Diagnosed w/DCIS yesterday
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Hey R,
I was diagnosed in 07 - ADH in other breast in 08. I've had a lumpectomy w/radiation in the DCIS breast and aside from a "severe sunburn" had no problem. I would go to work right after my treatments and tell my co-workers I had to go "baste" myself w/aloe vera gel. Still clear after my mammo. in May of this year. Thank you, Jesus. I wish the best for you and you've found a great support group. SS, I think your answers ROCK! God bless you all, my sisters.
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Hi Robyn,
My life has been complicated these past months & sorry I haven't kept in touch. I have had you in my heart a lot and can't believe everything you have been through. How are you feeling about your upcoming surgery? Sept 23rd? I had mine in June & implants this Oct. I know I just read this, (brain fog) so forgive me, but where did you decide to have your surgery done and how do you feel about your dr.s? Did you decide to do one side or two? With your diagnosis, was nipple/skin sparring an option? Have you seen the picture forum? It has been a huge encouragement to me going through MX & Recon. The end results look amazing and it is nice to see the progression from beginning to end. It has been good for me to see what to expect, what's normal & normal/weird and that most ladies look fabulous at the end. Oh yeah, they'll re-sign your breast. I had thought about drawing a big smiley faces on mine with permanent marker, but forgot. Good they do it though to mark the right spot/side; I actually heard of a man who went in for something totally different and came out with a mastectomy on a breast he didn't have cancer in. Now that sucks! I say sign it wide and loud! You are in my heart & thinking about you with all those students & a class to hold down. My daughters' classes, 4th & 5th grade, all drew me pictures and notes before my surgery. At first I didn't want anyone to know, but found a surprising support of love & kindness. Wishing that for all of you.
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HI Robyn,
'Been thinking about you and still praying for you. We haven't heard from you in a while. Let us know how your'e doing and what's going on with you. Your surgery's coming soon!
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dmorgan2,
you are SUCH a sweetheart, i appreciate your response so much! i am gearing up for my surgery, actually i'm doing really well. i think i'm going to ask for 450cc implants? whippetmom on the sizing board has been a big help. thinking that will give me like a C cup? i've got everything packed. we're leaving tomorrow for 4 days at the beach, kind of a pre-surgery vacation. how have you been ? robyn
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hummingb!ird, OMG i am so frustrated, just typed an entire post and it was deleted, argh! thank you so muchy for your response, my surgery is going to be at USC, very happy with Dr. Holmes, my breast surgeon but my ps, Dr. Schooler said, even though he's doing a nipple sparing surgery he couldn't make my (i soooo don't know the technical terms here) aerola? smaller, which is what i asked for, he said if he cut off the entire section the skin would "die" and might turn black???? so not so sure about size, i think whippetmom suggested 450cc, i'm hoping for a full C cup. i guess honestly i'm not expecting a great outcome cosmetically because all the photos he showed me were AWFUL but i just hope they get all the cancer so i don't have to have chemo.
i'm more freaked out about losing my hair than my boobs, i know that probably sounds crazy. i have not seen the photo section, when i saw dr. schooler's photos that freaked me out enough
i soooo appreciate everyone's support here. i have my list of things all packed for surgery, which they said should lasst about 9 hrs. i have good days and bad, mostly good. my husband is a saint, almost TOO good, he almost treats me like every day is our last together which kind of freaks me out, is that weird?
i love you all and don't know what i'd do w/out all of your support!
xxoo robyn
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robyn,
I understand your concern about chemo. However, has your oncologist explained that whether or not you need chemo has nothing to do with the type of surgery you have (mastectomy vs. lumpectomy)? Even if the surgeon is successful at removing all the cancer in your breast (which is the objective of any surgery, lumpectomy or mastectomy), that doesn't mean that chemo might not be necessary.
