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  • jan508
    jan508 Member Posts: 1,330
    edited August 2010

    Hi All:

    To the guy who hit me on the side of the head Friday with a baseball bat...I hope you are having a wonderful weekend!Money mouth

    I was diagnosed on Friday with breast cancer but I don't know the exact stage yet. I do know my biopsy report states:

    12 o'clock (left breast) lobular carcinoma in situ and invasive mammary lobular carcinoma classic type. Paraffin block submitted for ER/PR/Ki-67/HER2-NEU analysis.

    1-2 o'clock (left breast) lobular carcinoma in situ and scattered foci of invasive mammary lobular carcinoma, classic type.

    Both specimens show focal lubular carcinoma in situ and 1 shows focus of mammary lobular carcinoma of classic type. There are compressed cords and single strands of fairly bland but milignant epithelial cells extending through a desmoplastic stroma. some of these cells associated with small intracytoplasmic mucin droplets. Distinct lymphatic space invasion is not evident.

    2nd specimen shows multiple core biopsies of breast tissue. areas of lobular carcinoma in situ and scattered foci of invasive mammary lobular carcinoma of classic type. lymphatic space invasion not identified.

    Hormone assay:

    estrogen 100% (3+positive)

    progrstrone 90% (3+positive)

    clone 1E2

    % of cells positive 90% (3+ positive)

    Ki-67 cell proliferation marker is 10%

    HER2NEU - reports to follow

    Ok, now that i've bored you with the stats can someone make heads or tails of this?

    I look forward to talking to y'all

    Thanks
    Jan

  • Hope777
    Hope777 Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2010

    Hi Jan,

    I too was diagnosed of DCIS -ductal carcinoma in-situ on my right breast on late june, some invasive, I just had a simple mastectomy, per my 2nd opinion. with 2 lymph nodes removed, Its still numb, You know, I thought i was going to freak out! But I feel so much relief that the monster is gone! I can even look at my sugical site without anger, I kinda crack up without a boob there, but thank god for implants! (in my future) You know its not that bad, once you know you can be cured and life is much brighter, I laugh more for some reason, and you can too!  God Bless!  :)

  • jan508
    jan508 Member Posts: 1,330
    edited August 2010

    Thank you Hope!  I'm glad you are doing well.

    I can't wait to get this 'out of me'.  I am beginning to believe although Cancer is real that alot of this disease is psycological too.  I can now say the words Cancer, oncologist and mastectomy without my eyes welling up in tears.  I can't wait to get moving with this and yes, I plan on a 2nd opinion before I make my final decision. Since ILC is bilateral I have alot to think about and discuss with my wonderful husband.  He's been so supportive. 

  • jan508
    jan508 Member Posts: 1,330
    edited August 2010

    Hope

    Do you have any further treatment upcoming?

    Jan

  • mesr56
    mesr56 Member Posts: 9
    edited August 2010

    Hi Mary here again.  Thank You for all the words of encouragement.  I kept myself busy today painting and cleaning.  My husband, Dan, has been reading up on BC and I think this was a little to much info for him to take in.  I found him crying in the bedroom.  He is such a tender hearted man. it makes me feel very sad and guilty to have my family so upset.  Can't wait to get this over with on Wed. I hope you all have a quiet eveing and God bless you all.  Special thanks Chrissy!

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited August 2010

    Hi Mary, good luck for Wed., please let us know how you get on.  If your DH would like a little support also he is most welcome here.  There are already some DH's who are carers and they visit often.  We also have a few men who have BC who come to the forum for love and support.  Love n hugs to you both. Chrissyb

  • spradhan
    spradhan Member Posts: 7
    edited August 2010
    Hi everyone:
    My mother was recently diagnosed of Stage 3, IDC, Grade 3 with multiple axillary lymph nodes involved. Her reports suggest ER/PR negative and HER-2-neu 1+ staining (negative). I do not understand the part of the report about HER2. Does it mean that it is only slightly positive so it can be considered negative and only work with chemo, or will HER2 positive drugs work for her. Also, her doctors are performing another test to reconfirm her HER2 status.
    Any information regarding this and possible treatment suggestion would be highly appreciated.

    Regards,
    Spradhan

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited August 2010

    Spradhan ~ I'm sorry about your mother's recent diagnosis.  Here are a couple of links that give good explanations of exactly what Her2 status means:

    http://www.healthcentral.com/breast-cancer/c/question/42950/61081

    http://breastcancer.about.com/od/diagnosis/p/her2_diagnosis.htm

    If it's determined that all of her receptors (ER, PR & Her2) are negative, that's referred to as Triple Negative (TN) breast cancer.  If you click on Forum Index above, it will take you to a long list of topics, including that one.  The women with TNBC will be your best resources for questions about treatment options.  But, so far, it sounds like your mother's doctors are doing everything right in terms of pinning down her exact Her2 status, which is critical in determining which chemo regimen she will get. 

