I say yes, you say no, OR People are Strange
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Thank you Annette.
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It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out who the "DD" are. Just a little investigative work.
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Kelly, they're discussing that on CNN right now. The ones (reporters) that have been there all week seemed to think that the entire community has been so grief stricken that they needed the release. They seemed to be in agreement that the President and other dignitaries were taken by surprise by the atmosphere. Very interesting.
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It's Tucson's tragedy and if they wanted to shout and applaud tonight, who are the rest of us to tell them they are wrong to do it? It didn't appear to be partisan, they cheered for the Republican Governor as well as the Democratic President. It was an arena filled with young people who have had quite an emotional week. A memorial service is a time for the living to do what they need to do to express their grief and begin to move on.
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I agree revkat.
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geez...here i am pre-exchange- late feb-just got a new onc-just returned to work and all I can think of is going with my sister to see Cher in Vegas before her show ends. Talk about priorities, but this matters I think. It was alittle ljoke we would do it dating back three years ago and never got around to it...me thinks no time like the present. We love Cher as she is half breed armenians like us and a damn survivor no matter what life throws at her. Gotta love for that! I will keep you posted:)
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Do they still have Black Magic chocolates in the Great White North? I adored them, especially when Woodwards had them as seconds in the little bags.
Not so much into lima beans. They were always something to be swallowed without being chewed. However, since being married to my Southern husband, I am becoming fond of white beans, black eyed peas and other legumes I would never have eaten before.
One of the things I miss the most about Canada is the french fries and gravy. Why does the US not understand the profound pleasure of such a simple thing? I make it at home, but don't know that I have ever seen them on a menu except maybe in Vermont.
I did not vote for him, but I was extraordinarily proud of Our President tonight. It was the University, not the Obama administration or anyone in the Democratic party who chose the theme and the tone for the evening. Hopefully the healing for all parties will continue.
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IronJawedBCAngel you have to add cheese curds to the fries and gravy and then you have poutine. It will clog your arteries for sure and still people enjoy it.
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Revkat, very well said:
It's Tucson's tragedy and if they wanted to shout and applaud tonight, who are the rest of us to tell them they are wrong to do it? It didn't appear to be partisan, they cheered for the Republican Governor as well as the Democratic President. It was an arena filled with young people who have had quite an emotional week. A memorial service is a time for the living to do what they need to do to express their grief and begin to move on.
And "together we thrive" made me think of some of the aspects of sitting shiva -- that the immediate family stays home, while all their friends and cousins, aunts, uncles (the ganze mishpoche) come over to the house and bring food (never flowers) -- sitting shiva is about taking care of the bereaved, bringing them food, helping them to thrive, bringing them back into "the circle of life" ("circular" food like bagels, eggs, round fruits is especially appropriate as being symbolic of this).
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Hmmm, I'll see your french fries/gravey and raise you GRITS! mMM, lotsa butter and salt and pepper.
We don't have lima beans, we have butter beans---same but with more butter. LOL, and sweet potatoes! with butter, or as a pie, but I'll pass on the marshmellows. Never had watercress(fish food?), but I'll see you those and raise you with turnip greens---fat back and cooked almost to mush, but still al dente..
Now OKRA. I am with you all the way Except for rolled in corn meal and fried and salted. Eat'm like popcorn.
Didn't watch the memorial, but sounds like the one I have planned for myself: my will says to server wine and have a keg.(red plastic cups a must) All music from The Big Chill.
Since it was on a college campus, sounds normal. All the tears have likely been shed and now is their time to begin to heal. At least one can hope.
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Okay -- on the OTHER food topic --
I love okra when its very small, young and fresh -- rinse them off, pat them dry, and then either:
toss with olive oil, sprinkle with salt, in a pyrex or ceramic casserole dish, bake in the oven at 350 for 20-30 min
or
semi-Japanese style on my Foreman grill -- sprinkle with soy sauce and balsamic vinegar and Foreman-grill 'em until tender.
Both methods great for asparagus, too.
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Thanks Alpal, I just thought the whole thing was odd. No need to attack, Revkat. The University and students have that right to hold whatever kind of service they would like. Just was different. If the families came away with what they needed that is what is important.
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Ang7 - them's is fighting words.
Sweet Potatoes are amazing. Try them baked and mashed with butter, spices and cointreau.
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Not attacking anyone, just stating my view. No need to take offense if it's different than yours.
