I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Thanks, everyone. Miko, my other kitty, must have known I was feeling low. He dropped half a mouse by my bed this morning as an offering. Unfortunately, Tim stepped on it, so I was awakened earlier than planned...Nice for a laugh!
Normally when I bury a pet, I plant some daffodil bulbs with it. But I was too worked up to remember that. Plus, we had to layer on lots of big rocks so nothing would dig him up. I had to put down a neighbor's cat once while they were out of the country. It's kind of nice for all of us to know that each spring Punky is pushing up daisies!
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Just got back from a wonderful lunch in Roanoke with my sis!
Barbara .. want to wish you a very happy anniversary. I will be looking at FB later for the videos from tonights performance. Sure with I could be there and listen in live! The thought of sitting on the beach listening to a little rock and blues sounds like a piece of heaven right now. It is so stinkin' hot here today!
Rosemary .. I imagine you're at your appointment now .. how all goes well.
Anne .. again, I am so sorry about Murphy. I'm just glad you found him.
Riley .. thinking about Hadley today and wondering if you've seen her.
Jancie .. I hope this pain you're having can be resolved. Can you take some pain meds ... would that help?
Need to change out of my clothes and find something cool to drink,
hugs,
Bren
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OH, Anne, that is SO sweet of Miko, quite a tribute seriously, to give you such a precious offering. Aren't all warm creatures the BEST! they really do "speak" a wondeful launguage. Hope Miko gets special treats for dinner tonight.
Can't NOT believe you re: "pushing up daisies."
Paint some daisies on the rocks. SO special. -
Happy Anniversary Barbara!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
waiting to hear about your appointment rosemary. . . .
Anne, I had an auntie (you know one of those dear friends of one's mother who your mom wishes was a real sister instead of the one she got!) with a cat that used to share his chipmunks with her. . . .often he would leave his gifts on the pillow next to her face. . . I think your gift on the floor is probably better. . . .
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I'm late this morning -- Anne, I'm so sorry about Murphy -- it must have been traumatic to find him, although in the long run better to know for sure. Very touching about Miko trying to comfort you -- and providing a laugh in the process. ((((((Anne))))))
Rosemary, I'm being very quiet in your bag!
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Barbara, Happy Anniversary. Yes, I'll have a glass of champagne to help you celebrate.
I ,too, am being quite in Rosemary's bag. Pettting the lioness and offering fish niblets to otter.
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When my daughter got her Jack Russel/Shih Tsu mix I was the one watching her kids while she worked and therefore watching/training the dog too. I learned one day how nicely trained he had become to me when we were out in the yard and I saw him with something in his mouth. I told him to come to me and to give, at which point he dropped a dead baby bird right in my hand. So that day I also learned, yet again, that I can do some pretty dumb things. Now I tell him to drop it.
ETA Happy Anniversary, Barbara! and Still waiting on Rosemary, but maybe not in the bag, I'm claustrophic.
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Happy anniversary Barbara. I'm in the bag next to Cherryl. She's the one with the wine, right?
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Cindy....She is doing great! We have had no accidents in the house for the last 7 days. As far as her going into the crate, I gave her a hunk of turkey lunch meat the first night you told me and then the next night she went right in and turned to get the treat. I think she is a pretty smart cookie! Thanks for you help.
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Caerus.....FYI, your post was just posted on the review. Wow! Can't believe what is going on. It is really sad.
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Perhaps, once we've posted our positive reviews we should stop visiting the review site, just as many of us have stopped visiting the other site. Put it on "ignore" so to speak.
Mary
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I have contacted the owner of that site with reference to my name being bandied around. Waiting to hear back. There could be legal repercussions. They are not reviewing BCO, they are reviewing this thread.
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I'm so sorry about your kitty, Anne. At least you know what happened. I'm in an apartment, so my departed furbabies are cremated. I got a human-sized urn and there are currently 3 in there (ShuShu, Micheline and Birdie
) with photos, vaccination tags and a few small favorite toys. I've already told the fam to put the urn at my feet in the coffin when I go. They slept on the foot of my bed while alive, so they can sleep at my feet forever.Sunflowers, what are Soldiers?
I talked to Hadley today. She accidently pulled out her JP drain rolling over in bed and had to have it replaced. She's still sore and stiff, but still doing walks around the unit. She expects to be discharged tomorrow or Sat. I told her to ask about home nursing checks, since she can't exactly see, much less change a bandage on the back of her neck.
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Riley, that's what I intend they do with my little Dahlia. She was a shih-tzu and would bring me her toys when I was upset. I still miss her.
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Patty, that was a little bit of a "test" - and she bit the bait, hook and all ;-))) Sorry, I'm done now. PROMISE not to post about that review site again - have all the information the Mods might need. We all know, there's only one ( banned) person who watches this particular thread as closely as that poster does.....tee, heee....exactly!
