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Good morning everyone!!
Motheroffoursons~~~ There was absolutely nothing wrong with your posts. IMO, you were only trying to instill some common sense. No sleep for me last night so I kept busy reading some of the interesting views. How exciting!
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Welcome, motheroffoursons. Hope you find the support that you come for here.
I echo that the weather is much improved - mid-80s expected only. I don't like heat, but it's better than what we have had.
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In HONOR of M of 4 sons

Topic: Complementary and Integrative Approach to Healing
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Please go to the thread, and let me know what I need to edit, change in what I've written.
THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
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Welcome MOFS! I suspect the weather might be a tad cooler in Chicago, but not by much. It's predicted that southern Ontario (and I presume the upper midwest U.S.) is to have warmer than usual temps this summer! However, today is another balmy, breezy one here in Niagara. Ah, bliss!
About honey bees: Many, many apiarists in this area have suffered great losses over the past few years. My DH has had to take his little brush out to the tomato patch and do some pollinating. I'm just not seeing honey bees, here but mostly bumblebees and the dreaded yellow jackets.
Lots of theories about the causes -- the environment is a one, but another which seems to carry more weight is some sort of disease (which may have been encouraged by the environment, pesticides or whathaveyou). But as Blue says -- if the honeybee population goes bye-bye, so do we. It's incredible how much we humans are dependent on those sweet little insects.
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We are bee keepers. Well, we used to bee. Kept losing hives and replacing them. Finally just had to let them go. Fortunately, the wild bee and bumble bee population has been growing and have been enough for pollination of the trees. No honey though.
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Wow CS, I am honored at the website note. Never had this happen before.
Sharon
By the way, is caerus a specific type of sunflower?
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Sharon, naw nothing like that
My computer crashed, I lost everything, and when I went back on to sign on as Sunflowers, which I was/am, I couldn't remember my password. duh ;( So I had to think of a new name, the goddess Caerus, came to mind, so I became that. Then, learned I could change it so everyone who knew me as Sunflowers would know it was me, or at least the me I think I sometimes am
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Welcome Mother of Four! I have one son .. so you must have your hands full. Feeding one teenage boy was incredible, can't imagine feeding four boys at one time!
I think Caerus was a dog. I might be wrong though .. can't remember.
I have tons of bumble bees and wasps, but no honeybees. Usually, I have a hive in one of my trees, but not this year. I wonder if that's why my tomatoes didn't take off .. well that and the stupid deer and rabbits.
I don't mind the bumblebees and find them harmless. I have already been stung once this year by a wasp and it HURT!
So far having a great day ... mowed a couple of fields and there was a light breeze and the humidity has dropped. yay! It felt good to be outside again.
hugs to all,
Bren
EDITED: Just saw Sunflowers note .. geez I was way off on Caerus!
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LOL - I think you were thinking of Cereberus?
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Way to go, C-S! A fresh start with a new thread. I've always wished the stuff on the Alt forum wasn't so exclusive. These are not black-or-white, all-or-none choices we are making (in most cases), so there's no reason to vilify people who are undergoing conventional BC treatment and want to learn about complementary strategies. (I was going to say more, but I think I'll stop there.)
The honey bee problem is scary. I keep telling myself that, maybe the native bees (of which there are lots) will take over and do what the honey bees have been doing. After all, honey bees aren't native to the U.S. -- they were imported from Europe, and have replaced native bees. I do agree that most people don't realize how much modern agriculture relies on honey bees. I didn't know until a few years ago that farmers "rent" honey bees, bringing in fully-loaded hives by the truckload when their crops need pollinating.
Re: What day is today? LOL. Being retired, I have that problem a lot. For instance, all day yesterday I assumed it was Thursday; so today, of course, feels like Wednesday. My trick is to launch "iCal", which marks the current day/date on the calendar in a contrasting color. Better yet, I can click on the "Dashboard" icon at the bottom of my laptop screen, which instantly opens a bunch of useful stuff -- an analog clock displaying the current time up to the second; a weather calendar showing current local conditions and what's in store for the upcoming week (how do they do that?); a "pocket" calculator for simple arithmetic; and a monthly calendar with today's day & date prominently marked. I have a MacBook Pro, so YMMV. I don't know what Bill Gates provides along those lines.
Gotta go. Phone calls to make; groceries to buy; haircut to schedule.
otter
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Bee rentals used to be a huge business in our farming community. If you have ever watched pollination, honey bees are much more efficient than the bumble bees which are very slow at their job. However, the job got done in our orchard. Too bad the hail and scab hit afterwards! Farming is almost impossible these days.
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pip57, What is hail and scab?
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If it hails, the ice pellets damage the apple (or other fruit) and the leaves that nourish the fruit. As the fruit grows, the spot only gets bigger and can eventually split.
Scab occurs because of the moulds and fungus that grows when it rains. It can ruin a crop within hours of the rain. Again the spot on the apple continues to grow as the apple grows.
Because of the bizarre weather patterns in the last decade, we have not had a "bumper crop" for 12 years. We used to have one every 3 or 4 years.
Edited to add: That is why we are selling our farm!!
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What a shame. When we lived in Illinois we had a mini farm where we had about 10 fruit trees. We had the best fruit all season long. It is one of the many things I miss, that and the lovely garden we had.
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My apple trees aren't doing so great this year either. I just let them fall for the deer. My anjou pear tree is bursting with pears, but my asian pear tree is very light this year. Which is a shame .. I really like the asian pears, they are so sweet and juicy.
