Today I am Grateful For...

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littletower
littletower Member Posts: 333

Thought we might need a thread to list the things for which we are grateful; in this day, hour, minute, regardless of the other crap with which we're all dealing...

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  • littletower
    littletower Member Posts: 333
    edited February 2011

    So, today is my six month mammo. To add to the stress, my onc ordered an ultrasound because she felt an enlarged node on the "other" side. Filled with anxiety and yet...

    Today I am grateful for: working out for two hours and feeling strong; my handsome and supportive husband who'll be by my side on this long day; my beautiful daughter just because she's my daughter; my goofy, sweet dog; the feather boa my sister sent me to go over the top of my vanity in my shoe room and last but not least, my first amendment rights:)



  • Gitane
    Gitane Member Posts: 1,885
    edited February 2011

    littletower,  Your list is awesome.  Mine's similar.  I looked at my husband last night ( he was simply sitting in a chair, looking in a box of his old watches and stuff) and I thought how overwhelmingly lucky and happy I am to have such a wonderful man in my life.  Right now I'm taking care of a beloved cat who had to have surgery and is suffering, yet he will recover, and have some time with us yet.  I'm grateful for that.  I love my mother so much, and know I couldn't have had a better mom.  It's bittersweet knowing she is so elderly and now has alzheimer's.  I think how lucky I am to have lived already five years after this diagnosis.  I look at my warm, cozy home on this rainy day.  

    It will be a long day for you, but I am waiting with you.  Please pet your goofy, sweet dog for me, and I will sit with my sweet cat.  We will wait.  I am hoping for good news for you.  Hugs, G. 

  • littletower
    littletower Member Posts: 333
    edited February 2011

    Oh, and red lipstick and six inch heels. Because they make you look the opposite of how you feel. Which right now is like doggie poo:(

  • Gitane
    Gitane Member Posts: 1,885
    edited February 2011

    ... and pink tulips... just because.

  • faithfulheart
    faithfulheart Member Posts: 544
    edited February 2011

    Hi girls,

    You both read my mind. I am so grateful for my handsome and amazing husband, the man who has told me I am beautiful and sexy the whole journey! Bald, no boobs, moody,ect....

    I love my little shiz zu Charlie, he is my buddy, and blesses our family. My healthy beautiful

    kids! I am so glad I am here to make them do their homework, make their lunch, clean there rooms...............tell my daughter to wear her bra!!!  I thank God for my mom and dad, I love them sooooo much. I am grateful that I have lost  lots of weight since I thoought I would gain so much

    with the ooph and tamox! I second the lip stick in my case

    it would be PINK, and the high heels, love it!  Who said we had to look the part right?

    Lets look fabulous, it makes people crazy, they  don't get it, how can you look so great you had cancer? I look better now then before cancer, probebly all those antioxodents!!!!!!!!!!

    I am grateful for my faith in God, and I am soooooo grqteful for my sista's!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Love this topic! good Job!!!!

    Love to all!

    Stephanie

  • littletower
    littletower Member Posts: 333
    edited February 2011

    I am grateful for my clean mammo. And ungrateful for the lymph node I need biopsied next Tuesday. Ugh:(

  • clariceak
    clariceak Member Posts: 752
    edited February 2011

    jenny's clear scan and the beautiful sunshine today.  Plus my dh did the dishes during his lunch hours.  I worked until 3:00 a.m. so that was a nice surprise.

  • AnnNYC
    AnnNYC Member Posts: 4,484
    edited February 2011

    Grateful to have a job and health insurance!  So grateful!

    Edit to add: And today I'm grateful that all job deadlines have been met, none are looming tomorrow, and a particularly trying boss (among several bosses that I have) is on a long plane flight today, and I can leave work "early" !

  • annabanana28
    annabanana28 Member Posts: 30
    edited February 2011

    I am grateful for second chances....  thanks everyone

  • hymil
    hymil Member Posts: 826
    edited February 2011

    Right now I am grateful for littletower for starting this inspiring thread. I am grateful that Annabanana came back to us. I am grateful that i have enough cash to pay my electricity bill and i am grateful that my issues at work are finally being dealt with, and that on account of that, i don't need to get up horribly early tomorrow Yay! I am grateful that my car passed it's annual statutory safety checks and I don't have a huge bill to pay. I am grateful for a free supper in my freezer from a friend at church who made extra just for me! Oh and I am grateful that my elderly mom broke her hip when she did, so that she was already safely being looked after in the nursing home while i went through BC.

  • Maureen813
    Maureen813 Member Posts: 2,893
    edited February 2011

    I am grateful for my husband, daughter and son who are my lifeline through this mess.  I'm grateful that I'm getting through chemo. I'm grateful for a roof over my head, ability to pay my bills, a relatively clean house, my laundry being done and health insurance. I'm grateful for all the women on these threads who've become my lifeline through this difficult journey.

  • mamaof3bugs
    mamaof3bugs Member Posts: 198
    edited February 2011

    I am grateful for my life.  It may not be perfect but it is mine and I am going to live it to the fullest!  My husband and my girls are my whole world and I cannot express how grateful I am for them.  I am grateful for my hair, even though it's really curly and makes me look like a crazy woman :D  I am grateful for this board, for without it I am certain I would have lost my mind.  I don't post here much but I read everyday.  Thank you for starting this tread, it made me think about the good things in my life :D  Love to you all! Angi

  • Mamita49
    Mamita49 Member Posts: 538
    edited February 2011

    So grateful for my kids and hubby. You have no idea how much love........

