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  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 8,543
    edited April 2011

    Teklya - Shingles are a bummer.  I had them in my early 20s and it was pretty painful.  Hope you get some relief real soon for both the shingles and the breast pain.  

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  • June2268
    June2268 Member Posts: 1,202
    edited April 2011

    Good afternoon ladies....

    I got my results back and no stomach cancer as well as no bacteria, which has been shown to cause ulcers.  I guess this is all stress related and he told me to take prilosec for a month morning and night......I just hope this does not rear it's ugly head again.

    I can't believe how many pages I am behind.....Hope all are doing well.  I have to catch up on some reading.

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  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 8,543
    edited April 2011

    June - Great News! At least you now know what is going on.  To relief some of that stress, maybe you need to go with me on the cruise.  

    You miss a day on here and this darn train is like a speeding bullet.

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  • June2268
    June2268 Member Posts: 1,202
    edited April 2011

    Oh was that an invitation Jo???  I am all aboard!!  What fun we could have.....I am on a serious note so happy you are leaving soon.  I hope you relax and have a fantastic cruise and remember we want to see pic's...

    My girlfriend seems to think that these ulcers were brought on by my BC and I think the start of all this hell was back in Dec of 2009 and I think it is more related to my Dad as that is more recent within 6 months of us finding him to be terminal.....I have googled everything and was just wondering if any of you ladies might know how long it takes for Ulcers to form?

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  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2011
    June so glad no stomach cancer or bacteria.  I take prilosec two times a day for my gastritis and it works really well.  Take care of yourself and our Daddies being sick can sure take a toll on us little girls.  I know you are spending lots of time with him and you will cherise that time when he is no longer around.  Kiss
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  • Sandeeonherown
    Sandeeonherown Member Posts: 1,946
    edited April 2011

    I am telling you , these BC folks are wonderful.....I remember the rad technicians doing their very best to make sure I was comfortable on the days I was a crying basketcase- apparently all of my mammograms will now be at the hospital...hopefully this time the technician will not project with her body language that she sees something suspicious...I don't thikn I will be able to have MRI's anymore now that I have a stent in my heart....oy!....I have asked for my mammogram to be done in May..get it all over with...I have the stress test on the 17h of May, ekocardiogram (#2) on the 31st and meet with the cardiologist on the 31st as well. Might as well squish my boob while we are at it!

    Ladies, I did check out the bras last night and will continue my search today now that I am a bit more awake. Thanks for all the suggestions!

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  • Sandeeonherown
    Sandeeonherown Member Posts: 1,946
    edited April 2011

    June - soooo relieved that it is not stomach cancer! Ulcer's...not sure how long they take to form but stress certainly plays a part and this has been a rough two years sistah!!! Be kind to your belly and eat the foods that comfort it and bring relief...hope the meds help.

    hugs

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  • swanseagirl
    swanseagirl Member Posts: 393
    edited April 2011

    Becky, yes I have breast/trunchal lymphedema.  They tried different compression bra's and they just didn't work. Plus the cost was beyond outrageous.  So I am wearing Playtex 18 hour bra's and I put some padding in where I feel the most swollen.  It isn't the most flattering but the wide trunchal straps and full cup helps a lot.

    Sherry, possibly Austin. He is interviewing out of San Jose, CA but the reporting department (if he gets it) is in Austin. My husbands travels there alot and says it is nice.

    June, good newsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!

    Jo, the melatonin you are using, what brand are you using and how much?  I've just about tried everything and nothing is working:(

    Jules

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  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2011

    Jules that would be exciting.  If you come for a trip to Austin you will have to let me know and I can come and meet you.  Central Texas is the best part of Texas to live in.  Lot's to do and see without driving too far.

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  • tinkertude
    tinkertude Member Posts: 2,047
    edited April 2011

    Hi Ladies

    well today was horrendous.. I had to admit my daughter to the hospital fpr depression. It was the hardest thing I have ever done.. I just ask if you could keep her in my prayers... I just cannot stop crying....

    Maria

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  • dawney
    dawney Member Posts: 211
    edited April 2011

    Maria - I am sorry you are having to deal with this.  My daughter battles depression also, she is in counseling but has not had to be hospitalized.  I know it had to be one of the hardest things you have ever done, I will be praying for you and your family.

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  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2011

    Maria my heart goes out to you and I will definalty keep you and your daughter in prayer.  I went into a bad depression after my son died and with the help of medication and good doctors after a couple of years I was able to get off the medication and I have never had to go back on.  The doctors gave me wonderful tools to deal with anxiety.  And boy did I put those to the test when I was diagnosed with bc.  ((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

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  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2011

    Just read an article of interest that was talking about diseases that cause inflammation and of course cancer was one of them.  It listed several things that can cause inflammation and lack of sleep is one of them.  I thought how appropriate that several of us on the Tammi train have had trouble sleeping and we also complain that our breast are swollen. So maybe if we can get our sleep in order our breast will get back to something of normal minus what surgery took out of us.

