August 2011 chemo, anyone w/ me?!
Just got the official word that I will begin 4 mons of chemo the first week of Aug. I don't know yet what types or the regimen. Then 2 mons of radiation. Topped off w/ hormone therapy for 5yrs?! Anyone else happening down this path w/ me? Would love to connect and bolster each other up! Thanks, Ellen
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Hi! Still hoping to start up a August 2011 chemo group. I will be on Taxotere and cytoxin.Ready to hit it to those little cancer buggers!
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I was just diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer at the beginning of July. Today, I found out that I will be starting 4 rounds of Adriamycin/Cytoxan with Neulasta shots starting on August 1. I'm freaking out by how fast everything seems to be going. But, I'm glad that we're moving fast because that means treatment will start soon. As my best friend told me, I plan to kick those cancer cells right in the nuts!
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I was suppose to be starting chemo this coming week. But unfortunately I need another surgery as I have some dead tissue around my mastectomy which my ps has to cut out. He may also have to take out my expander but Monday will tell all. So now my chemo a/c every other week for 4 times followed by neulasta then taxol every week for 12 times is suppose to start the first week in August. Providing that I heal well. My recovery from my mastectomy has gone well except for this bumb of needing another surgery. I had my port put in and have even used it because I needed to have a bone scan which thank g-d was clear. Using the port was so much better than having another IV. I really hate IV's this was just a little prick (so to speak) instead of the IV!
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Lizzi, I know what you mean about the fast pace. I will never forget the feeling when I turned the corner in the mammogram room from "healthy person- light hearted chitchat" to " looks like cancer person-the radiologist wants to do the US himself" It seemed like one test after another till surgery. Now, the big countdown to chemo. I am trying to stay on the positive high road. Instead of feeling as though chemo is a horrible thing that is going to happen to me, I am trying to hold on to the perspective that chemo is something good that I GET to do. I'm sorry about your new surgery, Chava. I'll be thinking of you on monday, hope everything goes smoothly!
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Hi Ellen,
I never thought I was less than healthy, but that I had been invaded. Major difference in perspective. Great perspective on chemo BTW. Just so many options now and major help with side effects.
You will be just fine and should expect to kick BC's butt to the curb once and for all. Just go for it.
Will be thinking of you as you go down this path. BTW - I have a picture of me and one of my friends at the end of Month 4. We were doing the Chilly Hilly, a late-winter cycling event. True, it was a fair-weather undertaking, and I did the short course. But I did it!!!
But I did it!!!!!
I do think that exercising throughtout treatment made a major difference. I took the view that I might as well be dragging and exercised as opposed to just dragging. I had six months, so was a long slog. I did not miss one day of exercising in some form. Some days, it took everything I had to do this, but I did it.
Anyway, good luck. I am sure you will be just fine, and that BC will be no worse than one of life's major "o shit's". That is my story, and almost 2 years later, I am still sticking to it.
Now, to find others to help you in this journey. - Claire
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Good point, Claire. I was writing and thinking of my young mammo tech's attitude towards me. But, you are right- I think that I too have been considering myself to be "unhealthy" since the diagnosis. Thanks, I am going to think "invaded" instead. Chemo drugs,etc will be going in for the attack! As for exercise,I am fortunate to have 66 acres of hillside for my backyard. Just got back from walking the dogs! The deer flies are in their glory these days, but it is a gorgeous day!!
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To all the ladies beginning this journey--I have finished chemo and radiation. It is do-able and in my opinion worth every minute of it. Here's wishing you all the best,
Judy
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Congratulations, Judylynn! Thanks for the encouraging words, I can't read enough of them. Love to hear it's "doable".
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Ooh, ooh, can I join? I start on August 4th. Yep, I too was also "invaded."
I am doing 4 DD AC and 4 DD Taxol. Yippee! Oh, and radiation after that and then Tamox for 5 years. Right there with ya vtEllen!
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Hi ladies,
I am going to my oncologist tomorrow to receive my 'game plan'. I am scheduled for my port this Friday, 7/29/11. So far: IDC, Stage II, Grade 2, 1/1 node, ER+/PR+, HER2?. (Those results weren't back yet) I have to make sure I am having a good week near 10/14/11, my daughter's wedding. I am assuming I will be starting the first week of August.
Looking forward to 'hanging out with ya'!
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Hello Ladies,
I had four cycles of chemo back from april thru june every three weeks, doc informed me i have to take four more i'm also taking rads... i start my chemo thursday again so not looking forward to it.
Mary hope you are feeling well for your daughter's wedding..
I will love to also hang with ya! lol. Together we will win the battle.