    Grateful for my health, for my friends and family.......

    Most of it,   Love, Love, and health and love again. 

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited February 2011

    I am grateful that I feel grateful.

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    Barb

  • jennyboog
    jennyboog Member Posts: 1,322
    edited February 2011

    Great thread, we all need this....I"m grateful for my DH, my rock, who is working a second job just so I can go through this journey and not worry about my job, my beautiful healthy lil' girls, this website where I can come when I need others going through the same battle, being alive today to enjoy it all. 

  • NancyD
    NancyD Member Posts: 3,562
    edited February 2011

    I'm grateful for members of my family who were always there for me when other family wasn't.

    I'm grateful that my father gave so much to us while he was alive, yet managed to give even more after he died. Because of him I'm able to fulfill a life-long wish to buy my own home (at age 60!).

    I'm grateful for my two children who have finally managed to start their own lives, lol. They continue to surpise me with their thoughtfulness.

    I'm grateful that I got through the past year at work which saw several people in my field within my company let go (Why do designers always seem to get the axe first?).

    I'm grateful that my onc isn't cutting me loose anytime soon. We've gone from every-three-months to every-four-months, will stay on that for another year, then go to every-six-months. I hope it doesn't end when I finish five years on my AI.

  • littletower
    littletower Member Posts: 333
    edited February 2011

    My coffee maker. Which allows me to wake up to fresh ground, already made coffee. A must for these crazy early appointments.

  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Member Posts: 1,439
    edited February 2011

    I am grateful as many others are here...for the husband who grabs me and pulls me close still, telling me how beautiful I am...while I still have surgical tape on breasts that have scars and no nipples.



    I am grateful I got on this morning to bco, and this was the thread I came to first...because sometimes I feel the need to not log back in...my spirit is weak seeing my sisters struggle so much. I appreciate the threads of joy.

  • geewhiz
    geewhiz Member Posts: 1,439
    edited February 2011

    I am also thankful for aluminum foil that will be used today..... they put it in my crazy post chemo hair of many lengths and textures...and paint it and my hair with color to make me a natural blonde again :)

  • Mom3
    Mom3 Member Posts: 170
    edited February 2011

    OMG, so  many things...

    my 4 year old son and 6 year old daughter who are our jewels

    my husband who makes me coffee every single morning!! heck, my awesome coffee maker

    my scale which tells me I'm down to 126 lbs. :)

    my kick butt Nike running shoes which were way too expensive but who I'm telling ya make me run faster

    CHOBANI GREEK YOGURT!!

    my sister who was gone for 4 days on vacation but who came back yesterday

    my clean laundry

    charged up cell phone

    zumba class tonight 

  • littletower
    littletower Member Posts: 333
    edited February 2011

    Being awake early enough to surreptitiously throw out the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition. ;)

  • luv_gardening
    luv_gardening Member Posts: 1,393
    edited February 2011

    I so much appreciate that:-

    My mother and I have lovely days out and she can still laugh and chat despite Alzheimer's.

    My wonderful little sister who took all the care and responsibility for mum while I had BC treatments.

    My youngest son who missed years of school with chronic fatigue found a college course in 3D animation and Art that he is passionate about that didn't require matriculation and it's a brilliant, student friendly college.

    My eldest son has recently started a full time job in his chosen field which is hard to get into- while completing his final year at university.

    My personal beliefs that give me great joy and comfort.

    The moon and stars at night.

    Watching out for whatever plants are in flower or showing beautiful features.

    This thread.

    All the happy happy moments that I relax into each day. I believe everything we do is designed to ultimately make us happy, but we can get there without all those outside props.

    The more I succeed in being happy each day, the happier that makes me.  What a neat trick!

  • littletower
    littletower Member Posts: 333
    edited February 2011

    Feeling well enough to walk my hill for an hour...seeing the beautifu blue sky and the Hudson River. Being alive!

  • Chevyboy
    Chevyboy Member Posts: 10,786
    edited February 2011

    Wow!  What a great thread!  And I LOVED the picture Shana...I saved it to send my friends!   I'm grateful for today, and how my life has been blessed.  I'm grateful for being NED this past year!  And I'm grateful because even though it might be snowing out, I can still find something to do around the house. 

     And my Grandsons...."my boys" without whom my life would not be complete.  My Daughters' who mean the world to me, & my DH.  We have known each other for 55 years, just married 53...but I am grateful we still have each other, even when the times were tough.

    sheilah...I'm so glad you still have your Mom....I was with my Grandma also, when she wasn't quite "there"....but I loved it.

    Littletower!  I love your shoe!  Mine aren't quite so glamorous right now....I have my warm fleece-lined crocks on!  Wink  I would topple over with high heels on I think.....

  • Christine2000
    Christine2000 Member Posts: 176
    edited February 2011

    I'm grateful for the 2 shelter kittens we adopted (even though they gave us ringworm!), for my funny 11 year old, for the big glass of wine I'm drinking, and for the Oscars tonight!

  • dawney
    dawney Member Posts: 211
    edited February 2011

    First of all I'm thankfiul for littletowers shoe room - that made me smile :)  I am glad I saw this thread today.

    I am so thankful for my DH, he has been there every step of the way.  I am thankful for the sunshine which has felt so good on my skin and bald head the past week (supposed to rain tomorrow), I am thankful for my new bed, I am thankful for my pets because they love unconditionally and make me laugh every day.

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