THIS or THAT Game

sorry neither, oh let me reverse that - both!

(Suzanne, I'm from upstate NY)

Rather be really good at one thing, or pretty good at many things?

soprano

rather watch football or golf (zzzzzzz)?

let's go big

surprises: love 'em or hate 'em?

family

rather plan events or have someone else do it and you just show up

do like potluck food

if you go to a potluck do you like to bring a main dish or a dessert

family-style

for the happy couple: buy a gift or just give money?

usually the registry unless I am inspired.

 Does it seem you attend more weddings or more funerals?  

Not my choice but maybe better than teal or tangerine

Would you plan a wedding at noon or at 6:00 PM? Indoors or outdoors? 

when we married, it was a rush job (not due to pregnancy :) so I just chose 1 best friend, she picked out her own dress for the wedding.  It was something I regretted for many years - not having my 2 other BFF's, sister, etc., in the party.  So, in 1996, we newed our vows in Las Vegas, I had everyone who should have stood up the first time plus several more.  40 friends came out of the ceremony and I think at least 20 stood up!  So, yeah, I'd do the whole shebang.

Get very dressed up to attend a wedding or go casual (as so many do these days)?

Typically curl up alone and try to work through it.....if I can't, I will then reach out.

packing:  able to pack light or end up taking way too much?

lately, stay put. Did a ton of travel when i was younger and wore myself out.

Read non-fiction books from beginning to end, or tend to dive in and skip around?

Tempted to skip ahead but typiclly will just slog through hoping for the exciting parts to come

Find yourself buying books and never reading them or read every book you buy

only just started to toss it aside

like your neighbors or not so much

not so much, they have caused a lot of trouble

 Jeans or sweat pants?

jeans

blouse or Tshirt