I am adopted, no history

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wolfe33
wolfe33 Member Posts: 61

Hi everyone,

 I was diag with LCIS in Dec of '09.  I have read many of the posts here and I am so thankful for all of the amazing information and support.  I have struggled with the lack of advise for people who are adopted.  When you type in adopted and BC, you gey MANY pages of women that want to have children that have breast cancer.  I have a much different problem.  I have NO idea of a family history.  Ever Dr that I have seen to discuss this diag has stressed the importance of family history....then I have to explain, once again, that I have no idea.  After about a year and a half of mammo's, MRI's and having my overies removed I have made the decision to have BMX.It is a very personal decision for everyone.  I have an amazing husband who is 100% on board for whatever I need to do, I am so blessed. Is there any one else out there who is adopted and facing this struggle?

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  • iammommy
    iammommy Member Posts: 213
    edited April 2011

    Nice to meet you. I, too, am adopted, but am lucky in that I know my birthmother and siblings, so I do have a partial history. And it's a agood thing. My birthmother had breast cancer in her 70's and her sister died of ovarian cancer in her 60's. My birthmother did not die of breast cancer, but other serious medical issus that surfaced at them time (heart/pulmonary issues). She went through some degree of chemo, decided she couldn't tolerate it anymore, then died of other issues.

    I am 57, and am in the process of deciding about a preventative mastectomy. This is SO new to me. I was just diagnosed less than a week ago. I have a baseline MRI Tuesday, and am meeting with my breast surgeon Thursday, I am planning on getting a second opinion before deciding. I'd like another few sets of eyes to look at my slides to make sure nothing was missed.

    Being adopted and not having a history is scary. I always assumed the worst possible history until I met my family, and sure enough, a lot of it was true. I wish you luck with everything! My husband, too, is very supportive and loves me with breasts or without. We both just want me to be healthy. Please stick around here. It's nive to have you here! Best wishes!

    Nan 

  • wolfe33
    wolfe33 Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2011

    How great that you were able to meet your birth family.  I have given up any hope of that.  I am 37 years old.  I look at my 16 year old duaghter and hope that me having a medical history can help her make decisions in the future.   

    I aparently have issues with being adopted, that are just now coming to light.  I think that making the right decision for my health needs to come first...and then I can tackle the adoption issue.  Weird that I never felt the need to find them until LCIS came along for me.

    I am scheduled for the 1st week in May for PMX....scared, but confident that I am making the right decision for me.   I hope that you find some peace with whatever decision that you make.

    Thank you for your warm welcome!  I appreciate your understanding of the unknown.

  • leaf
    leaf Member Posts: 8,188
    edited April 2011

    I know the unknown is awful.  But only about 10% of breast cancers are thought to be due to single, inheritable mutations.  I know your next thought probably is 'but what if I'm in that 10%'.  That's what my mind would say if I was adopted. 

    My LCIS diagnosis really triggered a whole re-examination of my mortality. Again, I am not advocating any particular treatment. Look at the risks and benefits of each choice.  There is no right choice, there is only the choice that is right for YOU.

  • wolfe33
    wolfe33 Member Posts: 61
    edited April 2011

    Thanks Leaf.  I have spent so much time looking at the statistics and you are right.  Because of the unknown factor along with the conflicting LCIS info, I have experienced tons of confusion.

    The weird part is that my biggest fear is having to continue to wonder when and if.  

     That is why my decision was clear.......my choice was sanity.  I wish that I had the strength that I see you have Leaf.  I am in awe of your soundness and peace.  

     Wish me luck and peace!

  • leaf
    leaf Member Posts: 8,188
    edited April 2011

    Wishing you luck and peace!

    My 'peace' is a fake peace.  I have an anxiety disorder, and when my posts are quite unemotional, I'm distancing myself from my emotions.  I see a therapist twice a week and am on medication.  So, no, I'm not strong.  

    There is no huge rush to make a decision, but once you do, know that you made the best decision you could with the information you had and the feelings you felt. Unlike our sisters with invasive breast cancer, you have some time to decide.

