Any BRCA+ women here?

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Rachel1
Rachel1 Member Posts: 363

I just had a PET/CT last week and it was clear. But then the onc. told me I am BRCA2 +. So now I'm facing having a bilat. mastect. and my ovaries removed.  How do deal with this bit of news? Here I thought I was getting the dx behind me -- finished chemo in October and just finished rads in Dec.  I'm scaring myself thinking that I have this lurking genetic mutation that is just going to keep rearing its ugly head.

Rachel

IDC 4.5, grade 3, ER/PR+ and yes, nodes. Now BRCA2+ 

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  • Traci-----TripNeg
    Traci-----TripNeg Member Posts: 2,298
    edited January 2011

    Hi Rachel,

    I am BRCA 1 +, so are two of my sisters. We all both removed, and hysterectomies.

    It sucks. But, we are all alive and 'well' now.

    Good luck with all your procedures girl, and best wishes for speedy recoveries!

    Hugs, Traci

  • JacquelineG
    JacquelineG Member Posts: 282
    edited January 2011

    I'm BRCA2 postive too! Yes, it's no fun to get the news... I was shocked, as I was the first in my family to get BC -- no breast or ovarian cancer in my family at all!! My parents were tested and my dad was the carrier. My sister is positive too. She had a prophylactic mastectomy last year and will have her ovaries removed once her 3rd child is born (she is pregnant now).

    I didn't find out I was positve until after my single mastectomy so I had the other side done one year later and ovaries removed at the same time.  The oophorectomy was a piece of cake (laparascopic).

     Feel free to PM me if you have questions!! I know it's hard to swallow but once your shock is gone and you go through your surgeries, our prognosis should be no different than BRAC negative people -- that's what my oncologist has told me!

    take care,

     Jackie

  • Kathleen26
    Kathleen26 Member Posts: 210
    edited January 2011

    I am BRCA2+.   Breast cancer has been in my family for many generations (it was already called the Caudill curse in my great-grandmother's generation--Caudill was her maiden name), but until I had the test, no one was able to put a name to the reason why.   

    My mother died of BC at the age of 49.  I had DCIS 20 years ago, and a mastectomy for a recurrence 6 years after that.  My sister had BC and BMX 10 years ago, and ovaries removed 5 years later.   I'd been asking my gyno what I should be doing...get ovaries out...Mx of remaining breast, etc because of my high risk, but she didn't see any reason to rush into it. 

     I finally decided to change to a new dr who was a little more action-oriented, and on the first visit he insisted I go for the genetic testing.  I found it I had BRCA2 so went immediately to the breast surgeon and said...get it off!   When they sent me for a mammogram and MRI to prepare for the surgery (mind you, this was only 8 months after my last clear mammogram), lo and behold I've got a stage IIIc cancer with a mat of it in the nodes 4 inches long (but flat so I never felt it). So here we are.

    I don't have any children, but my sister has two daughters in their late teens.  She is still trying to sort out how/when to tell them what to do, when to get tested.   My other sister got tested and doesn't have the gene.  It's bad enough having a genetic issue (but at least answers the question how I got it...so maybe it wasn't the bourbon, phew!), but hard thinking that my young relatives may also have it too and have to deal with it before they have a chance to think about having a family.

    What no one seems to know is whether having the gene will affect my risk of recurrence at this point, or not.

  • Latte
    Latte Member Posts: 1,072
    edited January 2011

    Hi Rachel.,

    I'm BRCA1+, and am just finishing up rads (2 weeks to go) after chemo and surgery. i am having an ooph in early March. i didn't have a BMX - i opted to have regular MRIs instead to catch a reoccurence, becauise my onc told me that with stage III BC already then a BMX won't change my life expectancy (because potential mets are a much bigger risk than a reoccurence in a breast). However, since ovarian cancer is extremely difficult to catch until it is advanced, i am having them removed as soon as i finish tx.

