GRRRRRRRRR I HATE LE..........
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Healing thoughts to kmmd who is having surgery today.
Kira
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Thanks Kira, just got home, I'm sore and tired but things went very well. I chickened out on the marker idea, but, the nurse in preop was very concerned and fashioned some stickers with orders on them to not use the arm and put them on me. Everyone confirmed, we won't use that arm. I felt very safe going in, it was wonderful
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kmmd--I am thinking about you.
Hugs--Becky
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Here's to all dominate side LE girls!!! We have an extra cross to bear, I'll tell ya. Can't tell you how many times my bandages have unrolled across the floor (yes, Binney, even when I sit in the center of my king bed) trying to wrap myself. If it weren't for me DH, I'd probably never wrap. I can do my fingers pretty good now, but the rest. Forgeddaboutit. So, Ducky, I hear ya. Believe me, you are on the road to being able to deal with it. When I first went from bandages to a sleeve, I thought I'd died and went to heaven. What glorious freedom. Now I even bitch about the sleeve, the gauntlet, the glove, the night time oven mitt. But you are will find additional solace from everyone on this site. We all understand what you're going through. As Binney and Kira say, IT WILL GET BETTER.
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Kate, wonderful! Rest up, get better, be well!
Binney
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Ducky, you're quacking our song!
We're with you! Never, never, never apologize for bitching about wrapping here -- in fact, I thought you said it really well.
Bear hugs!
Binney -
Kate, you trooper, home already. Rest up and take care of yourself. I'm glad it went well.
Kira
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Update on my mil. She was able to get a referral by her doctor to see the LE therapist that I see and had her first visit today. Sandy did verify my thought that she had LE in her thigh and said that my mil should have come in when she first started having problems last year. Sandy has her thigh wrapped and wearing a compression boot on her lower leg. she will be going to Sandy twice a week to start. I am just glad that she was finally able to get the needed referral to see Sandy.
Sheila
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im glad she finally got it sorted out. things will get better from here..
my hand is in a bit of a flare, today, but i've discovered, if im careful, i CAN type with my Gottfried gloves on... 3jays
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Ivtwoqlt,Happy mil is getting some help
Jo-5 re: skin and LE changes with swimming. I dont' usually have much access to a pool or hot tub, but, my LE therapist did tell me that she has some breast LE patients who have noticed hot nightly baths or hot tubs, warm pools etc aggravate the LE. Warned me since I don't swim a lot, that not doing it for awhile then going on vacation and swimming a lot is not a good idea, to build up swimming with the arm gradually. Don't know if it helps, but, it all kind of made sense to me
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Hi Ladies what would I do without you...............I'm going to try to type with both hands so forgive my errors..........................My LE was caught early, in fact I was the one w;ho asked about it....I knew something didn't look right and I had read up on everything about breast cancer once I knew I had it........LE was something I was scared of getting...........
Oh yes, my wraps went rolling across the floor more then once, and thank God the windows were closed........My language would have scared a truck driver............
My LE person is Board Certified, and my daughter thought she was wonderful, and so very thorough, and that is coming from the most "anal" person I know........Fought the insurance company like hell to get her....she was not covered by them, but I insisted and they allowed it.
LE specialist says mine is mild, and I may only be in the wraps for about 3 weeks, or until the swelling goes from 12% down to 5%. So I guess it is up to the body to take care of that.
I was also upset cause they added 3 more boosts to my Rads............not welcome news, but was told yesterday.............
I will have to ask about the pool crap. I have a pool at my home down the shore, and staying out of the sun is bad enough, now "no pool"......................does it get any better......what a bunch of shit...............Again thanks ladies hoping to get the courage you all have to handle this LE crap..............have a great weekend
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Ah ducky, you are back! I had visions of you all wrapped up in bandages from head to toe and unable to communicate. I do type and figure it is good resistance against the bandages. When I am in a sleeve my therapist told me to return to the indoor pool for exercises. I am sorry you have to have more rads. Weren't you the one doing scratch off lottery tickets? I wish I had bought one for each day I have been bandaged. But I probably could not have gotten them scratched off with my left hand. My left hand/arm is getting stronger and more proficient. I do dearly hope you only have three weeks. Have a good weekend.
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Thank you all for your kind words and advice, and I apologize to those who found what I wrote discouraging. To the credit of the "LE gets worse" therapist, she and the garment fitter were taken aback when I said that, given what she had told me, why bother doing anything for LE. She did say if I did nothing, my LE might get really bad, and the fitter said that I should continue wearing a Tribute at night. I didn't "fire" her, but I have canceled my appointments with her. If she isn't going to wrap me or teach me how to wrap or do anything different, what's the point of seeing her? Also, I find her Eeyore-esque proclamations very discouraging.