Chemo is not given to treat cancer in the breast. Chemo is given when there is a risk that some cancer cells may have already escaped the breast prior to surgery. The role of chemo is to track down those cancer cells wherever they might be in your body, and kill them off. For anyone with invasive cancer (this does not apply to those with pure DCIS), even with negative nodes there is a risk that some cancer cells may have escaped, either undetected through the nodes or through the bloodstream. The larger the amount of invasive cancer (i.e. the greater the number of cancer cells in the body), the more aggressive the invasive cancer (grade, hormone status), the greater the risk. This is why chemo is given to women who are node-negative if they have larger tumors (sometimes 1cm or greater, almost always 2cm or greater) or if they have smaller tumors that are aggressive (triple negative or HER2+).
So if someone needs chemo, they need chemo whether they have a lumpectomy or a mastectomy, and they need chemo whether the surgical margins are great or whether the surgical margins are small.
Radiation, on the other hand, is given to address any rogue cancer cells that might be left in the breast or nodes. So if you have clear margins after your surgery and no nodal involvement, then hopefully you will be able to avoid needing radiation.
Enjoy your time at the beach!
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robynkk:
I so hope you have a fabulous vacation and glad to hear you seem to be doing well. Don't worry about those pictures. The surgeries go in phases and I really think the picture forum will be really encouraging for you. PM Timtam when you have time and ask for access. It may take a little while because it is heavily guarded for protection.
I remember my mom's best friend when she lost her hair turned it into something totally fun for herself. She had a wig party and bought a bunch of different colors and styles. She loved the freedom to change her look at any time. After awhile, it seemed like she felt so free that she stopped wearing them completely and found the most beautiful scarves. I loved her so much, I never cared how she looked, bald was fine with me. Sounds like you have a husband who'd love you no matter what and hey, he may be acting weird but honey....soak it up!!! Let other's do stuff for you and allow yourself to pamper yourself a little. Think of it as your time and not a time you can't do things for yourself. It's o.k. that your husband is so sweet, just make sure you get a massage or something out of it. lol.
Let us know how you are doing. We're here.
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Hi everyone, I posted before when I was waiting for my biopsy. Well I'm not waiting anymore. Got the call yesterday and the doctor said that I have DCIS. Having surgery next week. She said she will remove the small lump that I have long with my calcifications. The area that she will be removing is the size of a golf ball. She said hihg grade, radiation but I didn't hear her. I was shocked, cried all night, I'm scared, terrified.... I'm 30 with two little kids. I feel so depressed, is this normal? How did all of you are getting thru this? She said that she needs to biopsy my lumph node , is that standard procedure or is there something she is not telling me? I don't know what to think, the fear is killing me...help
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Zlota, take deep breaths. The beginning is the worst part of the whole journey because you don't have a plan. Once you do your research and have a plan, you will rest easier. Depression is totally normal. You should ask your surgeon for some ativan or xanax. This really helps while you develop a plan. Taking a lymph node is to ensure the cancer did not escape your breast so relax.
Big warm (((HUGS))) for you. You can do this!
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Zlota
So sorry to hear of your dx. I can only share my very brief experience. I got my biopsy results on 8-25-10 and consulted with a surgical oncologist that specializes in breast cancer on 8-30-10. I was told I have DCIS with estrogen positive receptors, stage "0" which means there was no evidence that it had spread to surrounding tissue beyond the duct. It appeared small - 17mm and localized to the duct. I had a lumpectomy on 9-10-10, just a week ago. In addiction to removing the tumor, my surgeon also removed the sentinal lymph node (1 or 2, not sure). I see her tommorrow for follow up and pathology report. I expect to do radiation and follow up with tomoxifen for 5 years. Not really looking forward to that, but it's not so bad when looking at the big picture. I also had BRCA testing done and am waiting on those results. I am almost 44 years old and have a history of breast and ovarian cancer in my family - most were dx. in their 50s and have lived 20 plus years with no recurrence.