Damaris
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Hi Mary! I had my port put in last Thurs the 21st. I thought I would be starting chemo this week but I think they wanted to wait a bit for the little port surgery to heal. But I have also read that some people had chemo right after the port placement (even the next day) so everyone is different. The port surgery wasn't bad, I was sore for a couple days but 5 days later it's fine. Congrats on your daughter's wedding!
Hi Damaris! Sorry you have to join us but happy that you are at the same time!
I am so ready for us to win this battle!
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Hi ladies...I originally thought I was going to fall into July but my axillary node dissection set me back some....met with my onc. Today and looks like I'm starting mid-august.... 6 x either TAC, TC or a new clinical trial involving alvastin (IF I accept the trial and fall down that road, I'd fall under either of the 3 paths in the trial) so, here I am...
My port's already in...been almost 2 weeks with it. Now I need to complete my Muga scan and my chemo training AND read all about this clinical trial to decide if I'm going to go for it....I like the idea of possibly helping research and treatment for the future??? So, shooting for the week starting Aug.15 or Aug. 22....depends on my healing release from the BS.... -
Hi everyone! I'll be starting in August. Not sure exactly what my treatment will be - going for my second opinion on Friday. First oncologist talked about putting in a port - does it show? My son is getting married in November and between the hair loss and the port, it's hard to get excited for his big day. Thanks for this thread - it is nice to have company on the journey.
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Hi Madismommy! I also my chemo training last week and I felt like I already knew everything from all the research I had been doing. It was kind of a general class and I was the youngest one there and the only one with breast cancer. I asked the nurse who taught the class some specific questions after it was over but she couldn't really answer them fully because she doesn't typically work with breast cancer patients in her rotation and referred me to my MO's nurse. I mean, it was a decent class but I didn't feel like I learned anything.
Good luck on deciding on the clinical trial! I hope you're healing welling from the AND and have a great day!
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Hi justina! Welcome....except sorry it's because we all are sharing chemo together!!
My port that was put in is a "low profile" and sits under my collarbone, above my tissue expanders on my rignht side. It's really not noticeable and I've never noticed it just sticking out of my shirt?? I have an 8 year daughter that notices EVERYTHING and she has yet to see it and ask, it's been in 2 weeks today. Hope that helps? I really barely notice mine at all now.... And I had to be talked into getting it put in, it creeped me out seeing it in my BS's samples. -
Hi Kasi!
I feel the same way when I sit with the doctors and nurses about stuff, I know the side effects already, the risks, the names, the benefits.....so I have a feeling my "training" won't do a whole lot. The good news is I met the main infusion nurse in passing yesterday and she was wonderful. That will help a lot!!! My hospital for treatment kind of segregates the different cancers by infusion stations.... So I'll have a good chance of having the same nurses, etc each time. That makes me happy!!!
The clinical trial, yes...I need to really read up on that drug avastin, there's a 33.33% I'll end up on that path and I'll get avastin every 3 weeks for a whole year in between the chemo and the tamoxifen .....that's a pretty big extra commitment. BUT, if it's really helpful for future women to maybe have it easier or not at all? -
Hi! Yea! We are really getting a great group of August ladies! It is interesting, though, how all of our treatments vary from one woman to the next? Madismommy, our biopsy stats seem quite similar. I am having 4 rounds of TC (no port) and 6 weeks+ radiation followed by 5 yrs tamoxifen. Your treatment seems alittle more aggressive? I wonder if it is our age difference? I just turned the big 50. I have chosen to do treatments in our small,local hospital. Fortunately, my onco travels down here from Burlington (he is affliated w/ the University hosp.) The chemo room is very small, but I was able to meet one on one for 45 mins or so w/ my head chemo nurse. Also, met all of the chemo team- all wonderful ladies. I am anxious about the chemo SEs, but have come to an acceptance of sorts. Kinda sorta.
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I am having my port placed on August 9, and start chemotherapy on August 10 at Dana Farber. I am doing 4 rounds of dense dose AC, then 4 of dense dose Taxol. Then Tamoxifen. I found out the day after my lumpectomy that I am BRCA1 positive, so will follow this up with prophylactic bilateral mastectomies and prophylactic hyst and oophrectomy. I am 43 and have two sons (10 and 12) and am blessed with a great husband, so I am throwing everything I can at this cancer to crush it!
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VtEllen, it probably is my age? That seems like how they present it to me. I'm 35, no history in my family and not a gene carrier....
