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"The Five Protections" by Sharon Salzberg is appearing in a multi part series on the Huffington Post. Here is Part 1.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/sharon-salzberg/the-five-protections---pa_b_517305.html
Here are a series of short suttas on Sila (virtue/morality)
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/ptf/dhamma/sila/index.html#gift
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Thanks for more links notself.
Is anyone else looking forward to watching the PBS documentary on the Buddha that is starting tonight?
If you are unfamiliar, here is a link:
www.pbs.org/thebuddha
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Thanks for the link. I watched the PBS documentary and though it was a bit slow. It would have been better had it been shorter or if it had gone into more detail on the teachings. As it was, if I didn't know what they were talking about, I would not have figured it out by their explanations. The comments at the end it were a bit mushy for my taste.
What did you think 3monstmama?
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I liked it but I missed parts of it because I was putting monsters to bed and a bit sleepy. I'm going to watch it again on Sunday when it replays and I'm going to have monsters watch as well. They are my best testers as to quality of the explanation as they are baby Buddhists. If they can hook things together, then the producers did a good job.
In general I didn't have problems, thought there was a lot there and that I would have to watch again to get all of it.
I didn't expect more than general stuff. I had a friend who made documentaries and she said that a successful documentary has to be geared to the average 8th grader.
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By the way, Independant Lens had a VERY interesting program afterwards about a monk who is sent off to find the reincarnation of his teacher. I really wanted to see it but was already pushing the envelope on not getting sleep. I think it can be watched on line on the Independant Lens website.
Did anyone else watch the show?
Helllllllooooooooooooooooo fellow Buddhists!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyone out there beside notself and me???????????????????????????
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Buddhists represent only .7% of Americans. I wish Sido would post again.
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hmmm.....only.7% of Americans and yet, we got a nice long tv special. Thats not bad. More seriously, is that the current stat? I know it was that in early 2000 but I understood it had taken a leap.
I am in the process of looking it up but got sidetracked by an interesting article in the Washington Post today called "Can you be a Buddhist in America?" Have you seen it?
Sido finished her treatment in February and seems to have left the board.
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I just read the article after your comment. I agree with this statement and noted it myself.
The Buddha's is a religion of self-inquiry--an impulse so strong and so universal in Buddhism that even the most vapid of Grubin's experts got it right every time. Consequently, when we don't like something, our first duty as Buddhists is to ask ourselves a simple question: Why?
However, I take issue with the following statement by Clark Strand.
Even as I practice and teach it, I live in conflict with it. What do we do with a religious founder born to privilege who names his son Rahula (literally, "fetter"), abandons his wife and newborn child, starves himself within inches of his life, and thereafter preaches almost exclusively to a celibate order of men and (after holding out against them for as long as he could) women--women who are required to follow twice as many monastic rules as the men and are subsequently regarded as a threat to male monastic authority and, yes, male monastic celibacy? (Sound familiar?)
He obviously does not know much about the history of how the Buddha taught. Yes, Siddhattha left his family, but he returned to them after his enlightenment. His son became a monk and some of the most penetrating suttas were the Buddha's teachings to his son. When he returned, his wife did not go to meet him. This was an amazing act for a wife at that time in that culture. With humility the Buddha went to her. She then instructed Rahula to get his "inheritance" from his father (the teachings). Unfortunately the story of Yasodhara ends here. There is no further record of her.
The first woman ordained was the Buddha's aunt. He did not want to ordain her because of the trouble it might cause in society. She asked three times and Ananda, the Buddha's closest follower, also petitioned him to ordain her. The Buddha agreed to do so but established rules for Bhikkhunis in order to placate the society of the time.
