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  • cmbear
    cmbear Member Posts: 1,086
    edited October 2011

    Thanks Jo for the link. It was great to read about the Texas girls from another perspective.

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011

    I read the article.  Thought the reporter did a nice job with it.

    Hi, Meece!  How's it going?

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011

    Oh, by the way...Early stagers, some anti-oxident news:  C & E, may be good; Beta-carotene, lutein, & A, maybe not.  Maybe, maybe, maybe.

    Antioxidants tied to mixed effects in breast cancer

    It's a reminder to not take antioxidents during chemo or rad too. 

  • LovesChristmas-Barb
    LovesChristmas-Barb Member Posts: 706
    edited October 2011
    That's an interesting article elimar. The maybe stuff does drive me crazy! But I have a friend who keeps insisting that I drink carrot juice everyday...I should tell them what this article said about beta-carotene! Wink
  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited October 2011

    It scares me how gullible and naive some women can be!!! Why in HECK would someone take an antioxident when they're pouring poison into their system to kill something else?? Makes it all a waste of technology (and money!), doesn't it? I also read recently of women who used the cold caps getting mets to their scalp because that area didn't get the chemo! Why try to change what has taken years to prove? I don't profess to be a doctor, so I listen to their advice. Then I do research if necessary and make an educated decision. Simple really.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited October 2011

    ...and what a SLAM against beta-carotene!!!!!!!!!!!

  • madpeacock
    madpeacock Member Posts: 369
    edited October 2011

    I'm 4 weeks + 1 day out from my lumpectomy and SNB. My range of motion is fine, but I have numbness in my armpit (try to shave with that feeling!) and a pulling sensation down the inside of my arm. My two incisions are both on the breast, about 1/2 inch apart, so nowhere near the armpit. Still have aching, tingling, little aches and pains, and the incisions and nipple are hypersensitive. So weird!

    I take a bunch of supplements, including C, D, & E, but I also take antioxidants. Damned if you do/damned if you don't??

    Meeting with genetics and MO tomorrow morning! A month out from surgery and I still don't have a treatment plan, but I'm glad they're being thorough. Keep running into people who tell me that I look great - well, yeah, I'm not doing anything to not feel great!

    Happy Birthday to MEEEE! Lol...49 today. Whoo-hoo! Tongue out Went for a good run this morning, did some shopping, and heading out to dinner tonight. A good day! 

    joanna Cool 

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 8,543
    edited October 2011

    joanna

                                      

  • orangemat
    orangemat Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2011

    Happy Birthday madpeacock! What a great birthday present to yourself, a good run! I ran today as well, first really "free" feeling run in what feels like ages... I guess I'm finally getting past the anger and disappointment of realizing I'm going to need another surgery. Life is good at this moment, and so I'll take it! :)

    Oh, and I had that pulling sensation in my arm for quite a while after my MX, even with PT twice a week for almost 5 months now.

  • LovesChristmas-Barb
    LovesChristmas-Barb Member Posts: 706
    edited October 2011
    Happy birthday Joanna! I hope you have a wonderful, blessed day!
  • juliet62
    juliet62 Member Posts: 3,412
    edited October 2011

    happy birthday, hope you got cake!

  • Kay_G
    Kay_G Member Posts: 3,345
    edited October 2011

    Happy Birthday madpeacock!  I hope you had a great day!

  • cmbear
    cmbear Member Posts: 1,086
    edited October 2011

    Happy Birthday Joanna!!!

    Sounds like a great day so far!! Hope you got pampered!!! 

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011
                                           
  • marlegal
    marlegal Member Posts: 2,264
    edited October 2011

    did we get an answer to the mystery pic yet?  not feeling great tonight so off to the couch ... just ate too much I think :)

  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 8,543
    edited October 2011

    What is the mystery pic and who is the lucky winner this week?

  • nancygv55
    nancygv55 Member Posts: 32
    edited October 2011

    Happy Birthday to you, Madpeacock!

