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  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited July 2011

    Hi Christine,

    I am proud of you for losing 70 pounds, because we all know being overweight does not help. I am petite, I no longer smoke, but my major lifestyle change will be exercising. I hate exercise, but if I do radiation I will join an exercise club after the radiation is completed. As for wine I will probably continue drinking 2 glasses twice per week, Be Well and Hugs!

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited July 2011

    I am so greateful for this site. Thanks to all the wonderful women who have posted and eased my fears. Be Well and God Bless!

  • Southamptonmom
    Southamptonmom Member Posts: 491
    edited July 2011

    My husband makes me home-made wine, all natural, and I STOPPED cold turkey :( Chemo is hard on the liver, and I was not chancing liver failure. I did have half a light beer on my off chemo week. Ohhhhh it was so good. I will be back to a glass a day when I'm done.

  • Claire_in_Seattle
    Claire_in_Seattle Member Posts: 4,570
    edited July 2011

    I had to replace some of the Communion Wine at my church that I chugged down during Communion.  Otherwise, I did not drink during chemo as my liver had enough to do.

    Have to admit that I had wine tonight on top of the G&T I drank to dull ankle pain.  I did a group ride and was a hilly route.  My banged up ankle was killing me.  Hoping I can do the 50 mile route of the Seattle Century next week.

    Best of luck Southampton Mom and Welcome.  Good luck with everything! - Claire

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited July 2011

    Painterly - I've lived in Brisbane for the past 32 years, before that Sydney for a few (met my DH there), Brisbane when I left school before that. I went to high school on the Gold Coast. I am originally from Auckland NZ and was brought here as a child by my parents - my heart belongs to NZ though.

  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 8,231
    edited July 2011

    susieq, Four of us (me, DH, and my parents in their 90's) went to Brisbane last September, after visiting our relatives in Sydney. My paternal g'pa was from Sydney; a journalist with the newspaper who traveled to asia on assignments. We LOVED Brisbane; stayed at a tall hotel on the water, and got around with CityCat. Loved, loved, loved how the city was accessible by water, and at night it was heavenly going up and down the river, seeing all the lights. Then all the devastation with all the flooding....that really broke my heart. How is your city faring now? I hope you didn't suffer any, because of that. The other city we loved in Australia was Adelaide, and we stayed in the Medina, the old treasury bldg w/underground tunnels. But like you, our heart lies more in NZ than in OZ. Your birth country is gorgeous!!!! Can't wait to go back to New Zealand.

    Well, I know this was OT, but was excited to read that you live in Brisbane! Can you send me a PM about how Brisbane is doing now, after all that flooding? Thanks!

    Kathy

  • snicklefritz
    snicklefritz Member Posts: 66
    edited July 2011

    I look at it like this:  I did not smoke, drink, do drugs, or do anything bad for my body and I got breast cancer.  Now, I have about three glasses of white wine a week which helps to relax me and I really enjoy it.  I don't know what causes cancer at this point but in moderation, I have to believe that a few drinks a week will be acceptable.  Friends of mine that have smoked, drank to excess, done drugs etc. are perfectly healthy.  Go figure!!

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited July 2011

    Hi Snicklefritz, Thank you for your input. I agree moderation is the key. Be Well!

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited July 2011

    I went to see my surgical oncologist today and my radiology oncologist. They both said 2 or 3 5oz glasses of wine twice a week is fine.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited July 2011
    Kathy - Brisbane is fine now. There are still lots of people who aren't back in their homes yet though. One guy I work with (for an insurance co) is waiting on a payout so he can get his house totally redone. I lived here in 1974 when we had the last big flood, so I knew where it was safe to live - on a hill :) There are still a lot of people who are fighting over their insurance. Seems that lots don't read the fine print or don't have any at all.
  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 8,231
    edited July 2011

    Susie, SO glad to hear that Brisbane is ok. Good thing that you knew where to live! I know how hard and long the rebuilding process is for many people, as we had devastating tornadoes here, the end of April. No damage to us, but just a few miles away entire neighborhoods were gone, as well as a lot of lives. Some people are still going through the insurance jungle and haven't been able to start rebuilding yet. And like you said, some don't even have insurance. Hope to visit your city again some day!!!

    Kate, Seems like the consensus is to use your onc's suggestions as just that, and use moderation and your own judgement as far as drinking goes. Since there is no concrete evidence as to what causes bc, you might as well enjoy whatever brings you pleasure, within reason. I hope you are doing well!