This fall we're having the two big chestnut trees taken out. Don't need the shade and I hate those trees, they are so dang messy! We've got an 80 feet oak that makes great shade, so that's enough. I'd also like to take out the black walnut trees, as they are a mess too. Very pretty trees, but I don't like black walnuts and they're a hassle to get out of the pod and shell. Plus they stain your clothes and hands.
I tried to plant a rose garden, but the deer ate them. I was so disappointed, as I always had the most beautiful rose gardens in San Diego.
Bren
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@Otter: Bill Gates provides "This program is not responding". And that's why I have an IMac!
I went to our local blueberry farm yesterday. The owner says this is the BEST year ever -- he has several bushes which have no leaves, only the berries! The cool, wet weather that seemed to last forever this spring has produced high-quality soft fruits in bounteous quantities! I drove past some peach orchards yesterday and the trees looked heavy with fruit. The winemakers are also predicting a vintage year.
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I am just going down to our barn to bag up some blueberries for the freezer. Strawberries done. Just waiting for the raspberries...next week.
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If I had any gumption, I'd be picking blackberries!
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Safeway has 2 lbs of blueberries on sale for $5 on Friday. I'll be picking my blueberries then!
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Pip -- I spotted a few nice red raspberries in our patch this morning! I think they'll be ready tomorrow. Raspberries are my very favourite fresh berry. And isn't it wonderful that something that tastes SO good is also SO good for you?
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My fav too. We have lots of wild ones but most of them don't make it back to the house when I pick them.
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We're a bit ahead of you in the Detroit area . . . I've been picking red raspberries since this past weekend. I don't get more than a generous handful or so a day, unfortunately.
Speaking of gardening . . . I got the funniest (to me) gardening question today. Someone wanted to know if greens that slugs had nibbled at were safe to eat. All I could think of was, if they *weren't,* I'd never be able to eat a single leaf out of my garden!
L
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I miss my days in Vermont, when those cool nights and warm days made for awesome fruit. The berries and apples here just do not have that great flavor.
However, our peaches, corn and other vegetables rock, as do my herbs. I have a pretty good bee population that loves to drink from my hummingbird feeder, so I know that they are out there, but I do worry about their smaller population. Also see very few snakes and frogs. All part of the circle of life, and necessary for our planet.
I do not use any pesticides, so I know that I share my few plants with the occasional critter, but I don't want to hurt my birds! Enjoy your berry picking, wish we had a Safeway as I am too lazy to go to one of the farms to pick. May have to make a trip to Farmers Market before the usual weekend visit.
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The phone calls were made; the haircut appointment is tomorrow; so the groceries (and trip to town) can wait until then.
IJBCA, you want frogs? We've got frogs! When we bought this acreage, we had an earthen dam built, creating a small pond to serve the wildlife and provide an occasional crawfish dinner (discussed elsewhere). There were already plenty of frogs and turtles, this having been an undeveloped tract of land for many, many decades, with creeks and seeps and scattered swampy areas. So, it didn't take long for the amphibians to discover what we'd done and take over the pond. We flood the pond in the fall and winter, and drain it in the summer, just as the area would cycle during natural seasons. It doesn't take much water -- maybe only a foot or so -- for the frogs to go crazy. We closed the pond valve last week to back the water up so we could pump some to our other pond, and now every night we're treated to a deafening chorus of frog calls.
Long story short: there still are amphibians out there, if the habitat is right. We just don't know they're there. If you build it, they will come.
Re: red raspberries. They are by far my favorite fruit... next to fresh, ripe strawberries; and home-grown (not store-bought) freestone peaches; and maybe super-ripe figs fresh off the tree; ... oh, and huge, juicy blueberries. I'm sure there are more I'm forgetting.
Unfortunately, we can't grow good raspberries here in the SE U.S., although we're overrun with wild blackberries. I think the raspberries can't tolerate the heat and humidity; or maybe there are diseases they contract here. Whatever the reason, I do miss them. I used to pick gallons of wild red raspberries while horseback riding as a child. Tied 5-quart ice cream buckets behind the saddle and walked along the edges of fields, where the raspberry canes drooped over the path. YUM!!!
otter
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We are behind in our berries. Just getting thimble berries (a patch invited itself into our front bushes and I made sure DH didn't chop them down), blueberries not yet ripe (anticipated to be late) blackberries just blooming. Strawberries were also late and what I have had so far has not rocked my world.
but cherries are another story---tons and tons of yummy cherries. If there are good things that fight cancer in cherries, I am set for the next few weeks. . . .
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We still have some frogs, but no longer see the huge migrations that I noticed when we moved to Kentucky. I did have the cutest little tree frog on a vine on my deck the other day. I am just concerned that with all of the climate changes, that bees, frogs, snakes and other species are struggling.
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We had a decline in bees but they are back this year pretty strong. My local beekeeper is selling raw honey once again and at bargain prices. I love to chew honey comb when I have a sore throat.
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First time I ever heard singing frogs was in Barbados many years ago. Around 6 every night (sundown) they'd start their choruses - never singing the same tune, however, and all of them tone-deaf! Reminded me of a string orchestra tuning up. Drove me crazy until about the 3rd night and then I thought -- well, they live here full time and I don't, so I'd just better get used to it! Now when we visit those islands, I look forward to hearing them. Canadian frogs don't sing, or maybe they're just shy
.Good news about the bees, Barbara. I love honeycomb too!
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