    Hope this helps, and I hope you'll suggest to your Mother that she joins BCO for support.  And in the mean time, I think it's great that you're helping her wade through and understand her pathology report.     Deanna 

  • Hope777
    Hope777 Member Posts: 25
    edited August 2010

    Yes, waiting for my Path results on the tumor size, I already met with the Cancer Society and WeSpark, got beautiful free wigs and looking for scarves, Got a hold of locks of love to donate my long brown hair, Just preparing myself for chemo, like my doc mention, it could be possible, ALL I say to myself, its only temporary Hope, like being pregnant!  haha  And yes, my husband has been my rock!  It told me if Lance, can do it, that I could too!   Livestrong.com

    God Bless,

    Hope :)   <><

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited August 2010

    Hope ~ Here's my favorite source for scarves:  http://www.anokhiusa.com/  Several of us in the August 08 chemo group got them from here.

    Keeping my fingers crossed for your path report!  I hope you won't have to do chemo, but whatever it is, you'll deal with it and move forward.  Sounds like you have a great husband!   Deanna 

  • paamboli
    paamboli Member Posts: 58
    edited August 2010

    Hullo,

    I was diagnosed with a <1cm IDC two weeks ago, and had my first real meltdown today. My lumpectomy is happening next week, and I'm far more fearful of the sentinel node path report than I am of the surgery.

    My situation is complicated by a benign brain tumor, which was fried by CyberKnife 3 years ago, but has left me with some brain damage, as well as emotional volatility. I figured that a brain tumor was going to be the worst thing that could happen to me, but obviously, I was mistaken. Anyone else out there with a meningioma???

    paamboli

  • debbie6122
    debbie6122 Member Posts: 5,161
    edited August 2010

    paamboli, Im not in your situation, but just wanted to send you (((((((((((hugs)))))))) on what you have and are going thru, you have been thru so much already. As far as the node involvement i had a sentinal node that was positive and although there are different opinions on this my onco told me that it was good that the node caught it before it spread, who knows weather it did its job or not i prefer to think it did, I will be praying for negative nodes for you, Im sure some one will be along that has dealt with meningioma, let us know how you are doing, im keeping you in my prayers

    hugs. debbie

  • paamboli
    paamboli Member Posts: 58
    edited August 2010

    Debbie,

    Thanks for your prayers. I'm just feeling overwhelmed, and am so very frightened.

    paamboli

  • rachel5738
    rachel5738 Member Posts: 920
    edited August 2010

    Hi Paamboli--I am starting chemo this Friday and had a positive sentinel node. I like to think the same as Debbie and think that the node caught the cancer--helps me get through this whole thing. My axillary nodes came back as negative so am hoping that the one sentinel node did its job? Whether that is true or not--like Debbie, I prefer to think so :)

    You will get through this. Take care, Rachel

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited August 2010

    paamboli ~ How're you doing today?  I can't imagine dealing with a bc dx after treatment for a brain tumor!  That has got to be an extremely rare situation, and I'm so sorry it's happened to you.  I don't think I've read of another situation exactly like yours, but there are at least 2 or 3 women on BCO whose husbands have brain tumors, which also seems totally unfair.  Other than newly dx'd women, I don't think a lot of people check this thread, so if you want to repost your question as a new thread, I would be surprised if you didn't get some related comments and support from others who have actually had some type of previous cancer.  It sounds like the kind of situation that you would really have to be in to truly grasp!   (((Hugs))) and prayers for a smooth surgery and clear nodes.

    Rachel ~  Good luck with chemo.  Have you checked the list at the top of the chemo board for suggestions of little things that can help you get through it more comfortably -- things like Biotine mouthwash, etc.?    Deanna

  • paamboli
    paamboli Member Posts: 58
    edited August 2010

    Thanks so much for your kind answers.

    I'm feeling less "falling apart" today- I think that I needed that meltdown to keep me going.

    What you may not know is that there seems to be a connection between benign brain tumors and breast cancer, and that both can show hormone  receptors.  YUK!

