2005 ROCK-TOBER CHEMO GIRLS

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  • TracySeattle
    TracySeattle Member Posts: 690
    edited October 2005
    Katie!
    I start my chemo on the 28th also, I will be thinking of you that day!

    My chemo nurse would not even let me think about coming to my treatments alone. I kind of enjoy my solitude and figured I would read a book or nap while getting my treatments. She made me swear that I would bring someone to each appointment. I guess it is to keep your spirits up, but for me, I just feel like I need to "entertain" someone when I might just want to be quiet or sleep....

    Everyone who has started treatments seems to be doing well! I am sorry that a few of you ran across some bumps, but all in all, not bad at all! ((hugs))
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005

    I'm in big trouble. The submit/post button is gone! This is just a test. I'm trying to submit this using different combinations on my keyboard.

  • ake
    ake Member Posts: 684
    edited October 2005
    just wanted to say good luck to everyone who like me...starts chemo tomorrow!

    i'm so nervous, but for some reason, this one image I keep having is really helping me...i picture myself in pink satin boxing shorts with pink boxing gloves and i'm beating the crap out of cancer. it makes me feel energetic, so i'm going to use that one tomorrow.

    i picked up all my anti-naseua meds today...kinda creeped me out to see all the prescriptions, but when i think of what they're for... that makes me feel better.

    any words of wisdom for us ladies who start tomorrow?

    -amy
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Amy,
    I am starting tomorrow as well. My pharmacist made me cry. When he saw all my meds., he looked very worried, so I had to tell him about my chemo tomorrow.
    I will try the boxing glove visual tomorrow as well. We will beat this, Amy!
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Nancy,
    I sent you a private message. I'm from San Diego too!
  • sagwa42
    sagwa42 Member Posts: 6
    edited October 2005
    Good luck everyone! And thanks for letting me know about the chemo room etiquette. I will try to make having chemo fun.

    I love the picture of me in pink boxer shorts (not a pretty sight) punching the heck out of the cancer with pink gloves. Love this!

    Fro all those ladies that have already had their chemo treatments this month, thanks for letting us know the side effects. While we are all different it is good to hear what you are experiencing, not only to get an idea of what we can expect, but also that you can share your info in a safe place.

    I email from work and sometimes I have to remind myself that I need to work. Yet this place (breastcaner.org) is where I need to be right now.

    Keep the info coming! And good luck to you all.

    Katie
  • nosurrender
    nosurrender Member Posts: 2,019
    edited October 2005
    Hi everybody,
    Just a few ideas for you girls...
    When you are at chemo bring water and drink a lot. Keep drinking when you get home for at least the next day or so. You flush out all the chemicals in your digestive tract and kidneys and bladder and it also keeps you hydrated which keeps nausea away. If you are sick of water- cut up a well washed fresh lemon and put it in it. A handy tip is- if you feel a wave of yuckies coming on a bite into a lemon wedge actually stops it cold!

    Take ALL your MEDS on a schedule- even if you feel ok. The trick is to PREVENT getting sick- it is very hard to STOP once it is started but it is easy to prevent.

    Never have an empty stomach. ALWAYS nibble on something. Crackers, breads, soups- etc. An empty stomach can be a nightmare.

    If you get heartburn, you might be getting it from the Decadron (steroid) Always take it with a full stomach and don't lie down immediately after taking it- sit up for a bit so it doesn't dissolve in your espophagus (SP?!) It is ok to take over the counter Zantac or Pepsid- but check with doc first. I lived on the stuff and it really helped the heartburn.

    If you get a mouth sore- dry it off and take a Q-tip and dip it in some Milk of Magnesia- put the MOM on the sore like you would calamine lotion on a bug bite- it heals faster and it soothes the pain.

    Stay away from all raw foods like fruit and salad...you need cooked things that have had the bacteria cooked off of them. Your immunity is low- don't invite any unwelcome germs to this party!

    Keep drinking- take your meds on time- become a grazer- eat constantly- and you should be ok. If you aren't then insist your doc gives you different meds next time- don't let him say "well let's try this again and see if you get sick" NO...get new meds.

