Anyone NOT celebrate Christmas?
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lago ~ mmmmmm latkes yum! Happy Hanukkah sista!
Barb
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I made latkes last night....my daughter told our carpool that I make good latkes!!! they were yummy...its a once a year treat!!!
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Happy Chanukah everyone! My friend had her annual Chanukah party on Saturday. She makes the best latkes (other than my mom and grandmother, of course) - both regular and sweet potato latkes! Iago and Karen, I'm sure yours are yummy as well!
Lisa
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Thank you so much for that article Katherine. Although I am a Pentecostal Christian I admire your religions firm committment to stand on the word of God and not your own personal belief system....and the belief system of the world. Too many times we don't look to what offends our God and do what we think is ok. I don't ever want to pick and choose the bits of the Bible I want to follow-I want to follow it all. Sometimes it easy and other times it is really hard...letting go of Christmas was easy for me....
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Imc1970, shorbr, KatherineNaomi, Mom3, ~ I think it offends God when people are mistreated by others in the name of their religion. We are all judged by the way we deal wih our fellow human beings within our religion and out.
Was Jesus born on December 25th ?
No, He probably was not. The hills would have been bitterly cold and snow covered in December. The Watchtower once recommended, "The event is so important that it is always appropriate to call it to the minds of the people, regardless of the date " (Watchtower-Dec. 15, 1926, P. 371). The Early Church originally celebrated his birth on Jan.6. The eastern Orthodox still hold to this date. We do know the date of Lincoln's birthday; yet we often celebrate on a different day since it is the memory not the exact date being emphasized. Col. 2:14-17 " So let no one judge you in food or in drink, or regarding a festival regarding a festival or a new moon or Sabbaths. "Rom. 14:5-6 ", One person esteems one day above another; another esteems every day alike. Let each be fully convinced in his own mind. He who observes the day, observes it to the Lord;" If someone wants to set a certain day aside he has the liberty and right to do so. It can be any day of the week, however if he makes it a requirement for others to have to do the same then he has become legalistic and is no longer operating in grace, he has become a judge of his brother without any Biblical substantiation. In the same manner if someone makes it illegal to celebrate it they are a legalist. Scripture does not forbid celebrating the birth of Christ. Jesus was at "the Feast of the Dedication" in John 10:22. This was not an official Holy day. Yet we do not find that Jesus refusing to participate in the celebration, he actually condones it and this was on Dec.25. Does this mean Jesus is practicing paganism? While we are not specifically commanded to celebrate Jesus' birthday, we are not brought into bondage by it either. By practicing the freedom in the NT we can remember the time the savior visited our earth.
Does Scripture forbid celebrating Jesus' birth ?
The Watchtower says there is no command to celebrate his birth in scripture like remembering his death! There is no command not to either. There is no command to meet on Sundays but we do out of our freedom to worship. This is something they changed their mind on over the years "Don't quibble about the date; join in with the world and celebrate Christmas (WT 12/1 1904 p.3468). "Christmas is so important, regardless of the date." (WT 12/15/1926 p.371) "It is quite immaterial the day Christmas is celebrated; we may properly join. (WT 12/15/1903 p.3290) They state, "We are to remember Jesus' death not his birth. "While the emphasis of forgiveness is on his death we should be thankful he became a man. Who set the precedent for our response to His birth? Lets take a look at Luke 2:8-14 and you find it was the inhabitants of Heaven, the angels! Jehovah definitely approved of celebrating the birth of Christ. Opposition only came from the kingdom of Satan. We read, Jesus' birth is characterized by "the glory of the Lord" and "great joy! " For who? 'All people!" A multitude of heavenly host" was joyous with celebration and praise! Do you suppose the shepherds said, "Oh, I just don't see what all those angels are excited about"? They joined Heaven and celebrated the birth of Christ, they were excited! Herod didn't celebrate his birth because the promise of God was born, he wanted him dead. (He asked The wise men who came to bring him gifts and worship him to report back so he might do 'fake' worship of him Mt.2:9-11)
What about the pagan origins of the Christmas tree?
Consider the pagan origin of the word "December" written on the front of every Watchtower magazine this month. What about the names of the week being of pagan origin (Saturday =Saturn) Is the Watchtower pagan simply for mixing a word of pagan origin with its religion? Watchtower readers would say no. The Watchtower is not recommending the worship of Greek gods by using something common to both cultures. For the Watchtower to be consistent they would have to remove the words of the weeks and months from their publications. Do Christians attach Pagan meanings to the tree today? No, not anymore than the J.W.'s do!
What about the Old Testament references of the heathen decorating a tree ?
