2 Years for Me
Two years ago yesterday my doctor called me and said "We made a mistake-you have breast cancer" For 6 months the doctor kept saying nope that is not bc..We did ultrasound and after ultrasound and he kept looking at the tissue and saying it was nothing. He was wrong...I got the call upon returning from Chicago where I celebrated my husbands 10 year cancer free annivesary. I guess I was his reoccurence. My surgery was Labor Day weekend.
Getting that call was one thing but the fact that I was pregnant was a whole other story. I went through surgery while pregnant as well as chemo. I won't say it was easy because it wasn't ...I was a mess... Sometimes I am surprised I made it through..
But here I am 2 years later..I am in the best shape of my life. My company has grown in ways I never imagined. I have received blessing after blessing. I have traveld to Hawaii, Costa Rica, San Francisco, NYC, SC, all since chemo ened. I have new fitness goals that include getting my body in fitness competition state just to prove what can be done after cancer. I am planning on moving my family out of the country for a year to e xperience a different culture. I am living in ways I NEVER dreamed... I laugh REALLY loud..When I smile I feel it with every fiber of my body. I am different and happier in many many ways.
My husband had stage 3 colon cancer 3 weeks after we marrired. My mom had bc when I was a teenager. And then I had bc while pregnant. I have survived all of this and I am still her and better then ever. Two years is not a huge anniversary but I wanted others just starting that you do get through and often times there can be a better life waiting for you.
Blessings:)
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Jen, I have to say, you are THE poster child for post-cancer achievment. I think what you've done with your life is amazing. I followed your pregnancy here, rooted with everyone when you delivered safely, and as a friend on facebook, I've really enjoyed your family travel pictures.
All I can say is, WAY TO GO! -
Yep, you are doing amazing!
See, all of us that told you "it does get better" at the beginning were right!
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Congratulations on 2 years, what a great accomplishment! I hope you have many, many more years cancer-free.
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Congratulations Pure. I remebemer following your journey when you were pregnant and doing chemo. Such a trooper and as you said "it wasn't easy" but you got through it. Thanks for being such an inspiration and for being a beacon of light to so many. I hope you celebrate this milestone and best wishes for many more to come.
Hugs
Beth -
Congratulations on your two years. Sounds like things are really going well for you. SharonH
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Two years is a big thing Pure! You went through cancer "boot camp" during that time. You kept your family together and you found the strength to accomplish so much.
My heartfelt congratulations!
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Jen.....I am so thrilled for you and proud of you!!!
Yes, life goes on after breast cancer, and we really can be better than ever.
I know I am getting to a new place too - one I had only dreamed of in my former life.
Celebrating both you and your husband, and also your lovely family. - Claire
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Jen, Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have just made my day!
I love how you said"I LAUGH REALLY LOUD!" "WHEN I SMILE I FEEL IT WITH EVERY FIBER OF MY BODY!" These are words to live by!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So happy for you, keep on living this beautiful life you have!!!
THERE IS GREAT LIFE AFTER CANCER!! You have proven that my friend!!!!
May God just continue to bless you and your family.
xo
steph
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Congrats, Jen! You are an inspiration. Keep LIVING girl!
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They say that everything happens for a reason and God doesnt give us more than we can handle - I hate those cliche's but in this case...they are true. No one else could do what you have done and done it so well. You are a success story everyday in everyway. I am blessed to know you.
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::::::clapping.....dancing....tears in my eyes.....::::::so proud of you and your family.
awesome jen. there are no words to describe the power, truth and strength pouring out of you
blessings and love***
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Pure, so good to hear you are doing well. How about our little Killian? He must be about 11/2 years old now? Time flies!!
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Jen, what a nice Post!! Very inspiring to me, thanks for sharing!!
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beautiful story, jen...love this. your spirit and courage shine through this post!
so happy for you. many, many more years of laughter, health, joy!
xo
j
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You inspire me to forge on in this battle! May you enjoy many good times with your family and good health to all of you.
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2 years is a huge anniversary, Pure. May you and your family continue to be happy and healthy. G.
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Jen,
I so love hearing from you! You've been on my roller coaster ride along the way with me, and I'm just about a month behind you from my 2 year dx, although I can't even imagine what you went through. The missed dx, then to find out you had to go through tx while pregnant. If you weren't a mess during that I'd be worried about you
!!! But you've made it through and are here to let others know that there is hope at the end of the tunnel. I know you've had some scares too and are having a tough time with the upcoming surgery, but truly I believe with all my heart that it is totally normal. You've been to war and back. I know for me sometimes it's PTSD for sure.Congratulations on 2 years out and here's to many many more----together!!!
Love you!
Sharon
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Jen, Two years is a biggie. You and your family are a testimony to all that can be done. I am so very happy you all are well and moving on.
May God continue to bless you and yours!
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Congratulations Jen,
Two years is big!! Many, many, more years of fitness and happiness for you!
jackie
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Jen.....Congrats on 2 years...that is a big milestone....you are an amazing women....your post is so full of life and hope....I knew it will be a big help to all the newbies....I love seeing your pictures of your gorgeous family on fb and hearing all about your travels.....keep the stories of life coming....will be thinking of you next week when you have your surgery.....Hugs, Karen
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Jen,
I am so proud of you. You went from being a newbie and now you are an inspiration. Congrats on two wonderful years!!! XOXOXO
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Thank you guys for ALL your SUPER kind words of inspiration and encouragement. It means so so much:) Love to all of you!
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Great news Pure - I'm going to 6 years out in Dec and I my DX wasn't great - I'm trying to make the most of every moment - just like you - take care, Ellie
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this is so great to read.....so much good news....can feel you beaming from Florida....
You fought a good fight and won.....so thrilled for you girl!
Jacqueline
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Congratulations - we are all proud of you. Going through surgery and chemo while pregnant and saying "it wasn't easy" is probably the understatement of the year!
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Jenn...so happy for you...love that you post all of your joys, doubts, fears, triumphs and hope so freely. I think you validate the feelings of many who lurk and don't post.
Congrats on two!
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Your post gives all hope and congrats to you for all that you have done in your life - it sounds adventurous and amazing!!! You truly are an inspiration.
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Jen,
Thank you for sharing your story. God bless.
I have to say that some of the most meaningful things that have happened to me during this ordeal is when a complete stranger comes up to me and shares their CA story, especially when it's a breast CA story.
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Congratulations to you Jen. Thank you for sharing your powerful, and inspiring story with all of us.
The Mods
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Thanks Guys! I really appreciate your kind words... I go in for surgery Tuesday in NAshville...I will update you when I come out:)
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