Anyways, on Thursday I saw a 2nd LE therapist for the third time. This 2nd therapist is much more upbeat. She says my hand looks a lot better than at the beginning of the flare and she thinks it can get even better than it is now. She did MLD concentrating on the wrist where she says there is some fibrosis and the ulnar side of the forearm where there is pitting edema. (For what it is worth, the first LE therapist says I don't have any fibrosis or pitting edema in my forearm or wrist.)
After MLD, she wrapped me. When I took the bandages off 24 hours later, my hand looked fantastic, although it did increase in size within an hour. But, I find it encouraging that it was smaller initially, especially given that I saw the 2nd therapist immediately after having received zometa and lupron, both of which make me swell. Also, the 2nd therapist only directed LE fluid toward my groin and not my non-LE arm because the arm was swollen from 3 infiltrated IVs.
So, despite the fact that it takes me 5 hours RT to get to the 2nd LE therapist and I have to pay the full amount out of pocket, I think I will continue seeing her every couple of weeks. I think in another 3 or 4 sessions, I may be reasonably competent at wrapping. - KS1
PS In the past, I have always been a very easy "stick," but two nurses who tried to start the IV for zometa said that the skin in my non-LE arm was strangely tough and it was hard to puncture the skin. Has anyone heard of this? I don't have LE in that arm and I didn't have any nodes removed on that side, but I did have a partial mastectomy (at the 3 to 5 o'clock region of the breast).
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KS1-What a difference a good therapist makes. I am so happy you were able to find one. I too am traveling a long distance for one now after nine weeks of not being happy. I hope you hand keeps improving some. Becky
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Ducky, good for you for typing!
You ARE brave -- courage doesn't mean you have to like it, just that you keep on slogging through it. None of us like it one bit. If you look through the archives here you'll find any number of good, healthy rants like yours.
We get it!
The extra rads stinks too. My rads onc came in on my last day and said he'd miscalculated and I still had a week of rads to go. I could hardly breathe with the shock of it. Then he started laughing and said he was joking. Not real amusing....
So I know how you must feel, and I'm hoping the days pass super-fast.
KS, I am SO RELIEVED that you have a different therapist, only I'm sorry she isn't a whole lot closer. You might try an appeal to your insurance -- the other therapist shouldn't happen to anybody! Keep us posted on your progress.
Hugs,
Binney -
Becky, yea I'm here wrapped up after 2 hours of trying to get it right. When my thumb kept turning purple after 4 tries I figired I was doing something wrong. ..Dropped the F bomb several times whe the bandage decided to take a run across the room when I dropped it off my lap. Threw the ;tape across the room, oh and my glasses too..................finally got it right (I think) at lease my thumb is back to normal color. Although it is asleep (that can't be good considering I'm still awake)..................Ate a carton of ice cream for dinner, with a tablespoon. Nothing else just the carton of ice cream............damn it was good...........
Binney, I'm doing great with the left hand the right is doing "hunt and peck".........driving me nuts since I t;ype about 100 wpm............If I ;had a dollar for every mistake I have made I would be able to use it to pay my co-pay. Just got that puppy. $1,500.00 for Rads. Not bad considering Aetna paid $55,000 to the hospital. Imagine having to pay the whole bill.
Got my Onc Score back yeaterday. It was 8.........that was good news in an otherwise shitty day. There is a God
Oh and yes I am the one with the scratch offs. Guess I'll have to go buy 3 more since I'm 36 treatment. so far $53.00 in money won, and 1 free ticket. Now wouldn't it be crazy if the next 3 I buy because of the 3 x-tra treatments was the "big winning ticket" WOW that would be a hoot.
Love ya ladies hugs
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Well, Ducky I sure hope that's what happens with the lottery tickets!
I got good news at the LE PT on Weds. I had last been there about 6 weeks ago, control seemed good then so continued with MLD, exercises and sleeve. I didn't seem to need nighttime wrapping. Well, she measured me and my numbers were DOWN! It's working!!!
And for an added bonus - I told her I was probably having recon (DIEP) and she asked me if the PS told me to GAIN weight. I should have had a recording of that...
Binney, at least you got a joke (a lousy one, but something) on your last day of rads. All I got were the techs telling me to make sure I went to the office for the forms for my HMO to get money for the transportation. No "best of luck", no "hope things go well", nothing.
Leah
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Leah--I got a "certificate of rads completion" with the signatures of everyone in radiology on it! Now what do I do with the certificate? Hang it on my office wall? Not one I ever really wanted...