Bhikkhunis (nuns) do not follow twice as many rules as Bhikkus (monks). They do follow more rules (311) with the most problematic being the rule that Bhikkhunis must always bow to Bhikkhus first. Bhikkhus follow 283. Considering the fact that women at the time were chattel and treated as incapable of spiritual life, ordaining women and declaring that they were as capable of enlightenment as men was revolutionary. Just look at the fuss today about ordaining women in the Christian religion. Another of the rules that nuns must follow is they cannot wander alone in the forest. This rule was established after a nun was raped.
All of the rules for monastics of either sects were created on an as needed basis. They were established to prevent monastics from imposing on laypeople. They were established to create harmony within the monastic groups. They were established to assist monastics in restraint.
I am confident that Mr. Clark is a qualified Zen teacher, but I don't believe he knows much about the Vinaya (the monastic discipline). Zen emphasizes mediation over the study of the suttas and Vinaya.
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I am looking forward to the next full survey of religious life in America. The last one was ten years ago. I agree with you that Buddhism has grown in the past 10 years. It is also becoming more diverse. Zen used to be and may still be the largest tradition followed closely by Tibetan Buddhism. However, Theravada is also growing rapidly I think in part due to Access to Insight bringing English translations of the suttas to the Internet.
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bump
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hello universe! Today will be treatment 20--only 13 to go! We were able to go to a family zen service this weekend which was really awesome--meditating, chanting and breakfast with friends. At the end of my Zap treatment, we will go to a 2 night Family Zen Retreat that starts on the last day of Zapping. I am so looking forward to it!
As far as spread of Buddhism in the US is concerned, the big difference nowadays, I think, is the increase of family practice. Many attribute that to the increased number of people from Southeast Asia who have immigrated to the US---previously most western Buddhists were those who adopted Zen as adults. Most Western Zen places [I am oh too familiar with this issue] do not really have resources or programs to teach dharma to children. One is more likely to find programs connected to places operated by immigrant Buddhist groups. That said, there are exceptions like the group we went to on Sunday as well as Zen groups in Portland who have a very active program for children including a sleepaway summer camp.
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I remember counting the days until the radiation was over. There has to be a better way. I hope your retreat is everything you wish it to be.
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Thanks Notself. I think it will be a fun time for everyone. It will really be a full family event since my non-buddhist mother in law will be visiting us and is going too!
On another line of thought, have you read "Women of the Way" by Sallie Tisdale? The subcaption is "Discoverying 2,500 years of Buddhist Wisdom." I am just starting it and understand it to be pretty good.
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Yes I have. It has an interesting history about the status of women in India during the time of the Buddha. It really was a big deal for him to fully ordain women. Parts of the book are a bit iffy. I think more research should have been done on the teachings themselves. The author sort of falls down on this by relying on some very poor translations. She also seems to quote Jataka stories which are more myth and are not part of the canon. Overall I give the book a B if it is read by someone knowledgeable about the actual teachings. I give it a C if read by anyone else. On the sections about the role of women in India and the response of society to their ordination, I give it an A.
I would like to know your thoughts. I read it some time ago and can't really be specific about the parts I didn't like.
If you want to read the poems and teachings of the Bhikkhunis directly, here is a link. Each verse gives the name of the Bhikkhuni.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/kn/thig/index.html
I find it amazing that these teachings are part of the official canon (bible) of Buddhism. It makes me wonder why other religions have so much trouble with the concept of women as religious leaders.
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Here is an interesting article on mindfulness, metta and psychotherapy.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/04/23/blending-buddhism-and-psy_n_550222.html
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hey Notself,
Thank you for the links. I look forward to exploring them further.
Still reading book on Buddhist women---was interested to realize that the author is from the same group that will be running the summer camp that my monsters will attend this year. Makes me even happier that they will be going to camp. I am actually reading two books at once, the other one being "Money Sex War Karma; Notes for a Buddhist Revolution." I am hoping to get some reading done this weekend, in between serving as second Tenzo for the Family Zen Retreat. Be darned if I know how I got from "I'd like to help in the kitchen" to seconding the Tenzo but okay, I can go with it. . . .
