Haven't been on a date since my diagnosis.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2011
    It is when we aren't looking or don't have a so called "plan" to meet someone that it "Happens", that someone comes into our life, loving us for just "us" and our uniqueness, BC and ALL!!! That's LOVE, that's pure LOVE and unconditional LOVE...open your heart and mind and allow all the love and care and concern to just flow in, to help heal you, rejuvinate your spirit and be as happy as you can be!
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  • Fearless_One
    Fearless_One Member Posts: 3,300
    edited March 2011

    Yes, I do believe happiness is a man-magnet!   It's hard when I feel lonely to act happy, but I know it is something that I need to work on.

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  • Fearless_One
    Fearless_One Member Posts: 3,300
    edited March 2011

     I just don't know how to get their attention.   I'm not ugly or anything, but it's been a long time since I was even flirted with.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited March 2011
    Fearless One - Babe I gotta say here.....you GO FLIRT with THEM!!!! Hubba Hubba girl, get it on!!!!Cool xoxoxoxo
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  • Fearless_One
    Fearless_One Member Posts: 3,300
    edited March 2011

    No, I am not confident or extroverted enough for that.   Especially now - remember that guy dumped me not long after seeing new photos of me, so a part of me still feels like he didn't find me attractive anymore.    But I will try to work on that.

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  • Twinmom77
    Twinmom77 Member Posts: 303
    edited March 2011
    It's been so long that I'm not even sure how to flirt anymore!  I was never really good at it in the first place.  I always waited until someone let me know they were interested and only then would I make a feeble attempt at flirting!
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  • Fearless_One
    Fearless_One Member Posts: 3,300
    edited March 2011

    Same here.   I do not approach men.   Even back when I felt more confident, I still didn't.   I learned from a young age, if a man is interested, he will let you know.    And if he's too shy to the point he can't do that, then I probably would not be compatible with him, anyways.  

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