  • prayrv
    prayrv Member Posts: 941
    edited October 2011

    Happy Birthday Madpeacock!  You are also the winner of this week's mystery pic!  It is actually the  cable from my printer to my PC so you were the closest.  I don't have the actual clear picture of it as it is at work. 

    Have a wonderful week ladies!!!!

    Trish

  • stjude10
    stjude10 Member Posts: 390
    edited October 2011

    Wow, miss a day, miss a lot! You gals have been busy. I'm gonna try to catch up.

    Claire, my goodness, the treats you post look fabulous. BTW, I love how you tried to pass the sweets as "fruit". Love it!

    Happy birthday, and congrats to MadpeacockTongue out

    The last few days have been my best since mx on 9-7. My DD had her sr. night for band Fri. At one point, didn't think we'd be celebrating that. Ever. The weather's been beautiful here all weekend, and I've tried to spend it outside, and not in my recliner. Still dealing w/numbness and tightness where snb was. Meeting w/PT tomorrow. Hoping that will help.

    Wishing all my virtual sisters a wonderful week ahead.

  • madpeacock
    madpeacock Member Posts: 369
    edited October 2011

    Wow - tons of birthday wishes AND I guessed the mystery pic! It looked just like the cable running from my Mac to the printer. Thank you so much for everything! I can't eat cake as I am gluten/dairy/egg intolerant (thank you Hashimoto's....) but we went out to eat tonight with close friends and I enjoyed some good food and a tequila sampler - to each his/her own...my friends were joking about putting tequila in my chemo bags - hey, if it works....

    Orangemat - I started running again recently after my diagnosis and surgery and not being able to get in the pool. Running is the only time when I feel like I am in control... Hope you can keep it going up to and soon after your upcoming surgery.

    We have had beautiful fall weather here the last several days, but the clouds came in today and rain is predicted for the next few. Bleah. But, leaves are starting to change and it really looks like fall now. 

    Hope you all have a great week. I'm now getting a little nervous about my appointments tomorrow, but still would like to have a plan in place, so ready to get going...

    joannaCool 

  • mostlymom
    mostlymom Member Posts: 466
    edited October 2011

    we'll be with you joanna - all the way !!

  • KittyGirl2011
    KittyGirl2011 Member Posts: 537
    edited October 2011

    Happy B-day madpeacock! 

    Well, I had a bad day today, first one since after rads were done.  Lots of zingers from the inscision site to the armpit and down my arm.  I'm sure it was nerves healing, but sure was a bother today at work.  Ended up taking a vicodin and leaving early.  Was weird that it came after so long with no problems.  I had been lifting more at work now so maybe it was my body telling me to lay off the lifting yet.  Oh well, tomorrow is my day off.  YEAH!!!   Kitty

  • orangemat
    orangemat Member Posts: 645
    edited October 2011

    I had to go back three pages to figure out what this mystery picture was that all of you were guessing about. I never saw it when it was posted! Guess I missed a bit with the holiday over the weekend. Nothing like a good 25-hour fast to mess with your internet habits! ;)

    madpeacock, hope you had a great birthday yesterday. Regarding running, I was back to running barely a week after my UMX. It was a slow and easy jog, and the TE really didn't mind it, surprisingly. By the end of the seven weeks before I had the exchange procedure to put in the implant, I was back to running 40 mpw. Then the second surgery took me down and I had to recover all over again. On September 4, seven and a half weeks post-op, I ran my first race: a half marathon, and believe it or not, I PR'd! Now I'm not fast, but I was thrilled with my time of 2:03:09. I've run a 10k, another HM and a 4-mile race since, and I feel good to go. I'm even back to doing the speed workouts at the track with my running club. Yeah, it really does make me feel like I'm in control of my body. It's who I am.

