MIDDLE-AGED WOMEN 40-60ish
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lynniea - Keeping fingers crossed for an uneventful time with rads.
Annette - Good Morning - I also knew it was just a matter of time before crack and a$$ came up in the same sentence. Just leave it to you to make that happen. LOL
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I hope your day goes well lynniea!
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Yeah they fixed the thread!!!!! Hugs ((Lynniea))
Love the squirel photo.I get my bonescan results on Monday.

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mumayan - I won't be on here on Monday and hope you get the all clear. Keeping fingers crossed.
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Welcome Jenn333 I am 49 as well but my kids are grown. sorry you had to join us but this group of ladies are so much fun and will get serious when the need arises.
Lynnea hope all goes well for your radiation appt
Myuman good luck on the bone scan results.
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Lynniea, Good Luck today with rads. It seems like only two years ago that I was going for my daily treatments (and that's because I was.) Also drink lots of water (flushes toxins and moisturizes on the inside,) get enough protein (to rebuild muscle and tissue getting zapped,) and try for good sleep (also to repair your healthy cells.)
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Good to see you Mumayan. Unlike you, I just find most of my pictures.
Eph, If I could find a squirrel with half a brain, I would like one for a pet, but the ones in my yard are stoopid. Just today, one was eating black walnuts on the tree and ventured out too far on the branch and snap! the branch and squirrel fell twenty feet to the ground. Then it stood up real tall and still for two minutes as if looking for the responsible party. What a dope!
Back in the day, they were endles fun for my houndog. That is the only pet I have. My dog is old, deaf, demented, and basically doesn't give a d*mn about the training she had followed for the first fourteen years. She has one thing on her bucket list...to get one more chicken bone out of the garbage before she dies.
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ok, friends, i have yet another question. when did your port stop bothering you? i've had mine for 3 weeks now and it still pulls and hurts if i reach up or if i don't sleep in exactly the right position. the nurse wasn't able to draw blood from it this week either. i'm get a little disgruntled with it, but i'm hoping i'm just expecting too much at three weeks. anyone have any experience you can share? as usual, thank you!
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YaYa... Just remember you have a foreign object inside you.
I don't remember exactly when it stopped bothering me but it did.
It's a weird feeling when you are taking a shower or bang your chest area to the wall.
But it's God send.
Like yours they were almost never able to draw blood right before chemo.
Oncologist gave the OK to do it anyway.
Good Luck. I called mine an electrical outlet because after a while needle going in and out it looked like one.
Good Luck try not to put your hand there too much.
(((HUGS)))
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YaYa, I found my port to be a nuisance for the most part, but occasionally it hurt. The things that triggered pain were as you said reaching up and sleeping on that side. My BS said no repetitive motion, no heavy lifting, no push ups or planks. I found that pulling with the arm on the port side was also a bad thing. I like to kayak and BS said not with the port in...so I have been missing out, which makes me sad. I am happy to be getting mine out next week same time as UMX. Hope you get used to it and it gets easier to tolerate.
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YaYa! I didn't notice it painful AFTER it healed, but it was nuisance & I knew it was there until it was taken out. I didn't sleep on that side, etc.
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Ladies the ports are worth putting up with. I was not given the option and now my arm veins are all a mess.Lab techs have a terrible time getting blood samples from chemo damaged veins.
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Oh I agree Mum-I can't imagine having to have been stuck each time. It was worth the bother.
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thank you, eph3, mumayan, FLWarrior, and seyla888! it's good to know that there isn't something wrong with me! my incision still isn't completely healed right above the port or where that thing goes into my vein, so i'm probably expecting too much too soon. i'm grateful to have it, though. i'm just a little over-sensitive to anything going wrong. i think i'm pretty much a big baby!
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Ya Ya....you are not a baby...you are learning. This is the best place to come and address your questions. I have not been here long but have learned a ton so far. If I have to have chemo I am sure I will be asking a ton of questions. These ladies are all so smart I think most of them have earned an honorary PhD in breast cancer!!
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Lynnie-I just finished 16/33 rad treatments and so far they have been so much easier than chemo. I t is a little annoying that it is an every day thing and laying on the table alone listening to the machines can be nerve racking but so far I have no SE. make sure to take good care of your skin. I apply pure aloe after every treatment and use aquaphor at night and emu oil in the morning. a combination of what the girls on the radiation page were reccomending. Good luck and keep us posted on how you are doing.
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Mum will you be in NOTL on Sunday? I'd like to give you a pre-bone-scan-report hug. Know what I mean????
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I will be there Barbe I am bringing Dreamwriter(Regina) with me.