  • SpecialK
    SpecialK Member Posts: 16,486
    edited April 2011

    wolfe33 and iammommy - I am also adopted and have no access to family history.  I was diagnosed with IDC on 9/27/10 and underwent BMX on 11/1/10.  I chose this because I had been closely followed for fibrocystic issues for 20 years.  There was no way for me to tell if the lumps I felt were cysts or cancer. I was unwilling to try to live with some peace of mind while waiting for the other shoe to drop.  Unfortunately, I have had 4 additional surgeries between my BMX and mid Jan. of this year due to a positive sentinel node and skin healing issues,  and am currently undergoing chemotherapy.  I was offered lumpectomy/radiation/chemo but I chose BMX/chemo.  It turned out to be the correct choice for me because the prophylatic breast contained all kinds of ductal and lobular dysplasia.  I don't have a single regret even with the complications I have encountered.  I also had a complete hysterectomy 10 years ago to deal with uterine fibroids, and a benign (but pre-malignant type) mass was found on post-op pathology in my right ovary.

    When asked about family history by the staff in my BS office I informed them that I was adopted and they immediately drew a blood sample and sent it for testing for BRCA.  Thankfully I was negative and I was particularly concerned because I have a 21 year-old daughter.  Receiving that result was one of the happy moments during the stressful time just following diagnosis.  I strongly recommend being tested.  It will either answer questions for you or provide you with needed information to make future decisions.

    I echo the statement that a relatively low percentage of breast cancers are genetic, particularly if you are not BRCA positive.  I wouldn't obsess too much about your family history because in all likelihood it will not change your decision making.   I personally think you need to base your decisions on the facts at hand, not on family history you may or may not be able to determine.

    I wish you both the best!

  • Jelson
    Jelson Member Posts: 1,535
    edited April 2011

    Wolfe33-

    although I am not adopted, my parents were older when I was born. "Family Medical History" doesn't just depend on your ability to access birth family members, it depends on THEIR ability to access medical care and the nature of the medical care available to them at the time. I have to contend with my grandfather's "Bright's Disease" which is some catch- all now meaningless description of a kidney ailment, my grandmother's "stomach cancer" - circa 1935 - was that what it really was? My dad had some surgery on his neck in WW2, was that thyroid? like I have had? he died of lung cancer in 1964 - was that the primary? My mother kept telling doctors she was having kidney pain (her fear of "Bright's Disease!) and her lung tumor went undetected til it had metastised to her bones. Perhaps if she hadn't been so insistent it was her heriditary kidney disease, her doctors would have done an simple x-ray and detected the lung tumor. My mother's sisters died in infancy - probably not breast cancer but if they had lived, maybe they would have gotten it? My brother committed suicide at 42, maybe he would have been diagnosed with diabetes if he had lived longer. My children are adopted from poor circumstances in countries with inadequeate medical services. My daughter has made contact with her birth family - but again, the information is only as good as the medical care her birth family members have received. 

    I get annoyed at doctors who "stress family history" I think they are blowing it out their a**holes. Get on with it, I say, diagnose and lay out the best treatment options for  me or my daughter or son as the case may be and we will determine the acceptable level of risk.

    Hugs to you

    Julie E

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2011

    Nan----I sent you a PM. Good you are going for an MRI. You might also want to consider a surgical excisional biopsy and possibly genetic testing due to your family history of bc and oc. Since LCIS is non-invasive, you do not need to rush into anything! You can take all the time you need to  gather information and results, get 2nd opinions (if you choose to), or just to let it all sink in, before making any hard and fast decisions. I still haven't gone the route of PBMs and it has been over 7.5 years now. The need for ongoing biopsies is not a "given" with LCIS (as you might have read or heard)--I've never had to have another one in all this time. High risk surveilllance and meds work for me, but are not the choice for everyone.  It's a very personal decision which we all have to come to by ourselves, hopefully a decision based on  knowledge, not fear.

