6 year cancerfreeversary!!!!

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Gorilla12
Gorilla12 Member Posts: 63

Hi Everyone!

I haven't posted for awhile, however wanted to let everyone know that I am celebrating my 6 year cancerfreeversary!!!! Also, I am getting married this June 4, 2011. My son 16 and daughter 20 are very happy for us. Plus I am getting two new step children boy 13 and girl 16. Between my fiance and myself we also have 3 dogs. It is an amazing adventure and I'm so glad to be here to live it.

I also wanted to share my story and give others hope :-) As my friend would say, take good care,

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  • GuyGirl
    GuyGirl Member Posts: 182
    edited March 2011

    Wonderful News.  One question though.  What date is considered our anniversary date?  The day you finish treatment or the day they remove the cancer?  Just want to know what day to celebrate myself?

  • Gorilla12
    Gorilla12 Member Posts: 63
    edited March 2011
    From date of removal is what my oncologist told meCool
  • sheila888
    sheila888 Member Posts: 25,634
    edited March 2011

     CONGRATULATIONS GorillaWink

    My Oncology nurse said >The day you are DX you become a survivor<

    I celebrate the DX date.

    Which will be 6 years in few days.

  • Latte
    Latte Member Posts: 1,072
    edited March 2011

    congrats gorilla! and not only are you a 6-yr survivor, but you are proof that it is possible to find love after cancer, which is exciting!

  • MonikaV
    MonikaV Member Posts: 201
    edited March 2011
    Congrats Gorilla12!!!!!! So Smile for you!
  • mrsnjband
    mrsnjband Member Posts: 1,409
    edited March 2011

    Congrats Gorilla! Both on celebrations!  NJ

  • ScariedCat
    ScariedCat Member Posts: 58
    edited March 2011

    You go girl!! Fantastic!

  • Meggy
    Meggy Member Posts: 530
    edited April 2011

    Gorilla Congratulations!!!!  I am so happy for you for everything but most of all the 6 years!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Titan
    Titan Member Posts: 2,956
    edited April 2011

    Gorilla..glad to see things are going so well for you..you give us all hope!

  • pennylane
    pennylane Member Posts: 177
    edited April 2011

    So happy for you Gorilla....Thank you for posting the wonderful news...Your story will give so much hope to our newly-dx members....Best wishes, P

  • pamdo
    pamdo Member Posts: 49
    edited April 2011

    yay yay!  thanks so much for sharing, love to hear these survivor stories!

  • katfinn
    katfinn Member Posts: 59
    edited April 2011

    Congrats and thanks for lifting my spirits.  This is my first time here.  I just had my surgery and found out that I am a triple negative.  Can you tell me which chemos you had and for how long?  I'm still figuring this out and I'm very confused.  Thanks for your help (anyone else.. please let me know what worked for your).

  • cazza
    cazza Member Posts: 43
    edited September 2011

    Just giving some hope to my TN sisters out there. I passed my 6 years 2 months ago.

    Yippe  

  • lwarstler
    lwarstler Member Posts: 341
    edited September 2011

    Thanks for sharing...what a great thing to read! I too was recently dx and just had surgery last week. It is so wonderful to read about people who have had TN and no recurrence for any amount of time, but especially longer times like years... Thanks so much for those of you who have shared that! 

    Congratulations on your engagement too! What an uplifting post! 

  • yellowdoglady
    yellowdoglady Member Posts: 349
    edited September 2011

    Huge congratulations, Gorilla!!!

    lwarstler,

    Most of us live full and happy lives.  We have to work harder than others to do that, and not everyone is lucky, but you have a good chance of being just fine after treatment because TNBC does not often survive the treatment, and most of us do.

    I was diagnosed in 11/08.  I married my Sweetie of years last October on the beach in St. Thomas.  What a beautiful day!  I was much like you, except I lost 14 nodes.

    PS  You don't need all those nodes.

  • pennylane
    pennylane Member Posts: 177
    edited September 2011

    Hi everyone ...Add me to the list of 6-year bc survivors as of July 24th....The fifth year was huge and now am trying to integrate back into what life used to be...Looking back...I was never kinder or deeper than I was during those those years which I consider sort of a rebirth... In the beginning I was so sure I was a goner and was just hoping for a couple of years...I spent a great amount of time searching for bc survivors...it was the only thing that gave me hope...And now I report for all those seeking a little reassurance and of course for all the newbies...Have faith...triple negative gets a seriously bad rap....It's just not true...watch...you will see!!!!

  • RJ70
    RJ70 Member Posts: 21
    edited September 2011

    Thank ya'll for posting five years out and more. It is so good to hear happy stories. It really gives me alot of hope. thanks again.

  • AimeeMac
    AimeeMac Member Posts: 241
    edited September 2011

    pennylane - I really needed to hear your words tonight. I am 6 months PFC, and trying to go on with life, but there are some days I am just immobilized with panic about recurrence. Never used to be such a fatalist. I feel like I just survived a 10-month long car wreck, and am only now realizing what hit me. Is that weird? When do you get over the feeling that every twinge means it's back and you're living on borrowed time? Sorry to be so negative, but I'm sure you remember that first year. My tumor was removed with extremely clear margins, then chemo and rads, so I think I have a pretty good chance; if only I could reassure myself of that...

  • antonia1
    antonia1 Member Posts: 135
    edited September 2011

    Thank you for posting your wonderful stories.  They give me so much hope for the future.  I hope to be able to check in 6 years from now, but for now I have to be happy to be here one year from my diagnosis. One little step at the time.

  • Iwillwinthisbattle
    Iwillwinthisbattle Member Posts: 1,076
    edited September 2011

    Yeah!!!! Cheers!

  • livinglarge
    livinglarge Member Posts: 161
    edited September 2011

    Congrats all both milestones.  So good to hear these stories of survival.  Wish more post treatment women would post on this site.

  • LMT
    LMT Member Posts: 8
    edited September 2011

    These survival stories are SO encouraging!  I was diagnosed in February, 2011--had six TAC chemos, then a bilateral mastectomy in July, with negative nodes.  I am seeing my oncologist tomorrow for the first time since my last chemo treatment in June.  I am exercising a lot and trying to eat healthy and stay positive.  I have also had two of my three children get married in the last four months.  This has been a year of good and bad, but the good is winning out! 

  • nwest125
    nwest125 Member Posts: 240
    edited September 2011

    Today will be 1 year from my DX. What a journey this year has been. When I have a bad day or having a pity party my DH tell me " you chose to live and watch our granddaughter grow up" and that really  helps me feel better about myself.

    Nancy

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