Now, on to important things: SOLDIERS, are, get ready for it, stips of Toast, that you cover with Marmite, or not, and dip into your soft piled egg, which sits in an egg cup, with it's little "head" (aaugghh!) cut off, so ou can dip your "soldiers" into it ;-)))
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Ok ladies I also promise not to post anymore about it and ignore it. Good advice.
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Riley,
So sorry to hear about Hadley pulling out a drain - that HURTS! I don't know if they are in every state, byt the VNA ( Visiting Nurse Association) we SO wonderful for me the first few days after I was home. Being in the hospital for less than 24 hours after a BLM, surprised me. It was VERY good to be home, but WOW! Speaking of "drive bys."

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Thanks for noticing, tho, Patty. It took less than an hour! Whew...fast. Notice, the part about not being able to talk to a sock puppet on a thread, wasn't include, aw, makes me "feelblue."
OK. DONE. Ignoring....it's in other hands now.
What's for dinner??? Kira, still waiting to hear how the fish in caper butter sauce turned out. Bet it was delicious.
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Patty .. It's hard not to read the reviews and the comments. I have MTF and must talk myself out of reading sites that elevate my blood pressure. Although, I'm so happy every time I see a new positive comment!
Blue .. I know how much you miss Dahlia .. I miss Bobo too and think about him every day.
hugs,
Bren
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Anne - I'm SO sorry about Murphy. I'm glad at least you found him.
((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))
I've written 2 complaints to that review place - no response. I did mention they might end up with a law suit on their hands - especially as some comments mention mods names - down right disgusting!!!!
Morning girls!!!
Sue
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We have our little Puffy and Spotty in their urn as well ... and they will be mixed with our other fur children when their time comes, and then with the first one of us to go. Whoever is left has to get a family member to promise to mix the ones in the urn with the remaining person's ashes when that person goes. We still haven't quite worked out after that, but probably in a columbarium where we retire.
Love gifts from pets -- the feral outside cat that adopted us when we lived in the Caribbean used to bring us lizard heads and leave them on the front step. She loved us, and would let us pick her up (she liked to sniff our faces to make sure we were OK). We called her Cat B (Cat A lived inside).
Forrest brings me his soggy fur play-mice because he is my little man and he loves me. He hunts them on the bed (huff, huff, huff) and then puts them on my pillow.
Riley, glad that Hadley is getting well enough to be discharged and hope she can arrange home nurse visits!
L
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Patty - so glad your wonderful puppy has YOU trained! That was fast.
Hillck- I still LOVE soldiers - even with my gluten free brown rice bread! Some people "line them up on the plate" but I eat'em too fast for that! I learned about "soldiers' when I lived in England.
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Barbara happy anniversary.
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Anne,
So sorry about your kitty. :-(
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Still in Rosemary's bag....whispering:
'Evening Sue!
Riley, please send Hadley our best.
Wondering about Jancie too.
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Anne
I am so sorry about your cat. My Lucy died a few months ago and I still choke up when I think about her.
NOW!!!Thank you everybody for being so good in the bag. I think my onc would have cracked up if I told him I had a lion, an otter, several people in my bag. And a sunflower in my pocket. MUGA scan was normal 51.2 (50 and over is normal). I should have known it would be but like I said I am not a Vulcan.
I was also concerned the onc would be upset with me getting off Femara but I did 4 years of AIs and that's enough.
He asked me twice if I wanted to go back on Aromasin. I declined.He just said "Well you did 4 years". As my DH said, the onc should be okay with anything I want. It was his herceptin that gave me heart failure.
Now for anyone who wants to jump on my statement about herceptin, I am glad I did it. I would hate for the cancer to come back and not have done everything possible.
And now I have to deal with the 10 lbs I gained in 6 months on Femara.
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Sunflowers .. I don't think I'm up for soldiers on a plate. I only like scrambled eggs. Or maybe an omelet as long as it's well done!
hugs,
Bren
EDITED: Rosemary .. glad to hear from you and that your MUGA was in the normal range. And congrats on 4 years on an AI. I only lasted one week on Arimidex. Kudos to you!
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Rosemary, we posted at the same. Jumping out of your bag for joy! You must be so glad to be off those awful hormonals.
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Damn it, damn it, damn it! (sorry)
Just got off the phone with Hadley's supervisor, who sounds like a cold stone beyotch. She informed me that Hadley can't receive PTO donations from anyone because she's been in this position less than 6 months. And she didn't sound at all regretful about that.

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Whoo hoo, Rosemary -- MUGA normal! That's good news! I was good in the bag, too ... I was passed out from the Irish in the coffee. It was a long day.
I didn't have herceptin since I had DCIS, but I'm entirely with you ... I want to do everything possible to make sure it doesn't come back (hence the BMX). And if there should be invasive stuff in there, well ... I will do everything possible there, too.
(((((Rosemary))))) YAY!
L
ETA: Oh, Riley, I am so sorry about Hadley's nasty supervisor! Is there any way to get around her? (Subversive here ... go to HR or something?) That is such a daggone shame!
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