GRRRRRRRRR I HATE LE..........
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binney and 3jays- Thanks for the tips about wetting my sleeve. Fortunately I will be spending most of the summer in a cooler climate. I can't imagine wearing this in hot, humid weather. Nice to know swimming sort of provides a natural all over compression. I'll be doing lots of that too!
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I am at a cottage with no ac...I was able to put my sleeve back on a few hours ago. I almost worry more about bug bites...but I keep on a light coverup and put on the bug spray.
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Cookie, hear you on the bugs. DH listens to me complain about that all the time "how do they know, how do they know which is my LE arm, is there a target on me? Boom, every single cottin pickin time, they pick that arm!" I'm always leery of bug spray on the garment. I have had a bit of luck with those OFF hand held things with the little motor in them that you keep putting fresh bug pads into. The one where the man and woman are out on the deck in the commercial where the big horde of mosquitos descends on them and they look like they're in an imaginary plastic bubble? The only problem is they really only work if you are sitting still in one place, otherwise you keep spraying the air behind you where you used to be.
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Don't get me wrong DH is wonderfully supportive. But, if you asked him about the signs your wife has LE? She complains EVERY morning when getting dressed about getting garments on while dealing with hot flashes. She complains every night when she takes them off about how nice it is to get out of "those stupid girdles and torture devices". She complains about the mosquitos having broken her privacy and reading her medical chart to find out which arm to bite (see above). And, there is always some beige thing hanging up in the bathroom drying out.
And probably the most important sign of all, you find yourself sneaking glances thinking she doesn't notice when you worry about her using the arm too much and checking how her fingers look.
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I gotta say, my DH has been absolutely wonderful about this whole LE thing. Of course, it's only two years into it, so perhaps as the years go on, he won't be that way. Just tune it out. BUT, for now, he has taken on a lot of things I used to do. He's also always glancing or yellling when he things I'm lifting too much or doing too much. He worries when my happy face gives way to one of dispair. He hasn't once complained about all the money I spend on all the STUFF. We are both retired, so we acknowledge that having the time for LE may influence our/his attitude. Also, he had to have an eye removed about seven years ago, which gives him a different perspective on life altering changes. He wraps me as well as my LE therapist does, using that fancy herringbone pattern and he's so careful about getting just the right amount of compression in the right places. Here's to our wonderful DHs and all they have to learn to deal with along with us!
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Binny, fudge is gone.
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I got some oreos at the store last night. I like oreos.
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so we don't need to wear them in the pool but what about if I am cleaning it while in the pool? I was going to use my size 6 sleeve which is too big? Should I buy the size 5 or just make do? The heat has already taken it's toll on my LE. I feel like I have a football under my arm. My arm doesn't feel heavy but harder than my other arm. It's going to be a very long summer. 98 tomorrow and they say in the 100's by the end of the week. uggg I have to be out in it the next two days. What was I thinking volunteering for field days. At least I am running the sprinkler.
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Kitty Dog: The heat and humidity, spiders and mosquitoes are horrid for people who enjoy being outdoors in the summer. I think it's the worst part for me. Last year in the fall, we had the World Equestrian Games here in KY. I was DETERMINED to volunteer every single day even if they had to carry me out on a stretcher. A couple weeks before it started, I asked my LE doc to prescribe some time with my therapist which she did. I went 4 days and I swear every drop of excess fluid was gone by the time the Games rolled around. So maybe some additional therapy time would help you. At the Games is where I discovered the Cool Medic vest which I had talked about earlier. Dip in water for 10 seconds, roll it up in a towel to remove the excess and wear it for up to 10 hours to be cool and comfie. Expensive but worth it. Bless you.
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In the process of trying to open the pool! It is a ghastly green right now but hopefully it will turn beautiful blue in the next couple of days and then I hope to take up residence in it! We are supposed to be in the 90's throughout the week and I am dreading it! Omaz, I like Oreos too, may have to run to the store! Kitty dog, hope the field days won't leave you in a bad state. Fudge sounds great too!
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I really think my BC arm is a little swollen. When I was evaluated by the PT she said the measurements were the same. Maybe the warm weather is affecting it? I can see tendons on my good wrist, but not on my BC wrist. More wrinkles on my good wrist when I bend than on the BC wrist. Of course I am flying Thursday and don't think I can see a therapist before I leave. Should I try to learn how to do the manual drainage self massage? I have a sleeve and will put it on in the morning. I think I will try to elevate my arm tonight. Does that make sense? Any advice from you veterans?