    Can i ask how old you are? (I am 40) my onc said she recommends to wait until 35 to have the ooph, even if you areBRCA+

  • jennyboog
    jennyboog Member Posts: 1,322
    edited January 2011

    I'm BRCA1+.  I just did my BMX last week and doing a ooph in few a mths.  I'm glad I did it was what I wanted as soon as I found out I was +.  For me it is scary enough to think this monster might show it's ugly head again so whatever I could do to stop that I wanted to do.  I guess there are no guarantees with any of it but I wanted to be as aggressive as I could.

  • Rachel1
    Rachel1 Member Posts: 363
    edited January 2011

    Hi there...

     Latte, I am now 51, but was dx at 49 yrs. 11 months. Originally, the onc. and surgeon I saw at a teaching hospital didn't want to do the BRCA test. They figured I was too old. However, my local onc. thought it had been growing in my 40's and I made the BRCA insurance cut off, so he checked. Interestingly, I have no family history of breast, ovarian, colon or prostate cancer.  What gives?? I do have a hysterectomy scheduled for  next week.  I'm hoping and praying that it negative. I just had a clear PET/CT so can I dare to think all will be well?? Then I want to have the BMX asap. However, I just finished rads in December, so I don't know how long I'll have to wait.

    Hugs,

    Rachel 

  • cc4npg
    cc4npg Member Posts: 764
    edited February 2011

    I'm 44, dx with bc just last year, BRCA2+.  I had no known family hx except for a half sister who had bc at 41, BUT she has since tested negative for BRCA2.  I had bilat mx Oct 2010.  I think I was numb from the end of August clear through the beginning of chemo in November.  I just finished 4 rounds of T/C, and getting ready for exchange and ooph next week.  It's a shock, to say the least.

    How do we deal?  Well, sometimes we don't do it very well and that's normal.  You do the best you can to get through the rough spots even if you have to take one second at a time.  And then you live your life to the best of your ability as you would have without this knowledge.  Don't let the genetic thing rob you of your life... because it can if we allow it to do so.  I have one daughter, 19, positive and one daughter, 22, negative.  My son is too young for testing.  It isn't easy, that's for sure.

  • AnacortesGirl
    AnacortesGirl Member Posts: 1,758
    edited February 2011

    My 30 year old daughter had her first breast scan yesterday.  It was an MRI.  She lives in Vancouver, BC and was told that she would get a call from the nurse in the next two weeks on the results.  She decided that she wasn't ready for testing even though my mom and I tested postive last November.  Instead, she's in the high risk group so it's an alternating MRI and mammo every 6 months.

    Now that she actually had the scan I find myself worried.  My logical side knows that it is highly unlikely that anything would be found.  We don't even know if she has the mutation or not.  And BRCA 2 rarely results in cancer at that age.  But the mom side of me is worried.  I wish she'd get tested but I have to respect her choices.

  • hydeskate
    hydeskate Member Posts: 297
    edited February 2011

    I dreaded the test when my mom tested postive, my sister tested negative, I think deep down I new I had the gene.  I got the test after injurying my breast, they thought the lump was a hemotoma becasue it didn't act like a tumor.  I got my Brac 1+ test the same day I was dx with Stage IV breast cancer at age 29.  Needless to say all the relatives that had refused to get the test got the test, there is still a few holdouts.  With cancer age doesn't matter, becasue I am young I have been able to handle the treatment with really no side effects, and currently I am NED for the past 18 months.

  • elmcity69
    elmcity69 Member Posts: 998
    edited February 2011

    I have the BRCA2 gene. My mother died at 59 from BC, her younger sister at 44yo, and another sister had it at 60 and survived. I had an oophorectomy last October; the surgery itself was easy, and I've had limited hot flashes. I'm 41, however, and already have two children, so the fertility issue was nonexistent.

    Yes, the sad reality is, the damn gene exponentially raises the risk. Maybe sitting with a genetics counselor and mapping out the pros and cons...my cousin is 30, has the gene also, and is taking her ovaries out @40yo, no matter what (and is pregnant, happily). I'm only citing her story to illustrate how every woman is different, with different priorities.

    Good luck to you. Feel free to PM me about the ooph if you want -

     Janyce

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