THE 2ND TA TAS SISTERHOOD REUNION IN VEGAS!!

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  • firstmate
    firstmate Member Posts: 410
    edited November 2010

    Sandy - We did talk about this in Vegas, so I realized why you were off the boards.   I have been through separation and divorce as well.   It certainly makes you a stronger person, but the logistics are difficult, time-consuming, and emotionally distressing.   Call anytime if you need to chat.  We are here for you!  Take care of yourself!

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  • monandeclan
    monandeclan Member Posts: 412
    edited November 2010

    Sandy, I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through, although I suspected it when you disappeared for awhile.  I know this transition time will be tough, but you are one strong lady.  Hang in there and know your sistas are thinking of you.

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  • SusieZeeMears
    SusieZeeMears Member Posts: 444
    edited November 2010

    I'm so sorry Sandy that you have another situation to deal with.  You are sooo strong & I wish we could help you more than just our words, but prayers & (((HUGS))) are with you & here for what ever you need to vent or chat about.  LOVE YOU!!!

     Take care  Chow  XOXO Susie

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  • Jazzygem
    Jazzygem Member Posts: 790
    edited November 2010

    {{{{{{{{{{[GROUP HUG!}}}}}}}}}}}   {{{{{{{{{{SANDY}}}}}}}}  Sandy, I wish we were all together so we could just hug you all up!!!  Please know that all of us are here for you ok!!!  I'm very proud of you girl!  Hang in there and know you are loved very very much!!!

    HUGS! Jazzy

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  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2010

    Sandy, so sorry to hear you are going through this. You're a strong lady and you'll get through this just fine. We're here for you and pulling for you - all of us........... Praying that you get through this and that your ex doesn't make this situation any harder than it already is. You're one heck of a lady...YOU GO GIRL!  

    Love, Your Canadian sister

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  • Journey
    Journey Member Posts: 905
    edited November 2010

    Oh Sandy, I am so sorry you are having to make this move.  Wish we could be closer to help you in person, but know your tata sisters are there with you in spirit.  Although it was 18 years ago for me I remember well those first few weeks of being on my own with a small boy to care for and keep all those balls juggling.  Just remember to breathe.  It's okay to cry.  Then do something good / fun / relaxing just for you.  Major Hugs!!! - Gretch

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  • Linda54
    Linda54 Member Posts: 2,689
    edited November 2010

    ((((((Sandy)))))

    I think most of us have been through a divorce. For me it was a loooooog time ago. Married my high school sweetheart but it was not real love, just an escape from my parents who were into a nasty divorce.  We did  not have any children and did not own property to have to deal with. 

    You are such a trooper.  So sorry "he" is giving you a hard time.  Just hang in there and do what you think is best.  The best to you and your new future.

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  • Mykidsmom
    Mykidsmom Member Posts: 1,637
    edited November 2010

    (((Sandy))) I have not been through a divorce, but I did have a nasty separation from my 19 year long business partner. That was hard enough. All my love is going out there to you. You were such a support for me when I needed it. Please know that I care!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Ladies - I am totally overwhelmed these days. My step father was in the ED twice and hospital once and is now in a long term care facility. My mom was in the ED once and has advanced lung disease that we are not concuring w/ antibiotics. She is very weak and failing more each day. Between the two of them and my husband and family and work, it is all I can deal with. But I love you all! Take care of yourselves!  - Jean

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  • Lilah
    Lilah Member Posts: 4,898
    edited November 2010

    (((Jean))) so sorry for your troubles... take care and we are here for you!

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  • Katey
    Katey Member Posts: 733
    edited November 2010

    Jean, I am so sorry that you are so overwhelmed, it is so painful to watch your parents or any family member suffer.  Take care of Yourself!  The EC site you started is such a huge help, a gift you have given us all.  We love you!

    Sandy, I'm sorry that you're dealing with this now, hope things will temper in time, you have a lot of support here!

    Best to everyone!  Once a week or so I seem to be telling someone of our great weekend in Vegas!
     

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  • monandeclan
    monandeclan Member Posts: 412
    edited November 2010

    ((Hugs)) Jean.  Just know that you have support here and people who care.

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  • monandeclan
    monandeclan Member Posts: 412
    edited November 2010

    Wish me luck today girls.  I go for my sono-hystogram this afternoon.  Send good, no-cancer vibes my way.

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  • Linda54
    Linda54 Member Posts: 2,689
    edited November 2010

    Mona...sending no cancer vibes to you ((((((((NO CANCER))))))))

    Jean!!!! you and your family are in my prayers......

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  • SusieZeeMears
    SusieZeeMears Member Posts: 444
    edited November 2010

    Jean & Mona...Power Prayers sent to both of you!! 0:)  (((HUGS)))

    Take care  Chow  XOXO Susie

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  • Jazzygem
    Jazzygem Member Posts: 790
    edited November 2010

    {{{{{JEAN}}}}  I'm so sorry.  Please know my love and prayers are with you during this difficult time!!  I just want to squeeze you!!!!

    Mona....sending NO CANCER VIBES your way!!  Keep us all posted!

    HUGS! Jazzy

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  • my560sel
    my560sel Member Posts: 1,065
    edited November 2010

    Jean and Mona (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))!!!