Read the context of those Old Testament passages. The person was making an idol to worship. They built buildings for idol worship, should we no longer go into buildings ? They sacrificed foods to Idols, should we discontinue eating? To say people who enjoy Christmas worship Christmas trees is simply not being honest! Christians do not worship the cross on a building or a tree in their living rooms. Do Christians attach pagan meanings to lights or other decorations? No. Of course not! Rather, lights remind God's people about Jesus! Jesus said, "I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life" John 8:12. The real problems of Christmas are the commercialism which removes the focus from the Lord to the exultation of mythology (Santa Claus versus the Lord). Satan will use the commercialism and fantasy about Santa Claus to keep people from the real meaning of Christ's birth. So do J.W's by the material that they print, making Christ a creature and ignore the incarnation of God visiting man.
Should we be giving Jesus such praise?
Remember how He commended the children who praised Him, saying the stones would cry out if they stopped." (Luke 19:3 7-40) When was the last time you heard someone from the Kingdom Hall praise Jesus? If Jesus does not receive worshipful honor, equal to the Father, your honor of the Father is not accepted (John 5:23). From the beginning people "worshipped him " (Matthew 3:1 1), not "him and her" (Mary) as Roman Catholicism does. Was Jesus worshipped by His disciples, or does the Watchtower Bible accurately suggest otherwise? Test those Bibles by the Greek. See how the Watchtower translates the following verses, then compare the Greek spellings (Rev. 22:8 with Mark 2:2), (Rev. 5:14 with Mat. 2:1 1; 14:33; 28:9,17), and (Heb. 11:21 with Mark 5:6 and John 9:38). The exact worship the Father receives, the Son also receives. Isaiah called the Christ child, the 'Mighty God" (Isaiah 9:6). He goes on to write the mighty God is Jehovah the LORD (Isaiah 10:20). Mt1:23 Emmanuel "The God with us."
What about gift-giving?
Good-will to all men is commended! Under the former light Judge Rutherford, the Watchtower president at the time, was very excited about his "numerous Christmas presents" " (Watchtower-Jan. 15, 1919, P. 3 1).According to their own judgment he was a pagan! Did not the wise men bring expensive gifts to Jesus Mt.2:1. How wise are you? Would a J.W. turn down a gift on any other day of the year? If you were at work and thirsty and someone bought you a drink for free isn't that a gift? If someone bought you a meal isn't that a gift? If gift-giving is acceptable on other days of the year, why not on December 25th ? God's only condition for celebrating is do so "unto the Lord" (Rom. 14:5,6). Christmas maybe your stumbling-block, but for Christians, it is a stepping-stone to share the real meaning. Using any Opportunity to point people to Jesus Christ. The light of the Watchtower may change, but the Light of the world (Jesus Christ and his word) is never changing.
What is the best gift?
The best gift you can give to God is yourself. He has already given his best gift to all the world almost 2,000 years ago. Salvation is his free gift to you through his Son not an organization. "The gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." (Rom. 6:23 ). No one reaches for their wallet to pay off a free gift! You, simply receive him (Rom. 4:4; 11:6; Gal. 3:24). What about "Working hard for the reward of eternal life" (Watchtower--April 15, 1972, P. 491). Eternal life is not a reward which must be earned by works. The Bible tells us salvation is a free gift! "For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God.' not of works, lest any man should boast." (Eph.2:8,9). See, it is not by works, God is trying to keep you from boasting. Accept God's gift, Jesus! but as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name" (John 1: 12). Rom.3:26-28" To demonstrate at the present time his righteousness: that he might be just, and the justifier of him which believes in Jesus. Where is boasting then? It is excluded. By what law? of works? No: but by the law of faith. Therefore we conclude that a man is justified by faith without the deeds of the law." Rom.11:6 And if by grace then it is no longer of works; otherwise grace is no longer grace. but if it is by works, it is no longer grace; otherwise work is no longer work." Are you willing to receive what God has given? How do you receive?
"For whosoever shall call upon the name of the LordBarb
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Growing up my Mom was (still is) a wonderful source of knowledge and would talk to us about the different religions. I feel like I've jumped back in time and am listening to the words of my Mom all over again. I guess she wanted us to understand as much as we could about all religions, not just what we were.
We do celebrate Christmas. Our home is decorated, we put up a tree, I watch cheesy holiday movies, I shop (but not like a wild woman), I love to bake, I love to share the baked foods and gifts with friends, family and neighbors, I love to wrap and I absolutely love to see the awe in the eyes of children when they see what has been left by Santa. To put it in a nutshell, I love the magic of the season. Yes, it is commercialized, yes, there are people that go waaaay overboard and spend money they don't have and yes, there are many people who don't realize that or take into account what the celebration is about. But...in the end, it brings families together and yes these same families do pray together, go to church together and are reminded what the holidays are about.
