DIEP 2011

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  • mscal02
    mscal02 Member Posts: 522
    edited June 2011

    Sharon: Is the implant in your native breast for lift?

  • pupfoster1
    pupfoster1 Member Posts: 1,484
    edited June 2011

    Had the DIEP on the right breast and an implant on the left as there was not enough tissue for both sides.

     
    Sharon

  • alexanjb
    alexanjb Member Posts: 304
    edited June 2011

    Love you gals that tell us that you would do it all again.  That helps a lot as the clock is ticking towards 6:30 am.  One of you mentioned that you knew no matter how much you cleaned your house before going 2 kids and 2 dogs will mess it up.  The thought crossed my mind with 2 dogs and DH!

  • mscal02
    mscal02 Member Posts: 522
    edited June 2011

    I just came home and stepped across and just looked at everything that I was not pleased with.I will get around to some serious cleaning next week( maybe). As long as my bedroom and my sitting rooms are clean. I run the little light weight vacuum over the floor and all is well.

  • mscal02
    mscal02 Member Posts: 522
    edited June 2011

    Thanks Sharon: I will talk to him about how he is going to do my lift on my native breast at my next appointment. I hope that he will just get fat from somewhere to use.

  • c8ndygr1
    c8ndygr1 Member Posts: 186
    edited June 2011

    NotAfraid - Wowza, you look smokin', girl. Looking at you, no one would even suspect you've recently had big time surgery. You remind me of Susan Sarandon - totally hot.

    Nicurn4444 - join the 21 Club, there are three of us now on the same date, 6/21/11. Too bad we can't hold hands. We'll have to compare notes afterward.

    Alex - you are too funny with your Girlie Wisdom list. So true... And thanks for posting your packing list. I'm a total list-maker for EVERYTHING. Currently working on pre- and post- lists (bought Colace today).

    Mscal02 - it really pumps me up that you are loving your new body so soon after surgery. Now that you have the Docs go-ahead, grab your DH and lock the bedroom door - lol.

    JustLaura - welcome to the thread. You and Mo (Ladym13) are both on the same date. We'll be keeping you in our thoughts and sending good healing vibes your way.

    Thanks to Snobird and Pupfoster for the well-wishes. We love to hear your success stories.

  • NotAfraid
    NotAfraid Member Posts: 218
    edited June 2011

    mscal02 -

    I figure that, after all we've been through, a higher opinion of ourselves is quite forgivable.  

    alexanjb

    Go forth and be amazing!!!  I can't wait to hear about your journey from the "other side". 

  • NotAfraid
    NotAfraid Member Posts: 218
    edited June 2011

    Thanks for the positive support of my pool pic.  I posted it to show those of you having surgery soon that life gets better really fast.  I NEVER would have thought I'd be lounging in a pool with my dog on my lap at 9 weeks post op.  I'm just filled with gratitude towards my PS AND to my body.  While the body may like to produce cancer, it also heals with amazing rapidity.  I'm grateful for that!

    I get compared to Susan Sarandon a lot - but she has bigger boobs then me now. ;) 

  • mikita5
    mikita5 Member Posts: 373
    edited June 2011

    alexanjb: Here's another one that would "DO IT AGAIN".....You still look the same.....just the stuffing is different....(well, a few scars, but they'll fade) I haven't had my tattoo very long (need to have it darkened a bit) but it did make a lot of difference..... and the 'nipple' is very realistic!

    Hey, I see there's some ladies closer to my age than a lot of the younger ladies on bc.org... I was post menopausal and 57 when diagnosed. Now, headed toward 59 and holding. Got rid of those saggy boobs and now have perky ones!!

    Hang in there ladies who are still facing surgery... It'll be over before you know it!!

  • mscal02
    mscal02 Member Posts: 522
    edited June 2011

    Mikita; I am 59. I heard the nurses outside my room when I was taken to the floor after having my DIEP surgery holding a discussion, when finally they came in and all the time they were debating about my age. My GD had been there to visit when one of them had asked if she was my DD? One of them preceded to tell me that there was no way that I was 59. 39 maybe but surely  not 59. I had to tell them to just look at my paper work,there is no mistake the DOB is correct. I had this blue surgical cap still on my head, no make up and looking a hot mess. These were young and old nurses. I tell you that God is good!

  • mscal02
    mscal02 Member Posts: 522
    edited June 2011

    c8ndygr1; I am already wondering if I should pull out my Jane of the jungle outfit, or just take it easy on him.

  • mikita5
    mikita5 Member Posts: 373
    edited June 2011

    mscal:   lol   Yep, he surely is!   I must say I'm ok with makeup and guys at work have made the comment that I sure was "aging well".... and I look a lot younger than 58... But, now, without makeup would probably be a different thing! lol   Altho, I do have the added pleasure of having my eyeliner tattooed, so I'll never really look like a real ghost!!