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So...haven't been to this board for a while but had a major melt down today. I was working in my yard the first day of decent weather in ages...anyway, I had gloves on but reached over and got snagged by a rose bush on my LE arm. Went into my house to find some topical antibiotics...of course there was none to be found. So I cleaned the puncture with Hydrogen Peroxide. Can anyone tell me why rose bushes are suppose to be so bad? I'm so pissed at myself for being stupid. My arm was just finally starting to get better after months of babying, now I'm nervous that I'm going to slide backwards again. I hate this soo much.
I can totally relate to all the posts about right arm (rt. handed) difficulties. Add tendonitis to LE and that's my curse. It has made even the simpliest of things difficult, life is so frustrating. GRRRRRRRRRRRR
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Ladies, this is my first foray onto this board, and I have a simple question. I have read here that the longer your drains are kept in, the less your risk of LE. is that true? If so, would it make sense that because I have delayed healing (which causes fluid to slowly leak out of my incision approx. every other day) mean that my risk for LE is reduced? I have been dealing with this, under my doctor's care, since my initial surgery on Feb 3 (and 3 subsequent revision surgeries).
I have not flown for fear of triggering LE, as I can't deal with any more compliactions right now.
Any thoughts/advice would be most appreciated!
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Rennasus - the thing with "risk factors" is that each person develops differently in spite of the risk factors. Some have more nodes taken and get no LE, other have no nodes taken and do develop LE. The higher risk individuals are not necessarily the ones who get it. If you are one who flies, it is highly recommended that you get sleeves and gauntlets for your travels. Flying is a significant risk factor over time which you do have some control over in wearing compression. I understand your feeling rather skittish and very concerned. There is a lot to deal with at once, none of it makes sense nor is it comfortable. It sounds as though you do not have LE at this point, is that true? It never hurts to get an assessment, and at the least get measured as a baseline for the future. I hope your visit here on this line is short and that you do not develop LE, but either way you are welcome and it's great that you are asking questions.
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Just saw the comment about Woolite - I use Woolite on the gloves/sleeves b/c the instructions were not to use a harsh detergent. Can you advise what to use - I'll probably never find it in the 55 previous pages. Thanks in advance.
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I use Dreft.
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I use the grocery store brand of Dreft which is what is used to wash baby clothes in. Works great.
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I use the grocery store brand too. So far, so good.
BTW, I've been chewing and spitting out nails all day today. It's a wrap day, good for my arm, not so good for my mood. Poor DH and DD (darling dog) have run for cover.
GRRRRRRRRRRR I HATE LE.......
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When I hand wash my gauntlet I use regular Palmolive dish soap (just a drop or two) and rinse with plenty of cool water.
Sheila
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Sharon, can understand completely.........my out is............shut the windows when I do my wrap, cause sure as hell the wraps are going to fall, roll across the floor, and I will have to chase them.............I say words that would only be rated XXX anywhere......................and I was told the other day by my LE specialist I will be doing this for at least 3 weeks, 2 times a day..............now I have to buy another set of this shit, and they charge $12.00 to ship it.......................God I hate this .............and I will do this till I get from 12% swelling down to 5%...........I already did it once this morning, and when I was done , realized I forgot to put the "stocking on first"................guess who did without the stocking...............then I was working around, and the tape came off, and the wrap was unrolling off my arm as I was doing laundry...................so I understand why your spitting nails after chewing them..........have a great day ...............yea right.........going to put my wrap back on, now, so everyone " hold your ears" , and put your kids inside the house.......................
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Poor Ducky!!! It's so hard learning all this crap. And even when you do, you'll have those curse days. Summer's an awful time to have to deal with all this for the first time. I say rewrap, then have some ice cream, or fudge, or brownies!!!
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Ducky, Sharon--I am with you! I just spent an hour getting mine on today. It was so easy last week when my sister was here. And tomorrow my therapist will probably laugh at the way I have my hand. Why can't some sort of automatic wrap be invented? Many inventions are borne out of frustration. Becky
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Kane.........ate a 48oz container of ice cream last night from frustration..funny thing is, I really don't like ice cream that much but sat with a tablespoon and ate it all.
Becky.......much easier when my daughter did mine, but live alone so its me, myself and I most of the time...I have to do mine tomorrow and then go to my Board Certified LE specialist so she can see how I do it alone...........she is going to either have her best laugh or faint in shock.....I'm not expecting "oh you did wonderful"......this is a bitch to do/ and for all I know I could be making this worse if I'm doing it wrong/ cause I was told wrong is worse then not at all.....I'm also down to boosts, and the beam must be getting near a part of my underarm...it's a little sore today, and just think when all this shit is done I have hot flashes, osteoporosis, weight gain, and thinning hair to look forward......OH LIFE IS GOOD
Bring of the Femara..................
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