  • 208sandy
    208sandy Member Posts: 2,610
    edited April 2011

    Hi:

    I am also adopted and couldn't get any information on my birth parents UNTIL THE DAY BEFORE MY SECOND CHEMO  the social worker (I've been trying to find my birth mother for thirty years - I am 65) called and announced that my birth mother had died of mets breast cancer in 1955 just before I turned 10 years old - that's all the information I was able to get about health except for one or two other little items that have affected me all my life - gotta love the adoption system - it only works ONE way - anyway whatever decision you make I am sure will be the right one - for you but we're here to support you through thick and thin - keep in touch. 

    Sandy

  • iammommy
    iammommy Member Posts: 213
    edited April 2011

    AWB...So, what would they biopsy?? I thought you can't really biopsy LCIS. I am So totally overwhelmed at this point, all I've done is cry. my anxiety disorder is in high gear and this is just the beginning? (crying)

    Nan

  • DocBabs
    DocBabs Member Posts: 775
    edited April 2011

    Nan, Having LCIS is not ,in any way, a bad finding.The incidence of women who go on to develope cancer is very small,at least that's what I've read and been told.I'm not a physician but I've chosen some very good ones to guide me.I have had this diagnosis for for 2,5 years now and my life has changed very little because of it. I still go for my yearly mammos as I've done for the past 17 years and an extra test( mri) has been thrown in 6 months after the mammo yearly.I have a very well known oncologist that I see 3 times a year.We talk.She examines my breasts ,coordinateds my tests.I developed microcalcifications and a stereotactic biopsy revealed ALH.A surgical biospy of the area revealed LCIS.I didn't have to have the biopsy but I did. So now I know and THEY know that when I come in for my mammos and MRI ,they look very carefully.Do i worry? Not really. Not any more than I did before with all my other mammos.I actually feel comfortable that I'm followed so closelyThe most important thing that you have to remember is LCIS IS NOT CANCER and it has not been shown to be a precursor for invasive cancer. It's simply another risk factor, one that we have no control over unfortunately.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2011

    Nan----the purpose of an excisional biopsy after a finding of LCIS, is to make sure there is nothing more serious (DCIS or invasive bc) in there along with the LCIS.

    Anne

  • leaf
    leaf Member Posts: 8,188
    edited April 2011

    Anne is right - the purpose of an excisional biopsy after they find LCIS on a core biopsy is NOT to remove the LCIS, but to help reassure there isn't anything worse going on,which happens in roughly 20% of cases. 

    In this study, which had mostly LCIS with necrosis and pleomorphic LCIS (thus are at higher risk for invasive) 25% had ILC at excision. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20586632  In this paper, it was more like 20%. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16985141, and in this study 17%. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16978969  The numbers in each group are relatively small.

    In this 2006 Li paper, he opines With respect to LCIS, our data indicate that LCIS may be a precursor lesion of ILC rather than just an ambiguous risk factor for invasive breast cancer and that localized treatment for LCIS may be warranted given that these women have much higher rates of ipsilateral invasive breast cancer, but much more similar rates of contralateral breast cancer, compared with DCIS patients.http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/cncr.21864/full (emphasis mine) 

    This paper opines that their findings suggest florid LCIS may be a precursor to ILC in some situations. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21287281

    This 2010 paper suggests Lobular neoplasia has been traditionally recognized as a marker of increased risk for subsequent breast carcinoma development; however, molecular studies suggest that it also behaves in a non-obligate precursor manner. We do not know, as yet, how to identify the subgroup of cases that is most likely to progress, but the epidemiological data would indicate that this progression occurs after a long period of time http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20436498 (emphasis mine)

    Other papers I have read said that they think LCIS can, in a small number of cases, be a non-obligate precursor.  This means that in some small number of cases LCIS may,  but does not always, proceed to ILC after a long period of time.  However, in the relatively large Li et al study http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/cncr.21864/full, most of the women who were diagnosed with LCIS and nothing worse initially and went on to get invasive breast cancer, evenually got IDC, not ILC.  LCIS and nothing worse women got more ILC than women in the general population, but <50% of their invasive breast cancers were ILC.  (In the general population, about 15% of invasive breast cancers are ILC.)

