29 and starting TC chemo tomorrow

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lisasweeney
lisasweeney Member Posts: 7

I am sitting in bed wondering about my day tomorrow. I had my double mastectomy 2 weeks ago and now starting chemo. I am feeling so great about my quick recovery from surgery and now chemo has to just ruin all of my progress. 29 really, and the icing on the cake is that I am set toget married July 23rd. I reeeaaalllyyy hope I don't have to put off the wedding- it's an outdoor country wedding,but I also don't want to look back at how sick and miserable I was. I am having 6 rounds of TC and those shots too, but I am just so new to all of this that it's overwhelming and scary. I'm a new teacher and all I want to do tomorrow is go to school and be with my crazy hormonal 7th graders. I guess it's time to turn on the suck it up mindset and just get through this.

I would just appreciate any advice for day off, after and fastest ways you have bounced back. My chemo is tomorrow which is Thursday and I am going to try to go back to work for the first time since my surgery and chemo on Monday. Possible or am I crazy???

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  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited April 2011

    Hi Lisa, good luck today with your first chemo.  The whole BC journey is a scary one but its doable.  Everyone reacts differently to chemo, some are very sick and others breeze through.  The most common SE's are nausea and fatigue and usually come around the second to fourth day after treatment and last two or three days so after your first treatment plot out how you are feeling and perhaps organise your schedule according to that.  Don't forget to ask your onc for the appropriate drugs to combat the nausea for you and please, if you need to rest make sure you do as your system is about to be bombarded.  Drinking mega amounts of water is also a good thing as it helps to flush the toxins from your system.  Wishing you an easy jouney through chemo.

    Peace, strength, love n hugs.  Chrissy

  • sagina
    sagina Member Posts: 1,219
    edited April 2011

    Hi Lisa, how are you?  I worked through chemo, just not the week of in the office, I was able to work from home.  My third and fourth days after chemo were my worst.

  • debbie6122
    debbie6122 Member Posts: 5,161
    edited April 2011

    Hi Lisa, I tryed to post on this thread and send you a email after you posted but the forum was having problems and couldn't post to you, also wouldnt let me pm you, I hope you didnt think it was because no one cared. I hope you are doing ok, please let us know. You are in my thoughts and prayers. ((((((( big warm hugs)))))

  • lisasweeney
    lisasweeney Member Posts: 7
    edited April 2011

    Thanks all im doing pretty well one day out but it feels like I'm still waiting for the truck to hit me. I have a little upset stomach and I start my shots tomorrow. We will see but I'm holding my head up high so far thanks for all of the support.

  • Sugar77
    Sugar77 Member Posts: 2,138
    edited April 2011

    Lisa - I had TC chemo and finished a year ago.  It wasn't nearly as bad as I imagined it would be.  I took Claritin the day I got the Neulasta shot and for the next four days after as I learned it can help with bone pain.  You might want to check out the thread on this website entitled "Anyone on just Taxotere and Cytoxan." You'll get a lot of support from the ladies who are going through the exact same regimen.  I see your diagnosis is triple negative as was mine.  You might also want to check out the "Calling all TNS" thread. It's a very active thread and all the women who post have triple negative. Good luck!

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited April 2011

    Hi Lisa... I am done with 5 of my 6 TC treatments and I got the Neulasta shot everytime as well... You are young and will be fine with chemo... For me, I would take off infusion day and then the 3rd day after chemo from work... I get chemo on a Monday or Tuesday and then get my shot two days later in the morning... that night, I start to feel a little achy and the next day I take the day off...

    The first infusion was the toughest as the Neualasta makes your bones ache, but the next 4 have been better... 

    I even went to St John for 10 days between tx 3 and 4,,, and was promoted at work... 

    There are threads here that can help you with your chemo TAXOTERE IS  A NIGHTMARE (but don't be scared off by the name) and I started TAXOTERE TOOLBOX where I and others have made suggestions for getting through as unscathed as possible.

    Feel free to PM me.

    Good luck and you'll be fine... and congrats on your wedding.

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited April 2011

    Hi Lisa, just checking in on your to see how you're getting on. Sometimes, the truck doesn't arrive but the kid on the bike splashes you are he rides through the puddle.  Thinking of you.   (((((hugs)))))

  • lrr4993
    lrr4993 Member Posts: 937
    edited April 2011

    Lisa - I worked full-time during chemo. I did TC x4. It was no where near as bad as I thought it would be. I had one bad day where I slept constantly, but otherwise was able to function normally. Drink lots of water. I drank 3 liters the day of and three days after chemo. I believe it is the reason I had such an easy time. I had no nausea. Get emend - it is apparently the nausea wonder drug. Most don't prescribe it at first. I had to insist on it to get it from the outset.



