Temporary options? Rent-a-boob?
I'm having a unilateral mx next month with fat graft reconstruction early next year. So, that leaves me several months where I will be one-boobed.
I don't want to go around lop-sided all those months, but I don't think it's worth the expense of a prosthesis just for that amount of time.
Is there any kind of temporary option that would make sense, like a rent-a-boob service? (okay, "rent-a-prosthesis" would be the polite term! ) I'm even thinking a Nerf ball stuffed into that side of the bra, if that's not too ridiculous........
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Julia-
Check ebay.
Good luck with your surgery.
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Talk to a social worker in your cancer center. Our sw collects used breast forms and gives them to people in need. You would ten be able to return the prosthetic.
Depending on what size you are, you may want a weighted prosthetic to "balance" your spinal column. It can really throw your back muscles off-kelter.
Best wishes.
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I don't know what size your ta tas are, but walmart has breast inhansers. There are small & gel filled. I'm sure other stores have them. There are not expensive. You might try making puffs that are filled stuffing like from a pillow. A lady on another forum, one gal uses a body puff. Just a few ideas that I hope helps you.
Love & prayers. NJ
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I was contacted by a volunteer associated with the hospital (before I even had surgery). She came out to visit me at home within a a few days after my surgery and brought a little pillow for under my arm (oh!, it helped so much) and a temporary, adjustable, polyfill prosthesis. It was, comfortable, wonderful and so helpful. Yes, ask the social worker...she may know if you can sign-up for a visit from a volunteer support person associated with the place you have your surgery done. If not ,polyfil in a sock would probably work well.
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I'm guessing that even if foobs are rent-able (which I'm not sure they would be, depending on a given state's health/hygiene laws), the cost for 3-4 months' rental would probably be as much or more than if you were to buy a 'leisure foob' made of fiberfill (about $10), foam (a bit more expensive), or microbeads ($40).
If you are small-breasted and don't need a lot of weight to balance things out, and can afford the $40, my vote would be for the microbead one because it's by far the most comfortable IMHO.
Also your insurance would cover the purchase of a foob but I don't know if all policies cover prosthetics rentals. I'm sure that even if insurance did cover a rental they'd require a doctor's Rx for it.
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Hmm, wow, that's some good food for thought, everyone (especially the concept of keeping my spine in balance -- wouldn't have thought of that!). I'm small-breasted so it wouldn't need to be anything large or elaborate, and $40 is definitely reasonable (I just didn't want to pay $100+ for something I would only be using for a few months).
Thanks for the great suggestions and thoughts (and especially for not making fun of me for asking)!!
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Crunchy,
You have a good point and I always wondered while women were being "expanded", what did they use to even out the size difference. The is an online and catalog shop called TLC that sells foam based prosthesis and wigs and stuff. I bought two of the foam based, I think they were about $20 each. They were a little off for me, but I was able to rip the stitches out and rework it to make it fit.
I has about 10 weeks in between my uni-mast and my good foob fitting. I used the poly fill, the TLC foobs, and I found a great resource for how to make DIY foobs...cross dressing message boards. Those "gals" have a lot of great ideas on how to make foobs for cheap.
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In my recent Quest For the Perfect Foobs
I tried all the different materials options, and believe me, the microbead ones are not only lighter but far more "moldable" to chest contours than either the foam or fiberfill -- both of which I found way too stiff and dense for my liking.
If the surgical area is going to be at all sensitive during the process I would absolutely go for the microbead foob. TLC has the lowest price on the microbead foobs, at $40. The foobs are made by Sililque even though TLC does not identify them as such. Normally I do not buy from TLC for other reasons but in this case I would recommend them as a source because you can save anywhere from $10 to $25 on this item compared to the other sites that sell these. (TLC is not always the least expensive price on the other foobs they sell, so you have to shop wisely)
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Have you checked this tread out:
HOW TO MAKE A MICRO BEAD BREAST FORM
http://community.breastcancer.org/forum/82/topic/754464 -
Crunchy poodle - if you PM me your cup size, I have a prosthetic that may fit you... I don't need them anymore! I will ship it, as long as you will donate it and pass it on once you don't need it anymore!
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Here in BC, you need only go to the Canadian Cancer Society & borrow wigs, hats, prothesis etc. Is there not something like this in the US?
I was loaned 2 wigs, a pair of prosthesis & given many hats & scarves. After I was finished with them, I gave them back & the volunteers clean them & get them ready to loan to someone else.