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  • swanseagirl
    swanseagirl Member Posts: 393
    edited April 2011

    Maria, sending your daughter, you and your family the biggest hug and support you can possibly bare.

    A friend was hospitalized a few years ago for depression. It was hard on her family and friends but it was the best thing for her then and now.

    Stay strong.

    Love

    Jules

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  • swanseagirl
    swanseagirl Member Posts: 393
    edited April 2011

    Sherry, most definitely.

    My sis and brother in law lived in Houston quite a few years ago, plus my hubby is always/was traveling to Austin/Dallas/ Houston/San Antonia.  I've visited quite a few places in Texas. My hubby says that Austin isn't like the rest of Texas.  So he says. LOL

    Will keep you posted.

    Jules

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  • Sherryc
    Sherryc Member Posts: 5,938
    edited April 2011

    Jules your husband is right, Austin has a culture all its own. 

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  • June2268
    June2268 Member Posts: 1,202
    edited April 2011

    Oh Tink so sorry to hear you had do that.  You have been hit with so many things lately.  I will be praying for you and your family and know we are all here when you need a ear.....luv you girl!

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  • Sandeeonherown
    Sandeeonherown Member Posts: 1,946
    edited April 2011

    Maria-......remember that you are putting her in the best place..the absolute best place you can put her to get the help she needs. Knowing she is somewhere safe..out of harms way and with lots of people around to help you will make the world of difference...you will see. Having her in hospital will give you the chance to get some sleep Maria...sleep you need my friend in order to heal and to be able to help her when she gets out. I am sending love and hugs your way  and to your daughter. You are doing the best thing you can for her because you love her...you really are.

    Sherry- makes sense ....inflamation and lack of sleep....I keep reading how lack of sleep causes cancer and heart problems and I say "I know...so help me sleep"..and then menopause and drop in estrogen keeps you awake etc....ARGH!! I have to say though....the past week...I have never been this tired in my life....post heart attack, with medication to spw my heart rate down etc..it is all I can do to get through half a day....I feel weary weary weary...the energizer bunny's battery needs to be recharged....hoping it is just me adjusting to the medication.

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  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 8,543
    edited April 2011

    Tink - I am so sorry to hear that you had to hospialize your daughter.  That had to be the hardest thing you have done.  My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.  Sending you a great big hug.

    Jules  On the Melatonin it is Spring Valley Brand, 10mg Timed Release that I bought at Wal Mart.  Three nights and I am sleeping good.  I fall asleep at 11:00 and have woke up all three nights at 2:20, 4:20 and then at 5:50.   I get up then to walk the dog and get ready for work.

    June - Stress can cause ulcers and the time frame it takes varies with each person but the timing of yours makes sense.  You have not only had to deal with your own issues but now add Dad's on top of that.  That is a lot to have to deal with.  I know you are a very strong person and will get through this.

    Sherry - I loved living in San Antonio - hated leaving there but we had to go where the jobs were at the time.  One day I hope to move back up to that area. 

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  • BeckySharp
    BeckySharp Member Posts: 935
    edited April 2011

    Jules--thanks for the bra info.

    Maria--you and your daughter are in my prayers. 

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  • swanseagirl
    swanseagirl Member Posts: 393
    edited April 2011

    Becky, no problem.

    Sherry. I'll definitely encourage him to take me down there if he goes.  The good thing, if  we have to move is no longer worrying about being in a good school district.  My criteria is Starbucks, Chili's and a good watering hole. LOL

    Jo, thanks, I'm going to try them.  Counting sheep just ain't working.

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  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 8,543
    edited April 2011

    Jules - Do let me know how it works for you.  I know what you mean about counting sheep.  When I ran out of fingers and toes I had to get the calculator out.  LOL

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  • sunandsandgirl
    sunandsandgirl Member Posts: 165
    edited April 2011

    Hello Ladies,

    It has been awhile since I have posted.  I was trying to get on with my life.  I have had a little set back today.  I had to have a pelvic ultrasound.  After taking Tamoxifen for 2 years I now have several polyps, endometrial thickening, and fibroids.  My vision continues to deteriorate.  I am in the process of scheduling  a DNC for a biopsy in the next few weeks.  I am just trying to decide if this is worth continuing this medicine.  I feel like I have aged 20 years even with daily exercise.  I guess I will probably have a hysterectomy.  Any thoughts or comments?  