Supposed to start Zaps today, ending on Friday before the retreat. So excited to be moving forward.
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Tenzo, Japanese for Heavenly Monk aka chef. That's quite a promotion.
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Seconding the tenzo was exhausting but fun. I did no reading whatsoever but I was up at 5:30 each morning. I was pleased that my recipes seemed to go over well enough. On the last day, my 10 year old swooped in and took my place for a while so I actually got to sit a bit. Despite not sitting much, it was a great retreat and we are all looking forward to next year. . . .
On another topic, honestly are there REALLY just the two of us Buddhists out there with stupidbreastcancer? or do Buddhists just not participate in discussion threads?
Inquiring minds want to know!
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bump....just in case there are some other buddhists out there. . . .
and to add to the discussion I am having [oft as not with myself], I signed myself up to go to a day long retreat for mothers with the author of "momma zen." It will be the first time I have done something like this.
Now if I can only get my fanny --and those of my monsters--on the cushion again!
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Best wishes for that.

I am meditating through sweat in my garden. The water just flows out of me and I find it very relaxing even though I have to follow up with salt tablets and potassium. I guess since I am moving rock around, you can say that I am practicing Zen meditation. LOL
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Hi Notself and 3monstmama,
I have been following your threat with interest. I am not an actual Buddhist, but interested in Buddhism. You two seem to know a lot more and more in depth than any of my current knowledge. While I am not in your league, I still like reading about your thoughts.
I hope you don't mind me evesdropping?
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Welcome.
Post any time. It doesn't even have to be about Buddhism. Lot's of people meditate without being Buddhist.
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hi molly52,
like notself said, welcome! And feel free to ask questions or whatever. . . notself knows much more than I do---I am also rather new at this.
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So far, I just kind of meditate. I took a "mindfullness meditation" course at the hospital where I got my rads. The course was based on John Kabat-Zinn's Stress Reduction Clinic. When I meditate, I generally appreciate it. But it is so easy to slip up. Sticking to it is tough.
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One does not have to sit to be mindful. One can pay attention to what one is doing every moment. Most of the time we are thinking about something other than what we are doing. Then we wonder what happened to all those years that went by. Pay attention to what is happening now. Don't live in the past or escape to the future. One needs to plan for the future but that planning should be done while paying attention to the present moment.
Any part of the day where you are concentrating on what you are doing, no matter what that may be, is a form of meditation.
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I agree with Notself. You can be mindful eatting dinner---taking smaller bites, paying attention to what you are eatting, the flavors, the labor, whatever.
That said, I have actually managed to sit 4 nights in a row before bed. I am in awe of myself
I am not sitting a long time---only 15 minutes---but I'm doing it even though my husband isn't around to lead me to the cushion. My hope is to have an established habit of sitting before he gets home in July. And I am hoping that I will start my day with 15 minutes of sitting and finish the same way. -
Hi all! My retreat for moms went well. There was talking by speaker, meditation instruction [which greatly improved my ability to sit] yoga--very interesting, might like to find a class for myself as I could feel the benefits--followed by walking meditation, and more sitting. Thinking more about what was said in the retreat, both by the speaker and by the fellow attendees, I am realizing that my buddhist study has influenced my attitude towards control,permanence and change with respect to my stupidbreastcancer. Then again, perhaps the stupidbreastcancer was a flash of awareness about how all the Buddhist teachings are true that has enabled me to really let go????
and then on sunday we went to our family zen program. all in all, a good weekend. Hope everyone else had a good time as well.
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How great that you enjoyed your retreat. It sounds wonderful.
I know what you mean about BC and impermanence. Meditating on anicca really helped me through the tough times.
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Your retreat sounds great. You seem to make a good effort to keep it in the forefront of your life. Kudos to you! And it is so refreshing.
BC definitely got me into meditation, for which I am glad.
Notself - what is anicca?
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Anicca (an i cha) is the Pali word for impermanence. Here is a little bit about it from Wiki.
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