How important is the experience of a breast surgeon?
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Thank you, Beesie. I respect your opinion totally. I have contacted Northwestern in Chicago. It would be a 2.5 hour drive for me, but I've decided it's worth it. My message to BS was that I wanted to talk to someone who knew more about this study and was it possible to only take the SN. I did not dictate her procedure. If she would have kindly said that is not her standard of care and she is not comfortable with the study results at this time, I would have been ok with that. Instead, her rant threw me into a state of blubber and I was so stunned that the rest of my day was in a fog, honestly. She's an egomaniac that has no time for a patients question and is offended by the mere asking.
Also, Johns Hopkins requested the rest of my biopsy tissue. I guess it's in a parrafin block that pathology keeps. They obviously have more questions about my biopsy path results for a second opinion. They called me at home and told me of this change. I would go to Johns Hopkins, but they are 10 hours away. That hospital and it's staff are first class, they return phone calls within 24 hours, you talk to a knowledgeable person and I have not had to leave a VM once.
Moving from Chicago to a small town is a cold slap in the face when it comes to medical professionalism.
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Rainee---that BS needs a slap in the face.no dr.should talk that way to any patient.YOU WE are paying their salary.I too had a top BS with a huge ego.guess what.he did all the wrong things.
I went to 4 different Drs till i finally found the dr.who was gonna do what I wanted HER to do.I never regretted it.Follow your heart.I wish you all the best.hugggggggggggs K
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I agree with others who have responded to your question. You have every right to feel at ease and completely comfortable with your BS. If you do not, I think it would be difficult to trust them all that much. It may be a bit of a drive to another facility but will be well worth it if you find the surgeon who is right for you located there!
Hugs
Sandy
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Run - don't walk - to get another breast surgeon. This one sounds like bad news start to finish. and, don't be too enamored of Johns Hopkins - they're good at the PR to get you in the door - but I was singularly unimpressed with my breast surgeon - an ego maniac for certain - rough, rushed and full of himself. Left the back of my upper arms numb because he's such a speed freak he didn't bother to avoid some nerves - and the scars, though hidden, are these puckered indented things - which is definitely not necessary. I've had 3 previous axillary biopsies - and the surgeons in those cases were perfectly capable of leaving a smooth discrete scar.
The plastic surgeon was awesome, though - and I think Hopkins has other breast surgeons who are more compassionate than the one I had the misfortune to be assigned to.
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Hi all,
I completely agree with everyone that you need to see a doctor that you are most comfortable with. I am now very happy with Dr. Houlihan, and I just made the decision of doing a unilteral MX with immediate implant reconstruction. I don't have a surgery date yet but it should be sometime in April.
I hope things work out for everyone!
Take care,
Bella
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Bella, glad you are getting on with your treatment. My I suggest that you be as particular with your plastic surgeon as you have been with your bs? You will be joined at the hip with the plastic for many weeks/months to come, according to your choice of recon. Make sure this doc is all you want him/her to be and MORE. Complications with recon can and do occur and you want to make sure that you trust the plastic to address those without an artist's ego. I had not evaluated my plastic and just took my bs's word and it was a major mistake for me. Did find a good second plastic tho and am very happy with my redo.
Just make sure, OK?
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I will second the motion on Johns Hopkins. I know 2 cancer patients that had terrible followup from Onc's there (one a close friend). I consider myself the head of my cancer team and I watch my back at all times.
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yes, in my experience the surgeon is very important
do not be shy about asking for a dif surgeon, I ran screaming (well not screaming) from a radiation doc who took 3 phone calls while explaining the details of radiation to me
you need confidence in all your docs
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Iodine and all,
I am comfortable with my current PS, although he specializes in DIEP Flaps. I was originally thinking about doing DIEP, but now I will be doing the implants. He is seeing me tomorrow to see whether I am a good candidate for immediate one step implant reconstruction.
I like the fact that he is intelligent and also very calm. I was told that he has great bed-side manner.
Bella
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Just great! So glad you are finding the docs for YOU.
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