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I am going to rant for my mil. She had colon surgery last year and has experienced some swelling in her upper thigh since then. I have told her several times to have one of her doctors send her to the le therapist that I see. My therapist came to my local bc support group this month and I spoke to her after the meeting about my mil and I thought it might be LE that was confined to the thigh only. She seemed to agree and said to once again have mil ask to be sent to her (therapist) for an evaluation. When I saw my mil this weekend, she once again, complained about how much her leg hurt. I again asked her if she had said anything to any of her doctors. she commented that her primary care doctor said that she didn't feel that my mil had le and didn't need to see the therapist. I told her the next time she went to see Dr A, to tell her that she wanted to go to the therapist for an evaluation. Then when you ask to go to the therapist, they don't know where to send you. Why do doctors not want to send us to someone who can possibly help us with pain?
Sheila
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How do you do MLD? I am starting to get some cording again since starting rads, no swelling though. I am going to tell doc tomorrow.
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Designer Mom--it sounds like the early signs of LE: can you call the LE therapist today? Definitely do MLD--if you've been taught, and do wear a sleeve and gauntlet or glove--you really don't want to push the fluid into the hand. Lousy timing, but good for you to be so sensistive to your arm.
It makes me nuts that LE therapists go by measurements as it's been proven time and time again that symptoms are important as are subtle signs--like loss of tendon definition. Insurance demands a 2 cm difference to reimburse (based on lousy science) and the therapists just follow along....
Please get some evaluation, check out the flying thread. Drink, breath, and elevate and get a good sleeve and gauntlet/glove.
KCMomx3: MLD is manual lymph drainage and should be taught by a therapist.
A preview of it is on the Northwest Lymphedema site:
http://www.nwlymphedemacenter.org/
Here's a link on cording:
http://www.stepup-speakout.org/Cording_and_Axillary_Web_Syndrome.htm
Sheila: can your MIL get the referral?? Send this link to the doctor:
http://www.stepup-speakout.org/essential%20informat%20for%20healthcare%20providers.htm
Kira
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I emailed the PT and miraculously she responded. She said that it "doesn't sound like anything to be alarmed about". She said she would call me by phone and talk to me later. It doesn't sound like I am going to get an appointment or instruction in MLD. I know it is ideal to have someone show us how the technique is done. Aren't there any free videos that give instruction that would be better than nothing? Can more damage be caused if it is not done perfectly? Or should I just put on the sleeve, drink fluids, elevate and hope for the best?
Another question. As I have never worn the sleeve. Any advice on when to put it on? Are our arms smallest first thing in the morning after being prone all night? Should we wait a while after bathing to put it on?
I am so grateful that I at least have BCO and this thread and SU-SO. I would be totally ignorant and flying blind otherwise. NONE of my bzillions of medical people have said anything about LE.
One other question. Has anyone tried acupuncture for LE?
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DM - I use the tendons in my wrist to judge how my LE is doing during the day. About acupuncture, probably not the best therapy since with LE there is an increased risk of infections. I get acup for other treatment issues and have had a couple bruises from the needles, I don't think that would be good for the LE. I was told to do the massage in the morning, then put on the sleeve and gauntlet. Best luck - I am flying on Thursday too, long flight - I hope we both do well, let's check back.
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DesignerMom, I totally agree with Omaz, I use the wrist tendons to check how I'm doing. I'll attach an article by AW Stanton on that subject.
Do you have a gauntlet, because you should protect the hand with a sleeve:
http://lymphedivas.com/lymphedema/gauntletandsleeve/
Don't let the PT blow you off as far as significance of this. Re: wearing the sleeve and gauntlet--start today for a few hours and see how you do. If all is well, put it on at the gate and wear for a few hours after you land. Poorly fitting compression does potential harm--you need to be sure this agrees with you. And, unfortunately, MLD is not a "do it yourself" technique--you need instruction in how hard to press and how fast to move (lightly and very, very slowly)
For your PT who thinks "this is probably nothing:--I disagree, IMO
Http://britishjournaloflymphoedema.com/journal/0101_arm.pdf
http://britishjournaloflymphoedema.com/journal/0101_arm.pdf
Key Points-Mild breast cancer-related
lymphoedema of the arm (BCRL)
can be difficult to detect.
-Signs to look for when diagnosing
lymphoedema include decreased
visibility of veins; smoothing of
contours in the medial elbow
region; increased skin and subcutis
thickness on palpation, and pitting
oedema. The oedema can be
limited to certain regions, e.g. hand
and wrist only, or upper arm.
-Measurement of arm volume is of
little value in diagnosing early, mild
BCRL, and reliance on comparison
of arm volumes or circumferences
will cause an underestimation of
the prevalence of BCRL.
- Accurate detection and reporting
of BCRL are essential to enable
prioritisation of healthcare
resources in the form of dedicated
lymphoedema clinics.
