im ready to have sex again but my wig isn't

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shiramg
shiramg Member Posts: 186
edited June 2014 in LGBTQA+ With Breast Cancer

ok long story short.  my gf and i broke up a few weeks ago.  sex was not an issue bc we were together for so long that my baldness was not an issue.

 i am now ready to put myself out there again (i'm only 26 so i am still looking to "play the field a bit).  i met a really cute girl last night.  we hung out all night and she wanted to come home with me but i said no.

today she texted me that she wants to take me to dinner.  she has no clue that my long pretty femme hair is actually a wig.

 should i tell her beofr we go out?  or before we have sex?  or not and all and hope it doenst fall off?

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  • Lovegolf
    Lovegolf Member Posts: 513
    edited January 2011

    Tell her when you go out next....If the wig fell of during sex that might scare her... You are so young you are going to face this many times.  Good luck.

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  • patpet7
    patpet7 Member Posts: 13
    edited January 2011

    Talk to her about it when you go out.  Def before sex.  That could traumatize someone! 

    Hair will grow back, but it'd be hard to shake that first sex experience if the wig fell off!  If she's cool, it will be fine.  If she's not, then you need to move on anyway.

    Good luck!

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  • shiramg
    shiramg Member Posts: 186
    edited January 2011

    so far so good ;)

    i guess the ladies are more understanding than i gave credit for

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