THis is a scary dx., but as the previous post stated, you will feel better once you get more information, consult with your doctor and get a plan. It may feel like a monster in your body, but it is not, it is a disease that is treatable! I am just amazed at how much is known about this illness and how many different ways there are to treat it. So far I have felt very fortunate to have good insurance, a good medical team and that my disease was caught early. Even if the news I get tomorrow is not as good as I hope, all I can do is take the next step and stay positive. I returned to work about 5 days after my surgery. I'm soar, but the pain was never overwhelming and you will get all the pain meds you need, as well as something to help you sleep if you need it. Write down you questions for your doctor. Find a surgeon and oncology team that specialized in breast cancers. The information provided on this site is pretty good and your doctor will probably also give you a lot info. You have time to make your decisions. If you are married or involved with anyone, ask them to go to your appointment with you - or take a friend - sometimes two sets of ears are better than one. Don't assume the worst - my aunt was dx. with stage 3 breast cancer about 6 months ago, is undergoing alot of tretment, but responding well!! So enjoy your kids and live your life - you'll deal with this! There is alot of hope! Enough advice from me....Good Luck, let us know how it goes!
Jennifer
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Zlota, just wanted to give you another dose of {{hugs}}! It is the waiting that is the worst for you right now and treat yourself to the most mindless stuff and guilty pleasures you need without guilt, you just have to get yourself through the waiting. Ask your surgeon for a copy of your path report, there are good resources and posts here and elsewhere on the web to help you digest the information. For me, DCIS was the best possible diagnosis I could've gotten from my surgeon. While I was waiting for my path results, I was withholding news from my young'uns that our friend had just passed away from her (only) year long battle with an aggressive form of breast cancer. What a relief that I was enabled to share my DCIS-only diagnosis as a way to counter the shocking and sad news about our friend before they heard about it on the bus. My view of the world is that with every surgery and new pathology report, I have felt lucky that they confirmed my DCIS-only diagnosis and kept supporting that no invasive cancer was present. No guilt here, just pure jubilant thankfulness. You can get through this wait, but the unknown gives you little artillery to fight the what-ifs that will wander your brain until the next report or meeting gives you more facts to work with. Hang in there and try to drown out the what-ifs, pretty soon you'll have more information you can use to research your answers.
{{Hugs}}
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Robyn, I was thinking about my previous post and wanted to clarify something I said. In determining whether or not chemo is necessary, it's the size of the invasive portion of the tumor that is relevant, not the size of the whole area of cancer. So the fact that you have a 5cm area of cancer doesn't mean that you will definitely need chemo; it's all a question of how much of the 5cm area is invasive cancer vs. DCIS.
I notice too that your signature line states ILC. Is this now your diagnosis or is it still tubular carcinoma (which is a form of IDC)? If it's tubular, then because this is usually a non-aggressive form of cancer, it's less likely that chemo will be required, unless your area of invasive cancer is quite large.
I hope the beach has been great (I'm envious!).
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Robyn,
I won't get into all the deep medical talk....I think a lot of that has been very covered. Sometimes that can be overwhelming. I just want to tell you that I'm thinking of you and will be praying for you, especially on Thursday. You are going to have such a feeling of relief when the surgery is over! The before-hand-time is the worst for all of us!!! I, too, hope you have a wonderful time at the beach and it helps to pass the hard waiting time!
Zlota,
You sound perfectly normal to me! We have all gone through exactly what you're going through right now. As BarbaraA said, the beginning is the worst! Not only do you not have a clear plan of attack just yet, but it is getting use to the terrible new idea. I felt like I had been punched in the face, knocked down, and was having a hard time getting back up on my feet. I just felt dazed by it all. As time went by, the idea or dx settled in and I gained more inofrmation about everything and got into fight mode. You will too! Go ahead and cry on "those" days. We all did. It IS normal.
Please keep posting so we can keep up with you. We all support you here and we've all been down the path ahead of you.
