August 2011 chemo, anyone w/ me?!

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  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2011

    Hi summer girl.... I'm still dealing with the discomforts of the AND on top of recovering from my BMX. It's been a much longer recovery than I ever anticipated. I start my chemo soon after you and am very emotional about my hair. We can cry together!!!



    Robo... What's the "x" on your treatment stand for? I don't know if I've seen that one yet??? I see you're from Chicago, have you seen the IL ladies thread on here? It's a great bunch of us, always welcoming more BC sisters ( even though we'd prefer NONE of us had this disease)....

  • Leighsa
    Leighsa Member Posts: 63
    edited August 2011

    Hi summergirl1. I think you and I are the only ones in this group with ILC. I'm three weeks post lumpectomy and AND. My tumor was 1.9cm so I decided against the MX. I keep hoping I made the right choice.

    (((Hugs)))

  • EllasMom
    EllasMom Member Posts: 7
    edited August 2011

    Hi ladies.  Looks like I get to be a part of your club :).  I had a bilateral mastectomy on July 12.  I'm having the MUGA scan and port placement tomorrow, then start chemo on Friday...A/C every two weeks X 4, then Taxol once a week X 12, then 33 radiation treatments, and finally 5 years of estrogen.  A little nervous about starting chemo, but know it's what I need to do to kick the crap out of this cancer. 

  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2011

    Hi Ella....so sorry you have to be part of this club but welcome!!! You must be recovering very well from your BMX, they are starting your chemo pretty quick after surgery!!! It's nice to get going though, I feel like I've been in "limbo" forever....I don't start for a couple more weeks...

  • 46MD
    46MD Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2011

    Leighsa/Summergirl1, I'm also ILC. I was also wondering how many of us were here. Interesting to learn some of the treatments are similar. Not sure what differentiates what yet.

    To all, I'll be starting AC next week, and am keeping fingers crossed SE are minimal. I'll keep you posted. My port gets installed Wednesday. It sucks, because my doc just cleared me from surgery, was hoping to getting some kayaking in, but noooooo. But, just as well to get it started. The sooner the finish line will come!

  • EllasMom
    EllasMom Member Posts: 7
    edited August 2011
    Hi Madismommy....I'm actually Ella's Mommy Laughing.  My name is Jennifer and I'm from Springfield.  I saw that you're from Geneva, so we're not too far apart.  I feel like this process has gone on and on and on.  I actually feel pretty good considering I had my surgery only a few weeks ago.  I had expanders put in the same time as my surgery so they're causing more discomfort than anything.  I think I'm kind of in shock that this is all happening to me.  I'm sure it will all sink in on Friday.  These forums certainly help.  It's so nice to know you're not alone. 
  • jbagley
    jbagley Member Posts: 102
    edited August 2011

    Ellen, I am Jennifer. I just started adriamycin and cytoxan last week. 1 of 7 treatments. I have 4 rounds of the A/C and then 4 rounds of taxol, resection of lymph nodes (my surgeon didn't take as many as he should have 2/2 positive) then radiation and tamoxifen.



    The first 2 days aren't too bad. Day 3, 4, 5, very tired. Stock up on wwatermelon and fruit. It was my saviour. My taste buds are just starting to come back. Rest. Rest. Rest. Listen to your body. Call on your archangel. If you don't know who he is give me your zodiac sign and will let you know. My archangel is Raphael, he is the healing angel. I am gemini, born in june.



    Reiki music and meditation really help me. Find a reiki master...... it has really helped me to relax and be calm during my mastectomy and my cuurrent chemo tratment. I have another reiki treatment on thursday. I also wear healing stones, rose quartz and amethyst. These are my healing stones. I wera them alternating daily to help me focus.

    jennifer

  • roxessence
    roxessence Member Posts: 12
    edited August 2011

    i totally hear you, madismommy719 - let's just Get this Party started already.  the anticipation gets to be worse than the actuality [i'm Hoping!]  heh, that's what the voice on one shoulder says.  from the other shoulder i'm getting "NONONONONONONONONOOOOOOOOOOOO".  torn is an understatement!

    actually, loosing my hair has become a non-issue.  my stupid "do" is so wonky lately that i almost can't wait to get it off & start fresh!  true, i'd rather not Have to lose it but hey, if it's gonna go anyway, might as well make the best of it!!  before we know it, it'll be this time Next year!!

    y'know, reading thru here leaves me questioning some acronyms...can somebody help w/the following...?   AND - BMX - DH???  i'm sure i have more but can't think of them off the top of my head.  

    hang in there, sweet ladies.  keep thinking positive - i'm Certain that good thoughts make all the difference in how much suffering goes on as well as how much treatment Helps!!!