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited April 2011

    Leaf--well said and well written! I was trying to remember back to those same articles you mentioned. So even though the risk  for LCIS to become invasive is very very  low (my surgeon quoted less than 5%) it is NOT zero. That  is why it is generally thought to be "just a marker" by the medical commmunity, because of this very low potential to become invasive. But the fact that it can become invasive in a very small percentage of cases remains. It is a much more common scenario for invasive bc to be found in there along with the LCIS, than for the LCIS to become invasive itself. For the most part, I generally don't worry too much about the LCIS that I have (which could be anywhere thoughout both breasts) becoming invasive over time (although the possibility certainly exists); I'm more concerned about invasive bc popping up (and DCIS too). So when I go for my high risk surveillance (mammo, MRI, US, breast exams) it's not to try and find more areas of LCIS; it's to see if there's any invasive bc or DCIS. Hopefully, anything would be found at it's earliest stages due to the close monitoring. and taking preventative meds (first tamox, now evista) helps decrease my overall risk significantly.

    anne

  • wolfe33
    wolfe33 Member Posts: 61
    edited May 2011

    Thank you all for sharing your adoption stories!  It is so easy to feel alone, which is a complete cop out for me!  I am the first to try an alienate myself, and it must stop now.  I have made the decision to have PMX and am scheduled for June 1st (this Wednesday!).  I feel at peace now that everything is scheduled and all pre-op tests have been completed.

     I have decided to go with the DIEP procedure.  I am 37 years old and do not want to have to consider 'replacing' implants 20 years down the road.  I feel like my PS (who originally found LCIS during my breast reduction) is amazing and takes so much time with me and my husband.   I feel prepared for anything.  Sounds weird, but that is where I am with this.  I will let everyone know how it goes.  I can tell you that the peace of mine I have right now, is already worth all of the pain and discomfort I know I will be feeling next week.  

    SpecialK, Thanks for responding.  I hope everything settles down for you!  I ended up seeing a different oncologist...and now am NOT being frightened out of my whits with 'no family history available'.  You are right, too many people(including Doc's) have different opinions about LCIS and what it means for your future.  I am happy that I am taking the road that I need to take for me....and I am in awe of women that can handle the "watch and wait"course of treatment.  I went a year and a half with MRI's, Mammo's, ultrasounds, ovary removal.....and decided not to do that for the rest of my life.  It made me, my kids and my husband all a little crazy.

     Wish me luck ladies!!! I will check in post surgeryLaughing

  • wolfe33
    wolfe33 Member Posts: 61
    edited May 2011

    By the way....My BMX sceduled for the 1st week in May was pushed back to now.  Thought I would clarify :)

  • leaf
    leaf Member Posts: 8,188
    edited May 2011

    Most people who get breast cancer do not have a family history, but the picture is much more uncertain in women with LCIS and nothing worse.

    In this recent study of women during the 2002-2009 time period, they did 71 BPMs on women who did NOT have a personal history of invasive breast cancer or DCIS.  (LCIS and ALH women were included in the study.)   Only 35% of the group had BRCA testing. About 45% had a family history.   35% of the group had LCIS or ALH (and presumably did not have a family history.) The abstract doesn't say if any of the LCIS group had PLCIS. http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21424371

     The Port et al study (2007) says There are conflicting data regarding whether or not separate risk factors, such as the combination of ADH and family history, are additive to increase overall patient risk for breast cancer. ..With the sce- nario of additive risk, one could anticipate an in- creased initiative for MRI screening in patients with a family history combined with LCIS or AH. Other recent studies suggest that given a history of AH, the addition of a family history of breast cancer did not significantly further increase the overall risk. Annals of Surgical Oncology 14(3):1051–1057 DOI: 10.1245/s10434-006-9195-5  http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17206485

    This 2006 abstract says However, bilateral breast cancer risk must be considered, especially when patients have a family history of breast cancer. In selected situations, bilateral prophylactic mastectomy with or without reconstruction may be considered when atypical hyperplasia or LCIS is diagnosed. Although this reduces risk for developing subsequent breast carcinoma by 90%, patients selected for prophylactic mastectomy represent a small subgroup of lobular neoplasia patients and generally have other risk factors, such as strong family history or evidence of genetic predisposition.  http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16687097

    As in almost all things LCIS, there is controversy.  LCIS is too unusual to easily have large scale studies.

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