    If you develop a rash call your doc. Take some Benadryl in the meantime, but some people are allergic to Adriamycin.

    The best part?? You have started! Which means you are on the road to the END already. It will be faster than you think! AND you will do GREAT! REALLY!!!

    xo
  • sherryhaire
    sherryhaire Member Posts: 192
    edited October 2005

    When I can't seem to drink anything else Gatorade helps alot

  • debbie444
    debbie444 Member Posts: 847
    edited October 2005
    I always have low iron - i swear by dried apricots ( tip given to me by one of my nurses)
    Have more iron than spinach and taste nicer too!
    Debbie
  • debbie444
    debbie444 Member Posts: 847
    edited October 2005
    Hurrah for people like you - make me sleep easier tonight with common sense and tried and tested plans
    Thanks
    Debbie
  • scared2
    scared2 Member Posts: 9
    edited October 2005

    Hi , Will have my port put in friday kind of scared . Cancer is stage 111 . 16nodes are involved as well as the soft tissue. Right now everything is so new and scary It's good to have some one to talk to that understands.

  • Serendipity
    Serendipity Member Posts: 109
    edited October 2005
    Quote:

    Today is my first blood workup hope counts are ok --jane let me know about the iron iv sounds like something I need




    Well, I didn't get the iron IV today either, even though the nurse called and said they wanted me to get it--they just couldn't fit me in the schedule. I'm supposed to go tomorrow for first iron IV and Friday for 2nd iron IV.

    I was really fatigued this morning, and still have lots of constipataion and stomach bloating. I went to the mall in the afternoon to shop for camisoles with a shelf bra (as per my PS) and was okay after to make an easy meal, get daughter to do homework and load the dishwasher--that's it for me today.

    I'll let you know how the iron IVs go.
    Jane
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Welcome, Sistersister!
    Are you getting chemo soon? Keep us posted!
  • marymelodi
    marymelodi Member Posts: 515
    edited October 2005
    Want to join the group. First chemo scheduled for 10/28/05. Had lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy on 9/15/05. Invasive ductal with lobular features, 2.2cm, clean margins, 4/4 clean nodes, grade III, ER+, Heur neg. The plan is for 4 treatments of A/C and then 4 of Taxol. Radiation is to follow those 16 weeks of chemo. Then hormonal treatment for 5 years, I believe. Had first meeting with oncologist today. I work at the hospital where I will have treatment. My husband works there also. I am fortunate to be at a large university teaching hospital with a comprehensive cancer center. Loads of research and excellent staff. Great insurance. What a blessing! Feel anxious and nervous about this journey. Haven't really suffered much. Little post-op pain, but not too bad. Scared that the worst is yet to come. Learning alot from all your postings and discussion. Thanks for sharing.
    marymelodi
  • sherryhaire
    sherryhaire Member Posts: 192
    edited October 2005
    For those that suffer constipation, the old tried and true really works prune juice, don't like the taste but hate the constipation worse.
    I feel so much better this morning after Aranesp shot yesterday I think it was to boost platlets and red blood count looking forward to a good weekend I am giving a small surprise party for my boyfriend (he has been great) and his daughter I totally missed and forgot his birthday the end of August feel really bad about it and then his daughter has a birthday end of this month I gues better late than never!
  • sherryhaire
    sherryhaire Member Posts: 192
    edited October 2005

    AMY and BRENDA and anyone else starting chemo today--my thoughts are with you--keep in touch let us know how you are

  • ruths2
    ruths2 Member Posts: 78
    edited October 2005
    Tomorrow is AC #2 for me. Then I'll be 1/4 of the way done! It sure feels easier for me the second time knowing what to expect. THe unknown can be the worst part of all of this.

