LeScarfie, LeDress-up, LeHappyFabric
It's summer.
There's a collective groan among those who have encountered LE.
What to wear?
When we were in Europe, earlier this spring, EVERYONE was wearing scarves. Scarves were available EVERYwhere, in every possible design.
I bought a 6 foot scarf that is made of one continuous piece of 'pre-pleated' fabric which measures about 20 inches in it's natural/scrunchie state. It measures about 40 inches when the fabric is pulled to it's max width or flattened.
Anyhow. Quite by accident, while in Europe I wrapped the scarf around my compression sleeved arm while wearing a tank top. A little tuck here and there and I could have one 'naked' arm and one bare shoulder. VOILA!!!!!
For the first time in the summer I felt like I didn't need to be 'on guard' from total strangers asking what I'd done to my arm. Oh happy day!!
Today, a delightfully warm summer day in the low 80's, we went to see "Jersey Boys" and I decided to use my European scarf idea again & wanted it not to flop/slip around so much --with me tugging. So I made the scarf into a 'tube' by sewing it closed at one edge to slide my compression sleeve'd arm into and then just draped the rest of the length of the scarf around my neck. The sewing it shut/tube is a more permanent solution for using the scarf as a dressy hiding spot. I hope that this makes sense.
Here's the scarf:
Here's what I mean by scrunchie-fabric:
6 foot in length to start.
I sewed the long edges together at one end to create a sort of tube.
I sewed the scarf by hand.
Here's a little closer-look at the hand-sewn edge:
Here's what it looked like at Jersey Boys:
Here's a couple of other views once home:
It 'held-up' completely 7 hours, we're home now:
Here's the way it looked in the back once home:
So I offer this 'idea' as one way for those who only have one arm involved in this journey, to have a way to wear a tank top/sundress and with a bit of slight-of-hand a bare arm and a second bare shoulder. It's give me a whole new perspective.
I think you could find very dressy fabric/scarf and really make something awesome that would look quite contemporary/artistic/asymetric and give you some privacy.
Ask questions if this doesn't make sense.
Comments
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Good Job DEB!!!
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That is a very creative idea -- lots of potential there for covering the sleeve while baring the shoulders. I like it a lot!!!
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That's a great idea, and aren't most inventions discovered by accident? You're like a fashion designer - I love it!
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Creative, practical and stylish - congratulations on such a smart solution. And thanks for sharing your detailed directions too!
Judith and the BCO team
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Good design, you may have a start of something good!!!! NJ
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Now that's a great idea!!! The larger sized ladies (ahem, I'm one) could also use this idea for creating someting cool while hiding the larger upper arms. Thanks!
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I wear scarves constantly - and yours is gorgeous!!!! And how smart are you????? What a great idea.
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Debbie, you look gorgeous, and what a great idea!
Did you like the show?
Kira
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i LIKE the title of this thread... and you look marvelously coordinated and chic...
great idea - there are a lot of very lightweight Indian cottons and rayons that can be wring dried to create that look.
For crafty things and dyeing I peruse and buy from this sight..
http://www.dharmatrading.com/topnav/fabric/
they have very cheap silks
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I love that!
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"They LIKE it!!! They LIKE it!!!!"
(Channeling Sally Fields: LOL)
I'm so glad that it seems to make sense to everyone.
I thought it might be helpful to share the exact moment when my lightbulb went off, about sewing the one end into a tube and why this is beneficial.
Here's the picture I asked DH to take, when the lightbulb went off that this was an awesome idea and might bring some happy, happy to others, too:
BTW: I'm leaning against an Italian wall in the village of Lucca.
[This is same tank top & same scarf -- as you can see, pre-sewn-tube concept.]
In this first-ever version I had just tucked one end of the scarf into my wrist compression sleeve and a bit of scarf is stuffed into the shoulder band of my sleeve as well.
At the time, I thought I was totally all glam, with my arm against the pillar for said photo to share with you at a later date.
It wasn't until I downloaded the photos that I realized that the compression sleeve was all exposed and that's when the concept of the tube emerged as an 'up-grade-idea.'
I have been experimenting with scarves for the last month.
Having enough length in the scarf seems to be the real solution -- especially for the body-draping concept. I hope that the illustion gives the impression of just a scarf draped oh so casually across the shoulder (to the on-looker.)
The tube affair is the real camoflage.
As you may be realizing, I am now at the point of wearing just a sleeve for 'everyday' sitting at the theatre events. I still wear gauntlet when doing anything physical, flying etc etc.
I think with enough material in the scarf you could put a little stitch in the very end to create a mitten effect and still hide an entire gauntlet with ease.
BTW. I have met a woman up-here (great arts mecca) whose business is the creation of scaves on the bias etc etc etc. I wanted to see if you gals were interested in the concept, before turning this artie-entreprenuer on to you. Her pieces are one-of-a-kind and I just know that she'd create commissioned LeScarfies for people who needed an 'exact' set of colors for a formal occasion.
Anyhow, I think there's real potential here. Not to get the cart in front of the horse, but I have IDEAS!!!!
"They LIKE it!! They LIKE it!!!
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Have you considered sharing this information with the looks good feels better organization?
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Lago, I will share this information with any organization/entity, that anyone directs me to, where it might be of service.
It was literally yesterday as we drove to the play that I finally, en route, sewed the tube together, I literally didn't know what it would look like yesterday until I saw it in the photo -- after the fact.
(I have more ideas than I actually bring to fruition.)
I don't think a patent is in order. LOL.
You dear peeps will remember where it all started and will attest to my light-bulb moment.
For even the slightest of craftie folks, it can easily be under-taken in a DIY (do-it-yourself) project mode with a great deal of ease.
I'll go call my scarf-making connection & let her know that the first response is positive.
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OK. Sent an email to Look Good Feel Better.
Any other thoughts?
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Maybe here: http://www.stepup-speakout.org
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Lago, we'd live to have it on the site as a coping page--and our webmaster jane/onebadbood is quite the fashionista, so she'd adore it.
We always need to get permissions before we put anything up.
I think Deb could find a wide market for this, I'm wracking my brain to figure out how to access that market.
Kira
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Deb, the way such things are marketed in order to reach people with LE is to have a booth at conferences for therapists and/or trade shows for boutique owners. Obviously there's a fee, but I don't know what it would be. You can also advertise in the NLN newsletter, LymphLink, but you'd have to be devoted to the idea to do all that. The NLN now has an email newsletter as well where you might present this idea. Lovely look, great idea.
Thanks!
Binney -
Faith, I love scarves, I'd sure look at a site that was selling your idea. I love that look.
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You are so clever! What a great idea, and you look so put together!
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faithandfifty--How creative you are! I am SO impressed. Becky
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LOVE IT!!!!! I only wear the gauntlet but will share the idea with my therapist. You are such a fashionista.
Sheila
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I have tons of scarves, too bad I can't sew! But, hey, I know someone who can. What an impressive thinker you are. Thanks.
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Though not as clever as Lago's LeScarfie, "infinity" scarves can be used in a somewhat similar way. While looking for sun-protective clothing, I found the following scarf.
http://www.coolibar.com/07508.html
It's cool, SPF 40 and stylish. KS1
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