Not quite a horder - decluttering

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  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited August 2011

    Storm passed with no significant problem in my area but nearby towns did not fare as well.  Overall however so far people have only lost power, downed trees need to get cleared and flooding subside. 

  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited August 2011

    so glad you're ok gals. it completely went past us in so. Fla. but all my gals here have cked in, our family in philly called when their lights came on tonite, so its all good...

       I made it clear to the clost in the guest room, so its' real progress... most of it is christmas from past years... twwo big trips to goodwill sat!!!yeah!!!!..............3jays

  • hotandcold
    hotandcold Member Posts: 205
    edited August 2011

    Wow, just logged in to see how all of you are doing after Irene.So much flooding damage in NY and VT.  So sad to see the 100 year old covered bridges wash away. I'd seen many of them on my trips.So glad you're ok.

    3jays - good for you! That christmas stuff sure spreads.

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited August 2011

    way to go Teka!!! santa really does spread out at our house. we're keeping only what our 4yr old and almost 2yr old GKids will enjoy... we're gettin too old for this crappolla>>>>>>>3jays

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited August 2011

    Yup, a box of books, which i'll go thru. im saving only the good ones.. spiritual, for the most part.. and a few autobiographys i haven't read yet. off  to the 2nd hand book store  to put them in for credit tommorrow. done.......3jays

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 2,439
    edited August 2011

    OMG, my kitchen has decided to rebel!!! I had all the clutter off the table and cabinets, came in from work and discovered STUFF all over them... and it's all MINE!!!  It must have just jumped out of my brief case and the mailbox and the refrigerator, and I don't even know where some if it came from!ARRGGHHHH!!!  Yell

    OK, so back to the 10 minute rule - 10 minutes or 10 items....

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited September 2011

    i hadn't heard that rule. its' now MINE!!! that i can do every day...10 minutes, or 10 items is doable...thanks.......3jays

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • hotandcold
    hotandcold Member Posts: 205
    edited September 2011

    Hello everyone ! Laughing about n3ypb's kitchen.  My kitchen does that too. I stopped cooking for a few days to slow down the mess. I've got the kitchen counters cleared off again and my closet looks pretty good. I'm trying to only keep clothing that looks good on me but now I'm here trying to get rid of a pretty floral comforter.  Isn't that a silly thing to get hung up on.  I've had it for probably 20 years and it is my favorite pattern of any I've ever had.  It's only a queen and we have had a king for about 10 years now. It's been in our guest bedroom, but I don't need it.   Why can't I just send it to Goodwill and be done with it?

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited September 2011

    did you guys see the hoarders episode where the woman was a ventriloquist.. had 28 "dolls". i would've had a hard time with getting  rid of those, for sure...later.....3jays

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • samsue
    samsue Member Posts: 757
    edited September 2011

    I went out and bought a couple of new tops for work... newer styles and colors. Now I've got to figure out what to toss out. Trying to keep up with the "three new in/three tossed out" theory. I have some t-shirts that are for mowing grass and they're starting to look nasty with stains etc. so I could get rid of them... but it seems such a shame to trade out for such nice t's.

    I painted the kitchen walls and was able to get rid of a couple of items that were "useless" that just took up space on the counters. Still having trouble with the mail.... it just keeps accumulating! Does anyone have a good idea on how to clear off the refrigerator door - the pictures, magnets, etc. I try to keep them only on one side but it still looks messy.

  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 2,439
    edited September 2011

    Samsue, when we moved a few years ago, our new refrigerator is "stainless steel" and will not hold anything magnetic on it! So it was very easy to ditch all the magnet clutter, and it is really NICE to see NOTHING on the refrigerator!!  I know that when I grew up, my mom never had anything on the refrigerator, I think that became "the style" as our (my) generation started using it as a bulletin board for our children's artwork. 

    So, where do I keep those things that used to clutter the refrigerator?  A few of my favorite magnets are now on the side of the metal filing cabinet in my office.  The rest of the papers/notes/etc. are tucked between salt/pepper shaker on a single tray on my kitchen table, usually confined there (but occasionally creeping out elsewhere).  Still not perfect, but better than the refrigerator!  Hope you get this one tamed!  Wink

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • 3jaysmom
    3jaysmom Member Posts: 4,266
    edited September 2011

    hahahaTeka!my dil does that with the kids papers, and oics, but on the side where it doesn't "mess it up... i confess, with my chemo brain, i keep the imp ones on the fridge, and reports i need for drs. in the glove comp of the car. if i don't have them at an appt; mur can go down, and get them...pet scans, mri reports, blood work...

       with no workig memory, i've had to adjust..

        for everyday things, i have a file in my open office on the comouter. i even have info on BCO ladies..emails, ph#'s hubs names, etc... i can't remember anything anymore. LIVE by my calendar...

       so, somethings just aren't going to look "pretty" i guess.!

       we've been decluttering a lot lately, but won't be finished Anytime soon. we have a whole extra house here , to get rid of. we'll have the mother of all yard  sales in oct...where tokeep it till then?? halloween, and christmas, plus clothes. even sent a lot of furniture to consignment. the way im feeling, healthwise, less is def better!!!!!

       good luck ladies, i think i have a LOT more "digging out" to do than you do!!................3jays

  • rachelvk
    rachelvk Member Posts: 1,411
    edited September 2011

    I'm really excited to find this thread! I'm a bit of a hoarder, but for the most part the piles are confined to flat surfaces other than the floor - and both my coffee table and kitchen table, where I sit with my laptop, actually have quite a lot of open space for once.

    I was diagnosed in August and am looking ahead to surgery in early October. My plan before BC was to move into a new apartment (hopefully with DB) when my lease ends at the end of the year. If I'm going to be able to even consider that (mid-chemo.... ick!) I need to pull a lot of it together before surgery. I'll be sure to read earlier posts and see what everyone suggests, and if I come across anything worth posting, I'll be sure to share it. 

  • Teka
    Teka Member Posts: 10,052
    edited September 2017
  • Teka
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    edited September 2017
  • hotandcold
    hotandcold Member Posts: 205
    edited September 2011

     I see things and think about all the possibilities that they posses.  I see material and think about what I would like to sew. I see knickknacks and think about what room they would go in. I see towels and love the thought of freshening up my bathroom.  Then if I do buy the towels then I look at the old ones and think what can I do with them?  I had so much stuff, stuff and more stuff that I was going to do something with someday.  Well, someday is here and I want my house organized and clean.  I've finally bit the bullet and started throwing, garage selling, and giving away the stuff. I keep telling myself "I CAN." In someways its sad like parting with a friend, but then I remind myself that when something goes out it opens up space for a new possibility. I like the rule of three.  Three things to sit on my sideboard, three knicknacks on my dining room table. Only keep 3 tablecloths. (Well I kept 5). Anyway you get the idea of 3. In regards to my frig, I only let 3 things go on the side. It use to be covered.  When there's more, I throw something away or put it in my junk drawer in the kitchen  I put a lot of stuff there.  Recently, I just gathered up most of it and put it in a manila envelope and dated it.  I'm going to throw it away in a year without looking inside.  How bout that! 

  • Teka
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    edited September 2017
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited September 2011

    Teka, you're right and it's the reason I have a hard time buying anything these days.  If I ever manage to thoroughly declutter I will then feel free to buy more stuff.  But then I will  be careful not to buy "crap" just to buy something. 

    Ive once again started wearing/washing/bagging clothes to give away and will go through my closets now that the weather is changing and get rid of clothes I haven't worn and won't wear.  I'm also going to go through stuff that did not sell at yard sale to take over to Goodwill.

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