    United we stand...or lie down, as the case may be

    -Ruth
  • ake
    ake Member Posts: 684
    edited October 2005
    Brenda....good luck today! We're going to do great! I have a new image in my head besides me in pink satin boxing shorts knocking out cancer...I see AC as two cowboys (not the nicest cowboys, but still they're cowboys) and they're going in and rounding up the bad cells with huge lasoes. I feel like I'm going to say, "Go get 'em boys" when I get my infusions I know it's cheezy...I'm a child psychologist, so I think this way a lot

    To all of us ladies who start chemo today...I'm scared and I'm sure others are as well...but we're going to do great and after today, we have 1 AC down! Soon, this chemo stuff will be a blip in our lives and we'll be happy we did it

    GOOD LUCK AGAIN!!!

    And thanks to everyone for their support and good wishes...they mean a lot to me

    -Amy
  • TracySeattle
    TracySeattle Member Posts: 690
    edited October 2005
    My prayers and thoughts are with all of you starting your chemo today. Please let us know how it was and how you are feeling!

    Marymelody - I have my first treatment on 10/28--so you are not alone!
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Amy,
    Good luck to you too! I am 2 and a half hours away from my first chemo, and since you're in Virginia you are probably getting yours at this very moment! Get plenty of rest and stay away from germs!!! I am doing last minute chores, ie. boiling chicken for my Scottie, filling out picture day envelope for ten year old son, etc. Hope to hear from you soon!

    And to everyone else wishing me well: I thank you from the bottom of my heart!
  • susan1
    susan1 Member Posts: 1
    edited October 2005
    hello ladies,

    I had my first chemo on Tuesday. It was about two hours. I was in a room full of 70 years plus patients. That felt alittle wierd. I felt alittle dizzy and alittle bit of nausea ,but it was mild. Now on Thursday I threw up but only for a few minutes. So far so good. I was wondering it each treatment is harder on our bodies.? Will some of us feel worse each treatment ? I have been off work since August and last night I decided to not go back until the first of December. Can you believe I feel guilty. I am really working on the guilty thoughts. Because in reality I want to give my body every advantage as l I wage this cancer war through chemo therapy.

    Please share all of your symptoms. You are the only people that really understand...

    Bless you

    Susan
    Sacramento, Ca
  • sewmanythings
    sewmanythings Member Posts: 12
    edited October 2005
    Hi to all.
    Good luck to those that start/ed Chemo this week. I am still feeling really strong. As I posted before had four bad days, then all has gone well. I go for my first bloodtest tomorrow(friday) so we will see how well I have done! I am drinking a lot of Milk - sudden craving for this - weird!! But it helps the heart burn!

    Annam: Glad you are a quilter - I love it but since I have owned my quilt shop I find so little time to quilt but I am always involved in helping people design and choice colour. I was inspired to open my quilt shop thru' Busy Bee in Richmond Virgina.. do you know the shop?

    Take care all and thank you to Nosurrender for you post a while ago - it inspires me...Those that have not read it go back to about page 4 it is worth it!!

    Lots of Love and hugs
    Monique
  • ake
    ake Member Posts: 684
    edited October 2005
    Well, I made it. I just got home from my first treatment...it took forever because they couldn't get my labs back very fast. the infusion itself wasn't that long...it was the waiting that was the worse. we got a bed instead of a chair to sit on...supposedly it's better because you have more space and i had my group of people, so it was a good thing we were totally by ourselves because most patients were in the area with the recliners.

    We played scrabble while i was getting the infusion...the red stuff is crazy...looks like jello...but for some reason, i got really excited that it was in my body...like, it's going to get in there and do it's job. the cytoxan was forever...didn't bother me though. felt a little bit of a sinus headache. Came home and took my meds and felt a little queasy, but I had a baked potato and some green tea and now I'm happier. I'm scared about how I will feel tomorrow...hopefully ok. I have this feeling that I want to throw up, but I don't want to, so I'm not gonna think that further.

    i feel very foggy and slow...like i'm drugged, which i guess i am.

    I'm very happy overall that one is down. 7 more to go...only 3 more of the AC. I can do that.

    brenda....how are you??