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beesie, why would my bs assume that i will not have to have chemo after my dmx? he did say i would probably have to take tamoxifen but held back about radiation or chemo. I don' t know, i guess i'll know more in 6 days when i have my surgery, or a few days after the pathology report comes back?
question for anyone out there about my nipples. i know the ps told me i probably wouldn't have feeling after my nipple sparing surgery but will my nipples still contract? i will probably have to look for whippetmom to ask this question.
just holding on, 6 more days till surgery!
robyn
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zlota,
lots of hugs to you. can't imagine going through this with little ones. it's good you caught it in the early stage and are having a lumpectomy. please keep up updated iwth your progress. myprayers are with you and your family. xxoo robyn
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robyn, if your breast surgeon is assuming that you won't need chemo after your bilateral, it's not because you are having the bilateral. If he's making that assumption, it's because of the amount of invasive cancer that he's found so far (a small enough amount that normally chemo wouldn't be warranted), and the fact that it isn't a very aggressive cancer. These factors would hold true whatever surgery you have (lumpectomy or mastectomy).
You're right though that until the pathology report is available after your surgery, everything is just an assumption. Hopefully no more invasive cancer will be found during your next surgery; if so, then it sounds as though chemo probably won't be necessary, which would be great news. Of course it's your oncologist - not your BS - who ultimately will make this recommendation. But most breast surgeons have a pretty good idea of what to expect so hopefully your breast surgeon's assumption turns out to be correct.
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robynkk:
I had nipple/skin sparring on one side & didn't expect any feeling, but surprisingly the bottom half still has slight feeling; so, who knows...maybe you will too. Your surgery is coming up so fast. Praying for you. Keep us posted.
zlota,
Hi there. I know this is a scary time for you. You are very wise to seek out other women who have been through this. I know it is hard to think...but DCIS is the best possible breast cancer scenario because it means it has not spread and is confined to the ducts. This is really good news. It is not invasive. The sentinal nodes are simply the closest lymph nodes to where your cancer is. This is very normal and something that should be checked. When is your surgery scheduled? Take one step at a time. When you get your pathology report, you'll know how to proceed. Take the time to educate yourself or find someone you love who is willing to help you sort it all out. One of the ladies suggested taking someone with you to the appointments. It is hard to absorb all the info, so it is nice to have an advocate there with you. Keep us up to date as to how you are doing, best wishes & big hugs.
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Hello to all, my lumpectomy was cancelled on monday cause just before putting me dowm they did another mammo and found more calcifications which are very far from the "original ones' so they biopsied it turned out to be more DCIS (still high grade) and looking at mx.
God this is horrible, I'm glad they found it but I just wanted to get this stuff out and have my final path report. I'm so scared that there will be a lot of invasive cancer. Right now I met with a plastic surgeon today and i WILL BE HAVING AN EXPANDER PUT IN AFTER MY MX, that is so scary,
Only a week ago I was hoping for b9 biopsy results and since last tuesday I had 3 biopsies my left boob is one big bruise, and then they going to cut it off....
How do I deal with all this?
Can't take xanax anymore.
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Hi Ziota, I can't believe it but you and I share the same story. I had three lumpectomies with positive borders. At first I told my husband, "Hey, a little skin taken out. I can do this." Every surgery got more upsetting. I was going to do the lumpectomy with radiation, but after 3 surgeries the doctor suggested I talk to a plastic surgeon and breast cancer dr. Same story...I was told MX. I went through all the options and decided on bilateral, nipple/skin sparring MX. I'm glad I did because if I would have just done another lumpectomy, we would have missed it right under the nipple.
I know it seems like a lot, but it is doable. It really wasn't as bad as I thought after I started looking at the pictures on the picture forum. It is so encouraging to see other women who have gone through this, what it looked like and how beautiful they look in the end. I currently have expanders, so if you have any questions, I'd be happy to answer.