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  • Linda-n3
    Linda-n3 Member Posts: 2,439
    edited April 2011

    Maria, thoughts and prayers for healing for you and your daughter.  Depressions is a serious illness, and can be more devastating than just about any other disease if not taken seriously.  You love your daughter enough to help her get the care she needs.  Prayers for healing and peace. - Linda

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  • duckyb1
    duckyb1 Member Posts: 13,369
    edited April 2011

    Hi Ladies, new to this thread............reason...........my M/O wants to put me on Femara......I read the side effects and don't like them...............Today I saw the R/O, and she said I could try Tamox, if I want to.............Now after seeing what you guys are saying I'm thinking Good Lord what the hell doesn't give you SE.

    I am 76 in 2 weeks.......I have a home down the Jersey shore, and summer is coming.......I don't have time to sit and gripe about my aches and pains...........I have the ;beach to walk, the pool to swim in, and too many fun things to do with my grandchildren............Yes I have those too........6 children, 18 grandchildren, and 2 great-grandchildren.............many boardwalks to walk, gym 5 days a week, baseball games to attend, and a grandson who loves to golf, and I go to watch him at the driving range.................Come September I have my "Boys of Fall" to go watch at Franklin and Marshall for football season......take the drive to Lancaster to see 2 grandsons play.......Have driven to Pittsburgh too, 5 hours up and 5 hours back to my grandson quarterback take his team at Carnagie Mellon University to a season championship....my 10 year old grandaughter starts softball in a few weeks, and that is a game 3 nights a week, I have a graaduation In Washington DC in May, and a wedding in Sept. both grandaughters......I am not ready for anything that is gonna cramp my style.

    I will be starting Rads next week, and am not looking forward to having my boob charred like the deep fried Thanksgiving Turkey..........But what the hell, I don't feel like "selling the farm either".............I have no where near finished my "Bucket List",..........places to go, things to do................

    So ladies.........give me some good news about these damn hormone pills....................I keep telling myself each and everyday.........I have "cancer it does  not have me"..........hugs ladies and have a good night................Lord its 1am, and this old gal is still on the computer......later

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  • Valgal
    Valgal Member Posts: 247
    edited April 2011

    Dear ducky,

    I'm 54 (postmeno) and I don't think you should worry so much about trying Tammi. I was really worried and aside from the occasional hot flash I have not been effected. I do worry about the uterine thickening - but it's all a gamble. Your diagnosis does not seem too severe so maybe you should get a second opinion. My Aunt is about your age and had a lumpectomy and rads and that was it (she's really active /water aerobics etc.).

    P.S. Neither her nor I had any problems with the radiation either, just keep moisturizing.

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  • BeckySharp
    BeckySharp Member Posts: 935
    edited April 2011

    Ducky,  I am 63, postmenapausal, and started tamox almost three weeks ago.  I have not yet had any side effects.  My onc said postmen women usually have less.  He did warn me to expect hot flashes--but none so far.  I keep looking at that little pill and wonder if they gave me a placebo by mistake!  Becky

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  • JustmeAlicia
    JustmeAlicia Member Posts: 1,529
    edited April 2011

    Tink ~ so sorry to hear about your daughter.  I hoping she can get some help to battle her depression.  Depression is such a difficult thing.  I have had many spells of it and it can be very scary.  Prayers and thinking of you and your family.

    June  ~ so glad you got good results.  Hope you stomach is feeling better knowing it is just worrying too much.

    I spoke with my dr and got normal echo and caratoid scans.  So I am going to go off on vacation tamoxifen free.  It is not as easy as it sounds to not swallow that little white pill.  I can now say my lower back pain is virtually gone so that must be a tammi related SE for me.  Onco said we will discuss 5/10 what to do but I am sure I will be back on it at that point.  So I plan on enjoying my break.  Our weather sucks here today rainy and dark, and my mood matches it.  My daughter has to take her road test today in this awful weather.  I see a fail in her future poor girl.

    Have a good day all.

    Alicia

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  • jo1955
    jo1955 Member Posts: 8,543
    edited April 2011

    Alicia - We are getting close.  I can see the cruise ship coming in on the horizon.  We leave in 2 days.  Are you packed yeet?  I will do mine on Friday morning.

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  • JustmeAlicia
    JustmeAlicia Member Posts: 1,529
    edited April 2011

    Jo I have to get my butt in gear... mostly everything laid out, suitcases will come down from the attic tonight.  I will get me and the kids rolling.  Hubby hasn't even started and I have no idea what he needs, I bought him a few shirts and bathing suits.  Sick of doing everything for the man, when he goes golfing he can pack himself?!  Time he learns now !!!  grrrr...

    Our car picks us up for the airport Friday 3 am.  well which is really early Sat am.  I cannot wait.  Day 3 off of tamoxifen and I have to say I am feeling so much better.  I will enjoy my vacation from it !!!

    Hugs,

    Alicia

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