    -amy
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Amy and all the other beautiful ladies,
    The whole visit was less than 2 hours. I remembered to suck on a popsicle during the Adrymiacin. The Cytoxan made my nose feel strange, like I'm at the bottom of the pool and the water is getting in my nose feeling. It went away though.
    Brush teeth after every meal!! Very, very important! We made it! We did number 1!!! Congratulations to both of us!
  • debbie444
    debbie444 Member Posts: 847
    edited October 2005
    Ok - my first chemo was yesterday and i feel FANDABBYDOZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    (ok - it will prob kick in later but at the mo feel fine)
    Felt good to slap on the lippy and take the kids to school this morning.
    Hope you are all doing as well
    Take Care
    Debbie
  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005
    Debbie and Amy,
    My second day seems good. Woke up at 10 AM with a slight hangover. Wobbled to make coffee. Angius (Scottie) and I had breakfast together. I think I will be fine with the second Emend. DH had to take DS to school. My dear teacher friend will drop him off on the way home. Just taking extra precautions. Don't want the cops saying, "Your car was wobbling, anything wrong?" Then I'd probably have to show him my incisions and my drugs and I'd be ticketed anyway.
    I love you all...don't you forget it.
  • MrsBee
    MrsBee Member Posts: 124
    edited October 2005
    Just checking in. I am set to start my treatments on Oct. 19. 4 treatments of AC at three weeks apart. I'll be going in weekly for bloodwork, and they're giving me neulasta as well. I'll have anti-nausea drugs with the IV as well as two different pills plus suppositories if I'm not able to keep anything down. I'm one of those gals who has to be deathly ill before I can throw up, so I'm hoping that I won't have a problem. I remember being a little nauseated after my lumpectomies but they gave me meds for it and I never did throw up. No nausea at all following the mastectomies.

    We did have a glitch with getting my Emend filled - the one you take an hour before treatment and then two more pills on each of days 2 and 3 following treatment. Wal-Mart didn't have it in stock, so the tech didn't even put it in the computer to fill it and then left without telling anyone why she didn't enter it. I refused to leave there until SOMEONE looked it up to find out if my insurance would cover it, what my copay would be, and IF they could get it for me. I told them it was a vital part of my chemotherapy treatments. They finally did let me know that I'd only have a small co-pay and they ordered it. It was supposed to be in the next day. It didn't come in. I could either keep waiting on it (and going round & round with them), or I could let them call around and find another pharmacy that had it. Turned out Walgreens had it, so I got that one filled too. Now I'm good to go.

    I got a really short haircut yesterday (my hair was almost shoulder-length) to make things easier once my hair starts "releasing." I bought some hats the other day and am rounding up all my scarves. Got signed up for a Look Good, Feel Better in November. Washed the one wig I have (Benny the muskrat - I wrote about it on another thread) and plan to order one or two more from TLC.

    I guess I'm good to go. I see my PS on Tuesday and (fingers crossed) might get my first fill then. He wouldn't do it last week because he said I was still too swollen from the surgery. It's been 3 weeks post-surgery now, so maybe we'll be able to fill-er-up this time!
  • AnnaM
    AnnaM Member Posts: 1,387
    edited October 2005
    Monique: Thank you for sending me back to page 3 to see No Surrender's post. I have printed it out and will paste it into my chemo journal to look at whenever I feel too overwhelmed. Thank God for all of you.

    Anna
  • Nancy-SanDiego
    Nancy-SanDiego Member Posts: 127
    edited October 2005

    So many of you starting this week--my thoughts are with all of you. I had an iron IV last week--only takes about 45 minutes--didn't feel anything. Amy, I'm getting my "cut and shave" on the 26th. My grandson is planning to draw a picture using washable markers. We've been talking about it since he is 5 and I didn't want him to think grandma had been replaced by an alien. He's excited about it now. Me too, RIGHT.

  • Anonymous
    Anonymous Member Posts: 1,376
    edited October 2005

    Still second day of chemo. Early afternoon. Wobbly. Dull headache. Nurse says I can take Vicodin. Thanks my beautiful angel nurse...

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