November 2009-Starting Chemo

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  • JustmeAlicia
    JustmeAlicia Member Posts: 1,529
    edited March 2011

    Michele ~ same here.  My daughter is taking SAT's and looking at colleges for us to visit over the summer.  She will be graduating in 2012.  The thought sickens me of her going off on her own.  She is my best friend (most of the time).  My hubby tells me she is growing up you have to let her go, I start bawling. 

    Nette ~ Glad you had a nice visit and hope her next visit comes before you know it.

  • BrendaSharon
    BrendaSharon Member Posts: 506
    edited March 2011

    Girls, Girls, Girls!!!!!!! Your all tearing me up!!

    Totally understand...though I don't have a daughter and I can ONLY IMAGINE how much worse it is as they do become a mom's best friend, I always felt like that with my momma. : -/( 

    I'm SAD when I don't see her, and my boys, well they all have been married and gone for quite some time...all live about 2-4 hours away and sometimes I still cry because I will get to missing them!!!

      ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))

    Hope y'all have a great week!

  • Cafelovr
    Cafelovr Member Posts: 1,534
    edited March 2011

    Geez, you all are going to make me cry, and Libby is only 8 years old! (or will me March 11)

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Hi Girls - sorry you're all upset at your daughters fleeing the nest. Ours has been gone for so long it's hard to remember what it's like having one of them at home. The peace is wonderful :)

    The visit to the surgeon is a follow up at which she will probably try to get me to have a mammo. I'm supposed to have MRI/Mammo alternately every 6 months. I'll just let her do a physical and that's it.

     I just remembered yesterday, I have my next Zometa infusion next Wednesday - eeek. I hope the SE's aren't as bad as last time. Having no port now, I'm not looking forward to getting it in my hand/arm.

    My bus friend is still in hospital - been a week already. The surgeon is not letting her go home with drains which is good. They took one out yesterday. I called her last night and she is sounding much better. I'll be able to visit her at home before I go back to work. only 2 weeks to go - help!!! I'm starting to enjoy staying home again.

    I'm very tired - still can't get to sleep easily. It's a bit cooler this week so I did vacuum the downstairs on Sunday. Had to rest after each room. Haven't done any cleaning for ages. Upstairs floor next on the agenda.

    Whole lower half of the boob is peeling!!! At least it doesn't hurt. I am SO over this whole crap thing it's not funny.

    (((((((HUGS))))))))

    Sue

  • doronet
    doronet Member Posts: 342
    edited March 2011

    I have come across a very informative site for BC survivors:   http://www.thebreastcaresite.com.  ON the home page, go to Community and Support, then, from the drop-down menu, to Breast Cancer Breakthroughs.  This site is updated every few days or so, or when something new comes across the news.  I have been "surfing" some articles from previous postings.  It def. has some interesting stuff.

    Happy Tuesday!  Nette 

  • RedheadPam
    RedheadPam Member Posts: 98
    edited March 2011

    Ladies,

    Nothing much to report from here (and that's a GOOD thing!), but I was thinking about how last year at this time I had my last rads and finished treatment, then thought of all of you and wanted to send hugs.   So, Hugs and cocktails to all!

    Pam

  • Cafelovr
    Cafelovr Member Posts: 1,534
    edited March 2011

    Pam! Welcome back!! The old addage is true...no news is good news.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Good to hear from you Pam!!!

     Hey girls - tomorrow is my end of chemo anniversary - woohoo!!!!

    Sue

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    1 year since end of chemo today - now that is something to celebrate!!!

  • JustmeAlicia
    JustmeAlicia Member Posts: 1,529
    edited March 2011

    Pam ~ nice to hear from you !  You are looking good ~ and hopefully feeling good too !!!

    Sue ~ Congrats on 1 year post chemo !  Hope your boobie is healing ~

    Morning all !

    :)

  • micheleboots
    micheleboots Member Posts: 1,993
    edited March 2011

    Sue, Happy Chemoversery...I hope you celebrate in some way.