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  • Lilah
    Lilah Member Posts: 4,898
    edited November 2010

    Mona: NO CANCER VIBES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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  • NVDiane
    NVDiane Member Posts: 245
    edited November 2010

    Sandy dear, I am so sorry.  I am also in disbelief, because I just can't understand how any man could be foolish enough to let a wonderful woman like you get away. Well, it's his loss; I hate that you have to go through this.  We all love you.  (((((Sandy)))))

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  • NVDiane
    NVDiane Member Posts: 245
    edited November 2010

    Susie, I haven't posted my pictures yet.  I'm trying....eeeeeek!  :)

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  • rockwell_girl
    rockwell_girl Member Posts: 1,710
    edited November 2010

    thanks for all the support ladies... I got my pix posted so hope it worked and others can see them

    I had a little frustrating night with Rick... he said our house was appraised for about $25,000 less than I thought ( feel like I lost $12,500 ) and when I said we need to come up with a price to see where we are with everything else he was like I thought we did that.  Yes my vehicle is worth $4000 more but he kept everything except computer desk and armour.  Plus he has golf cart we paid $3000 and rhino which was $5000 plus all new appliances in kitchen, washer drier all other furniture vacuum cleaner which was $1000 not quite sure how we could be even.  I had to go out and buy everything.  So glad I'm getting away tomorrow night I need to blow some steam off.   

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  • rockwell_girl
    rockwell_girl Member Posts: 1,710
    edited November 2010

    Mona good vibes coming your way

    miss you ladies 

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  • Lilah
    Lilah Member Posts: 4,898
    edited November 2010

    Wow Sandy he isn't letting you and your child stay in the family home?  How can he do that to his own son?

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  • rockwell_girl
    rockwell_girl Member Posts: 1,710
    edited November 2010

    At 1st he said he didn't want to stay in the house due to memories but than changed his mind so I had to find a place.  Luckly I found a place to rent that's not real expensive.  Still has been a lot of work.  Good thing Jared's really likes my new place and loves spending time here.  But he does spend 50% of his time with his dad also.

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  • Lilah
    Lilah Member Posts: 4,898
    edited November 2010

    Ah ok -- well -- I guess I won't have to hate him for that then :)

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  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 6,416
    edited November 2010

    Sandy,. I love you! It is going to work out.... 'cause you are a " make it happen" kind of girl! PM me again about how to get set up on our TATA FB page... I will have you on there in 5 min.flat... OR... if I am too busy at work.. and cannot get to my phone... JAZZY can help you. I let her know about this...PM her and she will get you going. Our TATA FB is really taking off... 35 of us now !!!! WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! (((((((((( hug))))))))) As all the girls have said here... we are all here for you ! We are all a TEAM!

    MONA................ girl... thinking about you !

    ALSO ladies..... We need to pray for a few of us....

    Mona and JOYCE ( hood 1980) need prayer for Clear scans...... and EBANN  needs pray for healing. As you know... she had the cancer spread to her bones... many of them. Lets ban together and pray for her healing.

    Again..... anyone NOT on our FB page.............. and wants to be...... PM ME!

    xxxooo

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  • firstmate
    firstmate Member Posts: 410
    edited November 2010

    Jean -- I am so sorry that your step-father and mother are both failing.  It is so difficult especially over the holidays.  HUGs!

    Mona and Joyce -- Best wishes for good results!

    EBann -- You know my thoughts are with you!  Please feel free to call me for any help you need!

    Sandy -- I was forced to move out as well, as my ex would not leave the house.  And my daughter was a senior in high school too.   So, call me if you need to chat.  Our situation is so similar.  I'd be glad to help in anyway possible.

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  • Estepp
    Estepp Member Posts: 6,416
    edited November 2010

    Awe Jean, I am sorry about your family.. :(... I missed this somehow. I wanted you to know I am thinking about you... and I hope you will be online to see everyones thoughts for you here.... ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( HUG))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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  • saskie
    saskie Member Posts: 205
    edited November 2010

    Sandy girl thinking of you - Just take it a day at a time and remember in times of frustration --- deep breaths.  Take care  - one of your other Canadian tatas - Saskie

    Jean, Mona, Joyce and Elizabeth my prayers are with all of you. 

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  • SusieZeeMears
    SusieZeeMears Member Posts: 444
    edited November 2010

    OMGOSH!!!!  What a eye opening experience today was. I made the changes to my personal & now to let you know all the good news. I was only a stage 1  grade 3   1.9cm  I had both DCIS & IDC as he put it(PART OF BOTH??-mine didn't start in the milk ducks,it started in the branches & went out of the nipple,then back & into the ducks, thus exploding the branches) anyways..no Pet scans due to this news is needed for me to tell me I'm Cancer free-he said with all that was done already-I'm good, plus there could be a slight problem of mis-reading a pet scan due to my other infections. But, this is great news considering what I was told 3 years ago & who knows why. My 1st Oncolist is leaving, with a new one taking his place, but after seeing Dr. Menashe from Portland, I'm thinking of keeping him instead.  There's alot of confusion on how all the reports were read wrong-but now I think we've got a good grip on things in this aera at least!! :):)

    Wishing everyone a wonderful Happy Thanksgiving!!!  (((HUGS)))

    Thanx for all the support & suggestins in finding out what the heck was going on!!!

    Take care  Chow  XOXO Susie

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  • SusieZeeMears
    SusieZeeMears Member Posts: 444
    edited November 2010

    P.S.---Get those great photos downloaded ladies during the holdiay break..LOL  LOL   Yeah right

    anyways....can't wait to see the ones that aren't there yet!!  (((HUGS)))

    Take care  again   Chow  XOXO  Susie 

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