    I'm going to try being sensible today and get 2 weeks worth of laundry into the washer, in the hope that mundane activity will distract me from trying to talk my bc into leaving on its own. I find myself thinking that this really isn't happening to me, and wishing that my Fairy Godmother was still flying around, but I'm 71, and she passed on quite some time ago.

    paamboli

  • DebbieLynn
    DebbieLynn Member Posts: 23
    edited August 2010

     Hello again everyone, DebbieLynn here, tomorrow is my sentinal node biopsy and lumpectomy, I have to be at the hospital at 6:30 am .Sentinal node biopsy at 8:30 am and lumpectomy at 12:30 pm. Has anyone here had it done this way ? Why would they separate them ? I don't understand this. I was ok with this all until now. This is such an inconvienence, and now I'm scared.  

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited August 2010

    Good luck, DebbieLynne!  I will pray that everything goes smoothly for you.  I can't comment on why they're doing your 2 procedures at different times.  Are you sure it's not just the dye procedure they're doing earlier?  Having 2 surgical procedures that far apart seems like it would mean 2 anesthesias on the same day, which doesn't sound quite right.  Maybe you could phone the hospital and reconfirm how they have you scheduled.  Just a thought if it's on your mind tonight.  Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about it and would assume that your doctor knows what he/she is doing and the communication wasn't clear.   

    Please report back in to us when you can and let us know how you are.  (((Hugs)))   Deanna

  • lynchmolly
    lynchmolly Member Posts: 1
    edited August 2010

    my mom was recently diagnosed with stage II b breast cancer. she had the lympectomy and 3/9 lymph nodes removed. she had an appt today to discuss her chemo. she will be having 4 treatments every 3 weeks. She lives in ct and I live in chicago. I was wondering if anyone knew if the chemo treatments are worse in the beginning or worse at the end. It kills me that i can't go home for the entirety of this process but wanted to make sure i chose when to go home wisely. I know everyone is different so it might be hard to say but any input would be greatly appreciated. thank you in anvance and god bless. sincerly molly

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited August 2010

    Hi Molly, in answer to your question, you really need to wait and see how your Mum reacts to the chemo.  She may be lucky and only have problems for a few days after each treatmet or she may be laid low from the get go, there really is no difinitive answer it is a wait and see sort of thing.  Although the longer the treatment goes on it is normal to feel worse as it has a build up effect. My suggestion is to stay in close contact with your Mum  and monitor her reaction to the chemo.

    We wish your Mum an easy journey and for you, the strength to give her the support she will need.  Remember, both of you are very welcome to come to these boards at anytime.  We are here.

    Love n hugs. chrissyb

  • mesr56
    mesr56 Member Posts: 9
    edited August 2010

    Hi Chrissy,  Well I got thru the core biopsy and am awaiting the final results.  They should be back in 48-72 hours.  I have been on the Web researching different stages and treatment options.  Not really a lot offered here in my home town.  I think everyone gets the same .  Dr. told me the plastic surgeon only comes once a month to the hospital here, so I am already questioning having surgery done here or go somewhere where I have more options.  Hope you are having a suuny day. I am trying to keep my mind and hands busy cleaning closets.  Thank You for your replies.  Mary

  • Sueinva
    Sueinva Member Posts: 6
    edited August 2010

    I'm a new member here. I had a stereostatic biopsy on Aug. 2. On Aug. 3 my general doctor told me I have breast cancer high-grade ductal carcinoma in situ and invasive ductal carcinoma with angiolymphatic invasion. Met with the oncologist and breast surgeon on Aug. 5. Was told by my breast surgeon I would need a mastectomy, and it would probably be within 2 weeks. Well, it's been one week now and no other news. Don't have anything on the ER, PR, HER2... How long does it take to get those results? I've called my breast surgeon and general doctor 2 or 3 times this week but they just say they don't have the results.... It's torture waiting to find out! I have some pain under one armpit so I can't imagine how many lymph nodes might be involved...

  • dlb823
    dlb823 Member Posts: 9,430
    edited August 2010

    Mary ~ Remember, 80% of biopsies turn out to be benign.  So there is still hope that you will be one of those!  Where do you live that you only have local access to a plastic surgeon once a month?  Hopefully, you won't need a PS, but if it comes to that, I think you will want to find a medical team, including a PS, who do breast reconstruction on a daily basis.  Usually, they can offer you so many more options than a more general plastic surgeon.  Ditto for the "everyone gets the same" comment about treatment, which has become so targeted in recent years that doctors who don't keep up with this would be a concern for me.  But it doesn't mean you can't get treatment locally.  Sometimes a consultation at a larger, university facility can yield information that you can take back to your local doctors.  But let's just hope and pray that won't be necessary.