AW Stanton is a leader in lymphedema research, and your PT should know this stuff, but so many are hung up on the "gold standard"--no science behind it, of 2 cm of swelling =lymphedema. Garbage: LE is based on symptoms and subtle swelling as well as the larger swelling, and the key is to catch it early.Kira
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I agree, Kira. I'm beginning to wonder if this so called "gold standard" might sometimes be gold plated rather than the real thing. Our med people have to start hearing us better. After going though all this BC stuff, I think I know when my body is telling me something is wrong.
DM, I am only w/o compression when I'm in the shower (because I'm Stage 2), after which I style my hair, then do MLD, after that I put on my sleeve and either a gauntlet or glove, do my LE exercises and I'm good to go. After dinner, I take off the compression stuff, do MLD again, then put on my night sleeve and join my husband in the man cave for some movie watching. If I'm flaring, he'll come upstairs to wrap me in bandages. One night a week I give myself a break from the nightsleeve. It's tonight. Hooray!!!!!
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I am posting for a couple of the women on the post rads thread that are having breast swelling - how would they know if it was LE of the breast?
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Omaz, good chance that there is some component of LE involved: send them to the site, and tell them to open the article at the bottom:
http://www.stepup-speakout.org/breast_chest_trunckal_lymphedema.htm
I work in rad onc, and when I start to see the peau d'orange--the obvious pores and thickening, I know there's some LE involved. It tends to happen more in women with larger breasts. I've gotten great results from LE therapy,
Kira
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Thanks Kira - I'll pass it along.
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Kira and Omaz- Thanks for the tips. I wore my sleeve today with the hand gauntlet for nearly two hours and it was actually quite comfortable. Of course I have the AC blasting! The PT never did call. Truthfully, I don't care, what good would it do if she said "nothing to worry about" by email without so much as looking at my arm. I will continue to do whatever I can on my own. I am glad to know my sleeve is comfortable. My DH actually commented that he hardly noticed it. My son didn't notice and then suddenly jumped and exclaimed "what's that"! Nothing like a 12 YO who thinks his mom grew a bionic arm! I am off to a relatively remote island for three blissful months. I'll try to find an LE specialist when I get back. I am comforted knowing you ladies will be here to help if I need. Have a wonderful summer everyone!
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I'm more than a bit discouraged. The hand flare that I have been experiencing for the past month has definitely subsided somewhat, but my hand is noticeably more swollen than it was. The LE specialist I saw last week basically told me that it isn't that bad, that LE is a chronic, progressive disorder and that no matter what I do, it will get worse, and that this is my new baseline. (According to her, wrapping won't help.) She said I had to "let go" and just accept that I am going to swell more and more no matter what I do. She also said that compression may even be making my LE worse. I have spent a crap load of time, energy, and money trying to keep my LE under control.
I saw her briefly today when I picked up a new glove (to fit my new, bigger hand), she repeated her "it's going to get worse" line. I said, what's the point: I've been compliant -- I've given up many of the foods I love, I don't swim, use an eliptical trainer or run. I've wasted inordinate amounts of time doing MLD even though In 2 years, I have never seen any sign that it does anything. And now, according to her wearing, wearing compression garments may be worse than nothing. therapeutic nihilism. I'm there. KS1
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KS1...I am horrified at this advice! how terrible! find a new therapist! of course wrapping will reduce fluid...if it is done right. The compression garments can be damaging if they are too tight, and for me were only worn when I got the fluid out to a point of maintenence. oooh boy I am mad! about twhat she said to you. How is your primary dr? cooperative? do you have good insurance? I have teh name of a medical supply guy who belongs to Nantionwide company that can talk to him (your primary) about a pump. Bottom line, lymphedema can worsen if not treated, and can cause irreparable damage, and can lead to teh (curse of) cellulitis if you strech toomuch and get bad bacteria inside...argh...DONT GIVE UP!!!! sister, (((hugs)))) terri
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KS1 - New therapist!!!!
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KS1 - That's horrible!!!! If that is true, what don't we just go ahead and put ourselves out of our misery???!!
So stupid! I'm so sorry!!! She isn't competent enough to be able to help you. I totally agree: new therapist!!
Hugs, hugs, hugs to you! I'm praying for you tonight .... hang in there! xoxo
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KS, I'm joining the chant: new therapist, new therapist, new therapist.
Leah
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Let me add my chant as well NEW THERAPIST!!! NEW THERAPIST!!! NEW THERAPIST!!!
Sheila
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KS1- I am still horrified. What state are you in? maybe we can help find someone for you.
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I'm with you guys too, new therapist, new therapist!
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