  • mikita5
    mikita5 Member Posts: 373
    edited June 2011

    Has anyone here (who's finished reconstruction, etc.) become an exibitionist???? I did!! I showed anyone who wanted to look (ladies, of course.....no men)... I even asked my optometrist if she wanted to see (after I'd told her about  bc and changes she needed to know about to update her chart). She said "oh no!".... We talked quite a bit longer, then she reached over, touched my arm and said "You know what??? I said I didn't want to see, but I really do!"... Ok....here you go!!!!

  • treesprite
    treesprite Member Posts: 359
    edited June 2011

    notafraid: you are totally rocking that suit. Is Thurston wearing bathing attire? My sister has a pug - that is a great photo all the way around!

    alexanjb: Pretty soon you will be on the other side telling us all how great you feel!

    So many getting ready for surgery -- I'm trying to spread the word about DIEP - it is such a great option! I'm about 10 weeks or so out and my diep side is loosening up as well -- I've been doing some massage and that seems to help, but that would be up to your PS to okay. My tummy is definitely moving more towards feeling normal - not as tight and the feeling is almost normal. My belly button scar has some lumpy places, but I have decided not to worry about it . . . they will fade and diminish with time, or I'll just get used to them. 

    Snobird: thanks for keeping us posted - good to know what to expect in the coming months!

    Anyone want to buy a teenage boy, 17, charming to others but horrible to his own parents . . PM me if you want to make an offer  . . wait, I'll pay you to take him . . arghhh . . breathe, breathe, breathe . .  . 

  • alexanjb
    alexanjb Member Posts: 304
    edited June 2011

    JANE of the JUNGLE outfit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Surprised  I hope you post a pic of that one!

    Treesprite, they don't stay 17 forever.  It will be ok.

  • alexanjb
    alexanjb Member Posts: 304
    edited June 2011

    and I think you ladies will like this one, I got overheated today talking to my sister outside in the sun on a park bench in front of Applebee's after lunch, and then grocery shopping.  I took out my flubber out at red light, stuck it in my purse and said to myself-"never again".  I should have thrown it out the window!!!! (sorry officer)

    You gals know what the flubber is...rubber foob

  • SAMayoFL
    SAMayoFL Member Posts: 958
    edited June 2011

    So, first things first, Xrayest (Lori) is doing well.  Her surgery was long but her DH said she is doing good.  She got up this afternoon and sat in a chair for a while.  He said she was in a little pain but was doing remarkably well.  Go Lori!!!  I can't wait to hear all the details!

    Alexan, wooohooo, never to need the flubber roob again!  We will all be waiting anxiously to hear from your family too.  I know you are going to be a member of the joy@2hotboobs.com club too!

    Kathy, there is no way under this sun I would buy or be paid to take another teenager again!!  You are stuck with him sista!!  LOL!!!  I do feel bad for you though and certainly feel your pain.  Don't worry though - it will pass in about another 10 years.

    Mscal a/k/a Jane, you go girl.  Swing away!

    My DH took my pictures tonight so I can send them to my surgery.  OMG, surely pictures make you look at least 100 pounds heavier than you really are, right?  Geez, I am not sending these to Dr. Kline or anyone else.  The only place these are being sent is the recycle bin.  YUCK!!!!

    Susan

  • Lilyn
    Lilyn Member Posts: 282
    edited June 2011

    Not afraid you look fabulous!!!! alexanjib good luck with your surgery!!!!!! Whenever you can sometime in the future you need to email me that girlie wisdom. Cracked me up Take care all of you. Love lois 

    mmtitle@rogers.com  

  • Snobird
    Snobird Member Posts: 593
    edited June 2011

    Treesprite, my son is now 25 but oh do I know what you're going through. All I can say is 23 seems to be the magic age of reconciliation and maturation. 16 to 22 hold on to your hat!

  • Suz39
    Suz39 Member Posts: 125
    edited June 2011

    Hi Everybody,

    I just wanted to pop in again.  My surgery date is looming (June 21st - seems like a popular day).  And so is my 40th birthday (June 13th).  I can't tell you how much it has meant to me to read your stories, and the special treat of seeing a picture today!   I have to say that some days, I am terrified about this surgery, and wondering if I should have just gone for a straight mastectomy, but then I log on, and read your stories, and I feel so much better about my decision.  Thank you for sharing your strength and your optimism.  Dare I hope to walk away from this process even happier with my breasts than I am now (they aren't that great really, but now that I am losing one, I feel strangely attached to it)?  It seems risky, but after reading today's posts, somewhat conceivable!

    I have some pre op stuff on Friday, which I think is blood work and a CAT scan.  Can anybody who is having their surgery with Dr. Zhong in Toronto, fill me in on what to expect.

    Also, I can't remember where I read it, but there was some discussion about sentinal node mapping, and that the injection is quite painful.  Any tips on this or first hand experiences?

    Thanks!