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Having a good day here, good news from the RO, still having pain but it's not from something new - we'll get it fixed eventually. In the meantime, hopefully my platelets go back up and I can start taking ibuprofen for the pain (can't stand how the percs make me feel, they don't really help this pain anyway, and not ready to take something stronger).
Good Luck Lynniea!
Annette, I can't wait until you win the picture - I am expecting a picture of your @$$ you know
, You make me laugh almost every time you post - Thanks! -
I have a wonderful love/hate relationship with my port. I KNOW it was a blessing when I was going thru chemo, I had weekly taxol and then 4XAC so between all that and the blood draws, it was definitely worth it. I used to donate blood regularly so my non- BC arm is quite scarred up from that. So it all worked out--but I have always hated having the alien being in my chest. I keep hitting it, OWCH, especially when I lift things. And like you YAYA, it hurt from the surgery probably longer than it should. Its been 8 months since chemo ended and I will see what my MO says next week about taking it out. Last visit she said she wanted to wait at least a year after chemo was over before removing it. To say she is cautious, is an understatement!!
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Reesie, here's to happy platelets!! Glad you got good news from RO. Thinking about you!!
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Ya Ya when the they took your blood did they have you turn your head to the right sometimes it is against the wall. They had to go in my vein and fix it. But once they work out the kinks it is your best friend. Thank you all for my blessings I have to wait 2 weks they lile you be out of surgery that long I have my simulation on 23 of Aug.
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lynniea, go in your vein and fix it??? how did they do that? it freaks me out thinking about doing anything else to this damned port.
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They had to do a cauterization where they went up through the vein in my leg. My port also flips around and I have to flip it back anything that could go wrong with me did.
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Ya Ya I loved the port for chemo. I didnt like it to much for sleeping. I never found a comfy spot to sleep. I also found that with each fill of my TE it got more uncomfortable. I hope it gets better for you.
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Hello Middies - Just stopping in to let everyone know that DH and I are leaving in the morning for a 4 day convention in San Antonio. We will be down on the Riverwalk and planning on having a good time. This is a short break from the job and a chance for us to see how our new help will do without us around. We will still be close enough if anything major goes on.
Will talk to everyone either Monday night or Tues sometime.
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Hi everyone! I love reading and catching up on everyone's progress. I still don't know if I have to have chemo or not and I am so stressed about that. I am trying hard to be patient, but have to wait for approval for the Oncotype testing. Did anyone here have a long wait? I just want to get my treatment going, whatever it will be.
By the way, I thought I should introduce myself. I am 57 and have two grown sons who live in different states. I miss them a lot. We had to move to Idaho for my husband's health. He is 66 and has emphysema and COPD. We had lived in Wyoming for years but the high elevation made it very difficult for him to breathe. So, we wanted to stay in the west and have mountains nearby and had to find a place with affordable housing. We bought a foreclosure and made several improvements. We assumed we would find work quickly. Did not happen! The economy is so depressed here jobs are very hard to come by. So it has been difficult, we are now living on his SS.
So we are here and now dealing with my cancer. I am doing great...just impatient now to get my score and get going with treatment.
We are huge animal lovers. We have two rescue Golden Retrievers, Murphy and Sampson. We also have three rescue cats. Bella, Poppy and Pistol. They are our fur family!
Wishing everyone well, I am proud to go through this journey with such great and fun ladies! HUGS!
Janis
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Here's my port story. This goes back 17+ years. My BS actually put it in. Everyone in my support group thought I had the best looking port ever. When I would show it to newbies the others would say - "Don't get the idea that your's is ever going to look that good." Never had any trouble with it. It was so hard drawing blood from me without it and I was so superstitious that if I took it out I would need it again - I kept it for 5 years. I go in to have my MX scar revised (failed recon) and decide it's time to have the port out, too. Anesthesia can't start an IV. They look at my port and ask, "Does that still work?" They ended up using the port to put me to sleep. Once I was out, they poked and prodded to put an IV in my arm, so they could take out the port. Blood draws are better, but starting and keeping an IV is still a pain in the a$$. Every time I go in for surgery, I wish I still had it.
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justmejanis-welcome to the group even though I'm sorry you have to be here with us. Seems that everything with cancer requires waiting and that is the hardest part. I don't think I slept for the two weeks that I waited for my oncotype score. Even ambien CR did not work for me. Hopefully it will be a low score and you can opt out of chemo.
Jo-Have a great time in San Antonio you and DH deserve a wonderful weekend away. And hopefully your new help will do fine.
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Hey janis, nice to see you here!
Jo have a very, very, very good break!!! I look forward to hearing how it all went when you get back.
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