    Man, I hate winter.  We have snow again, but it is not enough to cancel school buses..Hate that gray area, between blizzard and bad roads.  I was hoping for a aday off.  My rule is that if the school buses don't run then I don't go to work.

  • Cafelovr
    Cafelovr Member Posts: 1,534
    edited March 2011

    Happy Chemoversary. My anniversary will be the date of my reconstruction. It's rained so much here that I'm ready to build an ark!

  • doronet
    doronet Member Posts: 342
    edited March 2011

     I've spent a ton to time online the past two days trying to see how the maintainance med, Arimidex compares to Femara in side effects.  I stopped the Arimidex mid-Feb. due to the joint pains being bad (though, looking back, not debilatating) and took a 2 week break.  Have been on the Femara for 2 weeks now.  Was debating on going back on Arimidex because of the horror stories I read about Femara, however, I found the stories about Arimidex to be just as bad.  The postings I've seen on different web sites telling stories of both drugs are totally scary:  Some people have been on one of these or the other for years and the side effects worsen over time.  Some waken in the night screaming with pain in their extremities, some have terrible depression, swelling in their joints, weight gain, hair loss...the list goes on and on.  It's coming down to the lesser of 2 evils, though there is hardly a "lesser." The main side effect of both is the joint/muscle aches and it is prob. too early to tell if Femara causes less pain for me, but both have tons of SE and many of them are just so stinking terrible after time. I know everyone is different and has different reactions, but I'm trying to make the best decision and I really have no more a clue than when I started researching. ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Anyway, happy Chemoversary, Sue!!!!!  I have a month before mine, though I did get a third piercing in my ears today as an early anniversary "gift."  :)

    Pam:  you look great, though I think everyone is rockin' their new looks!!!

    Happy Thursday!!!  Nette

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Thanks girls. It was our son's birthday too, so I'll never forget the date.

    Nette - I'm taking Arimidex and it's not too bad. I switched to taking it in the morning as I was having trouble going to sleep at night, but it didn't help. I do have aches but take an anti inflammatary which I was on already. I'm not noticing the aches are any worse than I had before. Make sure you take stuff for your bones as they can cause osteoporosis.

    Had my hearing checked yesterday - a slight loss for high pitch noise but that could be age related. Doesn't solve my pulsatile tinnitus though. I expect the GP will refer me to an ear, nose and throat specialist. I'd better go and see him next week and see what's next.

    Zometa infusion next week - eeek!!! They say the SE's are usually only the first time - I hope so.

    (((((((HUGS))))))))

    Sue

  • Cafelovr
    Cafelovr Member Posts: 1,534
    edited March 2011

    Sue, I had terrible flu symptoms my first Zometa treatment. After that...nothing. Good luck! BTW...I have them every 6 weeks.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Linda, I had chest pains with the first one!!! At least I know what to take if that happens again. 1 dex fixed it but it was scary at the time. That's why I've delayed going back to work - just in case I do get any SE's. At least it's only every 6 months, but this will be my first one without a port. I'd better not get the evil nurse who can't seem to insert a canula in anyone without trouble. If she comes to get me, I'll complain or scream.

     Have a great weekend girls!!!

    Sue

  • mabelle
    mabelle Member Posts: 80
    edited March 2011

    Hi girls,

    Its been a really long time!  Just thought I'd check in... I finally had my exchange surgery on Feb 28th, and have been having some mixed feelings about the new foobs. I came back here to read some of the posts on the "exchange city" forum. Made me feel much better - 

    I think I got so used to the crazy high and hard TEs, that having "natural" looking boobs is a huge adjustment. I'm sure I'll learn to love them. I've been feeling so superficial about complaining. 

    I'm so glad to read that you're all doing well (I only read a couple of pages, so I hope that's true) - your photos all look really great! 

    Happy Friday!

    Mabelle (Michele) 

  • micheleboots
    micheleboots Member Posts: 1,993
    edited March 2011

    Mabelle, so glad to see you back...rejoice and enjoy your new girls...I can't wait for mine to come.

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Mabelle!!!! I was so worried about you - welcome back!!!!