    Sorry about the running soapbox there, I should save that for the running thread here (which I was so happy to find the other day!). Running is a way to stay positive amidst the crap that life throws at you. Oh, did I also mention I'm trained as a yoga teacher? ;)

    Have a wonderful day, ladies!

  • Meece
    Meece Member Posts: 19,483
    edited October 2011

    Albeit belated...

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited October 2011

    I WISH I could run!!! I tried so many times. I would love to feel the burn in a good way and not after a block! I never met the "wall" and broke through...sigh. It was so unusual that I even got tested in the hospital 30 odd years ago. I was on bikes and compression chambers with tubes taped to my mouth and all the docs did were knock on the machines saying, "It's impossible to be showing this!" I never did find out whether it was cardiac or pulmonary....sigh.

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011

    Good job, on the pic, madpeacock!  That was probably the icing on the proverbial cake for birthday weekend.  (Even tho' we will keep forgetting about your diet and keep posting cakes, you will see tequila shots lined up in the thread from time to time.)

    orangemet,  Your running is great, as is the return to all things in "old normal," but I do have to ask what PR'd means?  Feel free to post your running exploits here, as we in our armchairs can vicariously enjoy the thrill of victory without the agony of "da feet."  (Amazingly, I was back to my pre-surgery level of lame humor within just days!)

    [My keyboard is now dropping letters, so my posts will need more editing than the usual 50% of them.]

  • NativeMainer
    NativeMainer Member Posts: 10,462
    edited October 2011

    The stretches that got posted earlier also help keep the pectoralis muscle that gets damaged by radiation from tightening up and limiting shoulder movement.  I"m almost 5 years past rads and still have to do them almost every day to keep the motion in my shoulder and to keep it from shriveling up so much it hurts all the time. 

  • elimar86861
    elimar86861 Member Posts: 7,416
    edited October 2011

    I do my best on this thread, really I do, but I'm not too good about observing every holiday with a mention or nice graphic.  So, apologies to all Jewish sister on this thread that I was so remiss on your recent holidays.  It's kind of a "toot your own horn" around here.  If you have something you are celebrating, let us know.  Get right in our faces.  You can never be too obvious around here.

    Missing both Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, made me consult a calendar for the first time this month.  I see it's Canadian Thanksgiving...so how's it goin', Barbe, and other sister of the big red maple leaf?  It's also Columbus Day.  Remember when that was a much bigger thing, like back in grade school?  Now the kids all know he wasn't really the first to the New World, but they haven't yet taken away his day.  If there are any Viking-descended sisters who have some attitude to vent today, it's understandable.

    Well, I just found out that Oct. 9th is Leif Ericson day (missed that too,) which, on a calendar, means that Columbus Day might fall on the same day, but never occur earlier than Leif's day.  Well played, my Nordic sisters!

  • walker2222
    walker2222 Member Posts: 558
    edited October 2011

    Victoria - As sherry said follow your heart and listen to your BS.  The factors that helped me choose to do a BMX was the expected size of the tumor, (measured over 3cm on scan, over 5cm on path), the location of the tumor, (mine was on top at the 11:00 position) and if you show signs of possible cancer in the non tumor side.  I am glad I choose BMX because the tumor ended up extending from the 11:00 position to the 1:00 position.  So Lumpectomy was not an option.

    Concerning lymphadema, my Drs said absolute no blood pressue, blood work on that side and use caution when saving your under arm.  I have gone to a PT specialized in lymphadema due to some issues that started right after Rads.  It helped so much, I am a high risk for lymphadem so I take extra messures not mess with my right arm.  A trick one of the techs told me is of course drink lots of water to keep hydrated and at least two days before your blood is drawn, use a stress ball and exersise your arm at least two days prior to your test.

    Sherry - keep praying for you and your dad, hope to see you soon cuz.

  • barbe1958
    barbe1958 Member Posts: 19,757
    edited October 2011

    Okay, the stuffed cats in the pic are still creeping me out....change??? Change is good!!!

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