Getting Tested Tomorrow

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libby88
libby88 Member Posts: 4
edited June 2014 in Genetic Testing

I'm going to the doctor's tomorrow to get tested for the gene. 

My Mum currently has stage IV recurred breast cancer, however I just discovered yesterday that both her mother and her sister have had breast cancer too.

The "c" word is almost forbidden in our family, which frustrates me. I don't think there is anything to be ashamed of, and keeping secrets is only going to stop women like myself seeking early prevention.

 Whether I am found to have the gene or not, I will take no chances. Being physically and mentally healthy, fit and sober are choices I have to make in order to save my own life. 

I cannot save my Mum now, but I can save myself.  

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  • nora_az
    nora_az Member Posts: 720
    edited January 2011

    Hi Libby,

    My mom was tested for BRCA 1&2, it was found to be negative. I seriously am not trying to be a "Debbie downer" but if you look at my profile you will see that just because she tested negative, for me it didn't matter.  My oncologist looked right at my Mom when she went with me during my first appointment when she produced the document saying she didnt have the gene and said, "I am glad you got the testing done however I assure you there is something going on genetically within your family that we currently don't have the test for."

    All I can say is, if it's in your family, stay diligent even if your test comes out negative. I hope for you it is negative.

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  • bethanieb
    bethanieb Member Posts: 10
    edited January 2011

    Libby88

    It was this time last year that I learned of my results. I tested positive for BRCA2. I went through a flurry of emotions. However I feel so empowered and grateful that I was able to find out before being diagnosed.  I feel guilty for the women who have been diagnosed and I was able to avoid it. I was shocked at age 41 when every doctor I went to recommended the proph ooph and mast. but after careful consideration and some resistance. I had my mastectomy, nipple sparing with the DIEP reconstruction method. Using this method I felt gave me more choices.  I can  say this past year has been overwhelming but such a blessing.  A gift truly.  My kids were frustrated because I had my 2nd stage reconstruction the day before Christmas this year and they said "you are gonna ruin christmas."  I said well it's a whole lot better than Mom gettting chemo on Christmas.  I hope that your results will give you information and choices that will empower you to take charge of your healthcare.....instead of your health taking over you! Bethanie

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