Happy Christmas
Happy Hanukkah
Happy Holidays
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I DO celebrate Christmas, I do not care the origin of it, to me my religion is based on Faith.
I also work in a Pediatric Hospital as well as part time in a cancer center, and this time of the year we make their days very special , by the way patients that are terminal do not die during Christmas in the hospital, they do after.
I was married with a Jewish man and since be spoke about it before marriage, my kids are Roman Catholic, I am a practicing one, we lived in several Muslim countries and there was a lot of respect for Christians more than I see here lately.
We have a Baby Jesus that has been in my family since the 1700 and to us Christmas is about giving and sharing and I do speak about presents.
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Most Christians don't really believe that Jesus was born on December 25th. They aren't that ignorant.
They realize its a day to remember His birth. 'Sides, anyone who knows anything how the various calendars have changed over history (IE the Julian vs Gregorian) get it.
Anciently, the early Christians were more focused on the Resurrection, not the Nativity.
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I liked the wording where one relgion found the process stumbling blocks and for the other it was stepping stones. Nicely put.
Interesting how Santa and Satan have the same letters.......hey, I'm just sayin' !
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Sorry I haven't kept up with this thread. Thanks for the Hanukkah wishes.
BTW a friend of mine sent me this link: Christmas Latkes. Actually more like Southwestern Latkes to me. The recipe looks good. I have a ton of potatoes left (bought 5lbs for $1). I think I'm going to try this out: http://www.thehotzoneonline.com/2006/12/21/latkes-for-chileheads/
Anyway I think it's fun to have "Christmas Latkes" Our cultures have become so mixed… and such wonderful things come of that IMO.
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Iago: I don't celebrate holidays but I WILL help eat the goodies. I'll gladly feast on your latkes (whatever they are!). Happy Hanukkah nd latkes feasting!
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Barbe .. you crack me up! I'm not much of a believer anymore, but I do like the holiday season and all the decorations, putting the tree up and getting together with my family. I like shopping for my family too .. I'm already done and I really enjoyed it this year.
The latkes sound great! Especially since I'm kind've hungry right now!
Bren
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Medigal Latkes are just potato pancakes. I'll gladly share. I "celebrate" holidays that involve eating… meaning I do the eating part just not the other religious stuff.
So who's going to Chinatown to celebrate Christmas eve?
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Christmas is fine as a cultural tradition that goes back to the Roman festival of Saturnalia, a time of eating, drinking and merry making. I think anyone can celebrate it as a secular holiday or a religious one or both.
Easter is also a pagan holiday in honor of the Celtic mother goddess Ostare or Eastra. The Celtic religion spread from just north of Greece all the way to Norther Europe at one time. The witch burning of the Middle Ages was the final push to drive out the last vestiges of one of the most ancient religions on the planet.
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I love how pagan and Christian traditions intertwine. I have my MA in Classical Studies and some of my classes studied this. When Christianity was spreading, what better way to convert the locals than to incorporate some of their traditions?
My family isn't religious but still has Christmas Day celebrations. I haven't gone for the family dinner for over 20 years. It's the bickering and tension that made me drop out. And I can easily snag a few washers and dryers in the laundry room and get a ton of laundry done instead. :-) I also get very sad for those that are suffering, the homeless, the poor. All the commercialism seems to me to just be a slap in the face for them.
The only day around Christmas that I do celebrate is the first day of winter -- the sun is finally starting come back north! There's hope of spring and summer again.
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My DH is Jewish and I am Christian. Neither of us is religious but we do celebrate with eating. Christmas Eve we usually have some friends over for dinner and egg nog and pie.
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I was alone for years in-between husbands and I hated when I'd go back to work after the holidays and people would say "Was Santa nice to you?" DUH..... I got nuthin', what about you?
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Barb I always laugh at the santa/satan thing....I actually saw a pic of a girl who had drawn a christmas picture that said "I love satan" lol....
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Hows this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDvHO5ZSGo8
HOLIDAY!!!
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Is interesting the lack of respect for Christians, and is this "Lets bash them Day "?
We believe because of Faith. If one doesn't celebrate Christmas is a personal choice, it is not needed to make fun or insult Christians that we celebrate the Birth of Jesus, if it is not the exact date, we don't care, We BELIEVE.
This faith has kept be alive .
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Dreaming I don't see this thread as a bash Christians day. Matter a fact it appears to me that many of the jokesters are Christians themselves just not practicing or just don't celebrate.