  • Annabella58
    Annabella58 Member Posts: 2,466
    edited July 2011

    i think that your dr. told you to stop as there will be sugery, chemo possibly?

    your liver takes one heck of a load during chemo, so no wine then.  afterwards when you are all healed up, they told me (ER+) two 5 oz. glasses a week, no problem with food.

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited July 2011

    Hi Wahine and Anniealso, Thank you so much for your support. As it stands now, thank God, I won't be needing chemo. I don't know that for sure until after my re-excision surgery and snb on Monday Aug. 1. If everything is clear my onc prescribed 4 weeks of radiation and ht. As I mentioned before, or in another post, I might refuse the hormonal therapy. My doctor doesn't know 100% positive until after the surgery, but thank God, he thinks I will only be a stage 1. Yesterday I asked my surgical onc about drinking wine, and he said 2 or 3 glasses of wine twice a week is fine.

  • ck55
    ck55 Member Posts: 346
    edited July 2011

    lalisa, This something I wonder about

    I love my white wine and just got my latest estradiol level back from the lab and it was <2. So it obviously isn't causing an increase in my estrogen. Wink

    Does this mean that the anti hormonals negate the effects of drinking alcohol?

    This is a question I never get an answer to.

    Cyndi

  • sweetbean
    sweetbean Member Posts: 1,931
    edited July 2011

    Hi, anti-hormonals do not negate the effects of drinking alcohol.  Most women find that they exacerbate the SE's of hormonal therapy.  Add the incredible amount of sugar in alcohol and the crummy effect it has on your immune system.  Personally, as much as i enjoy a nice glass of wine or a delicious glass of beer, I just don't think it is worth it.  From what I have read - it is risky.  Especially for ILC girls - I read on here that someone's onc said (for ILC) "Drinking alcohol is like throwing gasoline on a fire."  Eeeeek.

  • kittycat
    kittycat Member Posts: 2,144
    edited July 2011

    I drink in moderation. I had a couple glasses of wine during chemo, but honestly it did not taste good at all, so I stopped.  I think you have to watch what you do and moderation is key.  The drinking thread is fun.  We have virtual drinks there and a lot of laughs! 

    Good luck with your diagnosis.  I know I was really stressed out when I was dx, especially the 2nd time.  Take care!!!  :)

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited August 2011

    Hi to all those supporting me.

    I had my re-excision surgery and snb today, and I am doing ok. I won't get my pathology report until Wed. or Thursday, but I did get some good news today. My doctor did a preliminary check for lymph node involvement, and thank God my nodes were negative. I look forward to a glass of wine if my path report is good and I will update when I receive it. Thanks for your support.

  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 8,231
    edited August 2011

    Good news kate!!!!

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited August 2011

    Hi Wahine,

    Thank you so much for your support! You are wonderful, and I hope you are doing well.

  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 8,231
    edited August 2011

    Thank you Kate, yes I am doing well. However, very sad as I lost one of my close friends yesterday. Junie was also very active on the drinking thread, and a lot of girls got close to her there, also. I already had my plane tix to visit her in Sept, so of course will have to cancel that res. She was a bc survivor, but had complications from another illness. You can make some close friends from this forum, and that is priceless. There are wonderful girls on all the threads, and you will find support and caring. Join us sometime in the drinking thread if you want to, we usually have a lot of fun, although there is still sadness right now, over losing Junie.

    Hugs to you,

    Kathy

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited August 2011

    Hi Kathy,

    I am saddened about your loss. I am so sorry. How do I find the drinking thread? There will be times when I can join you. I cherish the support I get from wonderful women like you, on this site.

  • wahine
    wahine Member Posts: 8,231
    edited August 2011
    Hi, Just go to Forum IndexForum: Humor and Games → Topic: how about drinking? . There are thousands of posts as this thread was started years ago, so just go to the most recent page. Kittycat who posted here, is also one of our "regulars" or "loungettes" as we call ourselves, as our lounge is the HTL, Hot Tatties Lounge. Come join us anytime!
  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited August 2011

    Hi Kathy,

    Thanks for letting me know, and I will be joining you there sometime soon.

  • LuvRVing
    LuvRVing Member Posts: 4,516
    edited August 2011

    I'm going to chime in here for just a minute to clarify a couple of points...

