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Pat634
Pat634 Member Posts: 271
edited June 2014 in Not Diagnosed With a Recurrence or Metastases but Concerned

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  • debbie6122
    debbie6122 Member Posts: 5,161
    edited September 2010

    pat- Im so sorry you are going thu all this, no wonder your angry, any one would be with what has been going on with you, having breast cancer then having to deal with all the other problems as well, i cant say i have had to deal with the same issues as you so i cant really be of any help right now, i just wanted to give you big hugs and i hope some one comes along that has some answers for you soon, i will be thinking and praying for you to get better so you can have your surgery-

    love and hugs

    Debbie

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  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited September 2010

    Hi Pat634, venting is good for the soul and here is the best place to do it.  You seem for all intents and purposes to be under seige.  If it's not one thing it's another and I'll bet my boots that it's all adding up and causing you the biggest stress fest ever which is sending your mind into the what if's, bigtime.  Come on now....with me.....a big deep breath,  now another.  Now, feeling a little calmer? Good.  Why are you allowing yourself to second guess what the onc will find?  You are letting your imagination run away with you.....I can understand that you don't want anything more on your plate but going where you don't need to doesn't make sense, as it only adds to the stress you already have.  Rather then just dwell on everything, and if you are in pain, go to your family doctor and talk to him/her.  I'm sure that something can be done or perhaps given to you to calm you and to deal with the amount of pain you seem to be in.  Try just doing this thing one day at a time and deal only with what the day brings and don't be tempted to go into the future unless you have a very good crystal ball.

    Peace, strength, love n hugs.   chrissyb

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