Is My Oncologist Too Agressive?
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Thinking and praying for you this weekend. We are all here for you. Either way your a suvivor and you can do this and we will be here to help!
Blessings
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Hoping the weekend flys for you Barb and the news next week is good.
((((((hugs)))))).. chrissy
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Hope the last day of scans went well. We're thinking of you.
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My last day, Friday of the scans was LONG, and the worst was the injections, because they couldn't find my small little veins. Now the waiting game. The weekend went by fast because I busied myself with fall decorating around the house, and Sunday spent the day at my DD's house to celebrate my anniversary to DH. 38 years. So today is Monday and I have an appt with onc tomorrow at 2:00. I really wish I could call them today to find out if my scans are clear, but these docs make their money with office visits, and if they found anything, I don't want to hear it on the phone. I was thinking of calling today to see if they were clear and maybe they'd just tell me that.
Barb
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Hi Barb, (((((((hugs))))))))) cause I know you are apprehensive. Good luck.
Peace, strength and love. chrissyb
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Barb...fingers, toes and anything else I can cross that the results are unremarkable...just the old disc issues flaring up. I have pretty severe degenerative disc disease (S1, L5 and L4) and it gets to the point where I can't move and the bone mets is just above it (L3 and sprinkles on up ) - the pain is very different - the meds take the bone mets pain away but do nothing for the disc issues. Good luck tomorrow! Hugs...LowRider
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Thinking of you Barb..Hope all scans are clear.
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Barb, congrats on your anniversary!! Stopping by to give you a {{hug}}! You'll be in my thoughts and prayers all day tomorrow.
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I'm adding my good thoughts for tomorrow too.
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Barb - I will be thinking about you today. I'm sending all of my vibes and prayers your way for good results. Hang in there.
Diane
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Thinking about you today. I know how hard it is.
We're all here behind you.
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I hate, hate HATE waiting for results! Praying all is clear for you Barb! Oh and did I mention I HATE waiting???
(((Hugs)))
Sharon
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i keep checking this thread and then remembering you won't hear anything til today. been thinking of you all weekend! please keep us posted! you are totally on my mind!
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Barb,
Thinking of you today and your appointment with the onc. I hope things go well.
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Thinking of you today Barb...We are all here for you!
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Sending good thoughts your way Barb......hope everything goes okay today.
Peace, strength, love n hugs. chrissyb
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Thinking of you and praying for good news all around.
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I saw my onc today and he told me all the scans showed that there is no cancer. Such a relief. He said he saw that worried look on my face 2 weeks ago and he takes each of his cancer patients seriously and so now we know my pain is being caused by other treatable issues from the Arimidex, degenerative disk issues, and an unremarkable cysts on my right facet joint, and also mentioned was welling and edema in the bone marrow on the clavicle, which scared me because the report mentioned continual follow ups because they couldn't rule out "early metastases." My onc does not even feel it's an issue, but it explains the sensitivity around the clavicle area. He offered to send me to a shoulder doctor because of the shoulder muscle issues but I said no, I don't want to see any doctors right now. I've had my fill of appts and waiting rooms and prescriptions. Thank you all wonderful women who've supported me throughout this grueling week. I love you all!
Barb
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barb; i am so glad for you . i know...such a relief. hang in there. the arimidex is rough.
hugs
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SO happy to hear this news!
Leah
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Have followed this but didn't fell much like writing but was sending prayers. I know how relieved you feel having just been through similar process, not that I had as many scans etc as you. Doctors here are very conservative about such things. And I know what you mean about not seeing other drs next week I have to see gastro doc and rheumatoid arthritis doc - I am tired of appointments.Its a problem getting older.
One positive is that they now have baseline scans. They were quite relieved at one of my scans to find out that I have had a hemangioma in the liver which showedin earlier scans so theydid not need to worry about it.
Well done to reach 38 years - same as us, doesn't seem that long though.
Alyson
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sooooooooooooooo happpppppppppppppppy for you!
Blessings!
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Wooooow! what a relief!!!
bravoooo!!!
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such a relief...
definitely an understatement. Way to go Shana!
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Barb, So happy that you got good news and thanks so much for letting us know right away. Seems to me you should be doing some celebrating tonight.
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so glad to hear some good news!
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Barb
Oh yeehaa! So happy to hear your great news. Sleep well tonight!
Moissy
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Hi Barb,
Am THRILLED for you. Well, not thrilled that you are hurting, but all of this stuff is treatable. I have had two very sore shoulders in the past three years. Both injuries I got skiing (one a fall in the parking lot). They caused major pain. Mine healed on their own.
Probably Armimdex aggravates some existing stuff, but wouldn't be surprised if everything feels a lot better now that you know it is no more than annoying. Pain has a habit of being magnified when you are petrified.
Hope you are doing something super-great to celebrate. - Claire
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I am soooooooo thrilled.
I had been coming on every hour this afternoon hoping to get a positive update.....
You gotta hate those scans but love when you can hear all is clear!!!!!
Jacqueline
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Whoot whooot! I just got home and I am SO glad I came here to check on you. Celebration time! (and yes, I'm kinda singing that song)....or is that song Celebrate good times...either way it works!
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