    Most grain alcohols do not have sugar; as a matter of fact, they are very low carb.  It's the mixer that can add sugar, so be careful if you are trying to limit sugar intake. 

    Dry wines like cabernet also contain no sugar.  A 5 ounce glass has 5 grams of carbs. 

    Sweet white wines have about 7 carb grams for 5 ounces and no sugar.

    Sparkly whites are the lowest carbs - about 1.5 grams for 5 ounces. 

    From what I have learned (I am diabetic and have researched this thoroughly), the liver processes alcohol as a fat.  Limiting alcohol has more to do with not stressing the liver than the concern over sugar content of the beverage itself.

    You can verify the sugar/carb/nutritional information of almost any food or beverage at www.calorieking.com.  There is no charge for searching their extensive database that even includes prepared dishes from your favorite chain restaurant.  And you can scale the information to your desired portion size. 

    I'm not advocating drinking or not drinking.  I'm in the midst of chemo and I will occasionally have a diluted (spritzer or Sangria) glass of wine a couple of days before treatment.  Otherwise, it doesn't taste so good to me and I cannot drink it "straight" right now.

    Wahine - sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. 

    Katehudson - hope you get to enjoy that glass of wine!

    Michelle

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited August 2011

    Hi Michelle,

    Thank you for your post. Be well! I appreciate your support.

  • ktn
    ktn Member Posts: 181
    edited August 2011

    Just finished reading "The Pink Ribbon Diet" written in 2010. Helpful things to prevent BC and recurrence. They addressed the alcohol issue in their book. A few quotes...A 2008 study in southern France found that women who drank approx a glass of wine a day had a lower risk of BC compared to nondrinkers". "Another study in Seattle found that women who were moderate drinkers (regularly consumed 7 drinks/ week) and were diagnosed with BC before they were 45 had a 30% decreased mortality risk from the disease than nondrinkers". "A swedish study of close to 40,000 alcoholic women concluded that alcoholism does not increases BC risk in proportion to presumed ethanol intake. Basically they state they do not feel that a glass of alcohol/ day is a problem. "Worth noting is that even in studies that found increased risk, the threat was small----nowhere near the risk related to being overweight."

    We can beat ourselves up about drinking, diet, weight, exercise but we aren't always in control and that is the problem with BC. We all know many who did everything right and have BC. I try to do my best and pray it is enough but I'll enjoy my wine too! I just passed the 3 year mark from my initial surgery with 2 stage 3 tumours and all is well. My onc told me to live as if it's not coming back. She said she has many patients with advanced BC that she has cared for for 5, 10 and even 20 years. If it comes back we'll fight it then. By the way.....my Onc is from Italy and enjoys her wine too!!!

  • katehudson25
    katehudson25 Member Posts: 2,467
    edited August 2011

    Hi ktn, Conratulations on passing your 3 year mark without problems. Thank God! Enjoy your wine, and I will enjoy mine too!

  • hdangelbaby
    hdangelbaby Member Posts: 731
    edited August 2011

    i had a follow up with my med onc and my surgeon today... i drink a glass of wine or beer 5-7 nights a week, while making dinner. it's one of the simple joys in life and it helps me relax. i also go out 1 night a week and have a few drinks.

    I asked both docs about the drinking thing

    both said there is no conclusive evidence that alcohol causes or raises risk of BC. in fact the best thing is to keep stress low,,, hence, if that means a glass of wine or beer a night, so be it

    the surgeons exact words were " go out and live for petes sake! you have been through enough!"

    that's my justification

  • ck55
    ck55 Member Posts: 346
    edited August 2011

    ktn, thanks for siting the Swedish study on alcoholic women and breast cancer. This is something I have wondered about and was curious if anybody had studied this group. Your post answered this question for me.You would think that if there was a link between alcohol and bc that it would definitely show up in these women.

    Sounds to me like we just need to live our lives and not worry about every little thing we do or don't do maybe causing our cancers to come back. Smile

    Cyndi

  • snicklefritz
    snicklefritz Member Posts: 66
    edited August 2011

    I totally respect the feelings and opinions of everyone on this issue.  The truth is, we simply do not know and there really is no rhyme or reason on this cancer issue.  I have said previously that prior to my diagnosis, I did not smoke, drink, do drugs etc and I still got the disease.  The human body is an incredible mystery with so many things we just don't know.  In moderation, I have to believe a few drinks a week should not make a difference either way.  Best to all.  Mary Jane

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