Advice for getting through chemo while caring for cats?

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So I haven't see this anywhere on the forum...I live alone and have two older cats (10 and 14 years old). Currently they sleep in my bed with me. The truth is that I have a hard time sleeping without them piled on top of me.

I've asked a few people about how to best take care of myself and protect myself when dealing with pets and pretty much everyone has said: Get rid of the cats. 1.) That seems extreme and 2.) They're pretty much the only family I have in NYC so that ain't gonna happen.

Has anyone any advice for me? Will wearing a mask and gloves be enough when cleaning the litter box? (No, there is nobody who can come in to do this for me.)

Thank you for any advice!

Colleen

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  • nurseronda10
    nurseronda10 Member Posts: 209
    edited November 2010

    I have two dogs in the house and asked my oncologist about them and she said as long as they were healthy, it would be fine.  I read that it is not advisable to clean up dog or cat poop, but if you have no one, I would wear a mask and gloves and do very good hand washing.  Of course, this would only apply if you are taking chemotherapy.

  • cat54
    cat54 Member Posts: 77
    edited November 2010

      Hi Colleen... was just going to ask the exact same question, my close friend is a nurse and she is  very concerned about me cleaning cat litter... so I bought a set of masks and disposable gloves and to clean it I cover entire box with plastic bag outdoors empty it covered then slide it out... I then hose it down in the drveway very far away from me... my husband is not going to do this so I also have no choice... hope this helps you good luck, Cat

  • tooyoungtohavebc
    tooyoungtohavebc Member Posts: 779
    edited November 2010

    I have been going through treatment for over 5 years now and I have 2 cats and a dog. They are my best buds and no way would I ever let them go. In all the time of my treatment, my docs/nurses have never raised a concern about my taking care of them. Actually during chemo one of my nurses and I always talk about our cats. I have a hubby, but like cat54, he won't touch poop so I clean cat box and dog poops. I have never had any issues related to cleaning up after my pets. Agree that if you are concerned get some gloves/mask, but don't get rid of your babies!

  • deadlanguages
    deadlanguages Member Posts: 36
    edited November 2010

    Thanks, both of you! That's a huge relief. These guys are rescue cats and have been with me all their lives. They're like my kids. =)

  • ruthbru
    ruthbru Member Posts: 57,235
    edited November 2010

    No, no, no, whatever you do, do NOT get rid of the cats!!!! Pets about the best source of emotional comfort a person could have during a tough time. (I had two during chemo, and now am up to three thanks to a kitty who showed up on the doorstep and adopted us.) As others have mentioned, if you are doing chemo be sure to wear the gloves/mask when you do the litter, wash good afterwards etc. Best of Luck! Ruth

  • julie75
    julie75 Member Posts: 635
    edited November 2010

    Colleen:  So glad to hear you won't get rid of your babies!  Not to digress from the topic of breast cancer, but my brother had colon cancer and did chemo.  His wife took care of the boxes during that time, and the cats stayed.

    I'm sorry you're having to go through chemo; hope you do okay with it. I'm sure your cats will provide emotional support!  Mine did - all 7 of them Laughing

    Good luck!

    Julie

  • konakat
    konakat Member Posts: 6,085
    edited November 2010

    I didn't do anything special concerning my cats.  They slept with me, I fed them, cleaned their litterbox, cuddled them.  Nothing's better than cuddling a cat after a chemo day.

  • tiger2338
    tiger2338 Member Posts: 2
    edited November 2010

    My pets, a cat and a dog are my best pals. Get rid of them? Not happening baby! Invest in some boxes of surgical masks and some sturdy rubber gloves. You'll be fine.

  • Celtic_Spirit
    Celtic_Spirit Member Posts: 748
    edited November 2010

    I had (have) three cats during my cancer treatment. One slept curled up against my incisions after surgery. Felt great! I cleaned their litter boxes throughout chemo and had absolutely no problems. I also had pet rats at that time, and I played with them and cleaned their cage as well.

    I attended a chemo class taught by the head chemo nurse prior to my first infusion. She said nothing about animals, but she did warn us away from children and crowds!

  • crazy4carrots
    crazy4carrots Member Posts: 5,324
    edited November 2010

    Colleen, count me as another one who cared for 2 cats through chemo.  Well, truthfully, they cared for me!  My only concern was to try and keep Abby from licking my face the day of, and the following 3 or 4 days after tx.  I was concerned that the chemo might be coming out my pores.  Probably not, but they survived, and so did I.  Keep 'em close!

  • JennyB100104
    JennyB100104 Member Posts: 237
    edited November 2010

    I cared for my kitty during chemo too. :) They're great for cuddling.

    hugs,

    jenny

  • Fearless_One
    Fearless_One Member Posts: 3,300
    edited November 2010

    Oh, sweetie, I wouldn't get rid of my cats in a million years - you will be just fine.   I would start wiith buying some disposable masks and gloves and use cat pan liners (they make clean up a breeze).  OR you could try one of those Litter Maid things, but I have never used them so I can't say yay or nay on them.

  • Celtic_Spirit
    Celtic_Spirit Member Posts: 748
    edited August 2013

    Daisy - Two of the cats were mildly curious about the rats. My third cat is a Maine Coon, which were originally bred to hunt mice and rats. When I had the rats out of their cage, he would watch, intently. I could not, for even a moment, drop my guard around him, or the rats would have been lunch! Several older cats that I use to have (who have since crossed the Rainbow Bridge) were great with the rats, even curling up in my lap with the rats and taking a group nap!

    Yes, rats unfortunately don't live long...only about two years. They are great pets and are like both cats and dogs in many ways. One would follow me from room to room and lick my hand!

    Good for you for volunteering with the Humane Society! I'm a member of our local chapter. I also maintain the Website for a local cat rescue group. I use to do center visits and clean cages but gave it up when I was diagnosed with BC (not due to germ/cleanliness issues, but because of down time from surgery, chemo, etc.).

  • riley702
    riley702 Member Posts: 1,600
    edited November 2010

    Another one here who cared for my kitty by myself through chemo, surgery, now doing rads, and will have surgery again before the end of the year. No one ever mentioned my getting rid of my cat and I would have flatly refused had anyone been silly enough to suggest it!

    He was wonderful support on my down days and snuggled with me even when I was sleeping with surgical drains. I slept propped forward on a pillow with the drains on the bottom side. It kept my weight off the drains and kept the cat away from them as well. You'll both be fine.

  • Eloise
    Eloise Member Posts: 137
    edited November 2010

    I agree about the cat pan liners, they'll make your life much easier.  The ones that are sold as cat pan liners are rather expensive -- but any plastic bag that's larger than a kitchen-size bag will probably fit over your litter box.  I use Costco trash bags. 

  • CoolBreeze
    CoolBreeze Member Posts: 4,668
    edited November 2010

    I got through chemo with my cats sleeping with me.  No problems.  Wear a mask and gloves for the cat box but you'll be okay.

  • riley702
    riley702 Member Posts: 1,600
    edited November 2010

    Cat box liners don't work for me, because my kitty isn't declawed - he'd shred those liners in a jiffy!

  • mari65
    mari65 Member Posts: 131
    edited November 2010

    Your kitties will make chemo alittle more tolerable.. They know when we need extra love. My kitty sleeps on top of my head.

  • GointoCarolina
    GointoCarolina Member Posts: 753
    edited November 2010

    I never thought I would be thrilled about cleaning kitty litter pans,but I was so sick during chemo my husband had to do it for me.Now every time I start to think of it as a chore,I remember when I would have given anything to have the strength to get up and do those litter pans and I smile!Works with washing dishes too!!

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