I have to say, when I woke up after surgery, I had a cute little cleavage that I hadn't had before. We always have a huge party for 4th of July with all our close college friends and their kids and two weeks after surgery, I was in a bikini. No one could see the scars and the expansion in the expanders looked normal. Find a great team of bc doctor that works in surgery with a ps. Just remember, one step at a time. Best wishes. Why can't you take Xanax anymore? What about Diazepam?
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home from surgery! was in the hospital at USC for almost 5 days, had a complication with an allergic reaction to morphine, i thought i was going to crawl out of my skin for about 3 days, it was the worst experience of my life. i say, i've given birth to 3 children w/out so much as a tylenol and that was a breeze compared to this morphine reaction. finally my 25 year old daughter diagnosed it and told nurses i needed BENEDRYL! took about 3 days to get it all out of my system but i'm home, healing and good!
the ps initially thought he'd go w/about 450cc implants, went instead with 636cc's and boy are they small. came home and my daughter says, when is reconstruction mom? i said, it's done! they're not totally happy with outcome, will need revision but just happy to be home and done with all of it.
thank you all for your thoughts and prayers during these last 3 months!!
robyn
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Hi Robyn! Good to hear from you! So sorry about the reaction thing! That certainly compounded things!
Glad you're home and the surgery's over!!!
What's next, do you know?
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Hi dmorgan2!
I have an appt. tomorrow at USC to see the nurse, HOPEFULLY I'll get these drains out. I don't think I'll have to have any chemo. I see both the BS and PS the following Monday on the 11th, they'll determine if I need any revision surgery which I think they will. I am sooooo small
I haven't looked at them yet though, still scared
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Those drains are fun, aren't they!
I know the "scared to look" feeling.
Keep us posted on your dr. visits. That would be nice if chemo wasn't in your future!
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They took 2 of the drains out, hopefully will get the other 2 out on Monday! I finally did look a LITTLE when they took off the bindings, I started to cry, I look like a freak. So much for my "one step" procedure. The PS agreed there needs to be "revision" Can't believe he used 636cc implants, I look like an A cup! I want to tatoo across my body NO MORPHINE this time
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HI robynkk, glad to hear from you. I am sorry to hear there may be a "revision" in your future and your experience with the reaction to morphine. Both my brother and brother-in-law had bad reactions to morphine when they had shoulder and back surgeries, not a good thing. I would go with the NO MORPHINE tattoo!! Hang in there and take one day at a time. We are all out here pulling for you. Keep in touch. dcchef
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Still recuperating, haven't taken a pain pill in 3 days now so that's good news. I'm going to lose one nipple, fun having just one. VERY unhappy with my "one step" surgery, I totally look deformed. At least the drains are all out now. My boobs, or what is there seem to be under my arms with this huge cavern in the middle of my chest, except for this sausage looking lump, VERY attractive. I wasn't expecting good results but I was expecting it to look better than this. Supposed to see the oncologist next week to find out if I need chemo or not? Hanging in there!
Robyn
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Robyn,
How are you doing? I check here from time to time to see if you've "checked" in.
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Hello, I'm good, no chemo for me. All of my scans and genetic tests came back last week so I'm just on Tamoxifen for 5 years? I have a consultation with a NEW PS on Dec. 22nd to redo my MESS but I'm happy with my little boobs I'd just like them to be in front of my chest and not under my arms and rock hard
How have you been???
Robyn
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Hi Robyn! Good to hear from you! That's great--no chemo!
I am doing very well. Just celebrated my one year anniversary since I had my mx. Feels good to be one year down the road! Keep us updated here, ok?
Have a great holdiay season.
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Hi everyone,
I've been on tamoxifen for one month, just hit me 4 days ago, anxiety, heart racing, DEEP depression, feel like I'm crawling out of my skin, I've never felt like this in my life. ONC said to stop tamox (duh, i'm never going back on that) gave me prescription today for 10mg of Paxil to get me over this hump till this poison gets out of my body. I have never been depressed for a day in my life, this feeling is debilitating!! WANT THIS ALL OVER WITH
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