Lpswichmom.....UGH on the gene but it sounds like you are definitely throwing the book at it!! And you'll get through the surgeries!!! We're all going to get through this year and celebrate all our triumphs in 2012!!! :0) -
Kasi, thank you for the welcome happy to join you guys.
Justina, My port is on my left side above my left breast and it does show, i have to watch what i wear because it shows the bump and the incission, i don't heal that well..
Modismommy, I'm 41 diagnosed with tripple Negative and also no history of cancer in my family..
Ladies now i'm concern about my daughter she's 6 years old now. also have a son who's 12. Had to explain it to my son, my daughter asks questions, says she hates chemo because it maks Mommy sick.
xplain it to my son,
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Hi damaris! It makes mess mad that so many of us are being diagnosed everyday....I know 4 other women in my *real* life also under 45, diagnosed this year....it's crazy!!!
I have an 8 year old who still doesn't know Mommy has "cancer". But I have to explain all of it soon with my chemo/hair loss looming....I asked her a couple months ago if she knew what cancer meant and she said "yes mommy, I do....it means someone gets really sick and dies". Apparently she's been misled by tv or books or something??? UGH...
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Hi Madismommy,
that's exactly why i had to explain it to my son/daughter hair loss and the misinterpretation of what cancer is. Lucky I spoke to them because at exactly two weeks my hair started falling out then i had to shave it all off. My daughter now knows all about wigs and what chemo does to youi. Explain it to her she will understand and things will be easier.
Good Luck,
Damaris
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Girls and hair! My almost 19 yr old is going to be mortified when my hair starts to go. I am planning to just try to do some interesting scarf stuff- no wig - I'm not sure if I'll regret it, though, and wish that I had one! I agree on the explaining it to your daughter, Madismommy. Put it in a positive light, that the chemo is GOOD stuff that we get to have- to help us. She'll understand.
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VtEllen, I'm sure you've seen this website but headcovers.com has a ton of scarves on there, and pretty reasonably priced??? I'm going to order a couple soon, I'm waiting until I know my true wig size b/c I'm going to order a second wig off there too....something FUN!!
And yes, that's how we are going to approach our daughter.... "yes, mommy HAD cancer but the surgeries got rid of it.....and now the medicine is going to make sure it doesn't come back" and reassure her that she'll always be fine, no matter what.....I was told that it is really important to reassure young kids that THEY will be ok. -
My onc today, told me that I would have 4 doses, 2 weeks apart, of AC; along with 12 doses of Taxol, once a week. He said Taxol can not be given with the AC. Have y'all heard this? Oh...so much to research!
Ipswich...what does 'dense dose' Taxol mean?
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I think I have heard that, taxol is given alone..... My "T" is the other one, taxotere I think??? And no one has said I have to have it separately???? I was told TAC or TC x 6..... I hope it's not 6 plus another 6?? Mine will be every 3 weeks....I'm banking on the 18 weeks....not 36, that would suck!!
Dense dose I think refers to the potency or strength of the drugs??? It seems like a lot of women that are doing 4 treatments are getting a dense dose? Although, I'm still learning so maybe I'm wrong? -
I'm having 4 rounds of taxotere/cytoxin 3 weeks apart. Dense dose wasn't mentioned to me. I also was unsure of some of your treatments, Ipswich? I'm not hip to all of this lingo,yet!
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All,
Just wanted to pop in and wish you all good luck. I was an August 2010 chemo girl. The ladies on the thread were the main reason I was able to get through it. There were 3 other women who started the same day as me. We still write and it was wonderful knowing that they knew exactly what I was going through. The chemo (TCH) was easier than I thought. Very little side effects for me other than some fatigue on the third/fourth day after chemo. My hair is growing back now too. It is kindof fun having short hair after years of very long hair. I can get ready almost as quickly as my husband!
If you have kids, know they are resilient. Mine were 3 and 5 when I was diagnosed (at the age of 36) and they handled everything very well. Lean on family and friends, have doctors you trust that you can ask questions, and know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Before I started going through my 6 treatments (the fourth was the hardest for a few of us on the boards - I think because we were tired of it and it wasn't close enough to the last one) it felt like the end would never come. However, the weeks flew by, there was a new routine, and when my last treatment came, I was so happy.
Hang in there. If anyone has questions, please feel free to PM me or ask here. Count on each other, be there for each other, and you will all get through this and this time will soon be a small blip on the radar of your life
Hugs,
Michelle
P.S. - check out the thread called "sucess stories" it helped me a lot on some of my down days!
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Thanks Michelle for the encouragement!!!! Hearing the weeks flew by for you gives me hope....I'm facing 18 weeks.....and I keep telling myself it's not that long!!!!
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