    Suz39, soon to be Suz40 

  • SAMayoFL
    SAMayoFL Member Posts: 958
    edited June 2011

    Hey Suz, honestly, the sentinel node mapping is definitely not the worst thing I have been through over these last few months.  It really is no big deal.  The shot they give is on the edge of your nipple and it feels like a small bee sting.  I guess, really, it feels like just about any shot does.

    I wish you all the best on your reconstruction journey.  I can't wait to hear all about it when you are on the other side.  And happy, happy birtday next week!

    Susan

  • canarychick
    canarychick Member Posts: 14
    edited June 2011

    I just read about 4 pages of this and can barely breathe from the panic. It sounds worse than I thought. I was just diagnosed Brca 2 positive and I'll have surgery the beginning of July. I don't have the exact date. Now I don't know if I can go through with it. I don't have cancer. Please tell me I can do it.

  • SAMayoFL
    SAMayoFL Member Posts: 958
    edited June 2011

    Canarychick, you and I must be twins!!  I am BRCA2+ also and have a real tendency towards those panic attacks.  Sometimes I will read something and totally flip out!!

    Up at the top of this screen on the red part there is a member search.  Search for IowaSue, Mscal and Brendaclee.  All three of these ladies have been through DIEP reconstruction over the last few weeks and you will see how wonderful they are doing.  Sue went back to work after two weeks, Mscal is chasing her DH around the house because she is looking so HOT and Brenda went shopping 10 days after surgery.  I think sometimes it sounds a lot scarier than it is in the long run.  Also, XrayestinMa had surgery yesterday.  I talked with her DH this afternoon and she is already up sitting in a chair and walking around a bit.  These ladies have totally amazed me!

    Is your surgery prophylactic or have you been diagnosed with BC.  Take care and keep in touch!

    Susan

  • ladym13
    ladym13 Member Posts: 251
    edited June 2011

    Suz39- I am having my DIEP on Tues the 14th with Dr. Zhong and I have my preop and CT scan on Friday too...what time are you there...?

    Happy 40th for Monday:)

  • canarychick
    canarychick Member Posts: 14
    edited June 2011

    Dear SAMayo,

    I do not have cancer yet. What is BC? All my cousins do and my mother and grandmother died from it so I am going to have a double mast. My sister had one yesterday, but went with the silicone implants with no nipple sparing. I want the DIEP badly, but am SO scared. Thank you for your reply. I also live in FL, Lake Mary, in Seminole County. I am going to MD Anderson in Orlando and using Dr. Klein. What are you doing?

    Donna

  • treesprite
    treesprite Member Posts: 359
    edited June 2011

    Thank you everyone for the encouragement - 23 huh, I think I can make it! I knew I could count on you girls for cheery words without judgment!

    Canarychick: BC is breast cancer. Of course you are scared - this is a big procedure but your surgical team will handle the hardest parts and you will snooze away and wake up with the potential breast cancer tissue gone and two soft noobs that will eventually be lovely breasts and then you will be well taken care of to get you through the hard parts.

    I think there is something in our guts that tell us that we must use our own tissue as opposed to implants. DIEP is state of the art in breast reconstruction and for good reason. Once you complete this process (stage 1,2,etc), you're done! No worry about replacements every 10 years or so or the other issues that go with implants.

    Suz: the sentinal node mapping didn't bother me a bit . . .I was so interested in the process and asking questions, well, and also having my DH massage me to help the isotope stuff migrate! I'm so glad they no longer have to yank out all our lymph nodes just in case!

    Kathy

    sorry ladym . . Happy upcoming Birthday to Suz! I think I can remember what turning 40 is like . . now if I can just remember whose post I read . . .  . . \

  • Dutchy
    Dutchy Member Posts: 432
    edited June 2011

    It has been 8 months since I had my DIEP and just got my nipples done yesterday.  I am almost finished with this journey.  I was told to get my tatoos in a month.  Tomorrow I get to shower and see my nipples.  I am so excited and can not sleep.

    I have not been on line for awhile and thought I'd just say hi and good luck to any ladies coming up on their surgery dates.  For those of you having the DIEP, Good Luck.

  • alexanjb
    alexanjb Member Posts: 304
    edited June 2011

    My turn!  Off to see the wizard.  Strangely calm.

  • ladym13
    ladym13 Member Posts: 251
    edited June 2011

    treesprite- nope I think it was Suz birthday- another 4 years before my 40th...but thanks anyway :)

    Alexanjb- Good luck although I know you don't need it and you'll be great- I'll be thinking of you all day :)

    Mo

  • mscal02
    mscal02 Member Posts: 522
    edited June 2011

    Hi Ladies: I just got back from my walk. I could hardly sleep last night for the anticipation of it. I am looking forward to tomorrow and when I can go farther. I am starting slow probably 1 mile. I could not get either of my pedometers to work this morning.My DH called me a hot skinny girl this morning.I am off grocery shopping before it gets too hot outside.

    I am so glad that Xray is doing so good.

    Alexa: You and the wizard are going to do great!

    Dutchy: Good for you. I still have a few months before I am there.

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