    November will come ladies.  I just sort of keep my head down and tell myself they mean well.

    xo

  • kate2011
    kate2011 Member Posts: 121
    edited October 2011

    I have my first mammo since the surgery next week.  I'm stressing out about it so much!  And all the pink stuff in my face everyday is not helping.  I really hate thinking about breast cancer every single day.  Will my mammo be clear?  Is the cancer to come back?  When is it going to come back?  Will it be worse next time?  Will it spread?  Can't this pink stuff just get out of my face so I can forget about cancer for one day?!?

    I can't even buy groceries or go to work without being asked for a donation.  Sometimes, I want to just say "Oh, no thanks!  I've already spent about $5,000 out of pocket this year on breast cancer, my credit cards are max'd out now, so I'm all tapped out!"  It's no one's fault.  I'm just grouchy & stressed out about the upcoming mammo.

    I did help raise some money for the cause.  I hope it will help someone.  Cancer sucks.  I hate pink right now, but I'm glad others have the strength to talk about it right now.  I'm glad I can just vent here.

  • coraleliz
    coraleliz Member Posts: 1,523
    edited October 2011

    I'm either dense in more ways than one or have developed an immunity to pink. It has always been my least favorite color. The only pink display I've seen was small & at the local Von's store(Safeway everywhere but southern california). The only way I know it's pink month is that I've read it here on BC.org. The pink ribbons always seemed year round. I walked thru the local CVS to pick up my Tamox Rx & saw only orange. So, it sounds like pink October is very ineffective. The public has reached it's saturation level & all it does is infuriate those dealing with BC. Time to ditch it. Changing the focus to research probably won't help. The saturation level has been reached. Not usually a good idea to throw the baby out with the bath water but maybe in this case a brand new start is needed. IMO

  • florencedollar
    florencedollar Member Posts: 2
    edited October 2011

    I do have to defend the carpet padding...   even though it seemed ridiculous.. I went to Mohawks website and found this... to date, they have donated more than 3.7 million dollars towards research towards a cure for breast cancer.  I cannot figure out how to insert the link, but if you google, Mohawk Smart Cushion Susan Kohan breast cancer, you can find the website and read about it.

     Obviously, it is a smart business move on there part, but still, any bit of money donated towards research, is a good thing, right?

     Still, it was odd to see it all over the carpet padding.. haha..

     BTW, one of my best friends is a BC survivor, and she cannot wait to use the reply, "I already donated one of my breasts" when she is asked to give a donation.  

     Also, my little sister, at age 46, with no family history, and no obvious symptoms before the ER visit that we assumed was appendicitis, is one year out from her stage 4 colon cancer diagnosis... and after a roller coaster year, with major colon and liver surgery, she is showing no evidence of the disease.

    I am of the belief that if we find a cure for one cancer... and it might be BC, with all of the publicity, we will be on the road to a cure for the rest of them.

    Take care, and best wishes to us all...

    Bigsis

     

  • LivCar
    LivCar Member Posts: 157
    edited October 2011

    Hey Maria!! I hear ya! tv us off, radio off.  i'm sick of the pink ads.  I flew on Delta this week ... it was every where.  Even the flight attendants were pushing pink.  It's ridiculous.  There's a canadian documentary called Pink Ribbon Inc.  it's about the corporates being the big winners in the pink campaign.  There's also a formal anti-pink group over here.  I spend so much time putting cancer out of my head only to be reminded constantly by all the pink! ugh ...

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    OK ladies...I have some more photos to share....these were sent to me by some other friends here from BC.org.

    Football game half time:

    One of my friend's kids came home with this shirt:

    A display in Kohl's...they even have pink readers!

    I think this was from Kohl's too....

    Grocery shopping.....do pears REALLY care??

    This is one way to ruin breakfast...blech!!!

    Even the vet's office is going pink:

    Just thought you ladies may enjoy these :)

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited October 2011

    Oh and in case you still don't know what you want to be for Halloween....this may be an option:

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