Worst Thing Someone Said To You?

Just been told by another threader that I had a "serious persecution complex"......probably one of the worst thing I've ever been told besides F..U...

Luan- all I can say my friend, is consider the source. That was the most inane backpedaling when you called them on it. Ah well, let them continue with the party in their mind. Big hugs girlfriend:)

I got the at least you got new boobs and I said there was nothing wrong with the ones I had they feed my kids they shut up and another thing you can say is if you think its a great idea just drink after me and you can catch it and get new boobs you wont have to speak to that dummy again ha

I am amazed about how many people tell you stories about people they know that had BC and who died from it..I always think its going to be some uplifting story..and then it ends up that way.. I see why my breast surgeons assistant, who is a 17 year survivor said once someone starts to tell you a story stop them and tell them you dont want to hear it unless it has a positive outcome.

 The worst thing was a couple days ago as my husband and I were walking out of our gym, someone we knew came up to me and said :"its ok if you die early"..

Left us speachless.. I dont think I am ready at 43 thank you!

Every time I read a thread like this one it confirms my choice to only tell about 6 people close to me.  No one I work with knows about my BC.  Once lady in our benefits department knows, but she is bound my HIPAA and would never speak out of turn anyway.   Brother, people can be thougthless.  And, I really do want to believe it really is that they are truly just not thinking.  

Hadley, I've read enough comments where people actually thought that it's --catchy-----

 My husband and I dx'd 3 months apart. I have to admit my first comment was between us ---and it was what the f(&^k did we live on a landfil.  Two of us with Ca at the same time, we actually lost two friends because of it------screw them.   

What i suggest though ----even though tag now you have it would be so fun for the brainless heartless people. That can be considered and assault and battery and cause of mental distress. -------SO, preface the comment with do I have permission to touch you----with a witness  -------Then tag now you have it. Once they give you permission to touch them it's not assault and battery.    mental distress--preface it with we used to play this game as a kid can I play it with you?-------------All bases are then covered because they gave permission. ----------sounds way technical , BUT those negative words if we wanted to follow up on them could be considered and assault. Battery occurs with the touching. 

RJ -------and their point was ?

Now this one should boil your water.

Was at a track meet yesterday, to watch mygrandaugher, and something there said "how are you doing"............I said "good, the radiation makes you a little tired, but that is about it"..............Then he said "are you going to lose your hair from radiation".................I said "no not really".......................Are you ready for this.

He then said "oh, well in case you were I was gonna tell you to save it for me, I could use it".......He was bald..................and then the asshole laughed.

I said "well if you ever lose your b-lls to cancer.......save them for me, so I can hang them on my xmas tree..................then everyone in the stands laughed..............Paybacks are a bitch.

Hey, girlfriend..........I'm getting almost as good as you with my 1 liners.............have a great day.  Its beautiful here in Pa.

...just sitting here chuckling

duckie,

I go from one thread to the next and it's always you that has me LMAO!  Thank you.  I wish you were my next door neighbor!   

Janice 

Cyborg, I don't get it. Why should you test? She can test her own daughter!! If you have it, it doesn't mean her daughter does. I'm not getting tested and I have 2 kids (boy/girl). They will be extra vigilant (in their 30's now) but not let cancer rule thier lives. Perhaps your sister is more worried about HERSELF?

Tell her you don't need the test because you already HAVE cancer. The only reason you'd get it is if you needed to know if you should get your ovaries out.

Since being dx with my BC, my sis and nephew were dx with lymphoma.  My older sister told my mom "she is sick of hearing about cancer and doesn't want to hear anymore about it".  She tested neg for BRCA1, so now she is too high and mighty to hear about cancer??? I have stopped talking about my situation, only because it is nearing the end of treatments/surgeries and I feel ready to put cancer at rest (even though it still lurks in the back of my mind).  But the other family members have to undergo chemo/radiation and this is all too real for them.

Mdg, I got the same response from my brother-in-law. Not a peep....oh, he did bring my husband a pink cancer shirt "to support your wife". And I was under the impression he liked me!