  • roxessence
    roxessence Member Posts: 12
    edited August 2011

    oh!  i know the other....what the heck is a MUGA scan?

  • Leighsa
    Leighsa Member Posts: 63
    edited August 2011

    Roxessence-there is a discussion group "abbreviations for Newbies" that lists everything!! For now-

    AND-axillary node dissection

    BMX-bilateral mastectomy

    DH-dear husband

  • 46MD
    46MD Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2011

    AND is auxilliary node disection. I believe BMX is bilateral mastectomy, and not sure on the DH, tho I'm thinking husband related :)

    Ladies correct me if I'm wrong.

  • Leighsa
    Leighsa Member Posts: 63
    edited August 2011

    It's under the forum "waiting for test results"

  • jbagley
    jbagley Member Posts: 102
    edited August 2011

    Hi, I'm jennifer, I have had one of 7 treatments. A/c, every 2 weeks, 4 rounds, then taxol every 2 weeks, 4 rounds. I like this support group. I m 38 yrs old, no family history at all. I had bot ILC and IDC on pathology report of mastectomy. You know what is even weirder, I breast feed both my children, greater than10months, they both nursed better on the left, this is the sife that was removed! Is it a coincidence?



    Jenn

  • Amelie_Rose
    Amelie_Rose Member Posts: 106
    edited August 2011

    Hello ladies,

    I haven't posted in a while.  Just wanted to let you know that I had my first TCH treatment today.  I was a bit anxious to put it mildly but everything went well and I am feeling fine for now.  Tomorrow I go for my neulasta shot.

    A big welcome for all those who've joined this past week. We are sorry you have to be in this club but happy to have you along the journey. Together we'll get through this time of treatment so we can enjoy the rest of our lives.  

    For all those starting treatments on Wednesday and Friday this week, VtEllen and Ellasmom come to mind but I know there are others, best of luck to you.  You'll be in my thoughts for an anxiety-free treatment day and a SE-free rest of the week.

    Amelie 

  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2011

    K, so I'm a Jenn too... So, we have 2 Jenn's and a Jennifer on here, who can we confuse first? :0)



    EllasMom...I see it now, DUH...just like me with my Madi. I have expanders too....not comfortable at ALL!! Still have to sleep on my back 7 weeks tomorrow... BOO!!



    Robo....bloomingdale is pretty close, I used to work in carol stream. My "foobs" look like hard little Nerf footballs, LOL.... My friend just started her treatments at Northwestern last month....i went between there and Rush downtown and ended up at Rush.... I've read about the caps and decided I didn't think I could see it all the way through, I do NOT like having a cold head.... But I still consider them because I'm struggling with the upcoming baldness.... Everyone says "embrace it". Yeah, easy for them to say....they don't have cancer!!!



    Rox....the Muga scan is a scan of your heart, to make sure it can handle the chemo.... I get mine in the 10th... Sick of tests.



    Hi Jenn B....how was treatment #1?? are u feeling okay?



    How many of us are in our 30's??? It seems like a lot.... I wish none of us were doing this and this was a recipe forum instead.....

  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2011

    Oh, and Robo, there's a "button" on this page you can add this page to your favorites....than it's bookmarked, you won't have to search for us.....go look for the IL ladies thread too....it's in the "get me through treatments" forum (or something similar to that)



    Hi amelie....glad to hear it went better than anticipated.... Hope your s/e's are very small!!! (or NONE would be good)

  • musicalmom
    musicalmom Member Posts: 78
    edited August 2011

    Summergirl1 welcome! It is wonderful to have a group of women who understand what you are going through. I think ups and downs are normal and we are all experiencing them. I go to get my wig tomorrow. I hope I like it. One day at a time...