Sorry you feel the joking is offensive but that's not what it's meant to be. So many of us need a chuckle in these times. Seems people here just know how to laugh at themselves. I can't tell you the number of Jewish jokes I tell. Matter a fact most comedians Jewish, Christian and etc. have made their living poking fun at themselves and their culture/religion.
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Well, I'm a Christian (see the "rev" part of my user name) and I am not fond of the celebration of Christmas. I much prefer the Advent season (which is all about waiting and longing) leading up to it. And since most folks don't want to come to church on Christmas day, by the end of the Christmas eve service the spiritual part of celebrating the incarnation is all done.
All this to say, since I was diagnosed I really can't stand the whole family dinner thing (too much work and too much conflict) so we will be joining our Jewish and non-religious friends at the Chinese restaurant for dim sum on Christmas day! (Ok, the kids to get some present and we have a tree, but really, people think I'm sort of grinchy about the whole cultural celebration thing).
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I think most of us are saying that the true reason for the season is not being celebrated properly as well. I certainly didn't "hear" any Christian bashing, till now.
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Barbe1958 - Me neither - in fact I was reading through the thread and thinking how great is this that everyone was sharing their own stories and traditions and feelings in such an open exchange. Not much to add - I am one of those "Unitarian with Christian leanings" types, and I am a Christmas lover married to a Christmas - well, not hater but...it's not his "most wonderful" time of the year, either.
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barbe1958 ~ jpsgirl96 ~ I agree. I haven't heard any "Christian bashing" on this thread either. I did notice, however, that some have told us that celebrating Christmas is offensive or displeases Almighty God, and have attached some of the literature that comes out and condemns those who do choose to celebrate. Rather than just giving the history of these celebrations, it comes out and suggests that you should "take a stand" against the celebration. I have the impression that those who choose to celebrate their traditions are judged by some as "offending God". To me it's just overjudgmental self-righteousness when these statements are being made towards those who may choose to celebrate the Season.
Barb
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I didn't see Christian bashing, but I did notice that some Christians are really against celebrating Christmas. I work with a few people that don't celebrate Christmas and we've talked about it, but they or their fellow worshipers didn't seem to have that much anger towards the celebration, it's just that they choose to do something different. Maybe it's that writing in an email or post thing, someone is trying to say something and it comes across waaaay wrong.........
I will say that I have enjoyed reading the histories and other information posted hope to learn more.
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This post was started by someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas. It wasn't a poll on who does and doesn't. It wasn't meant to be a history lesson on Christmas. I assume that she wanted to speak to people with the same beliefs as herself not be shot down for her beliefs. Are we ever allowed to say anything on this site without being ridiculed or told we are wrong? If you celebrate Christmas-good for you. I don't-I believe with all my heart the bible tells us not to. I also believe that if God wanted us to celebrate this day He would have told us to in the bible-after all he tells us how to live our lives in every other way. It's got nothing to with me not having faith. I'm not meant to have faith for Christmas....Anyway I have expressed how I feel and if that makes me self-righteous and overjudgemental then so be it. It was only a matter of time before the name calling started.
BTW sharing your opinion doesn't mean you are judging others. If you are feeling judged, there may be other reason for it.
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The question "Does anyone NOT celebrate christmas, just curious" because she does not. I like Christmas and do celebrate, and respect those who do not and enjoy other celebrations . But I distictly get the impression that there are some on here who seem to want to start up with those who do enjoy the holiday. Because I enjoy this holiday, I like sharing some of hisory of it's origins, or sharing ideas on recipes etc. Imc1970, with all due respect it was you who started with the ridicule and negative comments. Sharing your opinion is one thing but when you come out and tell others that their celebration is offensive to God, it is showing intolerance of others beliefs in their celebration. I hope we can all get along.
Barb
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Ridicule and negative comments? Ok Shanagirl think what you like, I was merely excited to share my beliefs with other like-minded people on a post that was started by a person that thinks like I do. I didn't go on a "Why Christmas is Great" forum and start telling everyone they were wrong and nor would I. I could sit here and call you names and go through your posts and tell you where you are scripturally wrong but I just don't care enough about this issue nor have I come on here to tell people they are wrong. Again, I was sharing what I believe to be true just like you have shared.I was foolish to think I could speak freely here- But sure-after you have called me names and told me I started the redicule and negative comments, I will find it very easy to get along with you.....
PS this was a forum for those who don't celebrate Christmas (or so I thought)...I thought it would be a safe place to share my beliefs with others that feel the same way I do. I was wrong.
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OK now it sounds like we put up a Festivus Pole and we are airing our grievances. Lets get back to the orginal coversation.
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