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We don't grow 'em here but I love sweet potatoes. Peeled, sliced thin and oven roasted with olive oil and garlic. I'm saddened to think of the dislike shown towards the lowly turnip. Being one myself......well, what more can I say?
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Gaccckkkk! Okra and lima beans. The horror. Yes, mud. Love those sweet potatos baked.
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My family has big Irish wakes. Stories about the deceased, lots of laughter, lots of tears, a big party. When I told my DH the theme of the memorial service was Together We Thrive he said "What else would it be?" Something like this can not defeat us or tear us apart as a country. We will not only survive we will thrive..
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I have told my husband, no funeral when I pass. I want him to have a party at Margaritaville and celebrate my life with the people who loved me. My maternal heritage is Polish. The wakes were very similar to the Irish, lots of stories, laughter and alcohol.
In my own experience with breast cancer, I have gone from survivor to thrivor, and I wish the same for the citizens of Tucson.
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Morning Friends!
I thought the memorial was a great tribute to those who were killed, the wounded and all those who helped to save them.
I was glad Obama spoke about each of the people who were killed. It made them seem even more real to me .. and I had tears in my eyes thinking about them.
I especially liked the reading from the book of Isaiah and the Native American blessing at the beginning.
Hope everyone has a good Thursday,
Bren
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Dh and I Have both included in our wills the direction that there be no funeral, but rather, a memorial "celebration" for friends, family and former colleagues, with money set aside for a really good party!
Bren, agreed about last evening's memorial. It was strange at first to see the clapping and cheering, but then we had to remember that this was in an arena, not a church. John King on CNN made a good point in reminding us that the preceeding days had been filled with grief and tears, and that this memorial was meant to be a celebration of the lives of the survivors and of those who were killed. Your President gave, IMO, an excellent speech. I did have tears rolling down my face, expecially with his closing remarks about little Christina. He must have been thinking, too, of his own daughters. I have nieces and nephews in Tucson -- they've often said it's a big city in size, but a small town at heart. Last evening seemed evidence of that.
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Oh Molly52~
I'm from Virginia-
I'm a lover not a fighter...
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Yay for Ang .. Virginia is for lovers!
Bren
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A group of American women, both patients and staff, got together for Thanksgiving. We invited anyone who wanted to come so we had Australians, Brits, Canadians and French. We did our best to put together a traditional Thanksgiving dinner. But finding all the ingredients was difficult in Paris. I finally tracked down sweet potatoes, which I love. It was fun watching everyone try the dishes. There were two stuffings: one using a baguette and the other cornbread. Most women couldn't imagine why you would use cornbread--and a couple didn't know what it was. It was the most fun I've ever had on Thanksgiving.
Now back to the debate: I like Lima beans (but not those green things in a can), but have trouble getting past the slime of okra. I'm more of a green chile person coming from the southwest US.
Madalyn: I've seen Cher twice--once with Sonny. Great show!
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All this talk about ways to make certain maligned veggies palatable reminded me of the saying: You can put lipstick on a pig...
See, politics and veggies all at once!
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Maya .. what a wonderful Thanksgiving! I love all kinds of stuffing, and like to put a little bit of sausage in mine for extra flavor. I don't like the kind that's been cooking inside the turkey though. Too mushy.
Bren
Edited: Fingers type faster than brain can think!
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Iodine:
I'm with you - LOVE my grits - a good friend from SC sent me grits for Christmas - they cost her approx. $3 and to mail them parcel post (took three weeks) cost her $11.75 - they are the most expensive grits ever! I am loving every spoonful of them (she called last week to offer to send more - anyone know how to get them here in Canada?).
Sandy
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Grits? Never had them, the name doesn't sound so appetizing! But cornbread stuffing is the BEST!
As for the lowly turnip (what we generally call rutabaga and the Brits call Swedes -- I know, I know!!!), I hated the taste as a child. I love it now -- mixed with nutmeg and a wee bit of brown sugar, and maybe a carrot or too, and everything pureed...mmmm! DH on the other hand never acquired the taste, nor did he for liver, except pate of course! And I love red peppers and he does too, but they don't like him, if you know what I mean.
Besides taste, texture is really everything isn't it? Okra=slimy; liver=gritty; porridge=lumpy (at least the way my mother made it!).
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Grits are just teeny tiny cornbread crumbs - well, sort of!
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Liver?? Let's not even go there!
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I love liver! But 'nuff said!
Alpal, do you know why they're called grits? Because of the texture maybe?
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