    You missed all the excitement - I had another cancer in the other boob (they missed it the year before) - just finished rads a week or so ago and am about to go back to work.

    Sue

  • doronet
    doronet Member Posts: 342
    edited March 2011

    Wow, Sue, you were excellent at condensing the past few months into one sentence for  Mabelle.   The beginning of a new career?  Smile  I so hope the Zometa goes well for you.  What day do you have it?

    Good to hear from you, Mabelle!  I love hearing from the ol' gang.  It does seem that there is always something new to worry about, get used to, readjust to, rethink, redo, re-...well, maybe that's just life.  It sure is life ABC.  Undecided

    Horrible what happened in Japan.  Prayers for all the people there.   

    SAT for DS today.  As usual, I'm prob. more anxious than he.  What is it with teenage boys??!!

    Have a great Saturday, everyone.  Nette  Smile 

  • doronet
    doronet Member Posts: 342
    edited March 2011
    hmmm.  what's with my smileys being on a line to themselves.  Tongue out
  • Cafelovr
    Cafelovr Member Posts: 1,534
    edited March 2011

    I'm jealous Cry and I want foobs, noobs, or boobs. My surgery was cancelled, yet again. I am looking at a new doctor at Duke University who is a microsurgeon. Hopefully, he'll have more options for me, and can get me on his schedule. I see him on 3/29.

    Nette, I've been glued to the tv when I can. It's tragic.

    Yesterday was Libby's birthday, but we're partying tonight. We're off to see the wizard :)

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Nette - when I comment on blogs or news articles DH says I am very succinct.

    Linda - it will happen hopefully eventually.

    Just did a big garden chop around the pool. I filled my green bin and have enough left over to fill it again after it's emptied on Tuesday!!! DH went to golf really early, so I was out there taking advantage of the cool morning. Boy, am I pooped now though.

    Hope you all have a more restful weekend!!!

    Sue

  • Melinda41
    Melinda41 Member Posts: 672
    edited March 2011

    Linda: Why was your surgery postponed?? Very frustrating, I am sure. I am still a uniboober. I think this summer, if my health is on the upswing, I will look at getting a boob or two.

    Mabelle: So good to "see" you, hope everything is hunky dory.

    Big Hugs to all the ladies!

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Hi Melinda - hope you're well and enjoying spending time with your beau :)

     Sue

  • doronet
    doronet Member Posts: 342
    edited March 2011

    Sue:  when is the Z. infusion?

    Melinda:  great to "see" you!!  How are you feeling?

    Linda:  how was the birthday celebration?  I see from fb that you are a ASU grad.  My DH graduated from there as did one of my sisters, though both were in year groups ahead of you.  Did you meet your hubby there?  You know, there must be some reason for the surgery date changing:  maybe you were "destined" to have the surgeon from Duke?

    Working today and tomorrow, so that should pretty much exhaust me for the rest of the week. Tongue out

    Happy Monday!   Nette 

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Zometa infusion is Wednesday. I'm sure I'll be Ok, I'm going to make them run it slowly as that helps minimise the SEs. Looking forward to seeing Big Onc though.

  • JustmeAlicia
    JustmeAlicia Member Posts: 1,529
    edited March 2011

    Mabelle ~ nice to hear from you, give the new foobies time to settle in.  I hope you grow to love them.  If not then re-do them.  I am on my second pair and am finally pretty happy with them.

    Melinda ~ how are you???  Nice to see your face pop up, hope all is well.

    Linda ~ grrrr on your surgery being cancelled that just stinks !!  Hope you get a new date soon.

    Sue ~ hoping Zometa goes ok on Wednesday and you don't feel too bad after.

    :)

  • micheleboots
    micheleboots Member Posts: 1,993
    edited March 2011

    Sue, good luck on Wenesday with the Z..

  • suzieq60
    suzieq60 Member Posts: 6,059
    edited March 2011

    Thanks Michele - I'm sure it will be fine. More worried about not being able to get to sleep at night. I've had 2 really late nights in a row.  Doesn't bode well for my return to work next week. I'm off to see the GP today regarding my hearing test, so will also talk about this sleep problem.

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