I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange

Caerus.............don't leave.................I have no idea what all this crap is about, but don't give in to whatever creeps are causing the trouble................we want you to stay, and to hell with whoever is causing the trouble...............pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease don't go.. by the way what the hell is this all about anyway..................I must have missed something previous to Blue having the problem..................

Thanks hillck,

I've asked the mods to delete my account - this is the only thread I see often, and my negativity is NOT going to help kee it going -

Really the moderators have F'ing CAVED to false charges - they know it, we know it, and I'm sick of trying to help other women with BC and getting accused of "bullying" for it.

Good luck,..don't know how long after a pm it takes to delete - but that's in the works...

all best to you,

CS - don't you dare go!!!

I finally received a reply to my complaint to the review site. I had complained that one of the moderators was mentioned by name - took me half an hour to find it, but I was able to reply and point them to the review by 'Rose' where Judith's name was mentioned.

I am offended that we are mentioned by name - that should be my next complaint - in fact anyone of us who has been mentioned there should complain and see if they do anything.

Sue

thanks, you all are very kind - but I am just too upset about the way the Moderators are reacting the the constant acusations of "bullying" - and doing NOTHING NOTHING NOTHING to defend the good women on this thread, except to take it off the Active List.

I got a lot from BC.org, will miss friendships but it's come to the point where except for the companionship of the women on this thread, I GIVE a lot more to BC.org than I get.  will NOT miss the HYPOCRISY of the MOderators- expect Greta ( nurse-ann, or Patzee or whoever they are)  will take this word for word and post as a review.  I don't care - obviously the Moderators don't care about the women posting here being contantly accused of "bullying."  Or having our screen names made public. Or being called "a gang."  That's not acceptable to me.  If I give something to an organization, I expect RESPECT and kindness in return.

Good luck to all - you'll need it!

Hey girls - now they mention a mod by her full name - that is going way over the top and could lead to some sort of action - I've let the mods know BTW.

Sue

I'm glad I don't have the moderators' job.  I can't imagine what they're going through during all of this.  Also we don't know what contact they have tried to make with the review site. 

But I was enjoying meeting all of the new Gretas

I thought this a place to come for comfort, and support from some wonderful women..........you all gave me information, courage, advice, laughs, and a reason to keep going.........had it not been for you ladies I would nver have started that friggin pill......................I am appauled that this is what has happened..................I sang the praises of this website just  last night to a cancer survivor who said to me...........................where did you get all your knowledge..................CS please don't let those freaks push you out...................you belong here...........we need you...................we're bigger then they are , and we can handle whatever they have to put out.............your a fighter.........don't go..................

White Rabbit................Thanks for the news..........I often wondered myself if me never having issues with the change would help me now..............how nice that would be...............I'm glad you did so well...................hugs

OK, I can proudly state that I am having Trader Joe's organic foursome (vegetables) along with potatoes with haricots verts and mushrooms. Delish!

The BCO B&G is open, though saddened at CS's departure.

I PM'd the mods too about the full name. I am mentioned there more times that I can count, but I have too little respect for that web site and the name mentioners to even care. Sad, really. 

Hey, let's celebrate!

And yes, anyone who has any objections is free to state them on the boards at Time's Square, for all I give a F...F...

We were deleted twice, and 500 pages later, we're still here.

Let's have a toast, everyone. This has been a fabulous online home for me. It has been a pleasure and may we continue for another 500!

I will say it again, hurrah for our perseverence and friendship through 500 pages.

And if anyone out there didn't hear me, I'd be happy to repeat. :-)

These 500 pages represent friendship, support and mutual respect. 

I've just had an interesting exchange of pms with the Moderators.  I am reconsidering, but on the condition that RESPECT is shown to Blue, and the other women who regularly post on this thread. It is capitulation to "bullying" to allow the good women who regularly post here to be defamed because some women are "disturbed", bitter, drank too much of their own urine, or any other reason, are jealous of the support and camaraderie ( calling it a "gang"), or any other attempted justification for attacks on Blue, me,  or any one else doing the best she can to make it, day to day, living with breast cancer.  It is not acceptable.

I am happy to use the ignore button.  BUT, I will not be called a "bully" because I chose to do that.

Thanks for your kinds words.  There is, for me, the proverbial line, I won't cross. And allowing false accusations to go unanswered is one of those very clear lines for me.

I'm here - laughing - at the poster who gets the thread to 500 getting a "toster oven" - like opening a new account at a bank, remember those days?

leftover spaghetti for dinner.. actually quite delish as a friend of mine made it with home made sauce and home made meatballs which he smoked.. unusual and really good.!!