    Good luck!

    I should add that I never needed the neulasta shots. I am 40 and my onco said most patients my age don't need them. They seem to have their own set of side effects so I was glad to make it through without them.
  • Momma
    Momma Member Posts: 19
    edited April 2011

    Lisa, my heart goes out to you. My daughter is 28. She was diagnosed in October when she was 27. She had a lumpectomy and is stage 1, but grade 3, clear margins and no lymph node involvement. She's gone through 4 rounds of chemo with only two left. Now her medical team has suggested a mx because they are concerned about radation at her age, so that will follow shortly. She is doing surprising well with it. Other than hair loss and some fatigue her life is pretty normal. She's has chemo on Fridays, is usually out shopping on Saturday and at work on Monday. She's worked full-time and only takes time off for appointments and chemo. She wants to keep her life as normal as possible.She has not been sick at all. Sometimes she feels a little queasy, but takes her meds and within 30 minutes is fine. The doctor said that it's not uncommon for the side effects to be minimal when you're younger. I hope it goes as well for  you. Having a positive attitude and keeping life as normal as possible is the best way to get through it. And drink lots of water. Good luck.

  • lisasweeney
    lisasweeney Member Posts: 7
    edited April 2011

    I am so happy for you that your daughter did well through chemo, and she sounds very lucky to have you as such a great momma in her life:)

    I had chemo last Thursday and I have been feeling HORRIBLE!  I thought I would be young and strong, but that is not how I am feeling right now. Everything hurts. The nuepogen shots make my my bones ache and my stomach is just in knots. I feel like I got hit by a truck now. I'm not sure if this is going to get worse or if this is the worste. I am a teacher and went to work today thinking that I could just manage. It was torture and I will not be going to work tomorrow. I love teaching, but every minute I was just in too much pain and my students could tell. I want/ need to be stronger for them.

    Ahhh I just want to feel better.... I have been drinking lots of fluids and taking some meds, but this just sucks. Chemo sucks...... I hope I can come back to this blog with a better attitude tomorrow, but I am just to icky today. Sorry. 

  • mdg
    mdg Member Posts: 3,571
    edited April 2011

    I just wanted to send a cyber hug!  I can tell you I have done 3 of 4 TC's now and the first one was the worst.  I had the body aches from days 3-5 post chemo and bad bone pain on day 6 post chemo.  Then on day 7 I woke up completely fine like a new person.  I did not take claritin or aleve the first time. The second and third time I did take them and had no real body aches and no bone pain at all.  I started taking it on the day after chemo when I got neulasta shot and took it for about 4-5 days.  I did notice some heartburn and digestion issues in the two days following chemo so I took prilosec and had no real issues.  I have managed to exercise 5 days a week through my entire chemo treatment so far.  I am off from work but have stayed very busy and feel pretty good.  I do get tired occasionally here and there but nothing requiring a nap...just a rest for a while.  I hope for you the first one is the worst like it was for me.  I do believe exercising every day has really helped me a lot.  It gives me more energy and keeps the stress of all of this away.  Hugs to you!  I know this is hard but you will get through it and we will help you!!!  Oh - I do take stool softeners and Senakot in the days following chemo to avoid the dreaded constipation which also happened on my first round.  I also drink TONS of water the day of chemo and the days following...probably 15 large glasses per day to flush things out of the body.  I think that helps too.

  • Momma
    Momma Member Posts: 19
    edited April 2011

    lisasweeney, I too am sending cyber hugs. You have every right to have days when you are down - there is nothing wrong with that. I know it's an old cliche, but just take it one day at a time, and be proud that you got through that day; and when each day is done remember you are one day closer to the completion of treatments. But you need to put yourself first, which I know is hard. I'm sure you are a great teacher and it sounds like I would have been proud to have you as a teacher for my kids; but you need to take care of yourself right now. Listen to your body and if you need to stay home from work then do it. Rest and be selfish - it's your right.

  • bdavis
    bdavis Member Posts: 6,201
    edited April 2011

    Lisa... I have had teh exact same pattern as mdg... by Thursday, you will feel much better and then next time that yucky feeling won't last as long... you will be fine. Chin up!

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