  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2011

    Let us know how wig shopping goes,....I go Thursday, I have an appointment for a measuring and consult at a local boutique....they're supposed to be wonderful?? I still like my own hair better... :(

  • mybee333
    mybee333 Member Posts: 1,189
    edited August 2011
    Summergirl -It seems we may have had our right mastectomies around the same time.  My surgery was June 30th.  I feel I have healed well but the TE digs into my ribs like a too tight underwire bra.  I am awaiting oncotype score within the next 24-48 hrs. but expect to do chemo.  Although I am 53, my hair is long and I like it that way!  I hate to lose it.  Want to get a head start on some comfortable alternatives if need be.  I try to stay upbeat too but each step is more and more treatment and more unexpected info.!  This started out as a simple lumpectomy and became so much more extensive.  But I am trying to enjoy my summer.  As you should.  I find if I focus on everyday things and projects, I 'forget', despite the constant pain, to think about cancer.  I like those mental breaks very much!!
  • musicalmom
    musicalmom Member Posts: 78
    edited August 2011

    Mybee333 and Madismommy I would hate to lose my hair if it was as long as yours. I agree that mental breaks are good. Nite,,,radiology news tomorrow just to add another thing to think about.

  • vtellen
    vtellen Member Posts: 345
    edited August 2011

    1 day and counting! I feel as though I am preparing for the siege or something! Do I have everything? Yesterday was all of the drugstore stuff (thermometer, eye drops, toothbrushes, purell, antibacterial soaps,etc) Today, fresh veggies and fruit, lots of juice. Any suggestions would be great! Thanks!

  • vtellen
    vtellen Member Posts: 345
    edited August 2011

    Oh, Jennifer- I am a cancer, BTW. Never liked name of my sign! Ha!

  • rochelleanderson
    rochelleanderson Member Posts: 33
    edited August 2011

    The month has finally hit... 6 days left for me, getting especially anxious!

     I haven't done a thing about a wig yet... I'll probably regret putting this off, I do plan on getting one. I have 2 scarves - don't know how much I'll use them... any of you ladies know how to tie a (very) long oblong scarf? Maybe I'll just wrap a bath towel around my head.

  • MargieC
    MargieC Member Posts: 394
    edited August 2011

    MusicalMom,

    I got my info in the gray area by putting in my bio.

  • MargieC
    MargieC Member Posts: 394
    edited August 2011

    Rochelleanderson,

    The look good feel better class will teach you how to tie all kinds of scarfs.  It will also teach you how to do you make-up and wear wigs.  to check on one you your area go to http://lookgoodfeelbetter.org    I have found that bandanas from Wallmart work great for everyday wear.

  • michelleo13
    michelleo13 Member Posts: 342
    edited August 2011

    Welcome to the new members!

    Jennifer B, you and I are on the same chemo regimen. I start Aug 8. Thanks for the tips, I'll stock up on watermelon. I'm a cancer. Please let me know who  my archangel is!  I'll take all the help I can get!

    Rochelle, I'm expecting my shipment from headcovers.com today. I'm totally hopeless at tying scarves so I'm sure that will provide some laughs. I ordered a bright pink and orange swim cap as well, maybe I'll just wear that. LOL. The hospital where I'm  having treatment offers the "Look Good Feel Better" classes. I've heard they're excellent.  I must look into that!

  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2011

    Musicalmom...I chopped about 6 inches off my hair last thursday (and put in a pink extension! LOL) to start preparing....my avatar pic is from the day I was diagnosed, my family was in Disney....got the dreaded "you have cancer" call about an hour before the picture.



    I have been sleeping horribly the last couple nights, ugh. My tailbone is sore from sleeping on my back upright with pillows for 7 weeks.... :(



    Everyone have wonderful days, I don't think anyone starts treatment today?? We need a list of everyone on here and their start date....



  • 46MD
    46MD Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2011

    Madismommy719- just this last Sat. night, I decided to toss away the pillows and attempt a side sleep position. It was the most wonderful feeling......:) My lower back was so grateful.

  • Madismommy719
    Madismommy719 Member Posts: 781
    edited August 2011

    Ugh...I've tried!! :( my chest is so uncomfortable with my TE's, I swear they "shift" into my armpits... My PS thinks I'm nuts. I did order an L shaped boomerang pillow from walmart, waiting for it to come and hoping it helps. I can't sleep like this much longer.... I would LOVE to curl up on my side.... Even for 5 minutes.

  • vtellen
    vtellen Member Posts: 345
    edited August 2011

    Oh, I feel so bad for you guys. I have been a stomach sleeper all my life. I can imagine how awful it must be to not beable to get into your "comfort" position. My left side is doable at least, right side getting better after lumpectumy. ((HUGS)) and hope it gets better soon!

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