    Molly, I think any time you can plan to see your Mom would be very appreciated.  As Chrissy said, the effects of chemo can be cumulative, so that many women tend to have more fatigue the further they get into their treatment.  But I think each step has its own challenges -- the first one can be terrifying, then losing your hair is very traumatic (although wig shopping can be fun), then there's a point where it seems like you still have so many weeks to go you'll never get through it, then towards the end you can be too exhausted to do much of anything.  You might ask her if she would like you there for support when she starts, or if she'd rather wait and have you come in a few weeks.  Either way, I know it will mean a lot to her to have you there.        Deanna

  • DebbieLynn
    DebbieLynn Member Posts: 23
    edited August 2010

    Hi everyone DebbieLynn here, I had my surgery today and all went great . NO NODES INVOLVED !!!!! The biopsy and lumpectomy were done at the same time. Die injected at 8 am , in surgery by 9:30 am home by 2:30 pm . Now the wait for the results . I plan to keep busy , I see the doc on Tuesday. I hope to get all results and treatment plan then. Thanks again everyone for shareing with me. 

    To all new BC Sisters I sent your (((hugs))), prayers and love DebbieLynn

  • chrissyb
    chrissyb Member Posts: 16,818
    edited August 2010

    Hi Mary, glad to hear your biop went well and that you are now just doing the waiting thing.  Hopefully answers won't be too long in coming. As I don't live in the USA I'm sorry I can't help you with locations for treatment but I am always available for anything else.

    Love n hugs. chrissyb

  • Rose6
    Rose6 Member Posts: 36
    edited August 2010

    Hi Debbie, my prayers are with you tomoro as you go into your surgery. I had a lumpectomy at the same time as the sentinal node biopsy 10 days ago and fortunately the nodes are OK. I am very weak and still in quite a bit of pain, but able to take walks, socialize some and focus enough to do some reading and writing. I am very lucky to be part of a church that has been coming by and bringing me dinner and I have a few close friends and Boyfriend that have been helping me with cleaning and running errands...for me the next step in meeting with the radiation oncologist on the 26th..and then 6 weeks of radiation.. I am a teacher and hope I can go back to work within a month or so...we'll see...know that everyone here is with you surrounding you with support and love

  • debbie6122
    debbie6122 Member Posts: 5,161
    edited August 2010

    Sueinva- Sorry you had to join us, but welcome you have come to the right place for support and advice/ Every one is different on when they get there results back for me it took 10 days, some ladies say 5 days so it depends, i know the waiting is the hard part it truely sucks, try to keep your self busy and try to breathe and relax if you can, maybe ask for some xanex (valiium) it really will calm the nerves, We are here for you please let us know how you are ((((((((((hugs)))))))

    Debbielynn- congrats on the neg nodes, glad your surgery went well, and glad deanna was right that they should do it at the same time, sending big hugs to you

    Rose, sorry you are sitll having some pain and weakness, are you taking anything to help with the discomfort? Glad you have support there to help you, some ladies go back to work during chemo, i couldnt but a lot do, hope you are one of them

    warm hugs

    Debbie

  • DebbieLynn
    DebbieLynn Member Posts: 23
    edited August 2010

    Lynda-Rose6

    I am soory to hear your still not feeling well. Great news you have no node involvement. Hope you get some relief from the pain . Are you taking anything? I have been taking tylenol # 3 one every six hours and I'm feeling just alittle pain. It sounds to me you have a great support system. Wishing you the best . 

  • mesr56
    mesr56 Member Posts: 9
    edited August 2010

    Hi there!  Well I got the news on Friday morning.  The nurse called to say " The results are in,BUT I can't tell you!  You have to make an appointment with the Dr. on Monday! So I set up the appt. and got angry at everyone.  Why should I have to wait to hear the bad news and wonder all weekend!  So I went to the HIM dept. at the hospital and requested a copy of the path report for myself.  "It" is invasive ductal carcinoma less the 1 cm with surrounding  tissue testing positive for estrogen and progesterone sensitivity.  It said grade 1.  So from what i have read it is slow growing and small but has the potential to go elsewhere . Solnow I sit here thinking of having a bilateral done with radiation in my future.  I sure don't want to have to go through surgery any more than I have too.  Will see this Dr. on Monday but am definitely seeking 2nd opinion .

  • Rose6
    Rose6 Member Posts: 36
    edited August 2010

    Thanks Debbie Lynn yes I have been taking vicodin, but had to cut it in half cos I was just too tired.I am gld you are not feeling too much pain..hugs to ya all

    mes I had a lumpectomy for IDC and no lymph node involvement. That was pretty crappy that they make you wait the whole weekend to see what can be don, you will probly have the same procedure as me. I will also have  radiation when I recover. I wish you all the best with this , let us know what the out come is!

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