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Crunchypoodlemama- i recommend the american cancer society alot because they really were helpful to me, after i had my mx i slipped a little form inside my regular bra and it used to slide right up out of my top all the time i was always having to tuck it back in, it was imbarrasing, at times when i was in a crouded room, then i got a prosthesis it was way to heavy,thought it might break my toe if it fell out, finally got a bra (for free) at the ACS with a slit and a soft cusiony thing that was filled with cotton and you slip it in the sleeve, stays put and i have worn it for over a year now, its very comfortable. Might be the way to go untill you get your recon. Good luck with you search!
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I have a pair in the closet and never wear them. too hot and too heavy, just not natural. I buy tops that gather or try to hide my no boob situation. If you are near Windsor, ON, you can use mine!
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My insurance paid for mine and the pocket bras.
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I second the breast enhancers from Wal Mart -- $15 for two. I wear mine in a sports bra. Maybe someday I'll get a "real" prosthesis (I'm planning to be one-boobed for the duration) but for the last 4 years Wal Mart has been good for me.
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Hi, Julia,
I've never heard of "Rent-a-boob" -- maybe I need to track them down (LOL!). There are lots of other options, as you can see from the replies here.
My favorite thoughts are these:
1) Talk to your local American Cancer Society office. I was being treated at UAB in Birmingham, and there's an ACS regional office a few blocks away from the hospital. I went there just to see what they might have, and walked out with free scarves, free fiberfill "comfies" (temporary prostheses), a free wig (I had just started chemo at the time), a free mastectomy bra, and, yes, a free Amoena breast prosthesis. The prosthesis was originally from a big-time mastectomy supply store here, and had been donated to the ACS office. It did fit me but turned out to be the stick-on kind, which I didn't want; so I took it back once I realized there were better options and they gladly accepted it. Considering where you live, there should be an ACS office nearby.
2) Check out the microbead forms everybody is talking about here. If you can sew, you might try the do-it-yourself version described at the link Iago mentioned. Otherwise, track down one or another of the threads on this forum that discuss the pro's and con's of microbead forms. I'm going to get one as soon as I figure out which size to buy. (I'm 34B/36A on the right, and FLAT on the left.)
3) My current favorite is a do-it-yourself form that consists of a size 3 breastform cover stuffed with the appropriate amount of fiberfill. A breastform cover costs around $12 if you buy it on line: http://www.metromedicalonline.com/amoenacovers.html
I was given a breastform cover when I bought my official prosthesis 2 years ago. When I went back to buy another cover last year (since that's what I'm using, instead of the prosthesis), the staff at the mastectomy supply store acted as if they had no clue what I was talking about. They said they had no breast form covers. So I'm planning to buy it on line. The fiberfill you can get almost anywhere -- I suppose it's best if you try to buy high-quality or "medical grade" (?). I just pulled some from one of the temporary, post-surgery "comfies" I got at the ACS office. (See #1 above.)
See? There are many options that are a lot less expensive than a "real" prosthesis. Those of us who are small-breasted are lucky (for a change!), because it's easier (IMHO) for us to find something comfortable.
otter
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otter,
Are you able to keep the breastform cover from looking lumpy when you fill it with fiberfill? If you can manage that, it sounds like a great no-weight form!
Barbara
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Yes, Barbara, the filled cover stays smooth-looking as long as I stuff it with a single piece of fiberfill that's not tightly packed, or if I make sure the fiberfill that's against the "front" of the cover (the side that projects) is a single piece.
What I usually do is pull off one unbroken piece of new fiberfill and press that against the "front" side of the cover. If I need to add more, I can stuff the rest of the space with 1 or 2 additional pieces as long as they're in the back. And, I don't compress any of the fiberfill very much -- I try to keep it loose and fluffy as I'm stuffing it in. The stuffed cover ends up looking like a real breast form. It's nice and smooth and squishy, with a texture that's really similar to my remaining breast.
OTOH, if I pick little tufts of fiberfill and stuff them in the cover, or if I fill it with several larger "balls", then the filled cover looks lumpy -- sort of like it's full of soft marbles. Not good.
This approach works best if you have a supply of new, untouched fiberfill and you can toss out (rather than wash) the used stuff. Washed fiberfill tends to form lumps in my experience. I wear a soft, stretchy "sports bra" so any lumps would show through the bra and most likely through a T-shirt or tank top.
You're right -- it's lightweight, inexpensive, no-fuss, easy to pack, etc. I've been doing this for 2-1/2 years now, and it works well for me.
otter
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Silique actually sells a breastform cover + package of fiberfill as their FabuForm fiberfill -- at $42 per pair!
I bought 2 sets before discovering that the microbead forms are exactly what I wanted.
If anyone would like the brand-new unopened Silique "set" (pair of Size 4 covers + the unopened bag of fiberfill to stuff them with) for free, PM me with your mailing info and I'll send it to you. I have no use for these now that I have my microbead forms in two sizes (4 and 5) plus my "state-occasion"
Silique Comfort-Lites.
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